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2012-04-16 1:50 PM
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Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

2012-04-16 1:53 PM
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Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

2012-04-16 1:57 PM
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TriAya - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

Huge projects at work, and the kids have been killing my time.  My love for my pup is unconditional... kitty poo breath and everything; I just love her to death.  She does no wrong.  ;-)

2012-04-16 1:58 PM
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Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

2012-04-16 2:21 PM
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Pector55 - 2012-04-16 11:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

I don't want to screw up my training, so I guess the move is OFF.  



2012-04-16 2:30 PM
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Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 2:21 PM

I don't want to screw up my training, so I guess the move is OFF.  



Wise man. Very wise.
2012-04-16 3:26 PM
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DeannaS - 2012-04-16 3:30 PM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 2:21 PM

I don't want to screw up my training, so I guess the move is OFF.  

Wise man. Very wise.

 

Listen to the carrot sir... just listen to the carrot.

2012-04-16 3:28 PM
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Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:57 AM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

Huge projects at work, and the kids have been killing my time.  My love for my pup is unconditional... kitty poo breath and everything; I just love her to death.  She does no wrong.  ;-)

{{{{MELON PRESS}}}} And neither do you, while you ride the wave of glory of your return. Until it crashes

Really. I missed you.

2012-04-16 3:34 PM
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I got picked up/hit on at lunch today.  Man came over and said "I saw you walk in and checked you out numerous times, great look". You are someone I like to take out.......and handed me his number.  I was with other men....super risky.....LOVE IT!!!!!!
2012-04-16 3:42 PM
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NRG42 - 2012-04-16 1:34 PM I got picked up/hit on at lunch today.  Man came over and said "I saw you walk in and checked you out numerous times, great look". You are someone I like to take out.......and handed me his number.  I was with other men....super risky.....LOVE IT!!!!!!

Wow - that dude has cojones of steel....!  I am not shy by any means - but I would not approach a woman that is hanging with other men.  

Are you going to call him?  



2012-04-16 3:53 PM
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Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 3:42 PM

NRG42 - 2012-04-16 1:34 PM I got picked up/hit on at lunch today.  Man came over and said "I saw you walk in and checked you out numerous times, great look". You are someone I like to take out.......and handed me his number.  I was with other men....super risky.....LOVE IT!!!!!!

Wow - that dude has cojones of steel....!  I am not shy by any means - but I would not approach a woman that is hanging with other men.  

Are you going to call him?  

Agreed, which makes me like him more.  Was a group though.

NORMALLY, I would add him into my dating hopper, but recently I had some semi-serious talks with someone I have been dating for 6 months (long-distance so not you standard relationship). In negotiations to empty out the our hoppers at both ends......but a lot of details in the air still and some expecations/boundaries that need to be discussed and agreed upon.   

So I will be honest with him(yes, I will reach out), and see if he would give me a week or two to see what happens with someone, who I seem to really like? 

 

 

 

 



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2012-04-16 3:56 PM
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TriAya - 2012-04-16 4:28 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:57 AM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

Huge projects at work, and the kids have been killing my time.  My love for my pup is unconditional... kitty poo breath and everything; I just love her to death.  She does no wrong.  ;-)

{{{{MELON PRESS}}}} And neither do you, while you ride the wave of glory of your return. Until it crashes

Really. I missed you.

You always know what to say.  I missed you too!  I love the swim pic by the way.

2012-04-16 4:10 PM
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Pector55 - 2012-04-16 3:56 PM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 4:28 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:57 AM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

Huge projects at work, and the kids have been killing my time.  My love for my pup is unconditional... kitty poo breath and everything; I just love her to death.  She does no wrong.  ;-)

{{{{MELON PRESS}}}} And neither do you, while you ride the wave of glory of your return. Until it crashes

Really. I missed you.

You always know what to say.  I missed you too!  I love the swim pic by the way.

i too am happy to have my speed waxer back.  BTW-missed my 36th b-day :-)

2012-04-16 4:13 PM
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NRG42 - 2012-04-16 5:10 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-16 3:56 PM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 4:28 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:57 AM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

Huge projects at work, and the kids have been killing my time.  My love for my pup is unconditional... kitty poo breath and everything; I just love her to death.  She does no wrong.  ;-)

{{{{MELON PRESS}}}} And neither do you, while you ride the wave of glory of your return. Until it crashes

Really. I missed you.

You always know what to say.  I missed you too!  I love the swim pic by the way.

i too am happy to have my speed waxer back.  BTW-missed my 36th b-day :-)

Count the days and round up  Tongue out

2012-04-16 4:14 PM
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Pector55 - 2012-04-16 4:13 PM
NRG42 - 2012-04-16 5:10 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-16 3:56 PM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 4:28 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:57 AM
TriAya - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Pector55 - 2012-04-17 2:50 AM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 11:53 AM

wooo hoooo - got my first email from a lady on match.com!  

According to her email, she lives in Texas, and really loves animals.  She posted 5 pics - 1 of her dog - 1 of a flower - 2 blurry ones (one in which she is kissing her dog).... Says she has one kid - 13, dads not in the picture so "no drama from that aspect". (should I tell her that no baby daddy around is drama, because I am not interested in raising someone else's kid?)

I think I am moving to Texas!  

I don't know man.. my dog eats out of the litterbox.  If hers does, and she is kissing it, you could get sick and screw up your training. 

OH EM GEE! You're alive!!!!! Where have you been? Learning not to kiss your dogs the hard way?

Huge projects at work, and the kids have been killing my time.  My love for my pup is unconditional... kitty poo breath and everything; I just love her to death.  She does no wrong.  ;-)

{{{{MELON PRESS}}}} And neither do you, while you ride the wave of glory of your return. Until it crashes

Really. I missed you.

You always know what to say.  I missed you too!  I love the swim pic by the way.

i too am happy to have my speed waxer back.  BTW-missed my 36th b-day :-)

Count the days and round up  Tongue out

You make me smile!!!



2012-04-16 5:52 PM
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NRG42 - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 3:42 PM

NRG42 - 2012-04-16 1:34 PM I got picked up/hit on at lunch today.  Man came over and said "I saw you walk in and checked you out numerous times, great look". You are someone I like to take out.......and handed me his number.  I was with other men....super risky.....LOVE IT!!!!!!

Wow - that dude has cojones of steel....!  I am not shy by any means - but I would not approach a woman that is hanging with other men.  

Are you going to call him?  

Agreed, which makes me like him more.  Was a group though.

NORMALLY, I would add him into my dating hopper, but recently I had some semi-serious talks with someone I have been dating for 6 months (long-distance so not you standard relationship). In negotiations to empty out the our hoppers at both ends......but a lot of details in the air still and some expecations/boundaries that need to be discussed and agreed upon.   

So I will be honest with him(yes, I will reach out), and see if he would give me a week or two to see what happens with someone, who I seem to really like? 

 

 

 

 

If it's only a week or two you are looking at I'd just not say a thing.  I can appreciate the honest approach and all but if it were me that you called and said "I'd like to go out with you but there's this um other guy that I really like and I need a couple weeks to see if it's going to work or not..." I'd chuck you into the do not answer box.

2012-04-16 6:01 PM
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thebigb - 2012-04-16 3:52 PM
NRG42 - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 3:42 PM

NRG42 - 2012-04-16 1:34 PM I got picked up/hit on at lunch today.  Man came over and said "I saw you walk in and checked you out numerous times, great look". You are someone I like to take out.......and handed me his number.  I was with other men....super risky.....LOVE IT!!!!!!

Wow - that dude has cojones of steel....!  I am not shy by any means - but I would not approach a woman that is hanging with other men.  

Are you going to call him?  

Agreed, which makes me like him more.  Was a group though.

NORMALLY, I would add him into my dating hopper, but recently I had some semi-serious talks with someone I have been dating for 6 months (long-distance so not you standard relationship). In negotiations to empty out the our hoppers at both ends......but a lot of details in the air still and some expecations/boundaries that need to be discussed and agreed upon.   

So I will be honest with him(yes, I will reach out), and see if he would give me a week or two to see what happens with someone, who I seem to really like? 

 

 

 

 

If it's only a week or two you are looking at I'd just not say a thing.  I can appreciate the honest approach and all but if it were me that you called and said "I'd like to go out with you but there's this um other guy that I really like and I need a couple weeks to see if it's going to work or not..." I'd chuck you into the do not answer box.

X2

However, a dude with cojones that large probably has a billion women in his little black book.   And they are probably all very, very hot!  He will probably just say - "no problem".

NRG42 - I am guessing he wasn't an ugly guy?  

2012-04-16 6:01 PM
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NRG42 - 2012-04-16 4:53 PM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 3:42 PM

NRG42 - 2012-04-16 1:34 PM I got picked up/hit on at lunch today.  Man came over and said "I saw you walk in and checked you out numerous times, great look". You are someone I like to take out.......and handed me his number.  I was with other men....super risky.....LOVE IT!!!!!!

Wow - that dude has cojones of steel....!  I am not shy by any means - but I would not approach a woman that is hanging with other men.  

Are you going to call him?  

Agreed, which makes me like him more.  Was a group though.

NORMALLY, I would add him into my dating hopper, but recently I had some semi-serious talks with someone I have been dating for 6 months (long-distance so not you standard relationship). In negotiations to empty out the our hoppers at both ends......but a lot of details in the air still and some expecations/boundaries that need to be discussed and agreed upon.   

So I will be honest with him(yes, I will reach out), and see if he would give me a week or two to see what happens with someone, who I seem to really like?

Um, is this part of one of the disgusting bike threads? Good luck, it's nice to see adult style relationships where people can truly talk. Still searching here!

2012-04-16 6:11 PM
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Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 5:01 PM
thebigb - 2012-04-16 3:52 PM
NRG42 - 2012-04-16 2:53 PM
Muskrat37 - 2012-04-16 3:42 PM

NRG42 - 2012-04-16 1:34 PM I got picked up/hit on at lunch today.  Man came over and said "I saw you walk in and checked you out numerous times, great look". You are someone I like to take out.......and handed me his number.  I was with other men....super risky.....LOVE IT!!!!!!

Wow - that dude has cojones of steel....!  I am not shy by any means - but I would not approach a woman that is hanging with other men.  

Are you going to call him?  

Agreed, which makes me like him more.  Was a group though.

NORMALLY, I would add him into my dating hopper, but recently I had some semi-serious talks with someone I have been dating for 6 months (long-distance so not you standard relationship). In negotiations to empty out the our hoppers at both ends......but a lot of details in the air still and some expecations/boundaries that need to be discussed and agreed upon.   

So I will be honest with him(yes, I will reach out), and see if he would give me a week or two to see what happens with someone, who I seem to really like? 

 

 

 

 

If it's only a week or two you are looking at I'd just not say a thing.  I can appreciate the honest approach and all but if it were me that you called and said "I'd like to go out with you but there's this um other guy that I really like and I need a couple weeks to see if it's going to work or not..." I'd chuck you into the do not answer box.

X2

However, a dude with cojones that large probably has a billion women in his little black book.   And they are probably all very, very hot!  He will probably just say - "no problem".

NRG42 - I am guessing he wasn't an ugly guy?  

I'd tend to agree.  However, someone like that won't notice a week or two of not hearing from her (and actually would probably like it) and it's an approach that can work very well.  It's just my opinion that some things don't need aired unless absolutely necessary.  I've been that guy before when I did keep a "book" and silence would attract me more but saying "hey..." would make me think twice.  YMMV.

2012-04-17 8:33 AM
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 Ok I joined Match just to see whats up. How much do people actually look at the "headline"? Would a silly quote I like be ok there or what are the ladies looking for?



2012-04-17 9:00 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-04-17 9:33 AM

 Ok I joined Match just to see whats up. How much do people actually look at the "headline"? Would a silly quote I like be ok there or what are the ladies looking for?

Cord, be YOU. Don't try to be who you think the ladies are looking for. It's very boring interacting with someone who is just trying to read you to see how they think you think you want them to behave.  An original personality is far more interesting than a bland, all-things to all-people  personality.

2012-04-17 9:07 AM
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Renee - 2012-04-17 7:00 AM
Big Appa - 2012-04-17 9:33 AM

 Ok I joined Match just to see whats up. How much do people actually look at the "headline"? Would a silly quote I like be ok there or what are the ladies looking for?

Cord, be YOU. Don't try to be who you think the ladies are looking for. It's very boring interacting with someone who is just trying to read you to see how they think you think you want them to behave.  An original personality is far more interesting than a bland, all-things to all-people  personality.

Oh I plan on being me!  Right now I think I will use the quote "Don't take life too seriously, nobody gets out alive anyways." If people don't like silly quotes than they won't like me lol I can use the describe myself section to say something more personal about me.

 

2012-04-17 9:11 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-04-17 8:33 AM

 Ok I joined Match just to see whats up. How much do people actually look at the "headline"? Would a silly quote I like be ok there or what are the ladies looking for?



While I signed up for it so I could look, I don't use Match, so I had to go and look for the headline. If it's what I think it is, it looks like a lot of people use quotes or some statement designed to draw your attention. Whether or not people actually read it, I couldn't tell you. I can tell you that in the couple of profiles that I looked at before I decided I didn't want to create a profile on a for-pay site, I never noticed the headlines at all.

I'd say that you can assume, though, that someone will look at it, and that all the info you have out there should be reflective of who you are. So, if quoting is something you do (think about your recent FB posts), then quote away. If you never quote stuff, then probably not.
2012-04-17 9:23 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-04-17 10:07 AM

Oh I plan on being me!  Right now I think I will use the quote "Don't take life too seriously, nobody gets out alive anyways." If people don't like silly quotes than they won't like me lol I can use the describe myself section to say something more personal about me.

There ya go.

You gotta be true to yourself before you can be true to another.

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