Subject:RE: I'm Looking Forward To Getting Married
rayd - 2008-02-23 3:47 PM
Congrats on your upcoming wedding! I'll be happily married 11-years this June. Sure, we have had some difficult times but we understand and respect each other. Then having kids brings in a whole new dimension...but our marriage is stronger than ever. I love being married.
Oh, someone commented "not to get drunk at your own wedding". Well, I was totally smashed for my wedding and probably missed out, or don't remember all of the days events. But I have no regrets. The big wedding was for her and I figured if I was paying for it I was going to enjoy myself! After all, it's a celebration. Enjoy the day!
yeah, that was moi.... I have seen WAY too many drunk brides/grooms who either embarrassed the heck out of themselves or remembered not a thing-- particularly sad when someone (like moi again) makes a brilliant heartfelt toast which apparently was completely forgotten/ (yes, I am bitter!)
Subject:RE: I'm Looking Forward To Getting Married
While fellow BTer onephathippo and I have been married for only 5 1/2 years, let me tell you - it rocks! Your marriage WILL have it's ups and downs. There WILL be days when you not like each other. The key is to remember that 'love' is a choice we make. Choose to love each other, respect each other, and put the other person above yourself, and you'll have a pretty good marriage. Best wishes to all who are about to enter into a great new life together.