Cheating bf & vacation - Part II

Well, since many of you asked for a "vacation report," I just wanted to let you know that this one will get a DNS. After talking to my friends and family (and being told by about 70 BTers), I have decided to not take the trip with my cheating ex-boyfriend. I am losing some money, but I think my sanity and emotional health is most important right now. I also decided not to take the trip alone, because I think that if I got out there and became depressed/upset about the situation I found myself in, that it will just be a miserable 10 days...and not a healing 10 days. So, I've decided to use the airline credit I am receiving from cancelling my vacation to buy a plane ticket out to Southern California (I'm a Jersey girl). So, instead of sitting home and being miserable for 10 days, I will spend a few days with a good girlfriend of mine in Los Angeles and then a few days with one of my best friends in San Diego.

As of now, the only race I know the ex-boy and I are both doing this coming season is the Philly Triathlon in June. My goal is to just close the gap between our two finishing times. I don't expect to beat him, but I at least want to close that gap. And, if any of you out there will be at the race and don't mind doing a little side job during the swim or bike, just let me know and I think we can make some arrangements....Just Kidding!

Well, thanks for your support and advice. Glad to see that there are some good tri guys out there. Janelle, I know you're searching for a good tri guy. When you finally think you meet one, just give me a holler so I can be sure it's not my former tri guy!! haha.

Have a great Thanksgiving everyone.