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2012-08-01 2:56 PM
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I support gay marriage.  I support CFA ownership's right to not support gay marriage.  I will continue to buy their products because they make a darn tasty chicken s'ammich.

If I did not buy products because I disagreed with someone in the company's philosophy there would probably be very few products I'd buy.

Much ado about nothing..



2012-08-01 3:14 PM
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TriRSquared - 2012-08-01 3:56 PM

If I did not buy products because I disagreed with someone in the company's philosophy there would probably be very few products I'd buy.

I guess we need to rehash.  The concern, for many, is that CFA, through WinShape, donates millions of dollars to organizations that actively work to prevent gay couples from marrying.  So, some people have decided that their dollars will not fund these donations.  It is more than just someone in the company's philosophy.

Let's say the cause was different.  Assume a national restaurant chain donated millions of dollars to organizations that actively pursued very restrictive gun control laws.  I would certainly understand it if the NRA called for a boycott, and its members followed through.

 

 

2012-08-01 3:37 PM
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TriRSquared - 2012-08-01 3:56 PM

If I did not buy products because I disagreed with someone in the company's philosophy there would probably be very few products I'd buy.

I guess we need to rehash.  The concern, for many, is that CFA, through WinShape, donates millions of dollars to organizations that actively work to prevent gay couples from marrying.  So, some people have decided that their dollars will not fund these donations.  It is more than just someone in the company's philosophy.

Let's say the cause was different.  Assume a national restaurant chain donated millions of dollars to organizations that actively pursued very restrictive gun control laws.  I would certainly understand it if the NRA called for a boycott, and its members followed through.

Yep.  Perfectly aware of that. And in your last example I would not care if they did that.  As long as a company is treating everyone fairly (not refusing service to gays for example) I base my buying on the quality of the product.  Apparently my gay friend felt the same way as he was at CFA today.

I never have participated in a boycott.  Perhaps I just don't care enough.

ETA: And if you were to look at the donor lists of all the "anti-gay" charities that CFA donated to I bet you'd find a lot of other companies that people frequent.  Should we be boycotting all of them as well?

For example Russell Athletic donates to the FCA.  http://www.fca.org/CorporateSponsors/



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2012-08-01 3:57 PM
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ratherbesnowboarding - 2012-08-01 2:07 PM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 2:52 PM
jgaither - 2012-08-01 1:45 PM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 1:39 PM

 Where I have a HUGE problem, though, is when government gets involved such as in Chicago and Boston. Really, Mr. Mayors? You're going to use your powers as elected officials to to actively work against a private business for exercising its First Amendment rights in support of the law as it currently stands? Sorry, that's waaaay over the line.

I thought they both backed away from this because they knew they had a lawsuit on their hands.  By backed away I mean they still said what they said, but as far as any REAL action like denial of a permit or something, they backed off of that?

Sure, but it scares the carp out of me that threatening to use the force of government to retaliate against a private business because they disagreed with their beliefs was their first inclination.

 

Menino never did that - his letter asked them to reconsider opening in Massachusetts (the first state to allow SSM).  

"I urge you to back out of your plans to locate in Boston"  there is no "or else" anywhere in the letter, no gubment force or threat of force was used other than the Mayor voicing his opinion on official letterhead.  Was it political grandstanding - yes.  That it was.  

 

ETA:  Northeastern University said no to CFA opening up on campus in the wake of this.  They are a private institution and can do that.  I feel like there may be some confusion in NU not letting a CFA in and Menino voicing his opinion that they should not open in Boston.  Two different stories in the same city

 

here is a link to the letter if you want to read it:




Yes, but in Chicago an alderman overtly made the link between CFA signing an agreement not to donate to any political action groups and its ability to get zoning permits and licenses in his district. Emanuel seemed to back that up by saying that if CFA wanted to be part of the Chicago community, it's values needed to reflect Chicago values. That's putting a political contingency on their ability to do business in his city.

It's like a cop pulling you over and saying, "I see you have an Pro-Life bumper sticker on your car. You might do well to keep driving out of my town."

It's not an overt threat, but you sure get the meaning and the likely implications it carries.

2012-08-01 4:03 PM
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This is certainly an interesting topic to follow.

I think most of us are in agreement that Mr. Cathy can say whatever he wants and that people can choose to patronize CFA or not based on his personal opinions.

I personally struggle with the "controversy" over him giving to charities that actively oppose gay marriage.  This is a position that half of the country agrees with and up until a few months ago even President Obama supported Mr. Cathy's position that marrieage was between a man and a woman.  I do agree with and support the right of people not patronizing CFA for the charitable contributions as well, but I don't really see the "controversy" side of it.

I think the true irony of this is that the desire to harm CFA has likely backfired and they will come out on top by making and donating even more money to christian causes that share their beliefs.

BTW, here was the line at the Chic-Fil-A express in Omaha today.  My wife and I waited for an hour to get our chicken sandwiches.  They said the line has been like this all day since before they opened.  From what I've seen on FB and in the news the same thing is happening all over the country.

2012-08-01 4:10 PM
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scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 4:57 PM
ratherbesnowboarding - 2012-08-01 2:07 PM
scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 2:52 PM
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scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 1:39 PM

 Where I have a HUGE problem, though, is when government gets involved such as in Chicago and Boston. Really, Mr. Mayors? You're going to use your powers as elected officials to to actively work against a private business for exercising its First Amendment rights in support of the law as it currently stands? Sorry, that's waaaay over the line.

I thought they both backed away from this because they knew they had a lawsuit on their hands.  By backed away I mean they still said what they said, but as far as any REAL action like denial of a permit or something, they backed off of that?

Sure, but it scares the carp out of me that threatening to use the force of government to retaliate against a private business because they disagreed with their beliefs was their first inclination.

 

Menino never did that - his letter asked them to reconsider opening in Massachusetts (the first state to allow SSM).  

"I urge you to back out of your plans to locate in Boston"  there is no "or else" anywhere in the letter, no gubment force or threat of force was used other than the Mayor voicing his opinion on official letterhead.  Was it political grandstanding - yes.  That it was.  

 

ETA:  Northeastern University said no to CFA opening up on campus in the wake of this.  They are a private institution and can do that.  I feel like there may be some confusion in NU not letting a CFA in and Menino voicing his opinion that they should not open in Boston.  Two different stories in the same city

 

here is a link to the letter if you want to read it:

Yes, but in Chicago an alderman overtly made the link between CFA signing an agreement not to donate to any political action groups and its ability to get zoning permits and licenses in his district. Emanuel seemed to back that up by saying that if CFA wanted to be part of the Chicago community, it's values needed to reflect Chicago values. That's putting a political contingency on their ability to do business in his city. It's like a cop pulling you over and saying, "I see you have an Pro-Life bumper sticker on your car. You might do well to keep driving out of my town." It's not an overt threat, but you sure get the meaning and the likely implications it carries.

OK.  Thats Chicago - Not Boston.  You lumped in Boston's Mayor and I am saying that you shouldnt.  No where did I defend what Chicago's mayor said.  

You want to rehash your argument and just say Chicago's mayor said "X" then I will agree with you - the govt shouldnt interfere w/ permits or free enterprise.  But I dont have a problem with a politicain making a political statement and voicing his opinion either.  



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ratherbesnowboarding - 2012-08-01 4:10 PM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 4:57 PM
ratherbesnowboarding - 2012-08-01 2:07 PM
scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 2:52 PM
jgaither - 2012-08-01 1:45 PM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 1:39 PM

 Where I have a HUGE problem, though, is when government gets involved such as in Chicago and Boston. Really, Mr. Mayors? You're going to use your powers as elected officials to to actively work against a private business for exercising its First Amendment rights in support of the law as it currently stands? Sorry, that's waaaay over the line.

I thought they both backed away from this because they knew they had a lawsuit on their hands.  By backed away I mean they still said what they said, but as far as any REAL action like denial of a permit or something, they backed off of that?

Sure, but it scares the carp out of me that threatening to use the force of government to retaliate against a private business because they disagreed with their beliefs was their first inclination.

 

Menino never did that - his letter asked them to reconsider opening in Massachusetts (the first state to allow SSM).  

"I urge you to back out of your plans to locate in Boston"  there is no "or else" anywhere in the letter, no gubment force or threat of force was used other than the Mayor voicing his opinion on official letterhead.  Was it political grandstanding - yes.  That it was.  

 

ETA:  Northeastern University said no to CFA opening up on campus in the wake of this.  They are a private institution and can do that.  I feel like there may be some confusion in NU not letting a CFA in and Menino voicing his opinion that they should not open in Boston.  Two different stories in the same city

 

here is a link to the letter if you want to read it:

Yes, but in Chicago an alderman overtly made the link between CFA signing an agreement not to donate to any political action groups and its ability to get zoning permits and licenses in his district. Emanuel seemed to back that up by saying that if CFA wanted to be part of the Chicago community, it's values needed to reflect Chicago values. That's putting a political contingency on their ability to do business in his city. It's like a cop pulling you over and saying, "I see you have an Pro-Life bumper sticker on your car. You might do well to keep driving out of my town." It's not an overt threat, but you sure get the meaning and the likely implications it carries.

OK.  Thats Chicago - Not Boston.  You lumped in Boston's Mayor and I am saying that you shouldnt.  No where did I defend what Chicago's mayor said.  

You want to rehash your argument and just say Chicago's mayor said "X" then I will agree with you - the govt shouldnt interfere w/ permits or free enterprise.  But I dont have a problem with a politicain making a political statement and voicing his opinion either.  



Fair enough. Consider them "de-lumped".

2012-08-01 5:02 PM
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Those lines are crazy! There is absolutely no fast food restaurant I would stand in line for more than 10 minutes max to get some food. I won't even wait at a nice restaurant for more than 20 minutes. I wouldn't stand in line for an hour if they were giving away free food.
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Had breakfast there at 8:30, went back at 3:45 bought lunch for myself (Charbroiled deluxe and peach shake) and two charbroiled salads for my wife and my dinner tonight. Short line this morning, but it was packed the second time I went back. The girl behind the counter said that it was actually slow now and they were expecting a huge dinner crowd.
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JoshR - 2012-08-01 5:02 PM Those lines are crazy! There is absolutely no fast food restaurant I would stand in line for more than 10 minutes max to get some food. I won't even wait at a nice restaurant for more than 20 minutes. I wouldn't stand in line for an hour if they were giving away free food.

lol, yeah I'm generally there with you but today was more about supporting free speech for my wife and I.  We were happy to spend an hour in line to support CFA and Mr. Cathy.

Mike Huckabee summed it up pretty well on his FB page.

A little over a week ago, I simply urged people to go and eat at Chick Fil-A on Wednesday, August 1. I mentioned it on my TV show and have been discussing it on my daily radio show. The media has called it a "protest." It is most certainly not. No one is protesting anything. This is not a stand against a person, a group of people, or even someone else's belief. This is a simple act of having a meal at a place that sells chicken, not politics. It's to affirm to a Christian brother, Dan Cathy, that he has not been disenfranchised from his citizenship nor his right of free speech as a taxpaying American. It is about taking a stand for businesses to be free of economic bullying and hate speech. It is an opportunity to have a decent meal at a decent place that was founded and continues to be run by decent people who believe in treating their customers and employees with kindness and to say "thank you" to them. The only protest that I know of is coming from the chickens, who will give their lives in large numbers to accommodate what hopefully will be a big day at Chick Fil-A.

Chick Fil-A neither proposed this nor has promoted it. It was a simple idea I had and shared with a few friends, posted the online and asked them to share with their friends. I don't have that many friends, but my friends seem to. Since then, over 21 million have viewed my Facebook event page. We are north of half a million people who have said they will eat at Chick Fil-A on Wednesday and still adding more. Millions more are aware of it and might show up in one of the 1600 Chick Fil-A stores.

The attacks on Christians are disturbing, especially by "wanna be tyrants, like the mayors of Boston, Chicago, San Francisco, and Washington, D. C. who have vowed to either keep Chick Fil-A out of their communities or have openly said this business is not welcome because they (the mayors) don't agree with the personal views of the Chick Fil- A CEO. Not only is such a position by the mayors illegal and unconstitutional, but it's disturbing to think that anyone elected to public office would publicly exhibit their bigotry toward Christians, their hypocrisy in singling out only Christians, but not others including Muslims who have even stronger beliefs about same sex marriage, and their contempt of the law regarding censorship and free speech. 

On Wednesday, the lines might be long, but your presence and your purchase is a statement. America doesn't need more protesters-we'll leave that to the Occupy crowd. America needs more protectors of freedom, family, and faith. And in this case, chicken nuggets!
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tuwood - 2012-08-01 6:15 PM

America needs more protectors of freedom, family, and faith.

Interesting take on it.

 

 

 



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This has developed into an interesting study/questions for me.  I don't have an answer, but it leads to interesting questions.

To those who say "I don't care about their beliefs, they are allowed and I just care about the chicken".  Is that for ALL instances?  What if they supported flat out racism or sexism or classism?

Many people said in the other thread, "it's a personal choice".  I think it's more that than ever.  If it's anti gay, then is it "I don't care about their beliefs, give me more chicken!"

But if it's antisemetic or anti african american would it STILL be that same answer?

Maybe choosing to eat there or not indicates to what level of prejudice you are willing to accept or not (or should I say, willing to speak out against or not)?

That's just a question/thought.  NOT calling a single person out, so don't anyone feel that way.

2012-08-01 5:45 PM
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tuwood - 2012-08-01 6:15 PM

JoshR - 2012-08-01 5:02 PM Those lines are crazy! There is absolutely no fast food restaurant I would stand in line for more than 10 minutes max to get some food. I won't even wait at a nice restaurant for more than 20 minutes. I wouldn't stand in line for an hour if they were giving away free food.

lol, yeah I'm generally there with you but today was more about supporting free speech for my wife and I.  We were happy to spend an hour in line to support CFA and Mr. Cathy.

Mike Huckabee summed it up pretty well on his FB page.

A little over a week ago, I simply urged people to go and eat at Chick Fil-A on Wednesday, August 1. I mentioned it on my TV show and have been discussing it on my daily radio show. The media has called it a "protest." It is most certainly not. No one is protesting anything. This is not a stand against a person, a group of people, or even someone else's belief. This is a simple act of having a meal at a place that sells chicken, not politics. It's to affirm to a Christian brother, Dan Cathy, that he has not been disenfranchised from his citizenship nor his right of free speech as a taxpaying American. It is about taking a stand for businesses to be free of economic bullying and hate speech. It is an opportunity to have a decent meal at a decent place that was founded and continues to be run by decent people who believe in treating their customers and employees with kindness and to say "thank you" to them. The only protest that I know of is coming from the chickens, who will give their lives in large numbers to accommodate what hopefully will be a big day at Chick Fil-A.

Chick Fil-A neither proposed this nor has promoted it. It was a simple idea I had and shared with a few friends, posted the online and asked them to share with their friends. I don't have that many friends, but my friends seem to. Since then, over 21 million have viewed my Facebook event page. We are north of half a million people who have said they will eat at Chick Fil-A on Wednesday and still adding more. Millions more are aware of it and might show up in one of the 1600 Chick Fil-A stores.

The attacks on Christians are disturbing, especially by "wanna be tyrants, like the mayors of Boston, Chicago, San Francisco, and Washington, D. C. who have vowed to either keep Chick Fil-A out of their communities or have openly said this business is not welcome because they (the mayors) don't agree with the personal views of the Chick Fil- A CEO. Not only is such a position by the mayors illegal and unconstitutional, but it's disturbing to think that anyone elected to public office would publicly exhibit their bigotry toward Christians, their hypocrisy in singling out only Christians, but not others including Muslims who have even stronger beliefs about same sex marriage, and their contempt of the law regarding censorship and free speech. 

On Wednesday, the lines might be long, but your presence and your purchase is a statement. America doesn't need more protesters-we'll leave that to the Occupy crowd. America needs more protectors of freedom, family, and faith. And in this case, chicken nuggets!


I was also more than happy to support Chik Fil A today and 3 times last weekend. Tried 2 different stores @ lunch but wait was too long. After work I waited in line for almost an hour for a sandwich and a diet coke. Loved it.

I do not support all the political views of Amazon or B&J's or Apple, but I'm using products & svcs from all 3 constantly.

Spin it any way you want but today was solid support for a business and it's owner to speak his beliefs and support for traditional marriage.


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Kido - 2012-08-01 5:30 PM

This has developed into an interesting study/questions for me.  I don't have an answer, but it leads to interesting questions.

To those who say "I don't care about their beliefs, they are allowed and I just care about the chicken".  Is that for ALL instances?  What if they supported flat out racism or sexism or classism?

Many people said in the other thread, "it's a personal choice".  I think it's more that than ever.  If it's anti gay, then is it "I don't care about their beliefs, give me more chicken!"

But if it's antisemetic or anti african american would it STILL be that same answer?

Maybe choosing to eat there or not indicates to what level of prejudice you are willing to accept or not (or should I say, willing to speak out against or not)?

That's just a question/thought.  NOT calling a single person out, so don't anyone feel that way.



I will simply point out that Cathy and CFA are not supporting racism or sexism or classism. They are supporting one of the teachings of their faith, and the LAW as it currently stands in the overwhelming majority of the US. Their views are not "anti-gay" and they do not discriminate against customers or employees based on their gender preference, so choosing to eat their or not is not indicative of some "level of prejudice".



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scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 3:45 PM
Kido - 2012-08-01 5:30 PM

This has developed into an interesting study/questions for me.  I don't have an answer, but it leads to interesting questions.

To those who say "I don't care about their beliefs, they are allowed and I just care about the chicken".  Is that for ALL instances?  What if they supported flat out racism or sexism or classism?

Many people said in the other thread, "it's a personal choice".  I think it's more that than ever.  If it's anti gay, then is it "I don't care about their beliefs, give me more chicken!"

But if it's antisemetic or anti african american would it STILL be that same answer?

Maybe choosing to eat there or not indicates to what level of prejudice you are willing to accept or not (or should I say, willing to speak out against or not)?

That's just a question/thought.  NOT calling a single person out, so don't anyone feel that way.

I will simply point out that Cathy and CFA are not supporting racism or sexism or classism. They are supporting one of the teachings of their faith, and the LAW as it currently stands in the overwhelming majority of the US. Their views are not "anti-gay" and they do not discriminate against customers or employees based on their gender preference, so choosing to eat their or not is not indicative of some "level of prejudice".

Not sure why you are pointing that out except that you may have felt it was a segway of some sort to preach your own arguement/agenda. 

I didn't accuse "cathy and CFA" did any of those things.  Never mentioned them.

I am asking IF a company, ANY company said they didn't aprove of someone/something for whatever reason,  is someones response of "they are entitiled to their beliefs" and patronize them is ALWAYS the answer?

I'm simply saying that it's obviously it's a personal thing.  If it strikes close to home to you or not plays a factor if you boycott/support/don't care in these matters.  I said it leads to in interesting debate and leads to interesting questions.  Or am I wrong?

What am I saying.  Of COURSE I'm wrong.  I can say the sky is blue, and someone would want to argue on the internet that it's not.

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I bet the Dixie Chicks feel a little slighted that they didn't receive the same outpouring of support for their "freedom of speech."



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scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 6:45 PM

Kido - 2012-08-01 5:30 PM

This has developed into an interesting study/questions for me.  I don't have an answer, but it leads to interesting questions.

To those who say "I don't care about their beliefs, they are allowed and I just care about the chicken".  Is that for ALL instances?  What if they supported flat out racism or sexism or classism?

Many people said in the other thread, "it's a personal choice".  I think it's more that than ever.  If it's anti gay, then is it "I don't care about their beliefs, give me more chicken!"

But if it's antisemetic or anti african american would it STILL be that same answer?

Maybe choosing to eat there or not indicates to what level of prejudice you are willing to accept or not (or should I say, willing to speak out against or not)?

That's just a question/thought.  NOT calling a single person out, so don't anyone feel that way.



I will simply point out that Cathy and CFA are not supporting racism or sexism or classism. They are supporting one of the teachings of their faith, and the LAW as it currently stands in the overwhelming majority of the US. Their views are not "anti-gay" and they do not discriminate against customers or employees based on their gender preference, so choosing to eat their or not is not indicative of some "level of prejudice".





Good points.

Obviously I wonder if Christians can be anything other than anti-gay when they truly live their beliefs (in the eyes of those with different lifestyle choices). I'm curious.

Oh, the comment in the other thread about Christians seeming to choose "convenient" beliefs...... hilarious.
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Oh boy... 

 

I'm punching out early on this one.

2012-08-01 6:44 PM
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I tried to go at lunch both locations had traffic backed up down the street and a line out the door in 100 degree heat.  At dinner the line outside was gone but the drive thru line was wrapped twice around the building.  I fully support CFA and will make a point to eat there every week untill this dies down I have close members of the family that are Gay but this idea to punish people for their belies is wrong.
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Our cfa ran out of food at 5:30. Biggest day ever in their history in Omaha.
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Kido - 2012-08-01 6:42 PM

Oh boy... 

 

I'm punching out early on this one.

Don't go, it was just starting to get good. :

In all seriousness, this is one of those impossible subjects to discuss. The different sides are so rooted in their beliefs that nobody is going to change anybodies mind.



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It was more the question/statement wondering if Christians can really be Christians and not be anti-gay...

That's a WHOLE new level of this I'm not even going to be a part of.  Talking about chicken sandwhiches is one thing.  Debating who is a "real" Christian?  Whoa.

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Kido - 2012-08-01 8:15 PM

It was more the question/statement wondering if Christians can really be Christians and not be anti-gay...

That's a WHOLE new level of this I'm not even going to be a part of.  Talking about chicken sandwhiches is one thing.  Debating who is a "real" Christian?  Whoa.

I have my popcorn.  (Okay... homemade kale chips but you get the idea.)

Andi



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Kido - 2012-08-01 8:15 PM

It was more the question/statement wondering if Christians can really be Christians and not be anti-gay...

That's a WHOLE new level of this I'm not even going to be a part of.  Talking about chicken sandwhiches is one thing.  Debating who is a "real" Christian?  Whoa.

I have my popcorn.  (Okay... homemade kale chips but you get the idea.)

Andi

Yeah. I am going to have to just stay out of this thread before I'm told how I don't exist since I'm a social liberal and a Christian pastor. And I'm not a young earth creationist either. 

It used to be only the tiny percentage of Christians who claimed to be 100% literalists who would declare that only if you subscribe to their use of scripture, were you a real Christian. Now, people outside the tent are trying to define it the same way. I don't know why. 

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scoobysdad - 2012-08-01 3:45 PM
Kido - 2012-08-01 5:30 PM

This has developed into an interesting study/questions for me.  I don't have an answer, but it leads to interesting questions.

To those who say "I don't care about their beliefs, they are allowed and I just care about the chicken".  Is that for ALL instances?  What if they supported flat out racism or sexism or classism?

Many people said in the other thread, "it's a personal choice".  I think it's more that than ever.  If it's anti gay, then is it "I don't care about their beliefs, give me more chicken!"

But if it's antisemetic or anti african american would it STILL be that same answer?

Maybe choosing to eat there or not indicates to what level of prejudice you are willing to accept or not (or should I say, willing to speak out against or not)?

That's just a question/thought.  NOT calling a single person out, so don't anyone feel that way.

I will simply point out that Cathy and CFA are not supporting racism or sexism or classism. They are supporting one of the teachings of their faith, and the LAW as it currently stands in the overwhelming majority of the US. Their views are not "anti-gay" and they do not discriminate against customers or employees based on their gender preference, so choosing to eat their or not is not indicative of some "level of prejudice".

Not sure why you are pointing that out except that you may have felt it was a segway of some sort to preach your own arguement/agenda. 

I didn't accuse "cathy and CFA" did any of those things.  Never mentioned them.

I am asking IF a company, ANY company said they didn't aprove of someone/something for whatever reason,  is someones response of "they are entitiled to their beliefs" and patronize them is ALWAYS the answer?

I'm simply saying that it's obviously it's a personal thing.  If it strikes close to home to you or not plays a factor if you boycott/support/don't care in these matters.  I said it leads to in interesting debate and leads to interesting questions.  Or am I wrong?

What am I saying.  Of COURSE I'm wrong.  I can say the sky is blue, and someone would want to argue on the internet that it's not.



I didn't accuse anyone of anything.

In the context of a thread about CFA, I simply made some comments in relation to that company and the current boycott and how you framed your question. I do think this is an important and central point though:

Opposing the legalization of gay marriage DOES NOT EQUAL being "anti-gay". They are separate positions-- one is born of tradition, faith and legality, the other is born of prejudice.

To answer your question, I tend to agree with you. It's a personal thing whether or not you choose to act on your beliefs... do you feel strongly enough about the issue that you are willing to withhold your business because of it? If so, GREAT. It's your choice. It's everyone's personal choice.

The problem, as I see it, is that this controversy has ceased to be about personal decisions and has instead become about very public and political ones. Now you have groups and celebrities and (most importantly) politicians attempting to stifle and restrict this company for supporting its legitimate and legal beliefs. If anything, I think this only polarizes both sides and chills debate.

As someone who sits pretty squarely on the fence on the whole gay marriage issue, I find myself taking sides with CFA not because I necessarily agree with their position, but because I feel they are getting shafted over exercising their constitutionally-guaranteed rights. As I see it, someone who is fighting for a new "right" (which at least half of Americans are a little dubious about) is trying to trump someone else's no-question-about--about-it First Amendment guaranteed right in the PUBLIC and LEGAL arena.

Does that make sense?

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