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2010-08-19 9:44 AM
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I got stuck in that situation enough times that I actually created a permanent "Plan B"... here it is:

I tell strangers I am a blogger or journalist (cause if it is good it could sell and then I would actually be a journalist- right?!)  I tell everyone I sit next to (plane, hotel staff, taxi driver, other shoppers, random people at the bar- I always eat at the bar!)  I am freelancing for the weekend and can I ask them some suggestions they'd have for women traveling alone, or whatever topic I make up that I am blogging about. 
This gave me a valid reason to talk to total strangers and not seem creepy, plus people like to talk about themselves so it's easy for them too. And it gave me a sort of "mask" to hide behind that made me more comfortable being out there alone.  Fake it till you make it, right?!  I actually even wore fake glasses once!


2010-08-19 9:49 AM
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gonnafinish plscheer - 2010-08-19 9:44 AM

I got stuck in that situation enough times that I actually created a permanent "Plan B"... here it is:

I tell strangers I am a blogger or journalist (cause if it is good it could sell and then I would actually be a journalist- right?!)  I tell everyone I sit next to (plane, hotel staff, taxi driver, other shoppers, random people at the bar- I always eat at the bar!)  I am freelancing for the weekend and can I ask them some suggestions they'd have for women traveling alone, or whatever topic I make up that I am blogging about. 
This gave me a valid reason to talk to total strangers and not seem creepy, plus people like to talk about themselves so it's easy for them too. And it gave me a sort of "mask" to hide behind that made me more comfortable being out there alone.  Fake it till you make it, right?!  I actually even wore fake glasses once!


I actually am a journalist and still seem creepy when I tell women that I'm traveling alone. They get especially skeeved when I say `Yeah I'm traveling alone this week on assignment for my company. My name is Tony Goggs, by the way, and I'm staying at the W on Adams, room 227. So, another drink?'
2010-08-19 1:30 PM
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mr2tony - 2010-08-19 10:49 AM
gonnafinish plscheer - 2010-08-19 9:44 AM I got stuck in that situation enough times that I actually created a permanent "Plan B"... here it is:

I tell strangers I am a blogger or journalist (cause if it is good it could sell and then I would actually be a journalist- right?!)  I tell everyone I sit next to (plane, hotel staff, taxi driver, other shoppers, random people at the bar- I always eat at the bar!)  I am freelancing for the weekend and can I ask them some suggestions they'd have for women traveling alone, or whatever topic I make up that I am blogging about. 
This gave me a valid reason to talk to total strangers and not seem creepy, plus people like to talk about themselves so it's easy for them too. And it gave me a sort of "mask" to hide behind that made me more comfortable being out there alone.  Fake it till you make it, right?!  I actually even wore fake glasses once!
I actually am a journalist and still seem creepy when I tell women that I'm traveling alone. They get especially skeeved when I say `Yeah I'm traveling alone this week on assignment for my company. My name is Tony Goggs, by the way, and I'm staying at the W on Adams, room 227. So, another drink?'


M-Shell, If Tony asks you out while you're there, make sure you bring a chaperone.  Otherwise have a great time!
2010-08-19 1:41 PM
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David tri's - 2010-08-19 1:30 PM

mr2tony - 2010-08-19 10:49 AM
gonnafinish plscheer - 2010-08-19 9:44 AM I got stuck in that situation enough times that I actually created a permanent "Plan B"... here it is:

I tell strangers I am a blogger or journalist (cause if it is good it could sell and then I would actually be a journalist- right?!)  I tell everyone I sit next to (plane, hotel staff, taxi driver, other shoppers, random people at the bar- I always eat at the bar!)  I am freelancing for the weekend and can I ask them some suggestions they'd have for women traveling alone, or whatever topic I make up that I am blogging about. 
This gave me a valid reason to talk to total strangers and not seem creepy, plus people like to talk about themselves so it's easy for them too. And it gave me a sort of "mask" to hide behind that made me more comfortable being out there alone.  Fake it till you make it, right?!  I actually even wore fake glasses once!
I actually am a journalist and still seem creepy when I tell women that I'm traveling alone. They get especially skeeved when I say `Yeah I'm traveling alone this week on assignment for my company. My name is Tony Goggs, by the way, and I'm staying at the W on Adams, room 227. So, another drink?'


M-Shell, If Tony asks you out while you're there, make sure you bring a chaperone.  Otherwise have a great time!


Yeah ... you didn't have a chaperone when we went out in Columbus and look what happened.
2010-08-19 11:53 PM
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Tony seems like a perfect gentleman so far...unless there are things  you people from around here know that I don't

He has been kind enough offer suggestions to sell my tix, and find things to do.....I think he's a cool dude.   I hope I get to at least bump into a few of you while I'm here.  Just got in.....am exhausted.  Good night!!  Tickets gone!!!  Spa calling my name, and a few stores too.  Anyone up for anything else....oh, like FOOD..let me know.  TYping's bad, I'm tired.  Night all!
2010-08-20 1:05 PM
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go to Chicago, do the spa thing, watch the game that you were going to go to on a tv for a lot less than what the tickets cost you and eat lot's of deep dish pizza and loaded hot dogs (consider the food fuel for when you go out and party!).



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