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2009-01-16 11:55 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN #64 - A Case of Temporary InTANity
TriAya - 2009-01-16 12:53 PM
wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 1:51 PM
meherczeg - 2009-01-16 12:47 PM
wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 12:46 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:44 PM

But here's my question.  I know NOT eating the donut is the right thing to do.  But why does doing the 'right' thing always have to suck?  Why do I have to deny SO MUCH stuff?  It seems like dieting is just a constant state of saying 'no' and denial...  I hate it.

It's not like someone is telling me I have to deny myself carrots.  THAT would be easy...

I know. I hate "denying" myself food or exhibiting controlling behavior, but if I want to get down to where I want to be, I'm going to have to deny myself a lot of stuff. Which kinda sucks.

if y'all had a better attitude about it, it would be a lot easier.

food is fuel, and that is it.

you are denying yourself lard, simple sugars, crap that does nothing for your body.

you are giving yourself longer lives, better quality of life, hotter bod.

if you look at it negatively, its going to be hard.

look at it POSITIVELY.

See, but I also see cooking as an art form, which takes some of the "utility" out of it. So then it's hard for me to just eat plain chicken, plain rice and green beans every single day for every meal for 4 months. I'd go crazy. I can cut out the junk, I don't buy junk food, the only time I see it is in the office. That's not the problem. But to eat tasteless, flavorless unexciting food SUCKS. No one ever got to looking how you look by even eating any of the stuff of my delicious Cooking Light cookbook.

A true art in cooking is to be able to make sumptuous yet healthy meals.

I do make healthy meals. I make stuff that's balanced and without a lot of fat.



2009-01-16 11:55 AM
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Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:54 PM

TriAya - 2009-01-16 9:47 AM How about half a doughnut? Cut one in half. I'm sure someone will eat the other half.

thought about it...

I walked by again, and some of my faves are gone.  I figure if I wait long enough, the decision will be made for me.

excellent strategy.

my new thing i'm practicing is only eating when i'm hungry.  when i'm not on a plan i tend to eat whenever i have an option to eat.  i'm trying my hardest to just eat my meals and only what i'm hungry for.  its not easy...

2009-01-16 11:56 AM
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Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 1:54 PM

TriAya - 2009-01-16 9:47 AM How about half a doughnut? Cut one in half. I'm sure someone will eat the other half.

thought about it...

I walked by again, and some of my faves are gone.  I figure if I wait long enough, the decision will be made for me.

Good for you! Because if it's crap anyway, you don't want to waste a precious/rare treat opportunity on something you don't even want.

2009-01-16 11:56 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN #64 - A Case of Temporary InTANity
meherczeg - 2009-01-16 9:47 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 12:46 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:44 PM

But here's my question.  I know NOT eating the donut is the right thing to do.  But why does doing the 'right' thing always have to suck?  Why do I have to deny SO MUCH stuff?  It seems like dieting is just a constant state of saying 'no' and denial...  I hate it.

It's not like someone is telling me I have to deny myself carrots.  THAT would be easy...

I know. I hate "denying" myself food or exhibiting controlling behavior, but if I want to get down to where I want to be, I'm going to have to deny myself a lot of stuff. Which kinda sucks.

if y'all had a better attitude about it, it would be a lot easier.

food is fuel, and that is it.

you are denying yourself lard, simple sugars, crap that does nothing for your body.

you are giving yourself longer lives, better quality of life, hotter bod.

if you look at it negatively, its going to be hard.

look at it POSITIVELY.

I can't agree.  It's NOT just fuel.  Maybe that's what your body knows, but it's also something very social about it.  It brings people together, we celebrate life with food.  We are supposed to ENJOY food.  I bet some of your fondest memories have to deal with food.  Ice cream with dad, or the smell of cookies at grandma's  house.

That's like saying sex is for propigating the species, that's it.



Edited by Aikidoman 2009-01-16 11:57 AM
2009-01-16 11:59 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN #64 - A Case of Temporary InTANity
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:56 PM
meherczeg - 2009-01-16 9:47 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 12:46 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:44 PM

But here's my question.  I know NOT eating the donut is the right thing to do.  But why does doing the 'right' thing always have to suck?  Why do I have to deny SO MUCH stuff?  It seems like dieting is just a constant state of saying 'no' and denial...  I hate it.

It's not like someone is telling me I have to deny myself carrots.  THAT would be easy...

I know. I hate "denying" myself food or exhibiting controlling behavior, but if I want to get down to where I want to be, I'm going to have to deny myself a lot of stuff. Which kinda sucks.

if y'all had a better attitude about it, it would be a lot easier.

food is fuel, and that is it.

you are denying yourself lard, simple sugars, crap that does nothing for your body.

you are giving yourself longer lives, better quality of life, hotter bod.

if you look at it negatively, its going to be hard.

look at it POSITIVELY.

I can't agree.  It's NOT just fuel.  Maybe that's what your body knows, but it's also something very social about it.  It brings people together, we celebrate life with food.  We are supposed to ENJOY food.  I bet some of your fondest memories have to deal with food.  Ice cream with dad, or the smell of cookies at grandma's  house.

That's like saying sex is for propigating the species, that's it.

my fondest memories are experiences.  vacation in williamsburg with grandparents.  rescuing our first cat.  the first time i saw the cathedral of learning at pitt.  i honestly don't have fond memories of food...

nana's house smelled like lysol.

eta:  growing up with very little, food WAS fuel.  if you didn't eat something because you didn't enjoy it, you may just not eat that night.



Edited by meherczeg 2009-01-16 12:00 PM
2009-01-16 11:59 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN #64 - A Case of Temporary InTANity
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:56 PM
meherczeg - 2009-01-16 9:47 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 12:46 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:44 PM

But here's my question.  I know NOT eating the donut is the right thing to do.  But why does doing the 'right' thing always have to suck?  Why do I have to deny SO MUCH stuff?  It seems like dieting is just a constant state of saying 'no' and denial...  I hate it.

It's not like someone is telling me I have to deny myself carrots.  THAT would be easy...

I know. I hate "denying" myself food or exhibiting controlling behavior, but if I want to get down to where I want to be, I'm going to have to deny myself a lot of stuff. Which kinda sucks.

if y'all had a better attitude about it, it would be a lot easier.

food is fuel, and that is it.

you are denying yourself lard, simple sugars, crap that does nothing for your body.

you are giving yourself longer lives, better quality of life, hotter bod.

if you look at it negatively, its going to be hard.

look at it POSITIVELY.

I can't agree.  It's NOT just fuel.  Maybe that's what your body knows, but it's also something very social about it.  It brings people together, we celebrate life with food.  We are supposed to ENJOY food.  I bet some of your fondest memories have to deal with food.  Ice cream with dad, or the smell of cookies at grandma's  house.

That's like saying sex is for propigating the species, that's it.

Agreed.

I spent years around people with unhealthy positions towards food. I've seen plenty of people with eating disorders and have been borderline myself, to be quite honest. Luckily, I don't quite have the willpower to outright starve myself because I like food too much. But from that many years of mostly deprivation, I just can't do it anymore. And I don't think it's healthy to push the boundaries like that.

And I'm not saying that I value food over other things, experiences, people. It's just another way to experience the world. Maybe it's because I grew up with a mom who liked to bake, a grandmother who cooked a lot - certain cultures (like Italians) are centered around food, and it's not just food for the sake of food or food as an "idol" but the food that brings people together, etc. I have very fond memories of helping my mother bake Christmas cookies, etc. It's not just about the cookies.



Edited by wurkit_gurl 2009-01-16 12:02 PM


2009-01-16 12:00 PM
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Subject: RE: TAN #64 - A Case of Temporary InTANity
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 11:56 AM

meherczeg - 2009-01-16 9:47 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 12:46 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 12:44 PM

But here's my question.  I know NOT eating the donut is the right thing to do.  But why does doing the 'right' thing always have to suck?  Why do I have to deny SO MUCH stuff?  It seems like dieting is just a constant state of saying 'no' and denial...  I hate it.

It's not like someone is telling me I have to deny myself carrots.  THAT would be easy...

I know. I hate "denying" myself food or exhibiting controlling behavior, but if I want to get down to where I want to be, I'm going to have to deny myself a lot of stuff. Which kinda sucks.

if y'all had a better attitude about it, it would be a lot easier.

food is fuel, and that is it.

you are denying yourself lard, simple sugars, crap that does nothing for your body.

you are giving yourself longer lives, better quality of life, hotter bod.

if you look at it negatively, its going to be hard.

look at it POSITIVELY.

I can't agree.  It's NOT just fuel.  Maybe that's what your body knows, but it's also something very social about it.  It brings people together, we celebrate life with food.  We are supposed to ENJOY food.  I bet some of your fondest memories have to deal with food.  Ice cream with dad, or the smell of cookies at grandma's  house.

That's like saying sex is for propigating the species, that's it.



Preach on, 'kido!

Food isn't just to fill the tummy, otherwise it'd be like the slop in The Matrix.
2009-01-16 12:03 PM
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And now, I am going to go get lunch. And possibly something delicious. And not my usual yogurt and cucumber slices.
2009-01-16 12:04 PM
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wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 1:03 PM And now, I am going to go get lunch. And possibly something delicious. And not my usual yogurt and cucumber slices.

yogurt and cucumber slices is not fuel --- THAT is actually depriving yourself.

2009-01-16 12:05 PM
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wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 10:03 AM And now, I am going to go get lunch. And possibly something delicious. And not my usual yogurt and cucumber slices.

I had a mid morning snack.  A veggie burrito that I made at home.  I'm thinking if I'm a little less hungry, the donuts won't be as tempting.  so far, so good.  I think I weathered the storm this time.



Edited by Aikidoman 2009-01-16 12:05 PM
2009-01-16 12:06 PM
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Lunch was a salad with romaine lettuce, spinish, red pepper, zuchinni, cucumber, tomato, walnuts, tuna and BBQ sauce (since i left the dressing at home I had to use some BBQ packets in the office fridge).


2009-01-16 12:07 PM
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wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 10:03 AM And now, I am going to go get lunch. And possibly something delicious. And not my usual yogurt and cucumber slices.

That actually sounds yummy to me.  I lof cucs and yogurt.  Not every day, but it sounds good.  I was eating raw carrots every day for a while, and grew to dislike them.  But if they are dipped in some hummus, yum. 



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2009-01-16 12:09 PM
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Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 1:07 PM

wurkit_gurl - 2009-01-16 10:03 AM And now, I am going to go get lunch. And possibly something delicious. And not my usual yogurt and cucumber slices.

That actually sounds yummy to me.  I lof cucs and yogurt.  Not every day, but it sounds good.  I was eating raw carrots every day for a while, and grew to dislike them.  But if they are dipped in some hummus, yum. 

i want to buy a food processor JUST so i can make my own hummus.  that is just silly.  where would i put a hummus processor?

2009-01-16 12:09 PM
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Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.
2009-01-16 12:09 PM
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mr2tony - 2009-01-16 1:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

awkward!  Sealed

2009-01-16 12:10 PM
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BUT, it has been getting better.

The more I eat healthy, crappy food tastes worse and worse.  Things that used to taste good, just taste way too processed and nasty now.  Thank the stars...



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mr2tony - 2009-01-16 2:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

Now that's the kind of eating talk I like to see . Is she going to tell you to suck on her chalk bag again?

2009-01-16 12:12 PM
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TriAya - 2009-01-16 10:10 AM

mr2tony - 2009-01-16 2:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

Now that's the kind of eating talk I like to see . Is she going to tell you to suck on her chalk bag again?

Your into voyerism?  NICE!!!!

2009-01-16 12:12 PM
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TriAya - 2009-01-16 12:10 PM

mr2tony - 2009-01-16 2:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

Now that's the kind of eating talk I like to see . Is she going to tell you to suck on her chalk bag again?



Possibly. And I'll oblige, of course.
2009-01-16 12:13 PM
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Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 1:10 PM

BUT, it has been getting better.

The more I eat healthy, crappy food tastes worse and worse.  Things that used to taste good, just taste way too processed and nasty now.  Thank the stars...

i can't eat fast food anymore and most fried stuff is repulsive to me.  my body craves fresh, natural foods.  its awesome.  when i diet for competitions now, i crave oranges and bananas with honey and all kinds of healthy stuff.

2009-01-16 12:14 PM
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Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 2:10 PM

BUT, it has been getting better.

The more I eat healthy, crappy food tastes worse and worse.  Things that used to taste good, just taste way too processed and nasty now.  Thank the stars...

The converse is also true of me. The more of fresh fare I eat, and the more I work out, the more my body starts to crave delicious, nutritious, filling food.



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Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 2:12 PM
TriAya - 2009-01-16 10:10 AM

mr2tony - 2009-01-16 2:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

Now that's the kind of eating talk I like to see . Is she going to tell you to suck on her chalk bag again?

Your into voyerism?  NICE!!!!

Yes. I like to watch.

2009-01-16 12:15 PM
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TriAya - 2009-01-16 1:14 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 2:12 PM
TriAya - 2009-01-16 10:10 AM

mr2tony - 2009-01-16 2:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

Now that's the kind of eating talk I like to see . Is she going to tell you to suck on her chalk bag again?

Your into voyerism?  NICE!!!!

Yes. I like to watch.

i wasn't surprised.

2009-01-16 12:16 PM
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TriAya - 2009-01-16 10:14 AM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 2:12 PM
TriAya - 2009-01-16 10:10 AM

mr2tony - 2009-01-16 2:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

Now that's the kind of eating talk I like to see . Is she going to tell you to suck on her chalk bag again?

Your into voyerism?  NICE!!!!

Yes. I like to watch.

How about exhibition?

2009-01-16 12:19 PM
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Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 1:16 PM
TriAya - 2009-01-16 10:14 AM
Aikidoman - 2009-01-16 2:12 PM
TriAya - 2009-01-16 10:10 AM

mr2tony - 2009-01-16 2:09 PM Where's that dbag Crowny at today!? I need to talk to him. I'm supposed to have dinner with his wife tonight.

Now that's the kind of eating talk I like to see . Is she going to tell you to suck on her chalk bag again?

Your into voyerism?  NICE!!!!

Yes. I like to watch.

How about exhibition?

THIS IS YANTI YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.  i can't believe you even have to ask!

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