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mr2tony - 2012-02-03 2:16 PM Chrissie Wellington sent me a book today.

When you start talking to Pippa let me know and I'll be on a plane.



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Soooo Air Force lives in the same building as Speedo. This should be a great night
3 hours till pre game!
  
2012-02-03 4:43 PM
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NRG42 - 2012-02-03 3:40 PM
thebigb - 2012-02-03 4:25 PM
NRG42 - 2012-02-03 3:15 PM
Kido - 2012-02-03 3:50 PM
NRG42 - 2012-02-03 1:39 PM
Big Appa - 2012-02-03 3:22 PM
Kido - 2012-02-03 1:13 PM
lisac957 - 2012-02-03 1:02 PM
NRG42 - 2012-02-03 2:55 PM
lisac957 - 2012-02-03 2:35 PM

Speaking of suits... yesterday I was walking behind a guy a work and it appeared he had grabbed pants and jacket from two different suits??? It wasn't like BLACK and GRAY - that could possibly work. It was GRAY and BROWN. 

Is this a new trend I'm not aware of, or did this guy just get dressed in the dark?
  

Any charting or reports on the Doctor? 

Doc date last night was very MEH. A little awkward, not much conversation. I get that he is exhausted from saving lives and started a difficult rotation this week and has to give a lecture this weekend - yeahyeahyeah! But it was weird. Got a kiss good night (?) and went back into the bar for more drinks alone. Yup. I'm that girl.

Plans for two separate outings with two different guys this weekend. Unfortunately for me, I am firmly in the friend zone with both of them. I think. 

Just me, I show enthusiam with a girl I'm just starting to date, no matter how tired I am.  I assure them that I'm not myself and quicklly make plans to make it up to them.  Just me.

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I an very respectful and honest.....but I tend to put very little effort forth until I have decided they are worth it and earn it. 

Just a quick question.  If you don't put an effort till they earn it.  What if they do the same thing?  And feel you are not worth putting in the effort till you earn it? 

Then you both dont' try and you could miss out on a great thing.

But sometimes you just "know" if someone is worth it or not.  Or into you or not.

Better way of putting it:

Of course I have to put effort, shower, usually shave (just in case), get cute, lotion up (again just in case), pluck, smell good, put on cute panties and bra(again just in case) and have good talk, fun and flirting.....but I dont go out of my way to fitting them into MY schedule, jump at the chance to see them, cook a nice dinner/breakfast for them, or do special little things to show I care until I know feeling from both parties are both there. 

Does that make sense?

Remember I am new at singlism too....I will learn for mistakes as I go.

 

That's the catch 22 of it all.  If you do those things then 50% of the time they think you're coming on too strong or are too needy.  If you don't do those things then 50% of the time they think you aren't interested.  

For you, I whip in a pair of pig tails, short-shorts, and sports bra and say "let's get super sweaty together".  So you are right it is circumstantial.

I like that idea!

 

My day took a turn for major crappy.  yay!

2012-02-03 4:44 PM
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Kido - 2012-02-03 3:43 PM
thebigb - 2012-02-03 2:25 PM
NRG42 - 2012-02-03 3:15 PM
Kido - 2012-02-03 3:50 PM
NRG42 - 2012-02-03 1:39 PM
Big Appa - 2012-02-03 3:22 PM
Kido - 2012-02-03 1:13 PM
lisac957 - 2012-02-03 1:02 PM
NRG42 - 2012-02-03 2:55 PM
lisac957 - 2012-02-03 2:35 PM

Speaking of suits... yesterday I was walking behind a guy a work and it appeared he had grabbed pants and jacket from two different suits??? It wasn't like BLACK and GRAY - that could possibly work. It was GRAY and BROWN. 

Is this a new trend I'm not aware of, or did this guy just get dressed in the dark?
  

Any charting or reports on the Doctor? 

Doc date last night was very MEH. A little awkward, not much conversation. I get that he is exhausted from saving lives and started a difficult rotation this week and has to give a lecture this weekend - yeahyeahyeah! But it was weird. Got a kiss good night (?) and went back into the bar for more drinks alone. Yup. I'm that girl.

Plans for two separate outings with two different guys this weekend. Unfortunately for me, I am firmly in the friend zone with both of them. I think. 

Just me, I show enthusiam with a girl I'm just starting to date, no matter how tired I am.  I assure them that I'm not myself and quicklly make plans to make it up to them.  Just me.

x2

I an very respectful and honest.....but I tend to put very little effort forth until I have decided they are worth it and earn it. 

Just a quick question.  If you don't put an effort till they earn it.  What if they do the same thing?  And feel you are not worth putting in the effort till you earn it? 

Then you both dont' try and you could miss out on a great thing.

But sometimes you just "know" if someone is worth it or not.  Or into you or not.

Better way of putting it:

Of course I have to put effort, shower, usually shave (just in case), get cute, lotion up (again just in case), pluck, smell good, put on cute panties and bra(again just in case) and have good talk, fun and flirting.....but I dont go out of my way to fitting them into MY schedule, jump at the chance to see them, cook a nice dinner/breakfast for them, or do special little things to show I care until I know feeling from both parties are both there. 

Does that make sense?

Remember I am new at singlism too....I will learn for mistakes as I go.

 

That's the catch 22 of it all.  If you do those things then 50% of the time they think you're coming on too strong or are too needy.  If you don't do those things then 50% of the time they think you aren't interested.  

That's why you do what you normally do and stay true to yourself and screw what they think.  If that works for them as well, then it's a start at a good fit.

If they don't like the true you, was it a good fit anyway?  And if you have to adjust to be thought of as not coming on strong enough, or too strong, is that good?  Then you have to keep up that role.

Oh I'm in total agreement.  If you don't like me, get the hell off the bus and find another to ride

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thebigb - 2012-02-03 4:44 PM 

Oh I'm in total agreement.  If you don't like me, get the hell off the bus and find another to ride

I'm stealing this line. Love it.

2012-02-03 4:49 PM
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thebigb - 2012-02-03 4:44 PM 

Oh I'm in total agreement.  If you don't like me, get the hell off the bus and find another to ride

I'm stealing this line. Love it.

Thank goodness there are lots of buses to ride in Chicago.



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lisac957 - 2012-02-03 4:43 PM Soooo Air Force lives in the same building as Speedo. This should be a great night
3 hours till pre game!
  

three's are good!

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Big Appa - 2012-02-03 4:43 PM

mr2tony - 2012-02-03 2:16 PM Chrissie Wellington sent me a book today.

When you start talking to Pippa let me know and I'll be on a plane.



She really did. See my Facebook.
2012-02-03 5:01 PM
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mr2tony - 2012-02-03 2:54 PM
Big Appa - 2012-02-03 4:43 PM

mr2tony - 2012-02-03 2:16 PM Chrissie Wellington sent me a book today.

When you start talking to Pippa let me know and I'll be on a plane.

She really did. See my Facebook.

Is she trying to convince you to move back to America?  She spends more time here than you do.

2012-02-03 5:11 PM
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NRG42 - 2012-02-03 3:49 PM
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thebigb - 2012-02-03 4:44 PM 

Oh I'm in total agreement.  If you don't like me, get the hell off the bus and find another to ride

I'm stealing this line. Love it.

Thank goodness there are lots of buses to ride in Chicago.

haha nice!

2012-02-03 5:15 PM
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NRG42 - 2012-02-03 4:53 PM

lisac957 - 2012-02-03 4:43 PM Soooo Air Force lives in the same building as Speedo. This should be a great night
3 hours till pre game!
  

three's are good!

As a Tri Delta I whole heartedly agree... THREE is definitely a lucky number in many ways

 



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Someday maybe?
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lisac957 - 2012-02-03 4:43 PM Soooo Air Force lives in the same building as Speedo. This should be a great night
3 hours till pre game!
  

three's are good!

As a Tri Delta I whole heartedly agree... THREE is definitely a lucky number in many ways

 

It's definitely not a crowd.

 

So I was looking at some old pics of the new girl and it's funny how similar she looks to my last girlfriend.  I mean she's a heck of a lot taller, and sounds a lot different, and overall is a million times more stable in the head but in some shots of her face they could be sisters.  



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mr2tony - 2012-02-03 2:54 PM
Big Appa - 2012-02-03 4:43 PM

mr2tony - 2012-02-03 2:16 PM Chrissie Wellington sent me a book today.

When you start talking to Pippa let me know and I'll be on a plane.

She really did. See my Facebook.

Is she trying to convince you to move back to America?  She spends more time here than you do.



True. Not for long though! Ill be back stateside soon.
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I have a new crush. Florence Welsh. Just something about her.
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Kido - 2012-02-03 5:47 PM

I have a new crush. Florence Welsh. Just something about her.


The mom from the Brady Bunch?


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Kido - 2012-02-03 4:47 PM I have a new crush. Florence Welsh. Just something about her.

Do you mean Florence Welch from Florence + the Machine?  She's one of those that can look wicked hot and then the next day have you saying "WTF was I thinking?"

 

Weekend "HI TAN"!  I'm off to get drunk and watch golf. 



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mr2tony - 2012-02-04 6:55 AM

Kido - 2012-02-03 5:47 PM

I have a new crush. Florence Welsh. Just something about her.


The mom from the Brady Bunch?


Mr. Brady's out of the closet. She's totally horned up. I'd hit that! Hazel can watch!
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mr2tony - 2012-02-04 3:55 AM
Kido - 2012-02-03 5:47 PM I have a new crush. Florence Welsh. Just something about her.
The mom from the Brady Bunch?

I think that was Florence Henderson.  Never really had a thing for her BUT, I was always jealous of Sam the butcher.  He was hit'n that fine piece or arse that was Alice every night.  Lucky guy.

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mr2tony - 2012-02-04 3:55 AM
Kido - 2012-02-03 5:47 PM I have a new crush. Florence Welsh. Just something about her.
The mom from the Brady Bunch?

I think that was Florence Henderson.  Never really had a thing for her BUT, I was always jealous of Sam the butcher.  He was hit'n that fine piece or arse that was Alice every night.  Lucky guy.



I'm thinking Jan was a freak in the sack. Middle daughter gets no attention. You know she'd work for it in bed!
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So, apparently, Britain has no idea what the white flakes which fall from the clouds are. Flights are all whacked. My flight from Boston to Heathrow was diverted to Frankfurt. BA parked our plane on the tarmac and shipped us to some hotel on the fringe of the airport. I'm watching biathlon in German on TV. I have the same clothes since friday morning, they aren't giving us our luggage. We MAY get out tomorrow is all they'll promise.

Tony: Buy those guys a shovel or snoblower. Really...


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Kido - 2012-02-04 11:09 PM

mr2tony - 2012-02-04 3:55 AM
Kido - 2012-02-03 5:47 PM I have a new crush. Florence Welsh. Just something about her.
The mom from the Brady Bunch?

I think that was Florence Henderson.  Never really had a thing for her BUT, I was always jealous of Sam the butcher.  He was hit'n that fine piece or arse that was Alice every night.  Lucky guy.

I'm thinking Jan was a freak in the sack. Middle daughter gets no attention. You know she'd work for it in bed!

I like plump blondes. You think she's gained any weight?

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I love Jamie Oliver's recipes.
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I took my kids to Boomers yesterday and we played some mini golf and we rode the gocarts. My girl was able to drive by herself for the first time and she kicked butt. I was a proud dad watching her drive around the track with a focused look on her face.

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pitt83 - 2012-02-05 8:26 AM

So, apparently, Britain has no idea what the white flakes which fall from the clouds are. Flights are all whacked. My flight from Boston to Heathrow was diverted to Frankfurt. BA parked our plane on the tarmac and shipped us to some hotel on the fringe of the airport. I'm watching biathlon in German on TV. I have the same clothes since friday morning, they aren't giving us our luggage. We MAY get out tomorrow is all they'll promise.

Tony: Buy those guys a shovel or snoblower. Really...


I knew this would happen. BAA, which runs Heathrow, is worthless. If it rains the world stops. So lame.
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