What is the point of Women's Only Tri's? (Page 6)
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Regular![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Gwendal - 2005-07-12 10:34 AM igbomb - 2005-07-12 11:09 AM Sports are the only part of the society where 'men-only' is acceptable. You just have no clue what you're talking about. You sound like a white person telling a black person that there is no racism in their town. You don't see it so it must not exist. The fact is, from your perspective, it isn't possible to see it. Spend a week looking around you. How many times do you find yourself in a male-only group? Did you even NOTICE the lack of women Do you always act like this when you disagree with someone? What's with the wild generalization? The fact is, the example you gave does not have a 'no women allowed' policy. Are there occupations, etc. that have a very small women component? Of course there is. But that in no way equates with women not being allowed to join. Feel free to name one other area of society where declaring 'no women allowed' is not met with derision and protests from feminists. That is where the hypocrisy exists. Like I said multiple times, I am all about equal opportunity. But when you get it, don't whine about the lack of women in your field. Women have at least the same opportunity as men to get into any college, and to get hired into any field. But, not many women want to work on a shop floor, or be an engineer, etc. Is there a problem with that? You have your opportunities to do whatever you want with your life. The old line about male-dominated society no longer holds any sway. I am a young engineer at a company dominated by older workers and have had plenty of ageism thrown my way in the last five years. But we don't always get the respect we deserve. It's just a fact of life. |
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Buttercup ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() "Women have at least the same opportunity as men to get into any college, and to get hired into any field." Sweetie, I've been an IT recruiter since 1988. Your assertion, I hate to tell you, is not correct. All things being equal, men still like to hire men. The 'opportunity' might be there but some people just can't get past their biases. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I think the women's only tri concept is an excellent concept. It allows beginners a chance to race in a nonthreatening environment. Also...I'd go so far to say that women approach races differently than men. They are much more supportive to other athletes and tend to be more emotionally attached to the race and other competitors. An example comes to mind...thinking back to Mrs. G8RSAX....I remember that she was in a race where she swam as a swim buddy with another women throughout the swim because she was feeling uncomfortable. Now Wendi wasn't a volunteer...she just decided to do this this on her own. I don't think guys would ever consider doing that. I think that Danskin and Reebok have played a big role in promoting and pushing up the # of female competitors in the sport of triathlon. Statistics show that the growth of new female athletes in the sport of triathlon far exceeds the growth of male athletes. This is great for the sport. I would say that most women athletes share a lot more in common with one another and would feel comfortable talking about "women issues" (you know...like those threads where the men are warn about before coming in). If I were a single guy, I think I'd be deliberately finding every women's tri I could find to volunteer at for the pure eye candy aspect. Hell...I'd do it if I was married too (please Denise don't read this last sentence. LOL). Keep those women's only tris coming....they're great for the sport. |
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Buttercup ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() kimj81 - 2005-07-12 11:56 AM Damn pink-lovers, you're all the same. You think you can do anything us pink haters can do. And I hate you for that. Oh, now you're generalizing about us Pinkiephiles! Just say no to Pink stereotypes, Kimmie! Edited by Renee 2005-07-12 12:04 PM |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Renee - 2005-07-12 10:04 AM kimj81 - 2005-07-12 11:56 AM Damn pink-lovers, you're all the same. You think you can do anything us pink haters can do. And I hate you for that. Oh, now you're generalizing about us Pinkiephiles! Just say no to Pink stereotypes, Kimmie! Yeah, a pinkie would say that! |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jkbostic - 2005-07-12 10:02 AM An example comes to mind...thinking back to Mrs. G8RSAX....I remember that she was in a race where she swam as a swim buddy with another women throughout the swim because she was feeling uncomfortable. Now Wendi wasn't a volunteer...she just decided to do this this on her own. I don't think guys would ever consider doing that. I disagree, there are plenty of guys who would do this. Point taken though |
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Buttercup ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() madcow - 2005-07-12 12:08 PM jkbostic - 2005-07-12 10:02 AM An example comes to mind...thinking back to Mrs. G8RSAX....I remember that she was in a race where she swam as a swim buddy with another women throughout the swim because she was feeling uncomfortable. Now Wendi wasn't a volunteer...she just decided to do this this on her own. I don't think guys would ever consider doing that. I disagree, there are plenty of guys who would do this. Point taken though I have to admit... I would not do this. I would think "ahhh... there are plenty of lifeguards around" and probably silently curse her for getting in my swim path. No punchline. Edit: Okay, on second thought, if I thought someone was really struggling, in a panic, I would stay with them long enough to get the lifeguard's attention. Edited by Renee 2005-07-12 12:17 PM |
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Regular![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Renee - 2005-07-12 12:01 PM "Women have at least the same opportunity as men to get into any college, and to get hired into any field." Sweetie, I've been an IT recruiter since 1988. Your assertion, I hate to tell you, is not correct. All things being equal, men still like to hire men. The 'opportunity' might be there but some people just can't get past their biases. You know what, I take back my statement. I really don't like broad generalizations like that. I should have just stuck to what I know. I work in a male-dominated field and went to a male-dominated college. Both my employer and my college will readily admit that they want more women in their ranks. And, having done a little recruiting myself, the hiring for my company are pretty explicit about the desire to hire women. Just trying to make the point that just because a field is male-dominated does not necessarily mean that it is hard for women to get into. |
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Elite Veteran![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Wow oh wow oh wow!!!!! How did I miss this thread? What a lively debate this has turned into. Well, Motivated, you certainly got the can-o-worms you were hoping for! I'm sure this has all been said, but since I do one woman-only 5K each year, I thought I would chime in. Correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't the Danskin tri raise money for breast cancer research? The run I do does, as well, and here's my take on this. Breast cancer, (though no one is denying that many men's live are impacted severely and that many men care deeply about this issue), is a woman's cancer (don't get technical on me, I know men get breast cancer). Having races to support research to end this disease, and allowing women only to participate has two benenfits for women. First, it is a female bonding thing. All us sisters out there supporting each other and this cause that is so much a part of our lives. Women enjoy that sort of camraderie with just each other once in awhile, it makes us feel good. Again, it has nothing to do with being exclusionary in and of itself, it's just something we like and it feels empowering to us. It's such a nice feeling being on the line and having the men who love you stand on the sidelines and cheer you on to this challenge. That support feels so loving, it benefits the men as well as the women. Secondly, even though it may be hard for some (men and women) to understand, many women are very intimidated by the thought of participating in races with men, even though they are not competing against the men. They just feel more comfortable when in a situation which is new and scary to them, being surrounded by only other women. It's not anything against men, it's just a real thing for a certain type of women. If those women would not otherwise participate and this gives them something to feel good about on many levels - the charity, the accomplishment - what does it hurt to give them the opportunity to do that? It's only when it's viewed from a divisive, exclusionary view that it seems odd. I can guarantee you, that is not the spirit in which these woman only events were started. I think if there were men only races for charities like testicular cancer, they would probably get the same support from the women that women only races hope for from men. I should certainly hope so, anyway. |
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Expert![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Gee, bear, even *I* won't wear pink. Me neither. I tell people it's "Salmon" or "Light Red" ... pink is for chicks. I don't think tellin' 'em "it's Salmon" serves the purpose I hoped it would. *grin* I think wives buy their husbands "pink" shirts as a way of marking them as "taken". -------------------------------- For me, it's not about men and women. It's about who can do the job and do it best. That should be the focus. This has gotten waaaaaaaaaaaay off topic. Yeah ... I'm shocked. ------------------------------------ Don't like women only tri's? I like them if it's just about getting women together in the form of empowerment. I don't like them if they are the result of not feeling welcome in co-ed tri's. The latter, IMO, is the obvious failure of said triathlon community to do its part in making EVERYONE (despite, gender, culture, nationality, etc) feel welcome. Diversity only raises standards, as eveident by all sports. ---------------------------------- All things being equal, men still like to hire men. Been my experience that men work wonderfuly with women. It's women that seem to have trouble working alongside other women ... especially if one of those women is a supervisor. I dunno why. ---------------------------------- It allows beginners a chance to race in a nonthreatening environment. Wouldn't it make more sense to have "Beginner's Triathlons",rather than "women only". I say this, b/c the "beginner-focused triathlon" is a suggestion I made elsewhere awhile ago. Seems like a great idea. It would also go a ways at elimiinating the animosity some "faster folks" have towards over-crowding, blocking, etc in races. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() So what IS the point of women's only triathlons? As a dad of a young girl, I have a page torn out of a book and taped to my bathroom mirror. It says "Remember that supportive fathers raise girls who have high self-esteem." Part of what I do to try to be supportive is to recognize that as a man with a healthy dose of testosterone (way too much according to some women, but somehow my guy friends never say that), I am not always going to see "the point." In fact the point may even seem silly or insignificant to me. But if it's important to her, then I need to back off and if I can't say anything nice, I just nod and smile. That's the point. It creates an opportunity for someone to do a tri in a setting that for whatever reason, clear or unclear, appeals to them personally. If you don't get it, don't judge it, criticize it, and for goodness' sake don't make fun of it. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jkbostic - 2005-07-12 12:02 PM I think the women's only tri concept is an excellent concept. It allows beginners a chance to race in a nonthreatening environment. |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Ok. time for me to speak up. I've been lurking in this thread with a lot of interest, and have enjoyed (and cringed) reading the different opinions. I did a little research and here's what I've found. In the four races I've dne this year, the gender break-down is as follows:
I've been doiing triathons for a fairly long time (first race was the '83 Bud LIght Triathlon Series in Atlanta), and I can confidently say that this demographic has remained fairly constant. At any give race (women's-only races notwithstanding), only 30% of starters are female (probably a good topic for another thread is why the disparity). So my thinking is the organizers of women's-only races have noticed that there is an untapped demographic. If races are offered to women, more women will join this awesome sport. And in the process, the organizers will make some money (either for themselves or for charity). It's my opinion that the organizers of these races are genuinely altruistic, but the bottom line is that they exist because they've touched upon a marketable product. There aren't as many women in triathlon as there are men, despite the overall populations being fairly equal. And they've found out that women will sign up in droves for them. And then prossibly buy some Danskin or Reebok products in the process (I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess they they market products to women...). Why aren't there men's only triathlons? Suppose Stuff magazine, or Axe or some other company that markets to men exclusively decided to put one on. There would (for better or worse) be public outcry. Therefore it's not a marketable product. Men might sign up for them, but it wouldn't be worth the bad publicity. So they don't exist. It's as simple as that. I think it boils down to an equilibrium thing. There's a scientific construct that states that if a system is not at equilibrium, it will strive to be. Since the world of triathlon (and society as a whole) is and continues to be male-dominated, it's "nature's way" of evening things out to have events like the Danskin Series and organizations like NOW. When we get to the point of true equality, these things will most likely go away. It probably won't happen in my lifetime, but what a great day it will be. I've also learned this in reading this thread: Possum is probably the most level-headed, clear thinking, well spoken person on this board. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() RGRBILL - 2005-07-12 12:03 PM So what IS the point of women's only triathlons? As a dad of a young girl, I have a page torn out of a book and taped to my bathroom mirror. It says "Remember that supportive fathers raise girls who have high self-esteem." Part of what I do to try to be supportive is to recognize that as a man with a healthy dose of testosterone (way too much according to some women, but somehow my guy friends never say that), I am not always going to see "the point." In fact the point may even seem silly or insignificant to me. But if it's important to her, then I need to back off and if I can't say anything nice, I just nod and smile. That's the point. It creates an opportunity for someone to do a tri in a setting that for whatever reason, clear or unclear, appeals to them personally. If you don't get it, don't judge it, criticize it, and for goodness' sake don't make fun of it. Great post, Bill! I don't really get it either, but I understand that it's important for getting women into this sport, so I'm being a swim angel. That I can help more women be active and get that feeling I felt when I crossed my first finish line is all I need to know. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() madcow - 2005-07-12 1:08 PM jkbostic - 2005-07-12 10:02 AM An example comes to mind...thinking back to Mrs. G8RSAX....I remember that she was in a race where she swam as a swim buddy with another women throughout the swim because she was feeling uncomfortable. Now Wendi wasn't a volunteer...she just decided to do this this on her own. I don't think guys would ever consider doing that. I disagree, there are plenty of guys who would do this. Point taken though I guess I feel this way because I've never seen it done yet. Maybe I'm in the wrong age group. In a way, I can't wait for next year to get to the next age group...right now, they always have my AG going right after the Elites, so I never get to watch anyone but them go off. I've read lots of stories about people volunteering to be a swim buddy...just haven't seen any men who decide to throw out their race goals at the start of a race to help a stranger get through the swim. You know...I'm gonna find me a race and do that sometime. Signed, Male (30-34) LOL |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() bballer2tri - 2005-07-11 7:09 PM OH BOY!!! This will be fun... In my opinion, "women only" events are just another example of women wanting their cake and eating it too..."I want to be equal to a man in all other regards but give me an athletic competition where it is just the girls so I do not feel uncomfortable..." JESUS!!!!! Do you think that NOW or the other liberal fem-nazi groups would ever stand for an athletic competition that was advertised as "FOR MEN ONLY." Never in a million years!!!! Lets see...a small list of traditionally male sports that have been infiltrated because of threats of sexism... Men's PGA Tour...has to allow a woman to play if she can qualify HS and College Football...let her on the team but make sure that she does not get hit too hard or in a particular area because it could be sexual harassment Hockey...let her on the team but again...not too rough. We even had a rugby club in college that a girl was allowed to join by administration mandate...she got hurt and sued the school and the guy that tackled her...total BS That being said (rant over), are women only events a good idea to get new people acclimated to the sport? Maybe...I just hate the double standard that gets set... One of the BT.com newbies "kneerad" is going to have a hissy with this post and I know I will get e-mails from her...she is one of the ultra-liberal Fem-nazis I was referring to...I know...I was in a realtionship with her for almost 2 years... that is my 2 cents.. I LOVE YOU , MAN!!! |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I LOVE YOU , MAN!!! Awww...it warms my heart to see some man-on-man love on this board. Heh... |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Lucy - 2005-07-11 7:20 PM p>There was even a Gay "Triathlon" (qu0te marks theirs) this past June at Disney during GayDays at Disney/Orlando area. You could've entered that, it was opened to straight folks too. I'm sure there were more males than females in that one. I have no idea what their three events were ![]() I will touch this ONLY by request. As in the words made famous by the Human Torch: "FLAME ON!" |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() run4yrlif - 2005-07-12 3:11 PM Why aren't there men's only triathlons? Suppose Stuff magazine, or Axe or some other company that markets to men exclusively decided to put one on. There would (for better or worse) be public outcry. Therefore it's not a marketable product. Men might sign up for them, but it wouldn't be worth the bad publicity. So they don't exist. It's as simple as that. I think it boils down to an equilibrium thing. There's a scientific construct that states that if a system is not at equilibrium, it will strive to be. Since the world of triathlon (and society as a whole) is and continues to be male-dominated, it's "nature's way" of evening things out to have events like the Danskin Series and organizations like NOW. When we get to the point of true equality, these things will most likely go away. It probably won't happen in my lifetime, but what a great day it will be. I've also learned this in reading this thread: Possum is probably the most level-headed, clear thinking, well spoken person on this board. Good post bro. I like the idea of men's only tris just as much as I support women's only tris. Its a shame that "Men's Only" is so exclusionary sounding to me, yet "Women's Only" sounds good. A tri designed around a man's lifestyle (Cologne/Aftershave in packet pickup bag, craftsman saw blade finisher's medal, testicular cancer charity) would be just as fun for men as a tri designed around a woman's lifestyle (Lipstick in packet pickup bag, breast cancer charity....) should be for women. |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Please note that the people offended by the nazi term are both from socialist states. |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Gwendal - 2005-07-11 9:06 PM Do you think that NOW or the other liberal fem-nazi groups would ever stand for an athletic competition that was advertised as "FOR MEN ONLY." Never in a million years!!!! I am seriously offended by the term fem-Nazi. Do you know what a Nazi is? Do you know what they did? Do you know how it belittling it is to equate the death of 8 million with someone who has political views different than your own? It disrespects their memory, makes a farce of their death. Please do not equate feminists with Nazis - or ANYONE whose political viewpoints you disagree with as Nazis. That's not what a Nazi is. (I don't care to attempt to educate you on any of the other things you're so ignorant about, but that one really gets me.) Gwendal PLease note that the people offended by the use of the term "Nazi" are both from Socialist states. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() cerveloP3 - 2005-07-12 12:37 PM Please note that the people offended by the nazi term are both from socialist states. Cool. Glad someone came along to be inflammatory. Just what this thread needs! |
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Resident Curmudgeon ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() cerveloP3 - 2005-07-12 1:37 PM Please note that the people offended by the nazi term are both from socialist states. There may have been only two people who expressed that they were offended, but I can assure you they are not the only two. If you're implying socialism=nazism, that's probably the dumbest thing I've ever heard on these boards. |
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Buttercup ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() cerveloP3 - 2005-07-12 2:33 PM Lucy - 2005-07-11 7:20 PM p>There was even a Gay "Triathlon" (qu0te marks theirs) this past June at Disney during GayDays at Disney/Orlando area. I will touch this ONLY by request.I'm sorry my blood sugar is low and I'm not comprehending. What about the Gay Triathlon is it you want to touch, exactly? |
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