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2012-04-23 9:16 AM in reply to: #4166740 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Birkierunner - 2012-04-23 7:10 AM Big Appa - 2012-04-23 8:52 AM cgregg - 2012-04-23 6:35 AM Teejaay - 2012-04-22 3:20 PM on a slightly more serious note, this sounds like an interesting book; I just ordered the "Men's Edition".(screwed up the quoting for the thread above) Reminds me of the "5 Love Languages". I know from reading that book and taking the quiz that gifts do not equate "love" to me ... getting or giving! I prefer time spent together and acts of service ... both getting and giving. Come hike with me and then change the light bulbs in my porch light and I'm in love! What is the men's edition? The 5 love languages is on my list to read soon. I'm reading this book now actually, and have to admit it makes a lot of sense and its not a bunch of touchy-feely b.s. that you might think a book like this would be filled with. edit....oh, wait....physical touch is one of the 5 languages so I guess there is some of that in there LOL
I have been told by a few of my friends to read it. I don't know what one it is but I guess I value time with people and that is my language. I think I'll go buy the book this week. |
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2012-04-23 9:19 AM in reply to: #4166751 |
Pro 4675 Wisconsin near the Twin Cities metro | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Big Appa - 2012-04-23 9:16 AM Birkierunner - 2012-04-23 7:10 AM Big Appa - 2012-04-23 8:52 AM cgregg - 2012-04-23 6:35 AM Teejaay - 2012-04-22 3:20 PM on a slightly more serious note, this sounds like an interesting book; I just ordered the "Men's Edition".(screwed up the quoting for the thread above) Reminds me of the "5 Love Languages". I know from reading that book and taking the quiz that gifts do not equate "love" to me ... getting or giving! I prefer time spent together and acts of service ... both getting and giving. Come hike with me and then change the light bulbs in my porch light and I'm in love! What is the men's edition? The 5 love languages is on my list to read soon. I'm reading this book now actually, and have to admit it makes a lot of sense and its not a bunch of touchy-feely b.s. that you might think a book like this would be filled with. edit....oh, wait....physical touch is one of the 5 languages so I guess there is some of that in there LOL
I have been told by a few of my friends to read it. I don't know what one it is but I guess I value time with people and that is my language. I think I'll go buy the book this week. Yep, that would be the language of "quality time". Seriously, its a good book and its not just for dating singles....I think a lot of married couples need to read it. |
2012-04-23 9:21 AM in reply to: #4162190 |
Elite 3770 | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 anyone else get saddled with the extra responsibilities b/c they don't have a "family'? That keeps happening to me. Like I get to go for 3 days to camp with my 6th graders b/c I'm one of two teachers without a family. No wonder I don't have time to go out on dates! That is just a problem I seem to keep happening. Oh just ask Amy, she doesn't have any responsibilities. While I don't think its a requirement for them to be a triathlete, they need something to be passionate about. I had one boyfriend that just had nothing he did. Treated me well and everything, but didn't get the fact when I said I "had" to do something. Its because I really really wanted to. He always thought i was choosing my bike or horse over him. |
2012-04-23 9:25 AM in reply to: #4166772 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 turtlegirl - 2012-04-23 7:21 AM anyone else get saddled with the extra responsibilities b/c they don't have a "family'? That keeps happening to me. Like I get to go for 3 days to camp with my 6th graders b/c I'm one of two teachers without a family. No wonder I don't have time to go out on dates! That is just a problem I seem to keep happening. Oh just ask Amy, she doesn't have any responsibilities. That blows |
2012-04-23 9:27 AM in reply to: #4162190 |
Elite 3770 | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 And then you just seem selfish if you say no, I want to go on a bike ride. You have the others with children saying well, I have to take jimmy to his psychiatrist and Danny to his orthodontic appt. Yeah, its a no win situation. I look like a bad team player. Its not like its my choice not to have kids. |
2012-04-23 9:35 AM in reply to: #4166677 |
Elite 5145 Cleveland | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Renee - 2012-04-23 9:45 AM So, Singles, what's the status? How is your dating training plan coming along? Well, I will hopefully be getting in a long ride, soon, with lots of hill repeats.... |
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2012-04-23 9:42 AM in reply to: #4166829 |
Buttercup 14334 | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 cgregg - 2012-04-23 10:35 AM Renee - 2012-04-23 9:45 AM Well, I will hopefully be getting in a long ride, soon, with lots of hill repeats....So, Singles, what's the status? How is your dating training plan coming along? Soooooo, you've had some success. |
2012-04-23 9:42 AM in reply to: #4166801 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 turtlegirl - 2012-04-23 7:27 AM And then you just seem selfish if you say no, I want to go on a bike ride. You have the others with children saying well, I have to take jimmy to his psychiatrist and Danny to his orthodontic appt. Yeah, its a no win situation. I look like a bad team player. Its not like its my choice not to have kids. Sounds like they are just taking advantage of you. |
2012-04-23 9:46 AM in reply to: #4166801 |
Elite 5145 Cleveland | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 turtlegirl - 2012-04-23 10:27 AM And then you just seem selfish if you say no, I want to go on a bike ride. You have the others with children saying well, I have to take jimmy to his psychiatrist and Danny to his orthodontic appt. Yeah, its a no win situation. I look like a bad team player. Its not like its my choice not to have kids. I don't get that sort of thing from work, but I have gotten it from family. |
2012-04-23 9:48 AM in reply to: #4166801 |
Buttercup 14334 | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 turtlegirl - 2012-04-23 10:27 AM And then you just seem selfish if you say no, I want to go on a bike ride. You have the others with children saying well, I have to take jimmy to his psychiatrist and Danny to his orthodontic appt. Yeah, its a no win situation. I look like a bad team player. Its not like its my choice not to have kids. You could just say "I have a scheduling conflict and I'm not available that weekend. Sorry." But you also have to develop some comfort with letting others be temporarily disappointed. You can't control how they are going to feel about it or you. Speak up for yourself and let the chips fall where they may. You might find that they start putting more pressure on others to contribute, too. You never know. |
2012-04-23 10:04 AM in reply to: #4166684 |
Pro 5755 | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 DeannaS - 2012-04-23 9:49 AM BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 8:22 AM The best is when you can cook together. Just sayin.I love to cook. I'm more comfortable doing the cooking than having someone cook for me. Must be a type-A control thing. Or maybe it's the mental justification to drink wine while cooking.
I'd be willing to relinquish SOME control in that situation. Or we could take turns, I'm open to trying new recipes |
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2012-04-23 10:14 AM in reply to: #4166928 |
Master 2099 Madison, WI | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 10:04 AM DeannaS - 2012-04-23 9:49 AM BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 8:22 AM The best is when you can cook together. Just sayin.I love to cook. I'm more comfortable doing the cooking than having someone cook for me. Must be a type-A control thing. Or maybe it's the mental justification to drink wine while cooking.
I'd be willing to relinquish SOME control in that situation. Or we could take turns, I'm open to trying new recipes So. Much. Double-entendre..... |
2012-04-23 10:17 AM in reply to: #4166772 |
Veteran 311 Irvine, California | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 turtlegirl - 2012-04-23 7:21 AM anyone else get saddled with the extra responsibilities b/c they don't have a "family'? That keeps happening to me. Like I get to go for 3 days to camp with my 6th graders b/c I'm one of two teachers without a family. No wonder I don't have time to go out on dates! That is just a problem I seem to keep happening. Oh just ask Amy, she doesn't have any responsibilities. While I don't think its a requirement for them to be a triathlete, they need something to be passionate about. I had one boyfriend that just had nothing he did. Treated me well and everything, but didn't get the fact when I said I "had" to do something. Its because I really rea lly wanted to. He always thought i was choosing my bike or horse over him. I don't really get MADE to do extra responsibilities, but I do always offer to work on the Saturdays on holiday weekends, day after Thanksgiving, etc, because I want my coworkers to be able to do fun things with their family, and my family is 2000 miles away. I just know how important it is to spend time with kids and family, and how important it was to me when I was young, so I kinda just "take one for the team." |
2012-04-23 1:09 PM in reply to: #4166677 |
Extreme Veteran 2263 Ridgeland, Mississippi | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Renee - 2012-04-23 8:45 AM So, Singles, what's the status? How is your dating training plan coming along? As an aside, I am confused by the thread title.
Carry on, Singles (triathletes or not). And good luck out there! My answers are above in blue, bold italics. |
2012-04-23 1:36 PM in reply to: #4167524 |
Veteran 178 , New York | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 msteiner - 2012-04-23 2:09 PM Renee - 2012-04-23 8:45 AM So, Singles, what's the status? How is your dating training plan coming along? As an aside, I am confused by the thread title.
Carry on, Singles (triathletes or not). And good luck out there! My answers are above in blue, bold italics. Haha, if all the answers are no or not sure, then why are you here? What are you looking for? |
2012-04-23 1:59 PM in reply to: #4167588 |
Extreme Veteran 2263 Ridgeland, Mississippi | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 elrasc06 - 2012-04-23 1:36 PM msteiner - 2012-04-23 2:09 PM Renee - 2012-04-23 8:45 AM So, Singles, what's the status? How is your dating training plan coming along? As an aside, I am confused by the thread title.
Carry on, Singles (triathletes or not). And good luck out there! My answers are above in blue, bold italics. Haha, if all the answers are no or not sure, then why are you here? What are you looking for? To be fair, I had one 'possibly', which is closer to an affirmative than 'no'. I'm not exactly looking for a triathlete, but I would definitely take one. As long as whoever I'm dating understands my hobby, then that's a good start. I felt that the questions above were too specific. Living in Mississippi, if I cut my options to only triathletes, then my choices become very limited very fast. On the other hand, I'm not going to rule out someone that enjoys triathlons as well. Why am I here is an interesting question. As a single guy, the thread naturally piqued my curiosity. It's nice to see that I'm not alone in the mindset that dating can be difficult. Strength in numbers, perhaps? Also perhaps there could be an awesome person post that's in my area that I would otherwise never see. |
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2012-04-23 2:07 PM in reply to: #4166677 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Renee - 2012-04-23 6:45 AM So, Singles, what's the status? How is your dating training plan coming along? As an aside, I am confused by the thread title.
Carry on, Singles (triathletes or not). And good luck out there!
As the person who started this thread my intent was for people of the BT community who are singles to mingle, share stories, and to basically to get to know each other. The first thread said Triathlon dating thread so I just copied that name, I know so original. |
2012-04-23 2:27 PM in reply to: #4166677 |
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2012-04-23 5:51 PM in reply to: #4166967 |
Pro 5755 | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 DeannaS - 2012-04-23 11:14 AM BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 10:04 AM So. Much. Double-entendre..... DeannaS - 2012-04-23 9:49 AM BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 8:22 AM The best is when you can cook together. Just sayin.I love to cook. I'm more comfortable doing the cooking than having someone cook for me. Must be a type-A control thing. Or maybe it's the mental justification to drink wine while cooking.
I'd be willing to relinquish SOME control in that situation. Or we could take turns, I'm open to trying new recipes Huh, whatever do you mean? I'm a triathlete, I'm always hungry! Especially carbs. Love Italian food, especially stuff like pasta and pizza Edited by BrianRunsPhilly 2012-04-23 5:53 PM |
2012-04-23 6:12 PM in reply to: #4162190 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Woo hoo - Muskrat has a date this weekend. She is not a tri-athlete, likes to run, but only when she has "a good run" - otherwise she hates it. Believe it or not, I met her on muckfatch.com. She is adventurous - and likes my idea of paintballing for our first date. I have not gone paintballing in 20 years but bought a groupon, solely for the purpose of a unique first date. When I asked her she said I "get the award for the most outside the box initial meet and greet!" +1 for Casey - willing to try new things. |
2012-04-23 6:15 PM in reply to: #4168321 |
Expert 3145 Scottsdale, AZ | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Muskrat37 - 2012-04-23 5:12 PM Woo hoo - Muskrat has a date this weekend. She is not a tri-athlete, likes to run, but only when she has "a good run" - otherwise she hates it. Believe it or not, I met her on muckfatch.com. She is adventurous - and likes my idea of paintballing for our first date. I have not gone paintballing in 20 years but bought a groupon, solely for the purpose of a unique first date. When I asked her she said I "get the award for the most outside the box initial meet and greet!" +1 for Casey - willing to try new things. Kick arse! |
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2012-04-23 6:22 PM in reply to: #4168321 |
Veteran 178 , New York | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Muskrat37 - 2012-04-23 7:12 PM Woo hoo - Muskrat has a date this weekend. She is not a tri-athlete, likes to run, but only when she has "a good run" - otherwise she hates it. Believe it or not, I met her on muckfatch.com. She is adventurous - and likes my idea of paintballing for our first date. I have not gone paintballing in 20 years but bought a groupon, solely for the purpose of a unique first date. When I asked her she said I "get the award for the most outside the box initial meet and greet!" +1 for Casey - willing to try new things. Yay, good luck! And great idea! |
2012-04-23 6:28 PM in reply to: #4168321 |
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2012-04-23 7:40 PM in reply to: #4168283 |
Master 2099 Madison, WI | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 5:51 PM DeannaS - 2012-04-23 11:14 AM BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 10:04 AM So. Much. Double-entendre..... DeannaS - 2012-04-23 9:49 AM BrianRunsPhilly - 2012-04-23 8:22 AM The best is when you can cook together. Just sayin.I love to cook. I'm more comfortable doing the cooking than having someone cook for me. Must be a type-A control thing. Or maybe it's the mental justification to drink wine while cooking.
I'd be willing to relinquish SOME control in that situation. Or we could take turns, I'm open to trying new recipes Huh, whatever do you mean? I'm a triathlete, I'm always hungry! Especially carbs. Love Italian food, especially stuff like pasta and pizza Good to see you have a healthy appetite. |
2012-04-23 7:41 PM in reply to: #4168321 |
Master 2099 Madison, WI | Subject: RE: Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 Muskrat37 - 2012-04-23 6:12 PM Woo hoo - Muskrat has a date this weekend. Congrats! I just got back from a first "date" - which was really just a meet and chat. Meh. Next! |
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