TAN #193: Labyrinth where unatTANded children go ... (Page 24)

no, that's silly. 

What I find odd, is that all those movies have the SAME actors in them.  It's like that's all they do....

(of course, I only know that because I IMDB the cast and crew - not by viewing)

you really think this?  are you only talking about 14 year old girls?

One does not usually get off to a chick flick as far as I know.  I also dispute that women will have an emotional attachment to the main character.  They may have an emotional response to the story or elements of that story but chick flicks often don't have a male main character ala Steel Magnolias, Beaches etc.

Well my ex is silly.

Ok so I have no idea what happened but recently my kids went to FL with their mom for a week without the step dad because he had to work. Now when the fam got back the ex had a huge blow out with the step dad and accused him of lying about something. Now the guy is from all that I know of him a good guy so I don't think he did anything wrong but being a 25 year old dude alone for a week I am guessing what happened and it makes me laugh out loud I am not in that situation anymore.

Do you not see a difference between these two groups?

I'm just saying, that for some people, that kind of material does nothing for them.  And it's offensive and degrading.  And if their significant other happens to enjoy him/her self on occasion, it's also offensive because if they have a perfectly willing partner, why show interest/attraction to something else?

And how can you REALLY argue if that's how they feel?  If they are offended, they are offended.  Can't make them NOT take offense.

As a side note.  Gawds I love my smartphone.

Wow I am glad I don't have to deal with that now.

I was told it was considered wrong to do too. Scout breaks that is.

But then again I never got any Pizza so what else was I to do. I don't watch those movies. I am more of a person that works from my own mind and thoughts.

But I don't think someone doing that while no pizza is available is a bad thing. Saving it up until the other person is ready and when they say only is a bit controlling.

I don't think either case is cheating. I don't think that the act of watching a movie represents any form of cheating or similar event.

I am not saying it cannot turn out to be a problem. If you become addicted to it, rather watch it than being with your SO, or do it in a way that could damage your relationship, then it's a problem.

Having said that, if you catch your SO watching underage midget clowns performing with animals in make up, then please run. run fast. And don't look back (unless of course, you like that sort of stuff)

I don't no.

but if the perfectly willing partner is GONE for a week at a time for work, why is the porn/etc offensive, that's where it doesn't add up.  if my husband were ignoring me or unable to perform for me because of porn,  THAT IS A HUGE PROBLEM.  but if i'm in germany for a week and he takes care of his own business a few times, i just can't find anything offensive about that.  you know i'm taking care of me then too!

That does not surprise me.

That seems like a normal healthy relationship to me.

It is one of the many reasons that go into why we are both were we are at currently and more happy because of it.

Do you think it's different?

Agree. My wife actually complains that we don't watch enough (soft) porn together! And she sees no prob in me washing my own laundry if the washing machine is broken (or on a business trip).

I am in the porn is offensive not the scout break activity.  That is simply for the fact that women in most of those "movies" are treated as meat.  If that is what you want in your women OK but  not the kind of person I would want or want to be.

*note not you specifically meh a general you tot eh guys.

Yes I do.  One is a person with meaning the other is a sloppy piece of meat in most cases.

Ding Ding Ding We have a winner!!!

But you highlighted the memory and video of the couple together  parts of what I said not the porn. You think if a couple video's themselfs and one of them watch it later on the women is being sloppy piece of meat?

Yes SIR

Much more happy now and my bank account thanks me even more. And I have my dog.

Life is pretty good. And I have even gone for 2 runs in the last week.

Bring on spring time out on my bike and I OWN THE WORLD... hahaha

I love me some MIDGET PORN