Subject: RE: Fred D's Ironman/Half-Ironman focused Mentor Group --CLOSEDI can see why she got offended. There are a group of you that post good stuff and don't always agree and the discussion is civil. Then there are a few folks that are just...I don't even know how to describe them. It's like sometimes they are arguing for argument sake. One in particular likes to throw around vague places, vague people, yet will not really come out and name them. I just don't trust someone who is going to come in and argue with every single person and yet won't lay down what his credentials are that makes him so right. He doesn't just argue with her, he seems to argue with everyone that is generally well respected on the forum. Doesn't necessarily argue with the newbie's though. Then there are a few others that are just very opinionated. The shower thread was one of those threads that brought those people out. But, I think it will eventually short itself out. It'll come to a head, they will leave, there will be peace, then it will come back around again. I do think you need to have a somewhat thick skin on the internet and you have to be willing to be called out regarding your views, methods, whatever. But personal attacks and insults don't help anyone. |