Subject: RE: RIOW - Singles THREADZilla - 2009-09-24 11:28 PM
Sorry to tie it up. But I say ... get through the process. See it through until it's done and in the meantime be alone. Enjoy being alone. Take care of yourself. Do things you've always wanted to do alone. Try new things. Until you are all done and divorced you have no idea what it feels like to be done and divorced. Don't use another person to get through that time when you will feel loss and lonliness. Been there .. done that ... got the t-shirt twice and I did feel used. Date casually .. have fun. Get to know a lot of new people. Stay single for awhile. Learn to enjoy your own company. Expectations of a deep, serious relationship are not realistic if you are just getting out of a marriage so don't promise the moon and stars to anyone just yet. 
That is a very timely bit of advice! Wish I would have read this yesterday!! |