Subject: RE: TAN #160: Just farTAN' around as usual ...This just leads to my moto... I know I have mentioned this before. To ME, dating should be "do what you want". If you want to text, text. Call, call. Bang the guy/girl on the first date? Do it. If not, don't... You will ALWAYS feel more comfortable in the long run if you stay true to yourself and do what YOU want. Rather than guess, second guess, doubt, or play by some "rules" that other people establish. Can it backfire? Sure. Maybe you come across desparate, or whatever. But maybe you won't. At least you can fall back on the fact you were YOURSELF. |