Subject: RE: My sonNow I am really concerned about him . . . we found out today that his platelets are low . . . which is most likely a sign of a virus, but could also easily be a sign of a relapse. It is too early to tell at the moment and his oncologist is not extremely worried, however, I, as his mother probably won't sleep at all until he is rechecked in a week. Any prayers or good thoughts are more than appreciated.Melissa Melissa, a wise woman, the mother of six children, told me some great advice I'm going to pass on to you: get your sleep. Whatever tomorrow brings you'll be better able to handle it if you've gotten your rest. Worrying is just borrowing trouble. There's enough trouble there for another day. Today rejoice in him, go for a run, eat right, be well. One more thing along these lines: I've been learning more about Appreciative Inquiry. It's sort of like visualizing the outcome you want and heading towards it, rather than dwelling on the outcome you don't want and getting mired there. In triathlon parlance, it's like the advice to steer your bike towards things rather than concentrate on what you don't want to hit. Visualize a positive future. I'll pray for you, but in reality all I'm doing is visualizing a positive future FOR you. I hope you get a chance to practice it, too. By the way, I've had a terribly ill child before, too. We refer to it now as "adventures of having a body." Gwendal |