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2006-06-08 8:21 AM
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Subject: RE: Has BT become "Really not funny" -- Comet conversation
Comet - 2006-06-08 9:14 AM

Like Janelle said. I'm offended. Stop. Thats it. No big deal.

So no more strap-on jokes? Ok...



2006-06-08 8:24 AM
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Subject: RE: Has BT become "Really not funny" -- Comet conversation

You know how I'd feel, and it doesn't have to be a repeated thing either.  I think I've shown in the past that I can be incredibly defensive about her (and anybody else I consider a friend).  Figuring out whether or not you're really offended based on one post is just hard.  You're easily as sarcastic as I am, so what you say is not always what you mean.    It's sorta easy to pick out now that you've repeated it and made a point to say that you're offended.

I don't know why I'm typing all this.  You know where I'm coming from.

Comet - 2006-06-08 7:53 AM

Again, how would you feel if these SAME jokes were being made about Laurie? Over and over again?

2006-06-08 8:27 AM
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Subject: RE: Has BT become "Really not funny" -- Comet conversation

Jim - your an @sshole.  Hey, you said to call you that. 

Janelle- instead of typing all of that why don't you just walk over and whack Jim in the back of the head.  A short 2x4 kept next to your desk will come in handy for this.  Actually, keep it next to his desk so that you don't have to carry it back and forth.

Haley and other BT people (guys and gals).  As much as Jim or myself or others state that we will help you in situations where you might feel offended/awkward/nervous we are but meager pipsqueaks with no real power in the universe that is BT.  PM MarmaIamthehammerandmasteroftheBTuniverseDaddy and he will address your concerns.  I've seen him in action.  It's impressive.

 

2006-06-08 8:31 AM
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Subject: RE: Has BT become "Really not funny" -- Comet conversation
hangloose - 2006-06-08 9:27 AM

Jim - your an @sshole.  Hey, you said to call you that.  Thanks, man. But I said it 8 months ago. Where were you then?

Janelle- instead of typing all of that why don't you just walk over and whack Jim in the back of the head.  A short 2x4 kept next to your desk will come in handy for this.  Actually, keep it next to his desk so that you don't have to carry it back and forth. She knows that if she acts in any way threatening to me, it's into the closet.

Haley and other BT people (guys and gals).  As much as Jim or myself or others state that we will help you in situations where you might feel offended/awkward/nervous we are but meager pipsqueaks with no real power in the universe that is BT.  PM MarmaIamthehammerandmasteroftheBTuniverseDaddy and he will address your concerns.  I've seen him in action.  It's impressive. Word.

 

2006-06-08 8:31 AM
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DerekL - 2006-06-08 8:24 AM

Figuring out whether or not you're really offended based on one post is just hard.  You're easily as sarcastic as I am, so what you say is not always what you mean.

I don't know why I'm typing all this.  You know where I'm coming from.

1. I understand that. I do take a lot of ribbing here and most of it is fine.

2. Word.

2006-06-08 8:33 AM
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run4yrlif - 2006-06-08 8:21 AM
Comet - 2006-06-08 9:14 AM

Like Janelle said. I'm offended. Stop. Thats it. No big deal.

So no more strap-on jokes? Ok...

I don't need, have, or want a strap on.

But I'll give you one as a birthday present.



Edited by Comet 2006-06-08 8:34 AM


2006-06-08 8:36 AM
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Comet - 2006-06-08 8:40 AM

I agree with you-to a point. However, I wrote that post after thinking about this that was written about me:


CubeFarmGopher - 2006-06-07 5:12 PM
hangloose - 2006-06-07 5:50 PM

Last weekend I actually saw the DVD case for a porno adult film lying in the gutter.  Literally.

Did it have a picture of Comet and her unicycle on it? 

I find it very offensive and it was not the first time something like this has been joked about. I realize it was a joke however, it has gone too far.

I stood up for myself. I wasn't even in the 'ring' as you call it but got jabbed anyway. I had not posted on that thread. I don't even read every thread so it made me think what else has been said that I have not caught. A host of people didn't come to my defense either.

So, if I follow your suggestion of getting out of the ring, that would be COJ or BT completely.

Yall have jumped on Tyrant for bringing this to everyones attention. You guys are being like the class bullies here for the responses.  Its inconsiderate when someone is genuinely offended.

Unfortunately, Haley, as one of the more popular and frequent posters on CoJ you are unintentionally putting yourself out there to be the target of jokes, comments, etc.  I'm certainly not defending it, just sayin' that some people will take advantage of it at times, trying to be funny or make jokes at your expense.  I don't think anybody holds any ill will against you personally, at least I hope not.

The fact is that there are some "cliques" here, and human nature sometimes pressures people to do or say outrageus things to get noticed and be accepted.  Kinda reminds me of being out on the playground back in the sixth grade at times.

IMHO CoJ does a reasonable job of policing itself.  If someone gets too far out of line then others tend to reel them back in.  In the end I think it all comes down to mutual respect for others.  If someone says "enough", then that's it as far as I'm concerned.

If anything, I put myself on the opposite side and know that I can come across as a bit of a curmudgeon at times.  It a function of my age (old), life experiences (lots), and core beliefs.  I've called people out at times when I thought they have crossed the line of civility or outrageousness .  I don't expect everyone to always agree with me, but's that's okay.  

Discretion is always the better part of valor, sometimes the best (and classiest) thing is to just walk away. 

 

 

 

 

 

2006-06-08 8:37 AM
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Comet - 2006-06-08 9:33 AM

But I'll give you one as a birthday present.

 

Already have one. Heh.

Kidding.

2006-06-08 8:38 AM
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Subject: RE: Has BT become "Really not funny" -- Comet conversation

Just as an aside, I am used to all the wise cracks about my "aberration" and am not offended by anything I read or don't read on the matter.

Just in case you were contemplating easing off on commenting on my sartorial preferences.

Not that you were.

 



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2006-06-08 8:38 AM
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run4yrlif - 2006-06-08 8:18 AM 
 
  • If you're a newbie and find your way into cupajoe, lurk. Post sparingly. Observe the threads. After a while, you'll see that people sometimes post stuff that they are not entirely 100% serious about.
  • Think of Cup of Joe like a party where everyone knows everyone else. Imagine someone walking into the party that knows no one. Imagine that person jumping into a conversation and offering girls massages. Looking for a hook up. It's not cool.

Right on Jim.

I have been offended by some posts by COJ newbies, people that I haven't interacted with before and wondered where they were coming from.

I like the advice to post in Tri Talk, post sporadically, it helps others get to know them as well. Naturally develop a posting 'relationship' with people.

Anyway,

THANKS FOR THE TALK GUYS. I APPRECIATE IT.

BACK TO REGULARLY SCHEDULED BT-ing.

I feel like I need a smoke after all this. I guess I'll go to Freebirds today.

2006-06-08 8:40 AM
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Comet - 2006-06-08 9:38 AM

I feel like I need a smoke after all this. I guess I'll go to Freebirds today.

Go practice your juggling and unicycling (is that a word?) instead.

 



2006-06-08 8:41 AM
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max - 2006-06-08 8:38 AM

Just as an aside, I am used to all the wise cracks about my "aberration" and am not offended by anything I read or don't read on the matter.

Just in case you were contemplating easing off on commenting on my sartorial preferences.

Not that you were.

Why does it always have to be about you Max? Geez.

2006-06-08 8:44 AM
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I am offended by that remark...I'm going to TNO!

 

2006-06-08 8:47 AM
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2006-06-08 8:47 AM
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max - 2006-06-08 8:44 AM

I am offended by that remark...I'm going to TNO!

I never said I was going to switch websites! No Max!

2006-06-08 8:58 AM
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JeepFleeb - 2006-06-08 8:47 AMbabe.

I'm the boyfriend, so I'm the only one who gets to make those jokes!!!

Is this an 'occasion'?  I think this is the first time I've seen this publicly acknowledged.  Do you guys get a paparazzi name?  Like CometFleeb?  No, that sucks.

Fleebmet

ComJeep

HaleyJeep

CometAaron

AarCom

FlagUni

UniFlagger. 

Help me people, let's turn this thread into something a little more COJ like.  (ie. nonsense)

 



2006-06-08 8:58 AM
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Subject: RE: Has BT become "Really not funny" -- Comet conversation
Here's a novel idea...if you don't want inside jokes to be mis-represented, then send inside private messages to those who you are joking with. News Flash: not everyone who visits COJ knows or even wants to know the inside skinny on a handful of others nor do we care. Public threads are just that...public. You want to have side conversations and joking within a small group, then email each other privately and reserve the threads for inclusion of all people who are here.

2006-06-08 9:01 AM
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Subject: RE: Has BT become "Really not funny" -- Comet conversation
COJ is an internet forum.

In an internet forum people often feel they can make rude comments/jokes they wouldn't otherwise make in real life because they don't have to see the person face to face.

It's also exclusively 'members only'.

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2006-06-08 9:10 AM
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hangloose - 2006-06-08 9:58 AM
JeepFleeb - 2006-06-08 8:47 AMbabe.

I'm the boyfriend, so I'm the only one who gets to make those jokes!!!

Is this an 'occasion'?  I think this is the first time I've seen this publicly acknowledged.  Do you guys get a paparazzi name?  Like CometFleeb?  No, that sucks.

Fleebmet

ComJeep

HaleyJeep

CometAaron

AarCom

FlagUni

UniFlagger. 

Help me people, let's turn this thread into something a little more COJ like.  (ie. nonsense)

 

This should be a new thread.

2006-06-08 9:15 AM
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hangloose - 2006-06-08 8:58 AM
JeepFleeb - 2006-06-08 8:47 AMbabe.

I'm the boyfriend, so I'm the only one who gets to make those jokes!!!

Is this an 'occasion'?  I think this is the first time I've seen this publicly acknowledged.  Do you guys get a paparazzi name?  Like CometFleeb?  No, that sucks.

Fleebmet

ComJeep

HaleyJeep

CometAaron

AarCom

FlagUni

UniFlagger. 

Uh oh.

Thats really funny. And yes you're right.

2006-06-08 9:19 AM
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tritocatchme - 2006-06-08 10:01 AM COJ is an internet forum. In an internet forum people often feel they can make rude comments/jokes they wouldn't otherwise make in real life because they don't have to see the person face to face. It's also exclusively 'members only'.

Yes. That's true, but that urge (like all urges) needs to be kept in check.

And what do you mean "members only"?



2006-06-08 9:21 AM
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Aaronaley.

Halaron. Hmmm...I like Halaron. Sounds like a petrochem company. They live in TX. Perfect!

2006-06-08 9:23 AM
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run4yrlif - 2006-06-08 9:21 AM

Aaronaley.

Halaron. Hmmm...I like Halaron. Sounds like a petrochem company. They live in TX. Perfect!

LMAO!

2006-06-08 9:32 AM
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run4yrlif - 2006-06-08 10:19 AM

tritocatchme - 2006-06-08 10:01 AM COJ is an internet forum. In an internet forum people often feel they can make rude comments/jokes they wouldn't otherwise make in real life because they don't have to see the person face to face. It's also exclusively 'members only'.

Yes. That's true, but that urge (like all urges) needs to be kept in check.

And what do you mean "members only"?



There is a 'core' group of BT'ers that see COJ as their private forum. When newbies such as myself, Tyrant, etc. post with an angle that isn't cohesive with the core group's inside jokes / sense of humor, they're lambasted.

example- personally, I think Tyrant's posts are hilarious. yet, because he makes spelling mistakes and drinks, parties (uh, who didn't when they were in college) he's labeled the prime example of the failing of today's youth. I think he's funny and real. I also think some of you he repeatedly ripped hm a new one (over and over) need to get off your friggin' computer realize there is life outside of this internet forum.

it's all about perspective.

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2006-06-08 9:33 AM
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Tirents a newbie? Since when?

 

tritocatchme - 2006-06-08 10:32 AM
run4yrlif - 2006-06-08 10:19 AM

tritocatchme - 2006-06-08 10:01 AM COJ is an internet forum. In an internet forum people often feel they can make rude comments/jokes they wouldn't otherwise make in real life because they don't have to see the person face to face. It's also exclusively 'members only'.

Yes. That's true, but that urge (like all urges) needs to be kept in check.

And what do you mean "members only"?

There is a 'core' group of BT'ers that see COJ as their private forum. When newbies such as myself, Tyrant, etc. post with an angle that isn't cohesive with the core group's inside jokes / sense of humor, they're lambasted. example- personally, I think Tyrant's posts are hilarious. yet, because he makes spelling mistakes and drinks, parties (uh, who didn't when they were in college) he's labeled the prime example of the failing of today's youth. I think he's funny and real. I also think some of you he repeatedly ripped hm a new one (over and over) need to realize there is a world outside of this internet forum. it's all about perspective.
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