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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I agree with everybody. How? Why? OK the general `Employers looking at FC and Myspace is bad' argument is that if your work performance isn't affected then who cares? I contend that the employers are usually looking at these sited BEFORE they hire the person to see what kind of person they are. If I were an employer, and I used to manage a newsroom for five newspapers, and I saw someone putting pictures of themself on a public web site completely smashed and passed out the prior week or month or even three months, I'd question their ability to arrive on time and do their job. On the other hand, I know I go out drinking a lot and come to work hungover once in a big while. Not cool but sometimes when you're having fun you're having fun. That said I ALWAYS get my job done and I do it well, so it's not a problem. I've had my fair share of indescretions in the past but I don't make them public, other than to you guys. ![]() Now if a prospective employer was on this site and used it against me, well, that's my fault I suppose. If I didn't want people to know I went out and got bombed over the weekend maybe I shouldn't have put it on a public forum. EDIT: Oh one more thing. If you're doing your job and you're doing well, it's highly unlikely your boss is going to check your myspace or FB page to spy on you. Edited by mr2tony 2007-12-12 9:18 AM |
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Buttercup ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() It's real simple - competition for jobs is tough and the more mature appearing (least obnoxious) candidate will get the job offer. All things being equal, if an employer has to choose between someone who is open about their "young and dumb" behavior and another person who appears more mature and self-possessed... who do you think will get the offer? The entire interview process is about separating the wheat from the chafe and employers spend alot of money to find out what the real deal is with their candidates for hire - background checks including criminal history, credit, employment verification, education verification, driving record and drug testing. Why would they overlook a free method to find more information on their candidate for hire? If you want to put your wild and crazy self out there, knock yourself out but be prepared for the consequences. People will draw conclusions about your maturity level and judgment. Welcome to the real world! As a side note to this: How many of us cautioned Piggfin not to tell her new beau about BT? And why did we caution her???? Because we didn't want him to draw negative conclusions about her based upon her posts - and to my knowledge she hasn't posted any vomiting drunkard photos. Tell me again why a prospective employer shouldn't troll the internet for a more candid view of prospective employees? Edited by Renee 2007-12-12 9:27 AM |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() If you are stating were you work I agree with the fact that HR can complain to you. Because at that point you are representing the company and not in a positive light. Un-tag yourself from the photos, and change your security settings to only allow friends to see anything about you. |
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![]() | ![]() Brett - 2007-12-12 8:28 AM And if the person who posted the picture doesn't restrict their profile, then anybody with an FB account can see it VERY good point. If one of your friends tags you in a photo and thier profile is not private, ANYONE in the world can view it. You can un-tag yourself so your name is not associated with it, but it the photo with you in it will still be out there. I agree with the "if it's legal and doesn't interfere with your work, then who cares" crowd. I'm also interested in hearing the answers from the HR poster who reguarly scans profiles of currently-employed people. What's the purpose? Looking for something to bust them with? Bored at work? Again, if it's legal and they are doing a good job then why. Edited to say that voluntarily posting questionable pictures on a public forum is asking for your judgement to be questioned. Edited by lisac957 2007-12-12 9:33 AM |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() voluntarily posting these pictures in a public forum (or consenting to someone else posting them) reflect directly on your judgement ability. I agree that people have the right to a private life. But when you are evaluating potential hires, you have very little to go on and are attempting to examine all aspects of their ability to perform the tasks you ask them, where their judgement comes into play. As for existing employees, I think the same applies - you just have more concrete evidence to rely on of their existing job performance. Feel free to have a private life, but posting pictures on the Internet ends that being a "private" life. Edited by condorman 2007-12-12 9:28 AM |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mr2tony - 2007-12-12 10:17 AM EDIT: Oh one more thing. If you're doing your job and you're doing well, it's highly unlikely your boss is going to check your myspace or FB page to spy on you. A previous poster said: "I work in HR for my company and regularly scan Facebook for coworkers." Here's what I don't like about that practice.
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() DerekL - 2007-12-12 8:58 AM And if people's behavior away from work affects their job or employer, then I'd be the first to say that it's relevant and should have consequences. There is a middle ground here though. Not everybody who has a few drinks on occasion has it affect their job. Not sure D.Z. - 2007-12-12 8:49 AM As someone who has actually managed people before, and been DIRECTLY responsible for the operation of the business and the performance of said employees, I can tell you that people's "private" lives have a DIRECT effect on me and the business. Derek, you're right, there is a middle ground. I don't think the OP was talking about those folks, and I certainly wasn't referring to those folks. And that's a tough judgement call for a hiring manager. But it's part of the interview process. With some experience, I developed some good interviewing techniques to weed out alot of those problem employees. You don't hire the resume, you hire the person. Please don't misunderstand, I'm not actively pursuing dirt on applicants, but I will consider all legal, relevant, and available information when weighing my decision. I think that's fair. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 8:13 AM Brett - 2007-12-12 10:06 AM . The article that starts this thread, however, refers to people getting out-of-their-mind trashed (on what I assume is a somewhat regular basis)... That's your assumption... If your screening new hires, then checking myspace and facebook is fair game. If you're spying on current employees (like the earlier poster claimed), that's offsides. Again, if their work is satisfactory, buzz the hell off. If you're showing up drunk/hungover, that's another story. You're right, and were I in the shoes of a HR guy, why wouldn't I assume that? If that's one of the first things I stumble across when doing checks what am I going to think "Oh I'm sure this was just a one time deal, I'm sure she is a terribly mature individual who just happened to want to post this picture of herself with vomit running down her chin"? lisac957 - 2007-12-12 8:25 AM I'm also interested in hearing the answers from the HR poster who reguarly scans profiles of currently-employed people. What's the purpose? Looking for something to bust them with? Bored at work? Again, if it's legal and they are doing a good job then why. While I choose not to be one of those people who scans FB to monitor employee's, there's another perspective that has been mentioned. Some jobs are a bit more 24/7 than others. Military is my example, and there are certainly others. While you have a private life, certain jobs can come to define you in the eyes of others, therefore your behavior in any situation can come to reflect on that profession and/or company. bts Edited by Brett 2007-12-12 9:43 AM |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 8:27 AM A previous poster said: "I work in HR for my company and regularly scan Facebook for coworkers." Here's what I don't like about that practice.
In at-will employment states that is becoming (unfortunately) increasingly common. I couldn't find a link, but there was a story on 60 Min or 20/20 (or something like that) about how an employer gave employees an XX day grace period to quit smoking and said after that they were required to have kicked tha habit... period. At home, work, or other and they had to submit to tests or pack their bags. Justification: costs him more in health care, sick days, etc. I can only imagine how much time that dude spends trolling the net looking for dirt on his folks. bts Edited by Brett 2007-12-12 9:48 AM |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Brett - 2007-12-12 10:42 AM run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 8:13 AM Brett - 2007-12-12 10:06 AM . The article that starts this thread, however, refers to people getting out-of-their-mind trashed (on what I assume is a somewhat regular basis)... That's your assumption... If your screening new hires, then checking myspace and facebook is fair game. If you're spying on current employees (like the earlier poster claimed), that's offsides. Again, if their work is satisfactory, buzz the hell off. If you're showing up drunk/hungover, that's another story. You're right, and were I in the shoes of a HR guy, why wouldn't I assume that? If that's one of the first things I stumble across when doing checks what am I going to think "Oh I'm sure this was just a one time deal, I'm sure she is a terribly mature individual who just happened to want to post this picture of herself with vomit running down her chin"? lisac957 - 2007-12-12 8:25 AM I'm also interested in hearing the answers from the HR poster who reguarly scans profiles of currently-employed people. What's the purpose? Looking for something to bust them with? Bored at work? Again, if it's legal and they are doing a good job then why. While I choose not to be one of those people who scans FB to monitor employee's, there's another perspective that has been mentioned. Some jobs are a bit more 24/7 than others. Military is my example, and there are certainly others. While you have a private life, certain jobs can come to define you in the eyes of others, therefore your behavior in any situation can come to reflect on that profession and/or company. bts Those types of jobs don't generally have "HR". Look, if problems with employees exist, alcoholism included, it generally surfaces at the workplace, If the only evidence of a behavior is on facebook, then I think it's safe to say it's not a problem. |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Brett - 2007-12-12 10:47 AM run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 8:27 AM A previous poster said: "I work in HR for my company and regularly scan Facebook for coworkers." Here's what I don't like about that practice.
In at-will employment states that is becoming (unfortunately) increasingly common. I couldn't find a link, but there was a story on 60 Min or 20/20 (or something like that) about how an employer gave employees an XX day grace period to quit smoking and said after that they were required to have kicked tha habit... period. At home, work, or other and they had to submit to tests or pack their bags. Justification: costs him more in health care, sick days, etc. I can only imagine how much time that dude spends trolling the net looking for dirt on his folks. bts Apples and oranges. Most smokers can't go 8+ hours without a smoke, so at some point they're using work time to satsfy their habit. I don't know of many companies that allow booze breaks (breweries, maybe). |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 8:56 AM Those types of jobs don't generally have "HR". Look, if problems with employees exist, alcoholism included, it generally surfaces at the workplace, If the only evidence of a behavior is on facebook, then I think it's safe to say it's not a problem. Regarding "those types of jobs": they do have people that can (and sometimes do) search the net. It doesn't have to be HR. Regarding the second point, I was refering to hiring, not spying. If you've got a choice between someone who has managed to publish a variety of racy/drunken/compromising/whatever photos vs. someone who, given the same search, has a few pics of them with their wife/girlfriend/kids/dog/whatever... odds are, you're better off in the long run with the latter. bts |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 8:58 AM Apples and oranges. Most smokers can't go 8+ hours without a smoke, so at some point they're using work time to satsfy their habit. I don't know of many companies that allow booze breaks (breweries, maybe). Interesting, I would not have thought that would have seemed to come down on the side of the employer on that one. bts Edited by Brett 2007-12-12 10:08 AM |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I am glad I went to college pre-digital age..... |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() bootygirl - 2007-12-12 10:08 AM I am glad I went to college pre-digital age..... Amen. We have pictures of our college fun, but they're neatly tucked away in a box in my basement. Never to be heard from again. |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Brett - 2007-12-12 11:08 AM run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 8:58 AM Apples and oranges. Most smokers can't go 8+ hours without a smoke, so at some point they're using work time to satsfy their habit. I don't know of many companies that allow booze breaks (breweries, maybe). Interesting, I would not have thought that would have seemed to come down on the side of the employer on that one. bts Personal bias. Cigarettes killed my dad. I don't like 'em. Alcohol can be enjoyed responsibly, IMO. Smokes are more difficult. edit: but really...I do see them as separate issues becuase smoking demonstrably affects job performance in the great majority of smokers. The same can't be said for drinking, I think. Edited by run4yrlif 2007-12-12 10:25 AM |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() It's funny - personally, I WANT my employer to know about certain aspects of my private life. I want them to see that I am a multi-faceted person with healthy outlets for stress. I want them to know that triathlon has taught me about goal-setting, preparation, planning, and flexibility when sometimes those plans go awry. I want them to know that my life is not defined by my work, and that I constantly seek change and improvement. I want my employer to know that I am working on putting together a MAJOR fund-raising event that has NOTHING to do with my professional life. Are there things I don't want them to know? Sure. But I'm not going to advertise the things I don't want them to know. That being said, I liked hanging out with drunk girls at college. As a responsible adult, I have come to the realization that certain individuals grow out of certain behaviors, like regular binge drinking and pot smoking. If I had to chose between 2 people, one person with recent pictures of vomit dripping down their chin, and one without, I would probably hire the person without the vomit on their face. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 9:24 AM Personal bias. Cigarettes killed my dad. I don't like 'em. Alcohol can be enjoyed responsibly, IMO. Smokes are more difficult. Sorry to hear that. edit: but really...I do see them as separate issues becuase smoking demonstrably affects job performance in the great majority of smokers. The same can't be said for drinking, I think. If taken at the same time (say lunch), I'd say alcohol can have a much more profound affect on your work. But I understand you point. At the risk of hijacking... but for the sake of argument. Couldn't the same be said of twinkies or any junk food? An extreme, yes, but both are legal and unhealthy vices. bts |
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Extreme Veteran![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() The real red flag would be BT addiction. |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Brett - 2007-12-12 11:31 AM At the risk of hijacking... but for the sake of argument. Couldn't the same be said of twinkies or any junk food? An extreme, yes, but both are legal and unhealthy vices. bts I guess if they took breaks 6 times a day for snacks, sure. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() MomX3 - 2007-12-12 11:31 AM If potential employees scan BT I'm screwed. See. Now your friend (the blonde) is shunning the evil alcohol and would likely get the job over you. See the argument now? |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() MomX3 - 2007-12-12 12:31 PM If potential employees scan BT I'm screwed. but not b/c of the booze - rather for hanging out with a Wisconsin fan... |
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Iron Donkey![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mr2tony - 2007-12-12 10:10 AM bootygirl - 2007-12-12 10:08 AM Amen. We have pictures of our college fun, but they're neatly tucked away in a box in my basement. Never to be heard from again. I am glad I went to college pre-digital age..... How about seen? |
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Iron Donkey![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() condorman - 2007-12-12 12:57 PM MomX3 - 2007-12-12 12:31 PM If potential employees scan BT I'm screwed. but not b/c of the booze - rather for hanging out with a Wisconsin fan... Sumpin' wrong with us Wisconsinites? |
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