Date Update

What does your intuition tell you? 

I just keep thinking....ok so that was one bad joke he didn't think was funny.  But that pretty much reflects my sense of humor.  If he was around me enough he would realize that I'm a big dork.  I don't see him appreciating my dorkiness.  He's a little more serious than me,  Which can be good, but I want a guy who can be dorky sometimes.  Ill give it more time.  Maybe I'll throw out a dorky comment or do something dorky and see his reaction.  I don't think he would think it was funny if he knew I was infatuated with burritos.  That's something I can hide for much longer

Ok, I am going to repeat what I said last night just for the sake of everyone else's opinion.

The Mr. Softie joke was between you and Jim and BT. So what if he doesn't get it? Not everyone gets the same things as everyone else and not everyone thinks the same things are funny. Instead of repeating to him "you don't get it? really?" you should have explained it to him and given him a chance to think it was funny. Don't know why you were embarrased to tell him the joke, the only reason I can see is because it was a penis reference and since you're not having a physical relationship with him, that would have been uncomfortable...anyway, I don't think because he said it reminded him of ice cream that you should knock him for it since you didn't offer any explanation.

I think you're too picky and your standards are a little to high (about little things, not important things) and not everyone is perfect.

Intuition tells me no.  But then I don't want it be weird if I see him at the pool or gym.  I guess it's bad because I do enjoy spending time with him.  But...that's just it.  I enjoy spending time with him, but can't really see him being my boyfriend or anything.  I guess I know what I need to do, I just don't want to do it.  Maybe I can just do a few things like in that movie "How to lose a guy in 10 days"- he,he!

But Comet- I didn explain it.  He flat out didn't think that was funny. He said that it reminded him of soft served icecream which isn't funny at all.  He said that he didn't find anything seually humorous about it being called "Mr. Softie."  Even if he's not a BT'er, I would think that most guys would get it.  I think...

Or maybe just try running a 10K with him.  See how his attitude is WHILE his mind of off of trying to look or be cool.  Sometimes guys get a little "hemmed up" when around new girlfriends.  Maybe he was a little nervous around you and wasn't himself.  Exersize is the best wasy to lose all those personality querks.

We're going running tonight so I'll see. 

Push the pace hard and see how he reacts.  If he sprints ahead and laughs at you because he's winning, then end it.  If he let's you win and comments on how fit you are, then maybe give him another chance.

He's definitely faster than me and we both know it.  One cool thing is that he never brags about how fit he is.  He likes the fact that I'm athletic and work out all the time.  I'll try picking up the pace and see if he lets me win

If you would have gone to the pool last night and swam you could hvae asked him then- ha,ha!

Hee heeee.

heh.

run4yrlif - 2005-12-06 12:04 PM

runnergirl29 - 2005-12-06 11:03 AMBTW- he doesn't think an M Dot tat is very cool Tatoos came up in one of our conversations.

What'd he say about tats in general?

He doesn't like them at all.  I told him the only tat I would ever get is an M Dot tat after IM FL.  And he flat out said "Don't get a tatoo.  I don't think it would look good at all."

No- it's just lame discussion.  Way to kill time.  I can make decisions for myself.