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2005-08-08 3:26 PM

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Subject: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?

This morning I had people ask me how I did. (non triathletes).  Basically I told them I did ok, met  exceded my expectations.   But it didn't seem to sink into them.  They had the dissappointed look in their faces, like they were expecting me to tell horror stories of pain ....ect.ect.

But when I went and talked to another person in an office who did the race also.  We were bubbling over talking about this and that...Reliving the race.

How much detail should you go into?  Or should you.



2005-08-08 3:29 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
If you go into detail, they will probably get bored because they don't understand anyway.  They are probably looking for you to say you won, or fell off your bike and got some sweet road rash.  Other than that, I say that I did well, met my goals, etc.  If they actually want to know more, they'll ask.

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2005-08-08 3:46 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
My coworkers ask because they are nice people who want to show that they knew I was doing something important to me. I plan to always tell them "It was great, lots of fun, I did about like I expected" (unless I ever hit a podium in which case I will be walking on air and pouring champagne on people). They don't want details, they don't want to know I was close to puking or had stomach cramps on the run or had a stellar bike leg, they want to be reassured that things are OK in my kingdom. This last race, I also told them it was hot, because it was and they can sympathise with that.

My dad wants down to the second details. My GF can stand me going over and over and over different aspects, but she's awesome that way. My non-triathlete good friends really do care and don't mind details, but I try not to bore them with it unless it's a good story.

I don't know that your non-triathlete people wanted stories of pain, so much, as they may just have trouble understanding doing such an event where the goal isn't necessarily to win. I mean, it's easy to say "How was your football/tennis/golf game" because the answer is very easy - we won, or we lost, or I shot x under/over par. Setting personal goals and exceeding them is a thrill that's not really understood in our culture, which is a shame IMHO.

Congrats on the race, btw, and exceeding your expectations!
2005-08-08 4:01 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
I say "I had fun. It was crazy. My friends were there and they were great."
2005-08-08 4:06 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
Renee - 2005-08-08 3:01 PM

I say "I had fun. It was crazy. My friends were there and they were great."


yup. I say, "It was really fun, thanks for asking!"


2005-08-08 4:10 PM
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- 2005-08-08 5:10 PM I change my answer to : "it was really fun, thanks for asking"

How about:  "It was really fun, thanks for asking.  I had a burrito for dessert."



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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
"Well, I didn't place, but I wasn't last, I'm still alive, I'll race again, and I had a shit ton of fun." 
2005-08-08 5:06 PM
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- 2005-08-08 5:50 PM
3558 - 2005-08-08 2:34 PM

- 2005-08-08 5:10 PM I change my answer to : "it was really fun, thanks for asking"

How about:  "It was really fun, thanks for asking.  I had a burrito for dessert."

More like "It was really fun, thanks for asking. I wish scott Bailey would shut it about burritos, though"

Hey now.  That's just plain mean.  Although I guess I do talk about burritos a lot.  Mmmm... burritos.


2005-08-09 12:38 PM
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Only as much as they can stand before their eyes glaze over. if someone starts looking bored I cut it short. Actually except for you guys and my husband I don't get into it too much. I just cherish this and a lot of people dump cold water without really meaning to.
2005-08-09 12:57 PM
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Pretty much the standard answer of "I did OK/Better/Worse than I planned".

I have found that most non-triathletes equate the word Triathlon with the greuling picture of Kona, and can't understand that there are differennt levels of competition AND competitors.  As most of you have said, you have to gause the person to determine how much detail to go into. 

I can equate this to the karate that my family is into.  When you mention it, the first thing people say is "Can your wife kick your ass" or "I bet you watch what you say at home" (I don't even mention that I am a higher dan than she is and that my daughter is a 4 time National Champion).  Most people do not realize that there are several sub-sets of competition and the fighting is NOT the most difficult.  Karate automaticly equates to a Bruce Lee movie......

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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
I just did my first race this last weekend, and I've gone into way too much detail for anyone who has shown the slightest interest. But, my work environment is really friendly, so that might be why they didn't ask to quickly excuse themselves. But to be nice, I've always started with:

"I had three goals this weekend. One, I didn't want to drown. Two, I wanted to finish the race. And three, I wanted to finish in under two hours. And I can say that I accomplished all three things."

Then if they asked any more questions, I go on....and throw in my harrowing adventure on the last mile.
2005-08-09 1:26 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
what happened on the last mile?


2005-08-09 1:29 PM
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I did a race on Sunday and I purposely wore a skirt to work so people would notice my body markings. heh heh heh. Unfortunately I am at a cube all day so only 2 people noticed, and they knew anyway. But this morning on a conferecne call, the VP mentioned it to all the sales reps, and that was SO cool!! Everyone wanted to know my time. I was like "Uhh....beat all my goals, and did the 1/2 mile swim in about 20 minutes!" there was no need to go into the slow ass run details.
2005-08-09 2:26 PM
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I did a race on Sunday and I purposely wore a skirt to work so people would notice my body markings. heh heh heh. Unfortunately I am at a cube all day so only 2 people noticed, and they knew anyway. But this morning on a conferecne call, the VP mentioned it to all the sales reps, and that was SO cool!! Everyone wanted to know my time. I was like "Uhh....beat all my goals, and did the 1/2 mile swim in about 20 minutes!" there was no need to go into the slow ass run details.


Way to go! I would do something like that too. (well I would get the age off)
2005-08-09 2:38 PM
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mr. eff - 2005-08-09 10:24 AM I just did my first race this last weekend, and I've gone into way too much detail for anyone who has shown the slightest interest. But, my work environment is really friendly, so that might be why they didn't ask to quickly excuse themselves. But to be nice, I've always started with: "I had three goals this weekend. One, I didn't want to drown. Two, I wanted to finish the race. And three, I wanted to finish in under two hours. And I can say that I accomplished all three things." Then if they asked any more questions, I go on....and throw in my harrowing adventure on the last mile.

Yeah what happened in the last mile?  

People (non Tri ) always think about the Gatorade commercial with Chris Leigh.   Why would you want to push yourself to that degree?  As if everyone does his speed.

2005-08-09 4:20 PM
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3558 - 2005-08-09 2:26 PM

what happened on the last mile?


It was my first race, and everyone kept telling me, "just try to finish." Well, that's fine, but I decided I needed to give myself some sort of time boundry so that I'd really push myself. So I shot for a time of under 2 hours.

Well, the swim killed me and I had very little energy for the rest of the race. I didn't remember that I had another gel with me, and so I was SERIOUSLY bonking after about mile 5 of the bike. But I pushed on. When I left transition for the run, I had 30 minutes to go. I figured that would be enough for me to beat my projected time. But the hills (especially the first one) were killing me. When I reached the last mile marker just after the second turnaround, 22 minutes had gone by. My first thought was, "ARGH! I've been doing 11 minute miles?!?!" My next thought was, "I have 8 minutes to finish this race."

So I made my way slowly up that hill. When I hit the flat portion of the road, I picked up my pace to an 8 or 9 minute pace. When I hit the downhill, I was going a bit faster. By the time I took the turn towards the finish, I was doing a full sprint. If my calculations are correct, I did the last mile in just over 6 minutes, after doing the first two at 11's.

I thought that was pretty cool. My gf (who beat me by about 20 minutes), saw me coming to the finish line and said I was running like a bat out of hell. I could barely hear the people yelling for me.

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mr. eff - 2005-08-09 1:20 PM
3558 - 2005-08-09 2:26 PM what happened on the last mile?
It was my first race, and everyone kept telling me, "just try to finish." Well, that's fine, but I decided I needed to give myself some sort of time boundry so that I'd really push myself. So I shot for a time of under 2 hours. Well, the swim killed me and I had very little energy for the rest of the race. I didn't remember that I had another gel with me, and so I was SERIOUSLY bonking after about mile 5 of the bike. But I pushed on. When I left transition for the run, I had 30 minutes to go. I figured that would be enough for me to beat my projected time. But the hills (especially the first one) were killing me. When I reached the last mile marker just after the second turnaround, 22 minutes had gone by. My first thought was, "ARGH! I've been doing 11 minute miles?!?!" My next thought was, "I have 8 minutes to finish this race." So I made my way slowly up that hill. When I hit the flat portion of the road, I picked up my pace to an 8 or 9 minute pace. When I hit the downhill, I was going a bit faster. By the time I took the turn towards the finish, I was doing a full sprint. If my calculations are correct, I did the last mile in just over 6 minutes, after doing the first two at 11's. I thought that was pretty cool. My gf (who beat me by about 20 minutes), saw me coming to the finish line and said I was running like a bat out of hell. I could barely hear the people yelling for me.

Very cool.  Reminds me of the MEATLOAF song Bat out of Hell.  Faster!



2005-08-09 6:45 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?

Yeah there is one guy in my office who always goes.. "oh did you do a full one?"  As in nothing short of an iron man is a full triathlon..

Just say, Yes.  I swam, I biked, I ran, I came, I saw, I conquered.

That should shut him up.

2005-08-09 8:33 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
Depends on who asks... I know who wants details, and who's just asking to be polite. That said, it seems that every tri I've done so far, I've got some sort of funny story about how I made an ass of myself -- so I'll regale people with that instead instead of boring race details. What can I say - I'll do anything for a laugh.
2005-08-09 9:20 PM
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OK...new mental music for this weekend's tri..."Bat Outta Hell".
2005-08-10 9:35 PM
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Subject: RE: What do you tell people, when they ask how you did?
I am of the opinion, if you don't want to know don't ask. I give lots of details. And people at work still ask. Hmmm... maybe nobody wants to work.

If its something I care about I talk about it...ALOT... and then I try to get them to start doing it. So far no one at work has, but there are several people who tell me every time they work out. I think its there way of contributing to the lifestyle.
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