Subject: RE: #57 - I Need a Drink - Gin and TANicgrdavison - 2008-10-30 12:01 PM wurkit.. part of it may be that most guys want sex... and since you aren't "doing" that til marriage now that may be a turn off to them... not saying that men are shallow and we all just want booty.... ok well maybe thats true.. No, that's not it (yet) and I will explain why. Decided to put the embargo on sex 2 years ago - after I broke up with Geneva boy. All the guys I dated before that, sex was on the table. TH, the only guy I've dated in the past 2 years, was also a good church going boy and knows darned well that sex is NOT supposed to be an option. Now, whether or not he can handle that himself is a different story, but there would not have been an expectation for me to have sex with him, right off the bat. NONE of the girls at church are going to have sex with him, including back-stabbing friend - so if he wants sex, he needs to not date girls from our church. But, now do you see why I'm hesitant to get back into dating, esp. dating guys who don't have the same expectations that I do? Yeah, it probably WILL be a problem, in the future...but up until now, that hasn't been the reason. Edited by wurkit_gurl 2008-10-30 11:14 AM
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