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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman So why do you do what you do? It's because eating its tied into the most powerful center in the brain, the pleasure center. Because if it wasn't, nobody would do it.... so is it so incredibly difficult to think just maybe people with self control issues have something wrong with their on/off buttons? That some how their signals are not working quite right? I understand what you're saying. But I would want to know what percentage of obese people have a physiological problem with their on/off switch. I assume there is a percentage of obese people that just like to eat and don't like to exercise - without a problem with their on/off switch. I think some people's reaction to this being classified as a disease focuses on the later. Edited by Goosedog 2013-06-19 2:13 PM |
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Extreme Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido I was going to touch on the alcoholism as a disease too, but it looks like it has been mentioned. I understand it's a very big issue for some people. Compulsion, addiction, obsession.. And even if it fits in the definition set forth by Webster for "disease", I will always have a hard time accepting that as a definition. Same goes with over eating. If I could have "will powered" my cancer away, I would have. I think you have a choice to drink or eat - even if it's a really HARD choice. Nobody has a choice to eat or drink. We all die if we don't.
In fact... I'll just stay on this one.... so for everyone that has a handle on eating (I have been skinny all my life) what tells you to stop eating? In fact, why do you eat in the first place? Dead honest I wish I did not have to... because then I have to spend all this time and effort on the crapper, and I would love to just not have to do that at all. Something "tells" you to eat. Something "tells" you to stop.. if not we would all explode like a Monty Python character. There are many many healthy active people... even right here on this forum... that eat something for "pleasure" alone. Not for sustenance or nutrition, but for mere pleasure alone... my drug of choice is Ben & Jerry's Cherry Garcia... what's your poison? So why do you do what you do? It's because eating its tied into the most powerful center in the brain, the pleasure center.Because if it wasn't, nobody would do it.... so is it so incredibly difficult to think just maybe people with self control issues have something wrong with their on/off buttons? That some how their signals are not working quite right? So you say these things, but lets apply your logic to something else. Sex is tied to the pleasure center right? so how could someone possibly help themselves from committing rape. (no, i'm not comparing being fat to rape) My point is only just because your body wants something, doesn't mean you have to give in to that desire. There isn't something wrong with their on/off buttons, their signals are working fine. Everyone's body wants calories and food. I'm in some state of hunger most of the day. I choose when and what I eat. I reach for a healthier food in moderate portions instead of a supersized big mac meal. Most animals spend their entire lives trying to get food or trying to have sex, humans aren't much different. What humans have however is self awareness and the ability to deny these impulses. So yes, I agree with Sous' statement, even if it does sound harsh. If you're obese it is because you have made stupid and/or lazy decisions for YEARS. It isn't the one chocolate bar I had today because I wanted a guilty pleasure. It is the accumulation of poor eating and lack of excercise over an entire lifetime. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido I was going to touch on the alcoholism as a disease too, but it looks like it has been mentioned. I understand it's a very big issue for some people. Compulsion, addiction, obsession.. And even if it fits in the definition set forth by Webster for "disease", I will always have a hard time accepting that as a definition. Same goes with over eating. If I could have "will powered" my cancer away, I would have. I think you have a choice to drink or eat - even if it's a really HARD choice. Nobody has a choice to eat or drink. We all die if we don't. Because water and well balanced meals was exactly what I was referring to when the topic was alcoholism and obesity when I said "eat and drink". Got me. You are 100% right. See, you have self control issues when it comes to snarky remarks. You should only post well balanced ones. Why don't you look at my post. People do not have the "choice" to eat, we all have to eat. People here are commenting on "well balanced" appropriate meals... yet everyone here... I feel confident saying that... eats for other reasons besides a nutritional well balanced meal. It seems some are make judgments on others for doing the same thing. So then what is the difference? Obviously when you get to 300 lbs, then that would be a sign... but those that got to 300 lbs clearly are not wired the same as those that do not, for what ever reason that may be... because evolutionarily... if that is a word... nobody is hard wired to be 400 lbs. |
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Extreme Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido I was going to touch on the alcoholism as a disease too, but it looks like it has been mentioned. I understand it's a very big issue for some people. Compulsion, addiction, obsession.. And even if it fits in the definition set forth by Webster for "disease", I will always have a hard time accepting that as a definition. Same goes with over eating. If I could have "will powered" my cancer away, I would have. I think you have a choice to drink or eat - even if it's a really HARD choice. Nobody has a choice to eat or drink. We all die if we don't. Because water and well balanced meals was exactly what I was referring to when the topic was alcoholism and obesity when I said "eat and drink". Got me. You are 100% right. See, you have self control issues when it comes to snarky remarks. You should only post well balanced ones. Why don't you look at my post. People do not have the "choice" to eat, we all have to eat. People here are commenting on "well balanced" appropriate meals... yet everyone here... I feel confident saying that... eats for other reasons besides a nutritional well balanced meal. It seems some are make judgments on others for doing the same thing. So then what is the difference? Obviously when you get to 300 lbs, then that would be a sign... but those that got to 300 lbs clearly are not wired the same as those that do not, for what ever reason that may be... because evolutionarily... if that is a word... nobody is hard wired to be 400 lbs. You clearly don't understand evolution. We are hard wired to be able to put on fat. For the first 99.9999% of human existence food was hard to come by so if you couldn't store up for the lean times you were toast. Now we are surrounded by food, and our bodies still scream EAT IT EAT IT to store up for the hard times. There isn't anything wrong with you, you are wired to be that way, everyone is. The difference is some people choose to make choices that they know are healthy, and some people don't. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() My college roommate and his sister were adopted. His parents were morbidly obese. He and his sister were very skinny and attractive. Through a quirk of fate, his parents had a child (biological, they didn't think that they could have children which was why they adopted) after they adopted. His younger brother was morbidly obese. All three kids were raised in the same house. There wasn't that much difference in age or environment. Yet, the adopted kids were skinny and the biologic child (of obese parents) was obese. It kind of argues for some component of genetics. I'm not arguing that his brother couldn't have put down the fork but I think that this goes deeper than just will power. No one wants to be obese. No one wants to be an alcoholic or drug addict. Some people just end up that way. I always found this interesting. I don't know what it says or what conclusions you can draw, but it certainly was interesting....... |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by dmiller5 So you say these things, but lets apply your logic to something else. Sex is tied to the pleasure center right? so how could someone possibly help themselves from committing rape. (no, i'm not comparing being fat to rape) My point is only just because your body wants something, doesn't mean you have to give in to that desire. There isn't something wrong with their on/off buttons, their signals are working fine. Everyone's body wants calories and food. I'm in some state of hunger most of the day. I choose when and what I eat. I reach for a healthier food in moderate portions instead of a supersized big mac meal. Most animals spend their entire lives trying to get food or trying to have sex, humans aren't much different. What humans have however is self awareness and the ability to deny these impulses. So yes, I agree with Sous' statement, even if it does sound harsh. If you're obese it is because you have made stupid and/or lazy decisions for YEARS. It isn't the one chocolate bar I had today because I wanted a guilty pleasure. It is the accumulation of poor eating and lack of excercise over an entire lifetime. Originally posted by Goosedog I understand what you're saying. But I would want to know what percentage of obese people have a physiological problem with their on/off switch. I assume there is a percentage of obese people that just like to eat and don't like to exercise - without a problem with their on/off switch. I think some people's reaction to this being classified as a disease focuses on the later. Yet, there are other sexual addiction and behaviors people do... perhaps rape alone is enough of a line not to cross... as in a violent crime on another, but yet they can't keep their hands off themselves for less that 30 times a day??? You do touch on the point though of self will. Yes, we have control over what we choose to do. Yet, many that have no issues what so ever deciding what is and isn't a good choice... judge the rest of the population on the same conditions... and it has been clearly documented with OCD and other impulse control disorders that there is a certain part of the population that have a very difficult time making proper choices. The difference is when is it just laziness and desire, over actual difficulties with doing somebody else takes for granted. I do not know that answer. I did not classify it as a disease. I have obesity in my family, and yes sometimes I think it is a laziness problem... but I also see the difficulty or the addiction part and food is just their drug of choice. It isn't black and white. Edited by powerman 2013-06-19 2:26 PM |
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Sensei ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido I was going to touch on the alcoholism as a disease too, but it looks like it has been mentioned. I understand it's a very big issue for some people. Compulsion, addiction, obsession.. And even if it fits in the definition set forth by Webster for "disease", I will always have a hard time accepting that as a definition. Same goes with over eating. If I could have "will powered" my cancer away, I would have. I think you have a choice to drink or eat - even if it's a really HARD choice. Nobody has a choice to eat or drink. We all die if we don't. Because water and well balanced meals was exactly what I was referring to when the topic was alcoholism and obesity when I said "eat and drink". Got me. You are 100% right. See, you have self control issues when it comes to snarky remarks. You should only post well balanced ones. Why don't you look at my post. People do not have the "choice" to eat, we all have to eat. People here are commenting on "well balanced" appropriate meals... yet everyone here... I feel confident saying that... eats for other reasons besides a nutritional well balanced meal. It seems some are make judgments on others for doing the same thing. So then what is the difference? Obviously when you get to 300 lbs, then that would be a sign... but those that got to 300 lbs clearly are not wired the same as those that do not, for what ever reason that may be... because evolutionarily... if that is a word... nobody is hard wired to be 400 lbs. For the record, I responded to your post prior to your edit. When all it simply said was what I quoted. Maybe it was a bit snarky, but I was a bit surprised that when I mentioned drinking and eating when alcohol and obesity was the topic you didn't seem to understand I was referring to alchohol and over eating. Neither of which you would die if you didn't partake. I assumed you DID know what I meant, and purely wanted to goad me into some argument over semantics. Sorry I made that assumption. So to set the record straight, I think you have the choice to drink ALCOHOL and/or OVER eat, even if it's a hard choice. Hopefully that clears things up. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Sous This is just another case of this county becoming more and more of a "woe is me" state. Listen up buttercup, you're fat because you are a lazy POS who lacks basic self control... you are not diseased. It sickens me that, as a society, we constantly try find a reason why "its not my fault" instead of just taking responsibility for our own actions and living with the consequences. Thanks for letting me know that my mother is a POS. I'm still scratching my head why this post and poster are still here.
There are a whole myriad of reasons for obesity, lack of self control being just one of them. I always love it when police officers share their contempt for the people they are supposed to be serving and who pay their pay check. You are doing a grate job. But don't mind me... I'm just another POS with self control problems of my own... so I realize my opinion does not matter to you. Clearly you didn't see my other post, but that is neither here nor there... fact is very simple and indisputable. Weight gain is linked to the simple fact of calories in and calories out. If you have too little self control on the "in" side and are too lazy to boost the "out" side then you get fat. Simple. I will again state that there are certain conditions, medications, etc. that can affect the balance and make things much more difficult but in the end it still comes down to calories in and calories out. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by BrianRunsPhilly Originally posted by noelle1230 Originally posted by Sous This is just another case of this county becoming more and more of a "woe is me" state. Listen up buttercup, you're fat because you are a lazy POS who lacks basic self control... you are not diseased. It sickens me that, as a society, we constantly try find a reason why "its not my fault" instead of just taking responsibility for our own actions and living with the consequences. Wow, that sentiment sounds so harsh. Yet, I don't find myself disagreeing with it. I'm curious to hear everyone else's thoughts on this. No self control + poor dietary choices = obesity. I take exception to 'no self control' sterotype. What if an individual choses to be fat or what if they just like to eat and don't really give damn if they get fat? IOW, they can control their eating but chose not to. ETA: I completed 2 IMs at 250+ lbs training 12 - 15 hrs/week for months. According to the books, I was obese. Guess I just had no self control. Edited by Rogillio 2013-06-19 2:40 PM |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by dmiller5 You clearly don't understand evolution. We are hard wired to be able to put on fat. For the first 99.9999% of human existence food was hard to come by so if you couldn't store up for the lean times you were toast. Now we are surrounded by food, and our bodies still scream EAT IT EAT IT to store up for the hard times. There isn't anything wrong with you, you are wired to be that way, everyone is. The difference is some people choose to make choices that they know are healthy, and some people don't. We all have regulation mechanisms. Yes, we all had the ability to store fat. Being 400 lbs is not an evolutionary good place to be. Being fat and lazy was not a good thing... those people died and got ate a long time ago. There is a whole host of brain chemistry that happens when we do/become things.When normal people feel like crap, they stop doing what makes them feel like crap. I'm sure there is portion that "choose" to do it because they are lazy or just plain don't care... but others are not that simple. One study on alcoholism actually found alcoholics process it differently... some is turned into a very powerful opiate instead of serotonin. Normal people process some into serotonin... So when a normal person drinks too much, they actually feel like crap and stop doing it, alcoholics actually feel better and keep doing it. Just one small example. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Sous Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Sous This is just another case of this county becoming more and more of a "woe is me" state. Listen up buttercup, you're fat because you are a lazy POS who lacks basic self control... you are not diseased. It sickens me that, as a society, we constantly try find a reason why "its not my fault" instead of just taking responsibility for our own actions and living with the consequences. Thanks for letting me know that my mother is a POS. I'm still scratching my head why this post and poster are still here.
There are a whole myriad of reasons for obesity, lack of self control being just one of them. I always love it when police officers share their contempt for the people they are supposed to be serving and who pay their pay check. You are doing a grate job. But don't mind me... I'm just another POS with self control problems of my own... so I realize my opinion does not matter to you. Clearly you didn't see my other post, but that is neither here nor there... fact is very simple and indisputable. Weight gain is linked to the simple fact of calories in and calories out. If you have too little self control on the "in" side and are too lazy to boost the "out" side then you get fat. Simple. I will again state that there are certain conditions, medications, etc. that can affect the balance and make things much more difficult but in the end it still comes down to calories in and calories out. No you stated your position very clearly with no sugar coating... don't bother back peddling now. |
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Sensei ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by dmiller5 So you say these things, but lets apply your logic to something else. Sex is tied to the pleasure center right? so how could someone possibly help themselves from committing rape. (no, i'm not comparing being fat to rape) My point is only just because your body wants something, doesn't mean you have to give in to that desire. There isn't something wrong with their on/off buttons, their signals are working fine. Everyone's body wants calories and food. I'm in some state of hunger most of the day. I choose when and what I eat. I reach for a healthier food in moderate portions instead of a supersized big mac meal. Most animals spend their entire lives trying to get food or trying to have sex, humans aren't much different. What humans have however is self awareness and the ability to deny these impulses. So yes, I agree with Sous' statement, even if it does sound harsh. If you're obese it is because you have made stupid and/or lazy decisions for YEARS. It isn't the one chocolate bar I had today because I wanted a guilty pleasure. It is the accumulation of poor eating and lack of excercise over an entire lifetime. Though I understand your point. I would be very hesitant to bring "rape" into the conversation. It's also probably suited for it's own thread. Rape is generally accepted to be power/violence thing, not a sexual thing. People generally don't commit that crime because the pleasure of sex drives them, but the power and injury it does to someone. Now if you said people get on with their daily lives (go to work, take care of the house) instead of screwing all day, it may be a better analogy. However, there are addicts that HAVE lost jobs and lost everything to screw, or gamble, or a multitude of other addictions. Diseases or addictions - all of this is serious stuff. I'm only trying to discuss the word "disease". I seriously don't care what people call it. It's a serious issue whatever the name. I personally think addiction is just as acceptable a word. It can be a physical, mental or emotional addiction. I guess I personally don't like the word "disease" for it. Not to say that addiction or disease is any way better or worse than each other. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Kido I was going to touch on the alcoholism as a disease too, but it looks like it has been mentioned. I understand it's a very big issue for some people. Compulsion, addiction, obsession.. And even if it fits in the definition set forth by Webster for "disease", I will always have a hard time accepting that as a definition. Same goes with over eating. If I could have "will powered" my cancer away, I would have. I think you have a choice to drink or eat - even if it's a really HARD choice. Nobody has a choice to eat or drink. We all die if we don't. Because water and well balanced meals was exactly what I was referring to when the topic was alcoholism and obesity when I said "eat and drink". Got me. You are 100% right. See, you have self control issues when it comes to snarky remarks. You should only post well balanced ones. Why don't you look at my post. People do not have the "choice" to eat, we all have to eat. People here are commenting on "well balanced" appropriate meals... yet everyone here... I feel confident saying that... eats for other reasons besides a nutritional well balanced meal. It seems some are make judgments on others for doing the same thing. So then what is the difference? Obviously when you get to 300 lbs, then that would be a sign... but those that got to 300 lbs clearly are not wired the same as those that do not, for what ever reason that may be... because evolutionarily... if that is a word... nobody is hard wired to be 400 lbs. For the record, I responded to your post prior to your edit. When all it simply said was what I quoted. Maybe it was a bit snarky, but I was a bit surprised that when I mentioned drinking and eating when alcohol and obesity was the topic you didn't seem to understand I was referring to alchohol and over eating. Neither of which you would die if you didn't partake. I assumed you DID know what I meant, and purely wanted to goad me into some argument over semantics. Sorry I made that assumption. So to set the record straight, I think you have the choice to drink ALCOHOL and/or OVER eat, even if it's a hard choice. Hopefully that clears things up. That makes sense. Sorry. I did add onto the post. And I hear that from obese too... they don't have a choice to stop eating like an alcoholic has with drinking alcohol. I'm torn on that one. I see the "thinking" as the same... yet 3 times a day they do have to engage in their "addiction". I do not know how to resolve that one. Edited by powerman 2013-06-19 2:40 PM |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Sous Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Sous This is just another case of this county becoming more and more of a "woe is me" state. Listen up buttercup, you're fat because you are a lazy POS who lacks basic self control... you are not diseased. It sickens me that, as a society, we constantly try find a reason why "its not my fault" instead of just taking responsibility for our own actions and living with the consequences. Thanks for letting me know that my mother is a POS. I'm still scratching my head why this post and poster are still here.
There are a whole myriad of reasons for obesity, lack of self control being just one of them. I always love it when police officers share their contempt for the people they are supposed to be serving and who pay their pay check. You are doing a grate job. But don't mind me... I'm just another POS with self control problems of my own... so I realize my opinion does not matter to you. Clearly you didn't see my other post, but that is neither here nor there... fact is very simple and indisputable. Weight gain is linked to the simple fact of calories in and calories out. If you have too little self control on the "in" side and are too lazy to boost the "out" side then you get fat. Simple. I will again state that there are certain conditions, medications, etc. that can affect the balance and make things much more difficult but in the end it still comes down to calories in and calories out. No you stated your position very clearly with no sugar coating... don't bother back peddling now. Pretty sure I'm not back peddling at all. Sometimes the facts have to stated plainly and simply... that is what's wrong with this county we turn a blind eye, we look for excuses, we try to blame everyone and everything except ourselves... yet when someone points out the glaring facts that aren't so pretty they are the bad guy because they didn't sugar coat it. Get over it. |
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Extreme Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by dmiller5 So you say these things, but lets apply your logic to something else. Sex is tied to the pleasure center right? so how could someone possibly help themselves from committing rape. (no, i'm not comparing being fat to rape) My point is only just because your body wants something, doesn't mean you have to give in to that desire. There isn't something wrong with their on/off buttons, their signals are working fine. Everyone's body wants calories and food. I'm in some state of hunger most of the day. I choose when and what I eat. I reach for a healthier food in moderate portions instead of a supersized big mac meal. Most animals spend their entire lives trying to get food or trying to have sex, humans aren't much different. What humans have however is self awareness and the ability to deny these impulses. So yes, I agree with Sous' statement, even if it does sound harsh. If you're obese it is because you have made stupid and/or lazy decisions for YEARS. It isn't the one chocolate bar I had today because I wanted a guilty pleasure. It is the accumulation of poor eating and lack of excercise over an entire lifetime. Though I understand your point. I would be very hesitant to bring "rape" into the conversation. It's also probably suited for it's own thread. Rape is generally accepted to be power/violence thing, not a sexual thing. People generally don't commit that crime because the pleasure of sex drives them, but the power and injury it does to someone. Now if you said people get on with their daily lives (go to work, take care of the house) instead of screwing all day, it may be a better analogy. However, there are addicts that HAVE lost jobs and lost everything to screw, or gamble, or a multitude of other addictions. Diseases or addictions - all of this is serious stuff. I'm only trying to discuss the word "disease". I seriously don't care what people call it. It's a serious issue whatever the name. I personally think addiction is just as acceptable a word. It can be a physical, mental or emotional addiction. I guess I personally don't like the word "disease" for it. Not to say that addiction or disease is any way better or worse than each other. Yes the rape analogy may have been a little off, I like yours about screwing all day a bit better. And yes you may have an addiction, but I still (for better or for worse) think that people who cannot quit smoking for example are basically being lazy. Yes it is hard, yes you have an addiction, but once you know it is bad for you, and the it could kill you for goodness sake, I cannot understand how you can just continue to do it. It is a decision to smoke a cigarrette, just as it is a decision to have an unhealthy lifestyle. |
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Sensei ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by dmiller5 You clearly don't understand evolution. We are hard wired to be able to put on fat. For the first 99.9999% of human existence food was hard to come by so if you couldn't store up for the lean times you were toast. Now we are surrounded by food, and our bodies still scream EAT IT EAT IT to store up for the hard times. There isn't anything wrong with you, you are wired to be that way, everyone is. The difference is some people choose to make choices that they know are healthy, and some people don't. We all have regulation mechanisms. Yes, we all had the ability to store fat. Being 400 lbs is not an evolutionary good place to be. Being fat and lazy was not a good thing... those people died and got ate a long time ago. There is a whole host of brain chemistry that happens when we do/become things.When normal people feel like crap, they stop doing what makes them feel like crap. I'm sure there is portion that "choose" to do it because they are lazy or just plain don't care... but others are not that simple. One study on alcoholism actually found alcoholics process it differently... some is turned into a very powerful opiate instead of serotonin. Normal people process some into serotonin... So when a normal person drinks too much, they actually feel like crap and stop doing it, alcoholics actually feel better and keep doing it. Just one small example. I understand there are some serious physical drives for some people. Even genetically different as you mentioned. The choice may be tougher with food since you have to eat SOMETHING to survive, so it's in you house. But alcochol? I understand it can be "impossible" to stop if it's in your hand or resist if you have a bottle in your house. But don't you have a choice when you are at the store to not buy it? Or not go to the bar? I'm a junk food nut. Love it. But knowing that, I simply don't put my self in the position to have it. I have always felt about addictions is that it's easier to control the positions you put yourself in, rather than control the addiction itself. If I needed to cheat on my wife, it's easier to just not be alone with another woman, that be alone with one and then say no to sex. Drinking? It's easier to not put myself in a bar, or buy it, than go to a bar and try not drink. Junk food? It's easier not to buy it, than buy it, have it in you house, and not eat it. Gambling? It's easier to not go to the casino than go and try to refrain from betting. If I loved to argue? Just don't go into CoJ, rather than go, then try to refrain fom arguing.
I think controlling the positions you put yourself in is far easier than putting yourself into the position to feed the addiction then try to refuse it. |
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![]() | ![]() Originally posted by powerman And I hear that from obese too... they don't have a choice to stop eating like an alcoholic has with drinking alcohol. I'm torn on that one. I see the "thinking" as the same... yet 3 times a day they do have to engage in their "addiction". I do not know how to resolve that one. This is a really interesting point. |
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Extreme Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by lisac957 Originally posted by powerman And I hear that from obese too... they don't have a choice to stop eating like an alcoholic has with drinking alcohol. I'm torn on that one. I see the "thinking" as the same... yet 3 times a day they do have to engage in their "addiction". I do not know how to resolve that one. This is a really interesting point. Never thought of it from that angle. At the same time, the alcoholic is probably bombarded all day with budweisser advertisements. Refreshments at weddings and parties, driving by his old favorite bar on the way to work. The alcoholic doesn't have it that easy either. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by lisac957 Originally posted by powerman And I hear that from obese too... they don't have a choice to stop eating like an alcoholic has with drinking alcohol. I'm torn on that one. I see the "thinking" as the same... yet 3 times a day they do have to engage in their "addiction". I do not know how to resolve that one. This is a really interesting point. That is the main argument I hear from people who are overweight and see it as an addiction. You can't avoid food. But, it still comes down to habits. Having been a binge eater at one point in my life I can tell you that the only way out of it was through a massive amount of hard work on myself and reprogramming my habits. It was not easy but I continue to avoid binging (except maybe once a year on Christmas and I don't even know if I would consider that binging) through constant discipline and perseverance. There was no magic cure. Blood, sweat and tears got me back to being a healthy and moderate eater. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Sous Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Sous Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by Sous This is just another case of this county becoming more and more of a "woe is me" state. Listen up buttercup, you're fat because you are a lazy POS who lacks basic self control... you are not diseased. It sickens me that, as a society, we constantly try find a reason why "its not my fault" instead of just taking responsibility for our own actions and living with the consequences. Thanks for letting me know that my mother is a POS. I'm still scratching my head why this post and poster are still here.
There are a whole myriad of reasons for obesity, lack of self control being just one of them. I always love it when police officers share their contempt for the people they are supposed to be serving and who pay their pay check. You are doing a grate job. But don't mind me... I'm just another POS with self control problems of my own... so I realize my opinion does not matter to you. Clearly you didn't see my other post, but that is neither here nor there... fact is very simple and indisputable. Weight gain is linked to the simple fact of calories in and calories out. If you have too little self control on the "in" side and are too lazy to boost the "out" side then you get fat. Simple. I will again state that there are certain conditions, medications, etc. that can affect the balance and make things much more difficult but in the end it still comes down to calories in and calories out. No you stated your position very clearly with no sugar coating... don't bother back peddling now. Pretty sure I'm not back peddling at all. Sometimes the facts have to stated plainly and simply... that is what's wrong with this county we turn a blind eye, we look for excuses, we try to blame everyone and everything except ourselves... yet when someone points out the glaring facts that aren't so pretty they are the bad guy because they didn't sugar coat it. Get over it. No, you are the bad guy for calling people a "piece of #^^$". People I love and care about. People right here on this forum that have the same problem. What is so hard to grasp about that? You are so busy trying to argue a political/PC philosophy into a medical determination that you can't even see what I took issue with. And I have no problem being PC, and have a whole host of stuff I would like to say... but I CHOOSE to follow the rules of this site. See... impulse control. Edited by powerman 2013-06-19 2:59 PM |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by wannabefaster My college roommate and his sister were adopted. His parents were morbidly obese. He and his sister were very skinny and attractive. Through a quirk of fate, his parents had a child (biological, they didn't think that they could have children which was why they adopted) after they adopted. His younger brother was morbidly obese. All three kids were raised in the same house. There wasn't that much difference in age or environment. Yet, the adopted kids were skinny and the biologic child (of obese parents) was obese. It kind of argues for some component of genetics. I'm not arguing that his brother couldn't have put down the fork but I think that this goes deeper than just will power. No one wants to be obese. No one wants to be an alcoholic or drug addict. Some people just end up that way. I always found this interesting. I don't know what it says or what conclusions you can draw, but it certainly was interesting....... Interesting indeed. I wonder if this is the norm or a one-off. Hum. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by powerman Originally posted by dmiller5 You clearly don't understand evolution. We are hard wired to be able to put on fat. For the first 99.9999% of human existence food was hard to come by so if you couldn't store up for the lean times you were toast. Now we are surrounded by food, and our bodies still scream EAT IT EAT IT to store up for the hard times. There isn't anything wrong with you, you are wired to be that way, everyone is. The difference is some people choose to make choices that they know are healthy, and some people don't. We all have regulation mechanisms. Yes, we all had the ability to store fat. Being 400 lbs is not an evolutionary good place to be. Being fat and lazy was not a good thing... those people died and got ate a long time ago. There is a whole host of brain chemistry that happens when we do/become things.When normal people feel like crap, they stop doing what makes them feel like crap. I'm sure there is portion that "choose" to do it because they are lazy or just plain don't care... but others are not that simple. One study on alcoholism actually found alcoholics process it differently... some is turned into a very powerful opiate instead of serotonin. Normal people process some into serotonin... So when a normal person drinks too much, they actually feel like crap and stop doing it, alcoholics actually feel better and keep doing it. Just one small example. I understand there are some serious physical drives for some people. Even genetically different as you mentioned. The choice may be tougher with food since you have to eat SOMETHING to survive, so it's in you house. But alcochol? I understand it can be "impossible" to stop if it's in your hand or resist if you have a bottle in your house. But don't you have a choice when you are at the store to not buy it? Or not go to the bar? I'm a junk food nut. Love it. But knowing that, I simply don't put my self in the position to have it. I have always felt about addictions is that it's easier to control the positions you put yourself in, rather than control the addiction itself. If I needed to cheat on my wife, it's easier to just not be alone with another woman, that be alone with one and then say no to sex. Drinking? It's easier to not put myself in a bar, or buy it, than go to a bar and try not drink. Junk food? It's easier not to buy it, than buy it, have it in you house, and not eat it. Gambling? It's easier to not go to the casino than go and try to refrain from betting. If I loved to argue? Just don't go into CoJ, rather than go, then try to refrain fom arguing.
I think controlling the positions you put yourself in is far easier than putting yourself into the position to feed the addiction then try to refuse it. I hear ya on the not putting yourself in the position. There are foods I would LOVE to buy that the store. I look at them, drool a little, look at the calorie count and move on. On occasion I buy them as a treat. But it is rare I get to do that. I tell you what, I can put a hurting on a bag of those white powdered sugar covered mini donuts. I can eat quite a few and not even fill full. I call them "crack donuts". They are like crack to me. So I buy them maybe once a year. |
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Sensei ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by lisac957 Originally posted by powerman And I hear that from obese too... they don't have a choice to stop eating like an alcoholic has with drinking alcohol. I'm torn on that one. I see the "thinking" as the same... yet 3 times a day they do have to engage in their "addiction". I do not know how to resolve that one. This is a really interesting point. It's a very valid point. You can't avoid food. However, if it was simply filling your belly, it would be VERY difficult to get obese on salads/veggies/fruit. You simply can't eat enough. There is also the choice you have on what you eat. It's a combination of over eating and high calorie foods and drinks. A lot has to go back the pleasure center of the brain for all that. As I mentioned above. Since it's hard to control "eating", especially when you HAVE to do it 3 or more times a day, you can control the position you put yourself in by not buying soda or beer or pizza or going to fast food places. It is FAR easier for me to not walk into a Burger King than to go into one and force myself into getting a salad when all that good stuff is right there in front of me. Instead of trying to resist my temptations, I refuse to put myself into a position to be tempted. Maybe it's a backwards fix, but it's far easier for me. I would think it IMPOSSIBLE to enjoy a salad over a slice of pizza, no way, no how - so I just don't buy frozen pizzas and feel forced to make the choice. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Kido I understand there are some serious physical drives for some people. Even genetically different as you mentioned. The choice may be tougher with food since you have to eat SOMETHING to survive, so it's in you house. But alcochol? I understand it can be "impossible" to stop if it's in your hand or resist if you have a bottle in your house. But don't you have a choice when you are at the store to not buy it? Or not go to the bar? I'm a junk food nut. Love it. But knowing that, I simply don't put my self in the position to have it. I have always felt about addictions is that it's easier to control the positions you put yourself in, rather than control the addiction itself. If I needed to cheat on my wife, it's easier to just not be alone with another woman, that be alone with one and then say no to sex. Drinking? It's easier to not put myself in a bar, or buy it, than go to a bar and try not drink. Yes Junk food? It's easier not to buy it, than buy it, have it in you house, and not eat it. You still have to go to the store and buy food. You still have to eat. Gambling? It's easier to not go to the casino than go and try to refrain from betting. Yes If I loved to argue? Just don't go into CoJ, rather than go, then try to refrain fom arguing. Yes
I think controlling the positions you put yourself in is far easier than putting yourself into the position to feed the addiction then try to refuse it. Obviously people stop smoking, drinking, gambling, and over eating. It is very hard. If it wasn't, it would not be a problem. there is a range of reasons, physical, mental, emotional problems, and perhaps sloth and laziness. People are not all the same, Everything does not work for everyone. Right now, sitting here recovering, I have gained 15 pounds. I know that I have also lost muscle.. so that is a gain of 20-25 pounds of fat. Yet I can't seem to turn it around.I know as soon as I start training I will, but I can't stop getting B&J. I know better, yet I do other wise. And yes, my main control is not buying. If I don't buy, I can't eat it. I also know I am doing it for "comfort". So I know all these things but am unable or unwilling to stop... yet it also isn't a big deal because I do know it is temporary. Just like putting on 10 pounds over the Winter. So right "now", it just isn't a big enough deal to do anything about.... which is the trap many fail to recognize with these sorts of problems. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Kido Originally posted by lisac957 Originally posted by powerman And I hear that from obese too... they don't have a choice to stop eating like an alcoholic has with drinking alcohol. I'm torn on that one. I see the "thinking" as the same... yet 3 times a day they do have to engage in their "addiction". I do not know how to resolve that one. This is a really interesting point. It's a very valid point. You can't avoid food. However, if it was simply filling your belly, it would be VERY difficult to get obese on salads/veggies/fruit. You simply can't eat enough. There is also the choice you have on what you eat. It's a combination of over eating and high calorie foods and drinks. A lot has to go back the pleasure center of the brain for all that. As I mentioned above. Since it's hard to control "eating", especially when you HAVE to do it 3 or more times a day, you can control the position you put yourself in by not buying soda or beer or pizza or going to fast food places. It is FAR easier for me to not walk into a Burger King than to go into one and force myself into getting a salad when all that good stuff is right there in front of me. Instead of trying to resist my temptations, I refuse to put myself into a position to be tempted. Maybe it's a backwards fix, but it's far easier for me. I would think it IMPOSSIBLE to enjoy a salad over a slice of pizza, no way, no how - so I just don't buy frozen pizzas and feel forced to make the choice. A bag of carrots will never do for me what a pint of Cherry Garcia can |
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