TAN #185: Queens of Double EnTANdre (Page 10)
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Samyg - 2012-10-15 4:13 PM Bye TAN. And cut the man some slack. Anybody who ask TAN for opinions on anything is obviously not in a sound state of mind Excellent point have a great afternoon. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trinnas - 2012-10-15 4:16 PM Samyg - 2012-10-15 4:13 PM Bye TAN. And cut the man some slack. Anybody who ask TAN for opinions on anything is obviously not in a sound state of mind Excellent point have a great afternoon. Anybody who asks TAN for advice gets what they deserve |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:15 PM yeah I kind of regret asking now. I called the national customer support # to make sure she is listed as divorced in the system and told her so.. there is nothing more that I can do.... I am really not a bad person everyone but clearly that is not how i came across. I'm sorry. No you did not come off as a bad person. It was a legitimate question with legitimate answers from people. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mehaner - 2012-10-15 3:15 PM mr2tony - 2012-10-15 4:13 PM mehaner - 2012-10-15 3:08 PM You're too nice, Meh. That said I am rarely mean to people.trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" yeah we already get that she's a bee yotch. being a bee yotch back changes nothing. if you want her to disappear, just ignore her. she'll go away. man, i've never been called that before.
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:15 PM yeah I kind of regret asking now. I called the national customer support # to make sure she is listed as divorced in the system and told her so.. there is nothing more that I can do.... I am really not a bad person everyone but clearly that is not how i came across. I'm sorry. Ha no it's not! I think many of us can understand animosity toward one's ex. Especially those of us who have exes! |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Big Appa - 2012-10-15 2:17 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. yeah me too... well said bro again everyone else I am sorry that I asked and made it sound like I was going to be an ... it was more for humor/time killing amusment. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trmat79 - 2012-10-15 1:22 PM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 2:17 PM yeah me too... well said bro again everyone else I am sorry that I asked and made it sound like I was going to be an ... it was more for humor/time killing amusment. ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. Smile man |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Big Appa - 2012-10-15 2:23 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 1:22 PM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 2:17 PM yeah me too... well said bro again everyone else I am sorry that I asked and made it sound like I was going to be an ... it was more for humor/time killing amusment. ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. Smile man I just wish I could go back and never talk to her in the first place.... like a decade ago Edited by trmat79 2012-10-15 3:24 PM |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 4:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. You're just not wanting to get a face full of poo smoke if you did. Otherwise; you're totally doing that. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:15 PM yeah I kind of regret asking now. I called the national customer support # to make sure she is listed as divorced in the system and told her so.. there is nothing more that I can do.... I am really not a bad person everyone but clearly that is not how i came across. I'm sorry. When I read through this, I thought your ex just wanted your SS# for some scam. You handled the situation just great. She does not have your SS, the information in the military database is correct, you responded as if the request was legitimate without suggesting she was possibly trying to scam you, you have a great relationship with someone else, and TAN had a topic to run with for a while in the afternoon. All good. All good. About face. Forward march.
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I thought exactly that...ask for ideas to get something fun going and pass the time. sure nobody thought you to be an a_hole. And u can go back, but u need a de lorean first, and a good source of rnergy... |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I thought exactly that...ask for ideas to get something fun going and pass the time. sure nobody thought you to be an a_hole. And u can go back, but u need a de lorean first, and a good source of rnergy... |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Big Appa - 2012-10-15 4:17 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. I'm usually too polite... and then later I think of all of the great combacks that I missed out on! |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trmat79 - 2012-10-15 1:23 PM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 2:23 PM I just wish I could go back and never talk to her in the first place.... like a decade agotrmat79 - 2012-10-15 1:22 PM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 2:17 PM yeah me too... well said bro again everyone else I am sorry that I asked and made it sound like I was going to be an ... it was more for humor/time killing amusment. ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. Smile man Naa your time with her helped you be the guy you are right now. You said you are quite happy right now so that might be because of something you learned while spiting with her. The way I look at life now is everything is just an experience for us to learn from. Whether it’s a good or bad experience is up to us. I'm not a big fan of my ex but I wouldn't have learned lessons I know now or have my kids without her so I have to look at it as a positive experience. |
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Melon Presser ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-16 4:47 AM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 4:17 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. I'm usually too polite... and then later I think of all of the great combacks that I missed out on! I do stuff like lace his house with thousands of crickets ... dump all his crap on his mom's porch (was seriously considering lighting it on fire, too, but I liked his mom) ... sell off his inheritance. I mean, no one ever accused me of being mature, wise, or restrained. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() TriAya - 2012-10-15 4:51 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-16 4:47 AM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 4:17 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. I'm usually too polite... and then later I think of all of the great combacks that I missed out on! I do stuff like lace his house with thousands of crickets ... dump all his crap on his mom's porch (was seriously considering lighting it on fire, too, but I liked his mom) ... sell off his inheritance. I mean, no one ever accused me of being mature, wise, or restrained. Oh yes they have. Squeezes to you, Misssssus Yaaahnti. (that was my southern drawl). |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() thanks everyone just wanted to make sure that all my TAN friends didn't think I was an a-hole (any more than they did before at least) |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trmat79 - 2012-10-15 1:56 PM thanks everyone just wanted to make sure that all my TAN friends didn't think I was an a-hole (any more than they did before at least) Oh I think you are an a-hole but it has nothing to do with your ex |
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Melon Presser![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() tech_geezer - 2012-10-16 4:55 AM TriAya - 2012-10-15 4:51 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-16 4:47 AM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 4:17 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. I'm usually too polite... and then later I think of all of the great combacks that I missed out on! I do stuff like lace his house with thousands of crickets ... dump all his crap on his mom's porch (was seriously considering lighting it on fire, too, but I liked his mom) ... sell off his inheritance. I mean, no one ever accused me of being mature, wise, or restrained. Oh yes they have. Squeezes to you, Misssssus Yaaahnti. (that was my southern drawl). And BIG {MELONS SQUEEZE} back atcha, Mistah Tay-Gaaaaaze! I have such a thing for Southern boy drawls. I do a lovely one myself. None of that whiny Texan crap. |
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![]() | ![]() TriAya - 2012-10-15 3:51 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-16 4:47 AM Big Appa - 2012-10-15 4:17 PM ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:14 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 4:06 PM Can i put it in perspective by saying that she told me she wanted a divorce WHILE I was on deployment on an aircraft carrier and when I asked for her reason it was "I can't handle the military lifestyle" I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated" He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did. I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid. I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions. I'm always polite in person or over communications with my ex. I save my complaining or fun making for her when drinking or in TAN. I'm usually too polite... and then later I think of all of the great combacks that I missed out on! I do stuff like lace his house with thousands of crickets ... dump all his crap on his mom's porch (was seriously considering lighting it on fire, too, but I liked his mom) ... sell off his inheritance. I mean, no one ever accused me of being mature, wise, or restrained. Lets never break up, kay? |
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![]() | ![]() Teejaay - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM Relationships blow! Stay single and mingle! ![]() I dunno, I've been having lots o' fun lately |
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Expert![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Big Appa - 2012-10-15 2:57 PM trmat79 - 2012-10-15 1:56 PM thanks everyone just wanted to make sure that all my TAN friends didn't think I was an a-hole (any more than they did before at least) Oh I think you are an a-hole but it has nothing to do with your ex word |
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Pro![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() lisac957 - 2012-10-15 5:04 PM Teejaay - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM Relationships blow! Stay single and mingle! ![]() I dunno, I've been having lots o' fun lately I find it easy to stay happy when single or in a (decent) relationship. Both have their perks, for sure! |
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