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2006-03-08 2:01 PM
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Great post, Chucky.


2006-03-08 2:07 PM
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Chucky - Hit the nail right on the head, in my opinion.  I agree with you.

2006-03-08 2:15 PM
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ChuckyFinster - 2006-03-08 2:55 PM
We thought we'd outlaw boos, how well did that workout?


I think, generally speaking, people focused more on Thanksgiving, it being so close to Hallowe'en. Also, people switched to Frankenberry and Count Chocula during that dark, dark time.

But seriously, I have to agree with you.
2006-03-08 3:12 PM
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Chucky's right, end of debate!
2006-03-08 3:32 PM
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ChuckyFinster - 2006-03-08 11:55 AM From Spartans leaving baby girls in the desert to die from exposure to institutionalized abortion in China, it is naive to think that the government can honestly solve the abortion issue through legislation. We for whatever reason have a "save the world complex" built into us that we can't shake. We thought we'd outlaw boos, how well did that workout? We have aggressive legislation to support our "war on drugs" and how well is that working out? We as a people can say we don't like the idea of abortion, but trying to legislate abortion out of existance is a foolhearty notion that is bound to fail. So much time and resources spent trying to save the poor, unborn fetuses, drug addicts, smokers, etc. and to what aim? Does nobody trust their fellow man to do the right thing for themselves and why do you even care if they don't? For some, an abortion is an easy decision. For others it is a very difficult one. To think you know the answer to someone else's problem based on your beliefs not grounded in fact is arrogant at best.

What?! What the hell are you talking about, Chuck? Where's all the and vinegar we know and love so well?

2006-03-08 4:01 PM
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sebjamesm - I really dislike the term "Pro Life." It's a bit of a misnomer. It implies that pro choice people are pro death, which is not the case. I try to always use the term "Anti Choice" because that is a way more accurate description.

How 'bout letting groups self describe?

For example, many of my friends in the pro-life movement use the term pro-abortion, or pro-aborts, to describe pro-choice folks. I reject using that term. From my years being pro-choice I know for a fact that people who are pro-choice are not pro-abortion.

If you want to call yourself pro-choice because you feel that it best describes your position, then for a civil debate to go on so should everyone else.

At the same time those of us in the pro-life movement choose to self describe as pro-life. I would ask for the same consideration. I am not anti-choice. My concern is not to limit your freedom, it is to expand the freedom of a population, without voice, who are being dismissed.

chucky - To think you know the answer to someone else's problem based on your beliefs not grounded in fact is arrogant at best.

Then let's get back to the factual issues, rather than discussing everyone's motives, intentions, and personal shortcomings.

I propose that the problem we face is not having consensus on when human personhood begins. (personhood being a state in which we possess certain rights)

It seems clear biologically that human beinghood begins at conception. It seems as clear as the fact that evolution is true. (beinghood being a state in which we are a distinct human organism)

So when does personhood begin?

Is it at conception?

At implantation?

At a certain level of neural development?

At birth?

Sometime after birth?

When is the point when we come into possession of what I'm calling personhood. When is the point when we come into posession of the right to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness?



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2006-03-08 4:16 PM
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Therein lies the rub.

How about this for a different argument - if one was a strict constructionist and an atheist one could argue that our rights are endowed by our Creator - the creator being the mother and father who are actually doing the creating, thus they are the ones who are able to confer these rights. At some point it would be reasonable for the government to confer thse rights if the parents chose not to, but to force the granting of these rights immediatly at conception seems like you are taking away the parents right to choose when to grant the rights.

Hmm... Don't know if I'm making any sense. I'm a bit anxious to go home...
2006-03-08 4:28 PM
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drewb8 - 2006-03-08 2:16 PM Therein lies the rub. How about this for a different argument - if one was a strict constructionist and an atheist one could argue that our rights are endowed by our Creator - the creator being the mother and father who are actually doing the creating, thus they are the ones who are able to confer these rights. At some point it would be reasonable for the government to confer thse rights if the parents chose not to, but to force the granting of these rights immediatly at conception seems like you are taking away the parents right to choose when to grant the rights. Hmm... Don't know if I'm making any sense. I'm a bit anxious to go home...

Hmm, well my Mom always told me, "I gave you life and I can take it away!" when I was being a butt.

2006-03-08 4:39 PM
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drewb8 - Therein lies the rub. How about this for a different argument - if one was a strict constructionist and an atheist one could argue that our rights are endowed by our Creator - the creator being the mother and father who are actually doing the creating, thus they are the ones who are able to confer these rights. At some point it would be reasonable for the government to confer thse rights if the parents chose not to, but to force the granting of these rights immediatly at conception seems like you are taking away the parents right to choose when to grant the rights. Hmm... Don't know if I'm making any sense. I'm a bit anxious to go home...

You're making perfect sense.

Now, what are some of the possible outcomes if it is true that it is our parents who confer these rights, and that they later pass on to the government the power to confer these rights? 

2006-03-08 4:41 PM
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kimj81 - 2006-03-08 5:28 PM

Hmm, well my Mom always told me, "I gave you life and I can take it away!" when I was being a butt.

 

The one I always get is "I brought you into this world, and I can take you out!"

Courtesy my father, who will tri in August, against his son.



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2006-03-08 4:47 PM
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Don - excellent post and you left out the part of the argument that I objected to.  If I keep gushing over how you present your side of this issue people are going to start to talk!

I thought this line was interesting and it marks yet another issue brought up in this, the most wide ranging thread I think I've ever seen. 

dontracy - 2006-03-08 4:01 PM

It seems as clear as the fact that evolution is true.

Just hope we don't have to now have an evolution debate. 

However, I want to go back to the states' rights issue.  This is going to sound idiot-simple but let me break it down this way. 

Let's say I'm pro-choice, but I'm also in favor of states' rights because I don't want one party influenced by a powerful minority to be able to determine policy for the whole country (ahem).  My position pretty much has to be that I want states to decide for themselves and in doing so, some will choose yes and some no.  I can't have it both ways.  I can't ask for states' rights to win out and then insist that all states have the same policy, that is, the one I would choose (pro-choice).  

On the other hand, if I am pro-life (it's my post and I'll use that term) and pro states' rights I hope to win the right for states not to be bound by federal policy.  Then the states can choose for themselves.  But aren't I again ensuring that some will choose the opposite of what I'm in favor of? 

How does advocating states' rights help either party in the long run?  Or is it a two step strategy?  First get states back the power to make their own decision.  Then state by state try to bring about the policy that I am in favor of?  Wouldn't it be easier to try to influence federal policy? 

Is ANYONE ok with the concept that states get the right to decide their own policy and some states decide one way and some decide the other and that's just how it is?

 



2006-03-08 4:53 PM
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dontracy - 2006-03-08 1:01 PM

Then let's get back to the factual issues, rather than discussing everyone's motives, intentions, and personal shortcomings.

I propose that the problem we face is not having consensus on when human personhood begins. (personhood being a state in which we possess certain rights)

It seems clear biologically that human beinghood begins at conception. It seems as clear as the fact that evolution is true. (beinghood being a state in which we are a distinct human organism)

So when does personhood begin?

Is it at conception?
At implantation?
At a certain level of neural development?
At birth?
Sometime after birth?

When is the point when we come into possession of what I'm calling personhood. When is the point when we come into posession of the right to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness?


These are still your beliefs. You can't say that "personhood" starts at conception anymore that I can make the claim that it starts when an individual is responsible for its own wellbeing. It's like asking when a person becomes an adult. Is it 18? Is it 21? 3 months after puberty? It's a judgement call based on your belief system.





2006-03-08 5:00 PM
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Don, I mean this with all seriouseness...you are the first rational pro-life person I have ran across.  Your posts seem well thought out, you are not attacking anyone or calling anyone names and you not throwing religion into the mix.  Although I am pro-choice, I am still very impressed - excellent posts! 

I am struggling with one thing.  Can't someone be pro-life but still believe others should have the right to freedom of choice?  Do you know what I am trying to say?  I guess what I am still trying to wrap my brain around is why some people feel they have the right to tell other people what decisions they can and cannot make based on their own opinions.  It seems very self-righteous to me for someone to think that they have all the answers.

Again, thanks for your posts!

2006-03-08 5:12 PM
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dontracy - 2006-03-08 2:39 PM

drewb8 - Therein lies the rub. How about this for a different argument - if one was a strict constructionist and an atheist one could argue that our rights are endowed by our Creator - the creator being the mother and father who are actually doing the creating, thus they are the ones who are able to confer these rights. At some point it would be reasonable for the government to confer thse rights if the parents chose not to, but to force the granting of these rights immediatly at conception seems like you are taking away the parents right to choose when to grant the rights. Hmm... Don't know if I'm making any sense. I'm a bit anxious to go home...

You're making perfect sense.

Now, what are some of the possible outcomes if it is true that it is our parents who confer these rights, and that they later pass on to the government the power to confer these rights? 



Well, by granting the parents, as the literal creators, the right to endow personhood you are granting a time period from conception up to a point where the government would be forced to grant these rights in place of the parents, where an abortion would be acceptable. For parents who are pro-life and believe personhood begins with conception, the granting of rights would be conception. For those who believe otherwise, it would be later.

But isn't giving the ability to grant these rights to anyone other than the parents an endorsement of that set of religious beliefs by the government? Just thining out loud now.

2006-03-08 9:24 PM
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ChuckyFinster - 2006-03-08 1:55 PM

To think you know the answer to someone else's problem based on your beliefs not grounded in fact is arrogant at best.



Does this statement only apply to those who are pro-life? Seems like it also applies to those who are pro-choice. By saying that a woman should have the right to choose to do what she wants with her body, aren't they basically saying that everyone should accept their belief that an unborn fetus is still a part of her body, and not a separate human person? Where are the facts to support their position?
2006-03-08 11:38 PM
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Is ANYONE ok with the concept that states get the right to decide their own policy and some states decide one way and some decide the other and that's just how it is?

Yup



2006-03-09 1:03 AM
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lighthouse1123 - 2006-03-08 9:24 PM

ChuckyFinster - 2006-03-08 1:55 PM

To think you know the answer to someone else's problem based on your beliefs not grounded in fact is arrogant at best.



Does this statement only apply to those who are pro-life? Seems like it also applies to those who are pro-choice. By saying that a woman should have the right to choose to do what she wants with her body, aren't they basically saying that everyone should accept their belief that an unborn fetus is still a part of her body, and not a separate human person? Where are the facts to support their position?


No, this doesn't at all say that everyone should accept their belief that an unborn fetus is not a seperate person. It means that if you believe otherwise, do not have an abortion. Period. Simple. One of the great things in the good ol' US of A is that we can decide for ourselves what we believe with the freedom to do so. Right, wrong or indifferent, whether you agree or disagree with someone else's beliefs. I might be Catholic and disagree with the Protestant belief system (or vice versa), but I have to accept that they do indeed have a different set of beliefs. Just because you personally (just as an example) might believe that the unborn fetus is a separate human being doesn't mean that I do. Who are you to say I can't get an abortion because YOU disagree with my beliefs. (Again, not saying you personally...just an example.)
2006-03-09 1:06 AM
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kimta - 2006-03-08 5:00 PM

p>I am struggling with one thing.  Can't someone be pro-life but still believe others should have the right to freedom of choice?  Do you know what I am trying to say?  I guess what I am still trying to wrap my brain around is why some people feel they have the right to tell other people what decisions they can and cannot make based on their own opinions.  It seems very self-righteous to me for someone to think that they have all the answers.

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2006-03-09 7:22 AM
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kimta - 2006-03-08 5:00 PM p>I am struggling with one thing.  Can't someone be pro-life but still believe others should have the right to freedom of choice?  Do you know what I am trying to say?  I guess what I am still trying to wrap my brain around is why some people feel they have the right to tell other people what decisions they can and cannot make based on their own opinions.  It seems very self-righteous to me for someone to think that they have all the answers.

 

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Absolutely they can.

Actually I don't think so.  If I'm misspeaking for pro-lifers I hope they will correct me but I think if you are pro life you believe that life begins at conception.  It follows logically that any abortion after that is actually murder so if that is what you truly believe how could you just stand around and say nothing while murder is being committed? 

I know women who are pro-choice advocates, but they would never in a million years get an abortion themselves.  There is a big difference between being a pro-choice advocate who would not get an abortion and being a pro-lifer.

 

2006-03-09 8:10 AM
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Well, I think people can personally think abortion is a bad idea, but support other's freedom to choose to do what they think is appropriate. 

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kimta - 2006-03-08 5:00 PM p>I am struggling with one thing. Can't someone be pro-life but still believe others should have the right to freedom of choice? Do you know what I am trying to say? I guess what I am still trying to wrap my brain around is why some people feel they have the right to tell other people what decisions they can and cannot make based on their own opinions. It seems very self-righteous to me for someone to think that they have all the answers.

 

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Absolutely they can.

Actually I don't think so. If I'm misspeaking for pro-lifers I hope they will correct me but I think if you are pro life you believe that life begins at conception. It follows logically that any abortion after that is actually murder so if that is what you truly believe how could you just stand around and say nothing while murder is being committed?

I know women who are pro-choice advocates, but they would never in a million years get an abortion themselves. There is a big difference between being a pro-choice advocate who would not get an abortion and being a pro-lifer.

 

2006-03-09 8:25 AM
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run4yrlif - 2006-03-09 8:10 AM

Well, I think people can personally think abortion is a bad idea, but support other's freedom to choose to do what they think is appropriate. 

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kimta - 2006-03-08 5:00 PM p>I am struggling with one thing. Can't someone be pro-life but still believe others should have the right to freedom of choice? Do you know what I am trying to say? I guess what I am still trying to wrap my brain around is why some people feel they have the right to tell other people what decisions they can and cannot make based on their own opinions. It seems very self-righteous to me for someone to think that they have all the answers.

 

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Absolutely they can.

Actually I don't think so. If I'm misspeaking for pro-lifers I hope they will correct me but I think if you are pro life you believe that life begins at conception. It follows logically that any abortion after that is actually murder so if that is what you truly believe how could you just stand around and say nothing while murder is being committed?

I know women who are pro-choice advocates, but they would never in a million years get an abortion themselves. There is a big difference between being a pro-choice advocate who would not get an abortion and being a pro-lifer.

 

Again, I'm really hoping a pro-lifer speaks up here because I feel I may be speaking "out of school", and I agree with what you said but I'm saying that is not a "pro-lifer".  That is a pro-choice person.  The gist of the original question was why does a pro-lifer feel the need/right to tell others what to do and I'm trying to answer that.

 



2006-03-09 8:50 AM
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ChuckyFinster - 2006-03-08 1:55 PM To think you know the answer to someone else's problem based on your beliefs not grounded in fact is arrogant at best.
Does this statement only apply to those who are pro-life? Seems like it also applies to those who are pro-choice. By saying that a woman should have the right to choose to do what she wants with her body, aren't they basically saying that everyone should accept their belief that an unborn fetus is still a part of her body, and not a separate human person? Where are the facts to support their position?

Actually, Pro-Choice has nothing to do with foisting beliefs on others at all.  It is actually quite the opposite, in my opinion.  CHOICE is the key word here.  Pro-Choice means believing that people have the right to make thier own choices and that no one should presume to know what is best for anyone else.  I think part of the problem with this issue is that there are no facts - this issue is debated based on feelings and beliefs.  I don't know how anyone can think they have the right to tell others how to feel or what to believe but it happens every day on a variety of levels.

2006-03-09 9:09 AM
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Where is the pro choice in pro-choice? Why do we forget about the person inside the mother. Having had two kids already I just don't understand. Just because the baby can't have it's own choice yet shouldn't mean we have the right to distroy that life. What we are essentially doing is taking a choice away from the person having the life and giving it to the Mother.

My son is 9 months old, he can't talk. He can't choose, yet I have no right to say I don't want him and destroy his life. There are heartbeats and brain functions well before birth. The baby can sustain life just as well before 9 months as at 9 months. I expect people's opinions, I just can't wrap my head around thinking it's ok to take another life just because the child happens to be developing inside you.
2006-03-09 9:39 AM
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hangloose -

Is ANYONE ok with the concept that states get the right to decide their own policy and some states decide one way and some decide the other and that's just how it is?

Yes, I am.

I think it is the best way for us as a nation to deal with the issues of abortion, capital punishment , and euthanasia/physician assited suicide.

The alternative, really, is to have amendments to the constitution that would address these issues, like the proposed Right to Life Amendment. If it were put up for a vote here in Pennsylvania, I would vote for it. But honestly, I would at the same time be very concerned about the civil unrest that would follow the passage of such an amendment.

One thing to keep in mind is that abortion was legal before Roe vs. Wade. What Roe did was simply deny a state the right to make it illegal.

I think that the cultural differences in various states will help to mitigate any civil unrest. For example, abortion will clearly still be legal in my home state of New York. It will obviously be illegal in South Dakota. I imagine my adopted state of Pennsylvania will choose to restrict it, but probably not to the exent of the new law in South Dakota.

Same goes with capital punishment. Even as a teenager, I opposed the SCOTUS decision that ruled that capital punishment was not cruel and unusual punishment. However, the more I thought about it, the more I came to realize that, consitutionally, they were right.

Now the brilliance of our system is that if the SCOTUS is used to interpret laws and not to make them, then the power to make laws will rest again with the people.

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hangloose - 2006-03-09 8:25 AM

Again, I'm really hoping a pro-lifer speaks up here because I feel I may be speaking "out of school", and I agree with what you said but I'm saying that is not a "pro-lifer".  That is a pro-choice person.  The gist of the original question was why does a pro-lifer feel the need/right to tell others what to do and I'm trying to answer that.

 



I think there are probably two groups (at least) within both the pro-choice and pro-life side. On the pro-choice side, you have people who believe abortion should be legal and they would have one. I think you could assume that many (if not most) of the people in this group are convinced that life does not begin at conception. Others would never personally have an abortion, for various reasons, but they think other people should have the right to. On the pro-life side, you have people who are convinced that life begins at conception (or at a very early stage) and since abortion takes that “life,” it should be illegal. Others are not necessarily convinced that life begins at conception, but they are also not convinced that life begins at a later point. They are not comfortable with making life or death decisions based on a guess about when life begins, and take the position that we should assume the unborn are separate human persons unless we can prove otherwise. I think some of the people in this group would probably be willing to let people do what they want if we were talking about something other than a human life. I don’t think anyone who is absolutely convinced that life begins at conception could ever just sit back and let someone commit what they believe is the murder of a child. I’m not saying they are right or wrong, but I can understand why they take their position.

Not sure if that makes sense, and I realize I’m making huge generalizations. I may be completely off-base, and I hope I didn’t misconstrue anyone’s beliefs, because that wasn’t my intent.
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