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 2011-01-10 8:05 AM in reply to: #3289149 |
Champion  6046    New York, NY |  Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to meell-in-or - 2011-01-10 2:02 AM TriToy - 2011-01-09 4:10 PM I just got an email asking me out again!!! and I will be saying no. good to know there are men who can dig it. Ask him when he's going to start getting active and tell him he can meet you for a quick 8 miles at 4:45am Wednesday morning... I love it!!!! I should say well come cheer me through my VO2 max test saturday and then we can go for a run!!! |
| 2011-01-10 8:05 AM in reply to: #3289160 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me |
| 2011-01-10 8:06 AM in reply to: #3289066 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me Selachophobia - 2011-01-09 11:24 PM He is definitely not the right guy for you, I will give you one hint with men....tell this fella straight up you only want to be friends or less....we do not take hints well. BTW, nice guns!!!
thanks. and yes I will be straight forward.... |
| 2011-01-10 8:07 AM in reply to: #3288902 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me McFuzz - 2011-01-09 9:29 PM In his defense, he was sitting across from you, and if I were sitting there, I'd be so mentally overloaded that what my mind wants to say and what comes out of my mouth would likely be worlds apart. Don't change because of him. awww that just made my day - I had a rough day yesterday (assaulted in Trader Joe's when shopping with my sons -and yes actually HIT) so this made me smile.... |
| 2011-01-10 8:50 AM in reply to: #3289066 |
Champion 11989  Philly 'burbs | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me Selachophobia - 2011-01-09 11:24 PM He is definitely not the right guy for you, I will give you one hint with men....tell this fella straight up you only want to be friends or less....we do not take hints well. BTW, nice guns!!!
No, we don't. Even "I just want to be friends" means there may still be a chance to get laid. |
| 2011-01-10 9:06 AM in reply to: #3289517 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me mrbbrad - 2011-01-10 9:50 AM Selachophobia - 2011-01-09 11:24 PM He is definitely not the right guy for you, I will give you one hint with men....tell this fella straight up you only want to be friends or less....we do not take hints well. BTW, nice guns!!!
No, we don't. Even "I just want to be friends" means there may still be a chance to get laid. here is what I wrote: "I should also be clear that I am really not looking for more than friendship - as you have ascertained, my life is quite busy - we are still in transition from Boston, still in boxes still without much (really any) furniture, I am busy building a practice, doing media being a single mom and getting back into training - a VERY important part of my life that is absolutely non negotiable. I get the impression you need someone who puts you higher on the list - and given that right now I am really not looking for a relationship I need to be clear." frankly he has NO chance of getting laid. SO not my type. |
| 2011-01-10 9:11 AM in reply to: #3288042 |
Champion 4835 Eat Cheese or Die | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me If he asks what his chances are, do not say "1 in a million." Because all guys hear is "There's still a chance." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KX5jNnDMfxA |
| 2011-01-10 9:40 AM in reply to: #3289565 |
Champion 10668 Tacoma, Washington | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me TriToy - 2011-01-10 7:06 AM mrbbrad - 2011-01-10 9:50 AM Selachophobia - 2011-01-09 11:24 PM He is definitely not the right guy for you, I will give you one hint with men....tell this fella straight up you only want to be friends or less....we do not take hints well. BTW, nice guns!!!
No, we don't. Even "I just want to be friends" means there may still be a chance to get laid. here is what I wrote: "I should also be clear that I am really not looking for more than friendship - as you have ascertained, my life is quite busy - we are still in transition from Boston, still in boxes still without much (really any) furniture, I am busy building a practice, doing media being a single mom and getting back into training - a VERY important part of my life that is absolutely non negotiable. I get the impression you need someone who puts you higher on the list - and given that right now I am really not looking for a relationship I need to be clear." frankly he has NO chance of getting laid. SO not my type. But you didn't tell him he's SO not your type. |
| 2011-01-10 9:45 AM in reply to: #3289565 |
Expert 1006 Kansas City, MO | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me TriToy - 2011-01-10 9:06 AM mrbbrad - 2011-01-10 9:50 AM Selachophobia - 2011-01-09 11:24 PM He is definitely not the right guy for you, I will give you one hint with men....tell this fella straight up you only want to be friends or less....we do not take hints well. BTW, nice guns!!!
No, we don't. Even "I just want to be friends" means there may still be a chance to get laid. here is what I wrote: "I should also be clear that I am really not looking for more than friendship - as you have ascertained, my life is quite busy - we are still in transition from Boston, still in boxes still without much (really any) furniture, I am busy building a practice, doing media being a single mom and getting back into training - a VERY important part of my life that is absolutely non negotiable. I get the impression you need someone who puts you higher on the list - and given that right now I am really not looking for a relationship I need to be clear." frankly he has NO chance of getting laid. SO not my type. Pretty good, but: "Please do not contact me again in any form or fashion, you have no chance at getting laid, leave me alone." would have been better.... LOL jk |
| 2011-01-10 10:34 AM in reply to: #3288042 |
Expert 3126 Boise, ID | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me I'd say you were right to end things with this particular guy. Given that none of us were there it would be difficult to interpret how the evening went. However... Perhaps his question was a valid one. If you really are so busy then why are you dating in the first place? From your email to him it sounds as though you have no time at all for a relationship so why are you going on dates? Perhaps that was his way of asking the same question. If you were upfront before the drinks that you are just looking for a casual hang out every now and then that would be one thing. But why date if it doesn't even register on the priority list? |
| 2011-01-10 10:48 AM in reply to: #3288042 |
Master 2277 Lake Norman, NC | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me 'cause you're HAWT with the tri-body. SOME MAN (not all men) think that it comes naturally. He just wants the benefits, but can't accept the time it takes to get that way. Dump the fool. A REAL playuh would've gotten you to accept a post-workout massage from him! Worked WITH you and not against you!  |
| 2011-01-10 10:48 AM in reply to: #3289850 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me Aarondb4 - 2011-01-10 11:34 AM I'd say you were right to end things with this particular guy. Given that none of us were there it would be difficult to interpret how the evening went. However... Perhaps his question was a valid one. If you really are so busy then why are you dating in the first place? From your email to him it sounds as though you have no time at all for a relationship so why are you going on dates? Perhaps that was his way of asking the same question. If you were upfront before the drinks that you are just looking for a casual hang out every now and then that would be one thing. But why date if it doesn't even register on the priority list? I WAS clear!!! we met walking our dogs - right after I had come from master's swim!!! I NEVER presented myself any differently - maybe he thinks I am some sort of taming of the shrew project.....lol |
| 2011-01-10 10:54 AM in reply to: #3289898 |
Champion 34263 Chicago | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me TriToy - 2011-01-10 10:48 AM Aarondb4 - 2011-01-10 11:34 AM I'd say you were right to end things with this particular guy. Given that none of us were there it would be difficult to interpret how the evening went. However... Perhaps his question was a valid one. If you really are so busy then why are you dating in the first place? From your email to him it sounds as though you have no time at all for a relationship so why are you going on dates? Perhaps that was his way of asking the same question. If you were upfront before the drinks that you are just looking for a casual hang out every now and then that would be one thing. But why date if it doesn't even register on the priority list? I WAS clear!!! we met walking our dogs - right after I had come from master's swim!!! I NEVER presented myself any differently - maybe he thinks I am some sort of taming of the shrew project.....lol Is this one still married? |
| 2011-01-10 10:56 AM in reply to: #3289898 |
Expert 3126 Boise, ID | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me TriToy - 2011-01-10 9:48 AM Aarondb4 - 2011-01-10 11:34 AM I'd say you were right to end things with this particular guy. Given that none of us were there it would be difficult to interpret how the evening went. However... Perhaps his question was a valid one. If you really are so busy then why are you dating in the first place? From your email to him it sounds as though you have no time at all for a relationship so why are you going on dates? Perhaps that was his way of asking the same question. If you were upfront before the drinks that you are just looking for a casual hang out every now and then that would be one thing. But why date if it doesn't even register on the priority list? I WAS clear!!! we met walking our dogs - right after I had come from master's swim!!! I NEVER presented myself any differently - maybe he thinks I am some sort of taming of the shrew project.....lol Ah I see, well then... perhaps he is not too bright. |
| 2011-01-10 11:25 AM in reply to: #3289517 |
| Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me mrbbrad - 2011-01-10 6:50 AM Selachophobia - 2011-01-09 11:24 PM He is definitely not the right guy for you, I will give you one hint with men....tell this fella straight up you only want to be friends or less....we do not take hints well. BTW, nice guns!!!
No, we don't. Even "I just want to be friends" means there may still be a chance to get laid. Pretty much what I was thinking,,,,,,,,,, "I just want to be friends, nothing more" will be heard by a lot of guys, as I'm not going to sleep with you, well not just yet. What is your reasoning for wanting to be "friends" with him? |
| 2011-01-10 1:41 PM in reply to: #3288042 |
Expert 1187 Ontario | Subject: RE: Someone 'splain men to me Do people really set up dates via email... could he not call you to ask in person. (I don't date so maybe this is how things are done now). |
 2011-01-10 2:40 PM in reply to: #3288221 |
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