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2007-09-18 5:50 PM
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I have often wondered the same thing. Since I haven't found one, I just sort of took the "if you can't beat them, join them" mentality!


2007-09-18 6:37 PM
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I've had convo's similar to JC's and I'm sure my sweetie often feels like the 'wife' of a triathlete.  Often waking up to an empty bed while I'm out exercising.  Always looking in to the T-area where only athletes are allowed.  Etc.  Poor guy. 

At least his GF hasn't put on 5 pounds a year for the 5 years we've been together.

2007-09-18 8:19 PM
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When you know you're in like flynn: 

Email from her:  "Hey I'm planning dinner for this week, which afternoons are you going to be gone forever on the bike?  Oh and I checked your training plan on the fridge and noticed your racing in two weeks, you going to need to carbo load that 2nd Thursday?"

Of course, we have no kids yet, and I hear that makes a difference .

2007-09-18 8:28 PM
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MrsUSMC - 2007-09-18 5:50 PM I have often wondered the same thing. Since I haven't found one, I just sort of took the "if you can't beat them, join them" mentality!

 

I joined that club too!

2007-09-18 8:31 PM
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davealt - 2007-09-18 9:19 PM

When you know you're in like flynn: 

Email from her:  "Hey I'm planning dinner for this week, which afternoons are you going to be gone forever on the bike?  Oh and I checked your training plan on the fridge and noticed your racing in two weeks, you going to need to carbo load that 2nd Thursday?"

Of course, we have no kids yet, and I hear that makes a difference .

Nah...kids are quiet and barely impact your life.   It's the most wonderful thing you could do!  (suckah....join our inescapable club...mwahaahaaa).

Really...seriously, your carbs just change from pasta fresca to pop tart crusts, pizza crusts and the ends of fish sticks.  The rest works itself out.

2007-09-18 10:59 PM
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Hello all,

 You can see from my number of posts I don't say much on here, but I'll take any chance I can to brag on my wife...

 I tell her last month (we're in the military, currently stationed apart) that I've started training for triathlons and she says, "I wondered what was taking you so long...you can already run and bike". 

She was doing triathlons when we started dating, and would like to start racing again.  I just need to get my @ss in shape before she gets here (to Germany) since she can swim laps around me (besides, she says she'll leave me if I get fat...ha!)

A wife that wondered WHY I wasn't training for triathlons...I gotta hang on to this one!



2007-09-18 11:51 PM
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My husband used to do triathlons so he gets it. He's supportive all the way. I just let my own "Mommy Guilt" get in the way.
2007-09-19 12:35 AM
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My husband doesn't do tris. Yet. I got in shape so he wouldn't have to wait for me all the time when we're biking and running. Now I think I've got him talked into swimming. That was a no-go before. Now it's 'that might be a good idea'. Bwahahaha!!! 

 

2007-09-19 7:59 AM
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My wife is very supportive, goes to all my races and doesn't complain much about my tri purchases.  But it does bother me that she wants me to sit on the couch with her and watch tv when it is my bedtime.  (She walks a lot, like 50+ miles last month, and exercises while I'm at work.) She complains that I go to sleep at 9.  During the week I work 6am -4pm (so I leave at 5am).  Get off work at 4 and workout in the afternoon (home by 6).  Since I get up early during the week I just keep doing it on the weekends.

Me:  I'm going to bed.

Wife:  But it's only 9

Me:  But I'm getting up at 5 so I can run and be back by 7:30 OR  But I'm getting up early so I can go swim at the reseviour and be home by 9:00 OR But I'm getting up early so I can go bike and be home by 10:00. 

She likes to sleep in with my daughter.  I usually have all my work done by noon so I can lay around.  She sleeps in then works really hard to get her stuff done in the afternoon and gets mad that I am laying around.  Did she not realize that I got up 4 or 5 hours before her today.  That is why I go to sleep 2 hours before her...

2007-09-19 8:34 AM
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velocomp - 2007-09-19 5:59 AM

My wife is very supportive, goes to all my races and doesn't complain much about my tri purchases.  But it does bother me that she wants me to sit on the couch with her and watch tv when it is my bedtime.  (She walks a lot, like 50+ miles last month, and exercises while I'm at work.) She complains that I go to sleep at 9.  During the week I work 6am -4pm (so I leave at 5am).  Get off work at 4 and workout in the afternoon (home by 6).  Since I get up early during the week I just keep doing it on the weekends.

Me:  I'm going to bed.

Wife:  But it's only 9

Me:  But I'm getting up at 5 so I can run and be back by 7:30 OR  But I'm getting up early so I can go swim at the reseviour and be home by 9:00 OR But I'm getting up early so I can go bike and be home by 10:00. 

She likes to sleep in with my daughter.  I usually have all my work done by noon so I can lay around.  She sleeps in then works really hard to get her stuff done in the afternoon and gets mad that I am laying around.  Did she not realize that I got up 4 or 5 hours before her today.  That is why I go to sleep 2 hours before her...

I have been a morning person all my life...no matter what, I seem to wake up between 4:15 and 5:15...sleeping in to me is 6 or 7...So I have this same conversation with my SO a lot. 

2007-09-19 2:09 PM
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My wife gave birth to our third child 6 months ago ( 3 kids since '04)  she completed her first sprint in August and I can see the itch in her wanting more.  Luckily she is still in her last year of residency or we'd be in serious trouble.  I love this stuff,  she loves this stuff but since she can't go full tilt I get most of the $$ for this stuff.....for now.  Oh yea I forgot to mention that I stay at home with the kids.   I have no (paying) job and a sugar mama who loves triathlons.


2007-09-19 2:14 PM
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Since I started in '05 (didn't really log in '06) there has been a direct correlation on money spent on tri stuff and money spent on jewelry. I am just wondering what it is going to cost me for the cycle trainer and the wetsuit.

I think she appreciates the trade off... but she thinks I'm nuts.
2007-09-19 2:17 PM
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bryans0626 - 2007-09-18 12:27 PM

 

 Her how is yoru day going?

 ME:it is going fine, I want to run

 Her:nope, you need to control your addiction

Me: It is good, because I know that I like it and will try to keep doing it

Her: yes but you can go a little overboard with it

Me what-like what?

Her: you know like what

Her: ask all of your little webpage buddies about it

 



I love that, ask all your little webpage buddies!

I tell my wife that anything she wants to know, I can find out from my online community.
2007-09-19 2:41 PM
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JChristoff - 2007-09-18 1:46 PM I personally love the... Her: We have a lot to do tomorrow (name weekend day) Me: Yeah, I know. Oh, and I want to get a workout in. Her: When are you going to fit that in? Me: In the morning. Her: But we have to be there at 10:00am Me: I know, I'll wake up at 5:15 to eat, start out at 5:45 and be done and showered by 9:00. Her: *blink* *blink*... But... Don't you want to sleep in. Whaaa? You just told me we were really busy and needed to get crackin' but I should sleep in? She thinks I'm completely nuts.

Uhhh.... I think she wants YOU to sleep in with HER.  Geeeesh.  There is something cool about a weekend sleep in, even if it is only 1/2 hour, with your SO.  Do I need to spell it out for you???

2007-09-19 3:32 PM
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regimom - 2007-09-19 3:41 PM

JChristoff - 2007-09-18 1:46 PM I personally love the... Her: We have a lot to do tomorrow (name weekend day) Me: Yeah, I know. Oh, and I want to get a workout in. Her: When are you going to fit that in? Me: In the morning. Her: But we have to be there at 10:00am Me: I know, I'll wake up at 5:15 to eat, start out at 5:45 and be done and showered by 9:00. Her: *blink* *blink*... But... Don't you want to sleep in. Whaaa? You just told me we were really busy and needed to get crackin' but I should sleep in? She thinks I'm completely nuts.

Uhhh.... I think she wants YOU to sleep in with HER.  Geeeesh.  There is something cool about a weekend sleep in, even if it is only 1/2 hour, with your SO.  Do I need to spell it out for you???



Wait? She wants me to.... Oh... Really?

I'm also like runningwolf... I don't sleep in. My internal alarm clock goes off and I am up. I don't fall back asleep. It has been that way since I was a kid. Sleeping in is maybe 6:30am.

I know that there is "something cool" about staying in bed during the weekends... but isn't that what winter/off season is for?
2007-09-19 5:47 PM
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Well I am looking for a gf and triathletes, swimmers, runners and even cyclists always get a node from me. Speed is not important. I just want a girl who is active because she migth join me. she would better understand. 3 would be a good example to any kids we might have.

to op:
Looking at your logs I think you need to train more. . Your not obcessed enough.


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