Subject: RE: How much did your wedding cost? noelle1230 - 2013-02-06 1:11 PM trinnas - 2013-02-06 3:59 PM lisac957 - 2013-02-06 3:44 PM Kido - 2013-02-06 2:37 PM lisac957 - 2013-02-06 8:45 AM Kido - 2013-02-05 5:58 PM Wow, a bunch of frugal people! I guess you were saving it for tri gear? I didn't want for this to be a judgmental thread, just curious on other people's experiences. Money is so personal, and we all prioritize how we spend it differently. No one's story is better or worse. Who's judging? I don't care what people do. You realize this is the capital of cheap drive through weddings, right? Most people I know do that and it's a great time. IDK, saying "what a bunch of frugal people" seemed a little off color. Perhaps I misunderstood the intent. To some that might acutally be a compliment. Frugal does not have to equate to cheap. If anything, I thought people might judge those who spent more, not those who spent less. Right, IF I were to judge, it might be the same way I look at people on Bridezilla or Sweet 16. 100's and 100's of thousands of dollars with over the top everything and STILL not happy. But hey, if they have it, good for them if want to spend it on that. As a side note. per the interwebz dictionary (and how I meant it), "The definition of frugal is not spending a lot of money and not being wasteful." Why would I negatively judge people for NOT being wasteful? They should be commended. |