Subject: RE: "You're over doing it" - WTH!!!Yep, don't take comments on the forums too personally, especially if you asked for opinions and rizer, you were very gracious in your response, it wasn't needed, everybody is fine! As for me, I also don't take any comments personally that I perceive as negative from other people. I could be mis-perceiving them (they really are concerned, they're not putting me down), the person's just a jerk and being him/herself (nothing to do with me), and even if it is intended/negative/personal, I just chuckle and think, "Poor poor dear." Family you can't pick, but friends you sure can. If I had friends that (UNBIDDEN) constantly criticized me, as I said, I would get better friends. As far as family goes, sometimes you gotta put up with the comment or two, but I no longer put up with tirades. I say, "Excuse me" and walk away. If you're tired of hearing something ... quit listening. |