Subject: RE: No Housework Day Ride & Cherry Blossom 10-Miler Carbo Load Dinner!!!dck4shrt - 2008-02-14 10:48 AM wurkit, if i may ask, for how long have you been pursuing this guy?
If you're going to tell me to give up, then go ahead and do it. If I see him tonight, I am calling him out as to why he flaked on calling me. Up until now, he has continued to act interested and nothing has changed except that it's V-Day. HE was the one who suggested we get drinks this week. I didn't suggest it - I only called him to get a drink last Friday. So if he flaked on calling because it's V-Day and he still wants to go out, then fine. If he's flaking for anything else, I will find out tonight or tomorrow hopefully and that will be that. ETA: I am not letting this drag on. His brother was here until about 2 weeks ago, and I was advised to at least give him some time after that. Up until now, he has not flaked on me. He called me back last week to at least tell me he had plans. And then suggested new plans. So I will get the definitive answer on why he's flaking, and I don't care if I have to lay it straight out to him. If he is flaking b/c he's a douche, we're done. I know you all probably think I'm pretty stupid, but I'm not THAT dumb. If I automatically write him off as bs-ing me, then I'm called a man-hater. But if I give him the benefit of the doubt because MAYBE, just maybe he actually DID want to take things slow and this is his dumb way of doing it, then I'm called stupid and naive (I don't necessarily mean by any of you, but there is a double standard when it comes to this stuff). So it's a lose-lose situation. Edited by wurkit_gurl 2008-02-14 10:25 AM
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