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Sensei  Sin City |  Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36)Sharkie - 2008-07-28 11:43 AM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 11:25 AM Ok, I told her. I explained that I like hanging with her etc., but it got too 'relationship-ish' too quickly, and that's not what I want. I reminded her that I don't want a girlfriend. She said "Yeah, I thought that's what you were gonna say. I really like hanging out with you and if it means anything I'd be sad if we stopped hanging out completely." I just wonder if she's capable of not growing closer? I'm not being arrogant... I just mean that I tend to have a colder heart that most with things like that. So where a normal person would grow attached, I don't. So let me get this straight... You want to hang out with her.. have her as a friend and get to know her.. possibly engage in physical contact with her.. and it has to be COMPLETLEY on your term without any consideration for what she wants or how she feels?? That's what it sounds like. |
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Slower Than You 9566    Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:46 PM bcart1991 - 2008-07-28 11:42 AM Trust me, there will be fireworks and alcohol galore when it's FINAL final. Hey.. I have THE fireworks hookup in Alabama.. Need me to put in a call???? Don't tempt me like that... |
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Arch-Bishop of BT 10278 Pittsburgh | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:43 PM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 11:25 AM Ok, I told her. I explained that I like hanging with her etc., but it got too 'relationship-ish' too quickly, and that's not what I want. I reminded her that I don't want a girlfriend. She said "Yeah, I thought that's what you were gonna say. I really like hanging out with you and if it means anything I'd be sad if we stopped hanging out completely." I just wonder if she's capable of not growing closer? I'm not being arrogant... I just mean that I tend to have a colder heart that most with things like that. So where a normal person would grow attached, I don't. So let me get this straight... You want to hang out with her.. have her as a friend and get to know her.. possibly engage in physical contact with her.. and it has to be COMPLETLEY on your term without any consideration for what she wants or how she feels?? Did you forget you were talking to Ryan? -B |
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| Sensei Sin City | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) bah - I'm going for a easy swim and pick up some lunch. Maybe that will help the mood.... |
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Science Nerd 28760 Redwood City, California | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) jdwright56 - 2008-07-28 2:38 PM Artemis - 2008-07-28 1:37 PM Everyone seems kind of down today.  Late summer funk. me thinks. Maybe. I don't know. Today seems particularly bad. |
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| Arch-Bishop of BT 10278 Pittsburgh | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Rynamite - 2008-07-28 2:46 PM Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:43 PM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 11:25 AM Ok, I told her. I explained that I like hanging with her etc., but it got too 'relationship-ish' too quickly, and that's not what I want. I reminded her that I don't want a girlfriend. She said "Yeah, I thought that's what you were gonna say. I really like hanging out with you and if it means anything I'd be sad if we stopped hanging out completely." I just wonder if she's capable of not growing closer? I'm not being arrogant... I just mean that I tend to have a colder heart that most with things like that. So where a normal person would grow attached, I don't. So let me get this straight... You want to hang out with her.. have her as a friend and get to know her.. possibly engage in physical contact with her.. and it has to be COMPLETLEY on your term without any consideration for what she wants or how she feels?? Hey, I've been completely honest with her from the beginning. If she wanted more, then it would have to be cut off. I've been funking about this because I don't know how SHE feels, and would never want to hurt her. However, I did just get done talking with her and it sounds like we're on the same page. Or she just said what she thought you wanted to hear so she wouldn't be cut off from you... -B |
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| Slower Than You 9566 Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:49 PM bcart1991 - 2008-07-28 11:47 AM Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:46 PM Don't tempt me like that...bcart1991 - 2008-07-28 11:42 AM Trust me, there will be fireworks and alcohol galore when it's FINAL final. Hey.. I have THE fireworks hookup in Alabama.. Need me to put in a call???? I am a niece of a SR VP at the company that owns TNT Fireworks... Ahhh jeez. *starts throwing stuff on ebay* |
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| Pro 4456 Eureka, Ca | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Afternoon TAN.. the internet ban continues...hoping that it only lasts a week... |
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| Expert 760 Memphis, TN | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Sharkie - 2008-07-28 1:43 PM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 11:25 AM Ok, I told her. I explained that I like hanging with her etc., but it got too 'relationship-ish' too quickly, and that's not what I want. I reminded her that I don't want a girlfriend. She said "Yeah, I thought that's what you were gonna say. I really like hanging out with you and if it means anything I'd be sad if we stopped hanging out completely." I just wonder if she's capable of not growing closer? I'm not being arrogant... I just mean that I tend to have a colder heart that most with things like that. So where a normal person would grow attached, I don't. So let me get this straight... You want to hang out with her.. have her as a friend and get to know her.. possibly engage in physical contact with her.. and it has to be COMPLETLEY on your term without any consideration for what she wants or how she feels?? If he has spelled that out to her and she is ok with it, I don't see how that makes him the bad person. |
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| Melon Presser 52116 | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Artemis - 2008-07-28 12:49 PM jdwright56 - 2008-07-28 2:38 PM Artemis - 2008-07-28 1:37 PM Everyone seems kind of down today. Late summer funk. me thinks. Maybe. I don't know. Today seems particularly bad. Okay, I'll be the one Pollyanna ... then again, I've been down for 10 weeks (more, really, struggling with depression since last November) ... but today is okay. Probably because I start training again, for Ironman But I'm really, really dizzy, and I'm never dizzy. I keep feeling like I'm pitching forward. I'm eating a good second breakfast and hopefully that will help |
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| Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:49 PM bcart1991 - 2008-07-28 11:47 AM Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:46 PM Don't tempt me like that...bcart1991 - 2008-07-28 11:42 AM Trust me, there will be fireworks and alcohol galore when it's FINAL final. Hey.. I have THE fireworks hookup in Alabama.. Need me to put in a call???? I am a niece of a SR VP at the company that owns TNT Fireworks... They need a software developer? I could take a new job. |
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| Arch-Bishop of BT 10278 Pittsburgh | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Artemis - 2008-07-28 2:49 PM jdwright56 - 2008-07-28 2:38 PM Artemis - 2008-07-28 1:37 PM Everyone seems kind of down today. Late summer funk. me thinks. Maybe. I don't know. Today seems particularly bad. Today is just my normal Monday... well, that and I was up until 2 because I couldn't sleep last night until after 2... and was up early for the monthly Men's Breakfast... But in case you haven't noticed... I hit 4000 posts... -B |
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| Champion 5868 Urbandale, IA | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) wes mantooth - 2008-07-28 1:52 PM Sharkie - 2008-07-28 1:43 PM If he has spelled that out to her and she is ok with it, I don't see how that makes him the bad person. Rynamite - 2008-07-28 11:25 AM Ok, I told her. I explained that I like hanging with her etc., but it got too 'relationship-ish' too quickly, and that's not what I want. I reminded her that I don't want a girlfriend. She said "Yeah, I thought that's what you were gonna say. I really like hanging out with you and if it means anything I'd be sad if we stopped hanging out completely." I just wonder if she's capable of not growing closer? I'm not being arrogant... I just mean that I tend to have a colder heart that most with things like that. So where a normal person would grow attached, I don't. So let me get this straight... You want to hang out with her.. have her as a friend and get to know her.. possibly engage in physical contact with her.. and it has to be COMPLETLEY on your term without any consideration for what she wants or how she feels?? ]Ummmm - duh!!!! It's Ryan!!! |
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| Melon Presser 52116 | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) akustix - 2008-07-28 12:53 PM Artemis - 2008-07-28 2:49 PM jdwright56 - 2008-07-28 2:38 PM Artemis - 2008-07-28 1:37 PM Everyone seems kind of down today. Late summer funk. me thinks. Maybe. I don't know. Today seems particularly bad. Today is just my normal Monday... well, that and I was up until 2 because I couldn't sleep last night until after 2... and was up early for the monthly Men's Breakfast... But in case you haven't noticed... I hit 4000 posts... -B Congratulations! |
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| Champion 5868 Urbandale, IA | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Rynamite - 2008-07-28 1:54 PM akustix - 2008-07-28 2:49 PM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 2:46 PM Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:43 PM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 11:25 AM Ok, I told her. I explained that I like hanging with her etc., but it got too 'relationship-ish' too quickly, and that's not what I want. I reminded her that I don't want a girlfriend. She said "Yeah, I thought that's what you were gonna say. I really like hanging out with you and if it means anything I'd be sad if we stopped hanging out completely." I just wonder if she's capable of not growing closer? I'm not being arrogant... I just mean that I tend to have a colder heart that most with things like that. So where a normal person would grow attached, I don't. So let me get this straight... You want to hang out with her.. have her as a friend and get to know her.. possibly engage in physical contact with her.. and it has to be COMPLETLEY on your term without any consideration for what she wants or how she feels?? Hey, I've been completely honest with her from the beginning. If she wanted more, then it would have to be cut off. I've been funking about this because I don't know how SHE feels, and would never want to hurt her. However, I did just get done talking with her and it sounds like we're on the same page. Or she just said what she thought you wanted to hear so she wouldn't be cut off from you... -B Well, then that's her own stupid fault, and she's not being honest with me. *shaking head* Don't you understand that it is the firm belief of most women that men can be trained to do as the women folk want? |
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| Arch-Bishop of BT 10278 Pittsburgh | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) Rynamite - 2008-07-28 2:54 PM akustix - 2008-07-28 2:49 PM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 2:46 PM Sharkie - 2008-07-28 2:43 PM Rynamite - 2008-07-28 11:25 AM Ok, I told her. I explained that I like hanging with her etc., but it got too 'relationship-ish' too quickly, and that's not what I want. I reminded her that I don't want a girlfriend. She said "Yeah, I thought that's what you were gonna say. I really like hanging out with you and if it means anything I'd be sad if we stopped hanging out completely." I just wonder if she's capable of not growing closer? I'm not being arrogant... I just mean that I tend to have a colder heart that most with things like that. So where a normal person would grow attached, I don't. So let me get this straight... You want to hang out with her.. have her as a friend and get to know her.. possibly engage in physical contact with her.. and it has to be COMPLETLEY on your term without any consideration for what she wants or how she feels?? Hey, I've been completely honest with her from the beginning. If she wanted more, then it would have to be cut off. I've been funking about this because I don't know how SHE feels, and would never want to hurt her. However, I did just get done talking with her and it sounds like we're on the same page. Or she just said what she thought you wanted to hear so she wouldn't be cut off from you... -B Well, then that's her own stupid fault, and she's not being honest with me. yeah... but that doesn't mean it won't still get messy... jus' sayin... -B |
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| Science Nerd 28760 Redwood City, California | Subject: RE: TANgents welcome (#36) akustix - 2008-07-28 2:53 PM Artemis - 2008-07-28 2:49 PM jdwright56 - 2008-07-28 2:38 PM Artemis - 2008-07-28 1:37 PM Everyone seems kind of down today. Late summer funk. me thinks. Maybe. I don't know. Today seems particularly bad. Today is just my normal Monday... well, that and I was up until 2 because I couldn't sleep last night until after 2... and was up early for the monthly Men's Breakfast... But in case you haven't noticed... I hit 4000 posts... -B Congratulations! |
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