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2005-10-21 12:57 PM

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Giver
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Subject: Advice for newbies
OK. I'm going to preface this by saying I'm not the king of BT, nor of web forums in general. I'm just a guy that hangs out here a lot, and heave spent time on lots of other web forums as well. This is well intentioned. My idea isn't to call anyone out. I'm not an elitist and I nbelieve in free speech and equal access.

But I wanted to throw some ideas out there. Hopefully others will read this and take it to heart. Offer contradictory opinions at will. Call me an @sshole, what ever response you have to reading this is welcome.

Here's my list:

  • First and foremost, this is a TRIATHLON forum. It's why 99% of us are here.
  • Make sure you introduce yourself in "Introduce Yourself."
  • If you're a newbie, hang out in the "tri talk" forum. Hopefully, if you're a new triathlete, that's really why you're here. Ask questions. Seek advice. Any tri related question is fair game. It may have been answered before, and if it has we may tell you to do a search, or we may just answer your question anyway. If you're not a triathlon newbie, pitch in with some advice. This is why the site is here (IMO...I'm not Ron).
  • Post an avatar, but keep your shirt on (pot, kettle, I know, but hear me out). If you were to walk into a group of strangers at a party, you wouldn't do it without a shirt, would you? But if you're at a party with a hundred of your best friends, you just might take your shirt off. Or pants. See what I'm sayin'?
  • Tri Talk is a great place to hang out and get aquainted with people on the site.
  • Cup of Joe is an integral part of the site. Even the most diehard triathlete here needs to talk about something else on occasion.
  • If you're a newbie and find your way into cupajoe, lurk. Post sparingly. Observe the threads. After a while, you'll see that people sometimes post stuff that they are not entirely 100% serious about.
  • Think of Cup of Joe like a party where everyone knows everyone else. Imagine someone walking into the party that knows no one. Imagine that person jumping into a conversation and offering girls massages. Looking for a hook up. It's not cool.
  • Get to know somone before you offer sex. That's just common sense.
  • Along those lines, BT isn't a dating service. It's not hookup central. Hook ups happen, sure, but we like to get to know each other first. BUt it's not what this site is about (again, IMO. I'm not Ron).
OK. That's all I've got for now. Again, feel free to ad more, call me an idiot, whatever. No malace intended here, just some advice from someone whose been here awhile. And has taken off his pants.


Edited by run4yrlif 2005-10-21 1:02 PM


2005-10-21 1:03 PM
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And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!

2005-10-21 1:03 PM
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You're not the king?  Does that mean I'm not the Archduke Franz Ferdiand of BT?  Damn, now I gotta return the robes...

I think that all sounds like very good advice.  I have no idea what prompted this thread, but now I'll have to spend all afternoon finding out what it was.  Anyone that knows can feel free to PM me with the story.  Good stuff



Edited by pds0006 2005-10-21 1:04 PM
2005-10-21 1:05 PM
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runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 1:03 PM

And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!



Well, now, you see? He tries to be nice and encourage a bit of decorum, then you go and call him a commie. That's just not nice.
2005-10-21 1:07 PM
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Amen, brother.

And besides, Leadership is for those who seize it.

Edited by possum 2005-10-21 1:09 PM
2005-10-21 1:10 PM
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Crap, it's been fun everybody. Reading between the lines I think the limericks are dead. After all, I would never go to a party and start reciting limericks to people I don't know. er...well, at least not RIGHT AWAY anyway.


2005-10-21 1:17 PM
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Ahhh... the thoughts of a good limerick right now to lighten up the mood would be oh so nice!
2005-10-21 1:30 PM
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runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!

Not trying to hijack this, but as a newbie, I really want to know--what do the stars stand for, anyway?

2005-10-21 1:33 PM
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Mark was quite new to BT
he posted for fun and for glee
but some didn't like
his wit and his spike
So with stern warning Mark was encouraged to flee

or

There was a new poster named morey
using limerick to tell wit or new story
but it was deemed bad
which is really quite sad
because humor makes fights much less gory.

or


Mark came to BT to play
he brought wit and humor each day
he got no respect
which in retrospect
was a shame and we hope he will stay

How's that Janelle & Co.?
2005-10-21 1:35 PM
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chriscal - 2005-10-21 1:30 PM
runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!

Not trying to hijack this, but as a newbie, I really want to know--what do the stars stand for, anyway?

Stars are for Extra Special People. The more stars you have the more special you are - witness my plethora of stars.

2005-10-21 1:41 PM
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chriscal - 2005-10-21 1:30 PM

runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!

Not trying to hijack this, but as a newbie, I really want to know--what do the stars stand for, anyway?



It's to identify how much of a commie you are. If you have 3 stars you support public health care, 4 stars means that you admire the Bolchevik revolution's principles, 5 stars means that you full-on love Stalin and Chairman Mao and you have a copy of the Communist Manifesto on your bedside table.


2005-10-21 1:42 PM
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Jim's a BT'er for learning and fun
he does all three sports with dedication
but his patience is spent
and today it's apparent
He missed his important medication
2005-10-21 1:42 PM
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From a professional Lurker:

Jim you seem like a great guy but get over yourself - this is the friggin INTERNET!
2005-10-21 1:43 PM
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chriscal - 2005-10-21 2:30 PM
runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!

Not trying to hijack this, but as a newbie, I really want to know--what do the stars stand for, anyway?

I think there's info somewhere on this websiter that explains the stars and all the colors.  Lemme look for it and see what I can find.  Go under user listing and it has the star info at the top.



Edited by runnergirl29 2005-10-21 1:44 PM
2005-10-21 1:50 PM
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THERE ARE RULES?
2005-10-21 1:53 PM
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runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 2:43 PM
chriscal - 2005-10-21 2:30 PM
runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!

Not trying to hijack this, but as a newbie, I really want to know--what do the stars stand for, anyway?

I think there's info somewhere on this websiter that explains the stars and all the colors.  Lemme look for it and see what I can find.  Go under user listing and it has the star info at the top.

Thanks!

And for the record, I'm all for health care for all. Not so sure about the Bolsheviks--they didn't seem to have great senses of humor. 



2005-10-21 1:54 PM
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Ahhh...finally! Thank you. It only took 10 posts for someone to call me out.

I know...I hope I haven't ruined Mr. Gore's brainchild.

I do think I'm over myself. Would someone who's not over themselves post this as his avatar:

speedball - 2005-10-21 1:42 PMFrom a professional Lurker: Jim you seem like a great guy but get over yourself - this is the friggin INTERNET!




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2005-10-21 1:55 PM
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Opus - 2005-10-21 1:41 PM
chriscal - 2005-10-21 1:30 PM
runnergirl29 - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

And not to mention, this is coming from someone with red star status!  He knows what's up!

Not trying to hijack this, but as a newbie, I really want to know--what do the stars stand for, anyway?

It's to identify how much of a commie you are. If you have 3 stars you support public health care, 4 stars means that you admire the Bolchevik revolution's principles, 5 stars means that you full-on love Stalin and Chairman Mao and you have a copy of the Communist Manifesto on your bedside table.

Shouldn't you have more stars? You know... being a citizen of a socialist country and all?

p.s. Thanks for the cheap pharmaceuticals!

2005-10-21 1:57 PM
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And also...as a professional lurker, you should know that 95% of the stuff I post is with tongue in cheek.

I'm serious about the taking your shirt off at a party thing though.

speedball - 2005-10-21 1:42 PMFrom a professional Lurker: Jim you seem like a great guy but get over yourself - this is the friggin INTERNET!
2005-10-21 2:03 PM
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run4yrlif - 2005-10-21 12:54 PM

Ahhh...finally! Thank you. It only took 10 posts for someone to call me out.

I know...I hope I haven't ruined Mr. Gore's brainchild.

I do think I'm over myself. Would someone who's not over themselves post this as his avatar:

speedball - 2005-10-21 1:42 PMFrom a professional Lurker: Jim you seem like a great guy but get over yourself - this is the friggin INTERNET!


GREEEEAAAAT. After viewing that shot of your manties again I think I'll go back into post hibernation.......the sweet sleep of not seeing thinly clad junk..................
2005-10-21 2:03 PM
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Jim, you must not have been around during the speedo butt shot/avatar month, were you?

Ahhh... I get misty eyed for those days...



Edited by Renee 2005-10-21 2:04 PM


2005-10-21 2:06 PM
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I wonder how many Ph.D candidates in sociology are currently working on dissertations on "The Social Dynamics of Internet Triathlon Forums"?

Mark

2005-10-21 2:07 PM
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Oh yeah I was...I just didn't participate in the challenge. Damn.

And that's not really me. I'm much more hairless.

Renee - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

Jim, you must not have been around during the speedo butt shot/avatar month, were you?

Ahhh... I get misty eyed for those days...

2005-10-21 2:11 PM
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I'm sure it's been done.

I personally think we're more like bonobos than chimps, but I could be wrong.

RedCorvette - 2005-10-21 2:06 PM

I wonder how many Ph.D candidates in sociology are currently working on dissertations on "The Social Dynamics of Internet Triathlon Forums"?

Mark

2005-10-21 2:13 PM
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run4yrlif - 2005-10-21 2:07 PM Oh yeah I was...I just didn't participate in the challenge. Damn.

And that's not really me. I'm much more hairless.

Renee - 2005-10-21 2:03 PM

Jim, you must not have been around during the speedo butt shot/avatar month, were you?

Ahhh... I get misty eyed for those days...

Marmadaddy's blue speedo was aces, as was MadCow. Small wonder MrsCow is Happy.

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