TAN #178: If TANning were an Olympic sport ... (Page 29)

mr2tony - 2012-08-07 2:59 PM

amyjotris - 2012-08-07 2:56 PM Anytime!! Hi Cheri!

Tag-teaming me???

Don't put it past us!

As long as you dont go postal in TT, you will probably be okay!

Howdy TAN!  Anything interesting besides Az's awesome gun laws and the peoples republic of California crappy ones?

And I would starve to death on 2900 calories!

Hey JJ!

I saw that

Surprisingly, I'm staying out of the fray. Let the weirdos shoot themselves in both feet; why should I care?

So the wife it talking about seperation...  Not THAT kind...  But wants to move to LA a bit more permanently and visit home on the weekends.

Stuff like that worries me.  Seperation leads to being attracted to what's in front of you and available.  Especially when the time together is just dealt with catching up on chores or bills or regular life instead of fun.  Got to have both.

Sigh.

No matter where you post, or what you say, someone will  go out their way to say you are wrong.  If I corrected people all the time, I wouldn't have time for anything else.  I just let people be blissfull in their wrongness...  Doesn't matter to me either way.

Don't know your individual situation, but in general, these are less than promising circumstances, over a long period of time.

Rebel

Don't forget the bikini chicks. Because even if you're tuning out with headphones, you don't want to be alone.

I would advise against it maybe move with her and take a lesser job? It might suck but being away for long periods of time in this kind of situation can lead to some bad things.

Well I can run alone with headphones but yes having bikini girls around is always a good thing.

Go ahead.

I run AND bike with mine all the time.  Yeah, I said it.

I just don't race cuz only bad boys race with headphones.

Crap I meant to say I raced with them on. Damn messed up my own joke.

IRL all my runs are with headphones on.

I'm not worried about it for a while.  We adore each other.  But if it stretched into a year?  I can just see it now.  Going back and forth every weekend turns to every other, turns to once a month, turns to one trip over two months...  5-6 calls a day (like it is now) and dozens of texts turns into fewer and fewer.

Not that anyone WANTS to drift apart.  But it happens.

Oh, and she is trying to hook me up selling art.  She WANTS me there, just not before I can land a job.  Which is sort of funny, because she doesn't have a job there yet...

Oh, she does.  I feel bad for her.  She can't fully persue her dream unless we move there.  Trust me, I would LOVE to move there.  I would move there YESTERDAY...  But she also knows I'm supporting us right now, and I need to be working...  At the same time, she can't stand to be away from me.  So it's hard on her.

I still think about cashing in one of my 401k's and just jumping in with both feet. "All in"

Kido - 2012-08-07 3:54 PM Most likely, it will be cool for her for a month, then she will miss me too much and make some other arrangements! 

I would hope for this!!

I was just going to send you a training plan that calls for just that! 

NRG42 - 2012-08-07 2:04 PM

Kido - 2012-08-07 3:54 PM Most likely, it will be cool for her for a month, then she will miss me too much and make some other arrangements! 

I would hope for this!!

She's in a bad mood from all the driving.  Makes the round trip twice a week sometimes AND is away from me.  So she wants to move and have me there and cranky at the moment and venting.

If anyone sees us together, they would know she's goofy for me!

Oh yeah? Well I'm going to do open turns in the pool whilst glaring at everyone else with a stank face scowl.