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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() TriAya - 2013-04-02 4:23 AM Nothing weird there... bright and cheery as Easter eggs should be!4agoodlife - 2013-04-02 11:53 AM Before I go to bed and forget about Easter til next year... Sweet little piglets all! I put these up on FB--people seem to think these are oddly-colored eggs, but they look normal to me! Pretty! In any case, most fun and ultimately most delicious.
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I put in an hour on the trainer yesterday. Felt a definite difference with the bike shoes... smoothness and muscle use. Need to adjust my left clip. Much harder to unclip... Not good since my left is my bad knee. Thinking two more days on trainer then I'll take on road. ![]() |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() 4agoodlife - 2013-04-02 1:30 PM I put in an hour on the trainer yesterday. Felt a definite difference with the bike shoes... smoothness and muscle use. Need to adjust my left clip. Much harder to unclip... Not good since my left is my bad knee. Thinking two more days on trainer then I'll take on road. ![]() Smoothness is a good way to put it. It's amazing how much effort is wasted (physical or mental, don't know which) by having your foot slide around on the platform pedals. |
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Melon Presser ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jmkizer - 2013-04-03 12:36 AM 4agoodlife - 2013-04-02 1:30 PM I put in an hour on the trainer yesterday. Felt a definite difference with the bike shoes... smoothness and muscle use. Need to adjust my left clip. Much harder to unclip... Not good since my left is my bad knee. Thinking two more days on trainer then I'll take on road. ![]() Smoothness is a good way to put it. It's amazing how much effort is wasted (physical or mental, don't know which) by having your foot slide around on the platform pedals. Both, I think. Foot slidey, and a bunch of pressure going into the sponginess of a running shoe. Way to go, Goody |
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![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-01 11:57 PM Hey all--craptastic day today--I couldn't even get a workout in to decompress thanks to a stupid paper I needed to finish! Thanks manatees. Hugs and positive thoughts headed for you, your dad and your mom. Wishing him the best!! |
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![]() | ![]() bcraht - 2013-04-01 6:45 PM Just got boring old white 'n orange adidas...But they make my feet happy, so I go with 'em. The weather is so beautiful today, I decided to ride my bike to work. First day of outside riding this year...always, always, always trepidation about flats. Almost backed out because of it, but told myself to HTFU. So I get to work--oh, we were just trying to call you to tell you it's slow and don't come in! I'm kinda glad I didn't get the call, because I likely would've jammed on the ride, and just gotten on the trainer... In the end, I rode the long way home. Three bridges later, drop my bike off at the LBS to finally get narrower handlebars installed. And maybe some new red bar tape.... Wooooo, first outdoor ride of the year! On a grumpy note, our nice, springy Saturday we enjoyed last weekend is quickly a thing of the past. It was flurrying on my way to work today, grr. Winter just isn't willing to give up its grasp just yet. |
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![]() | ![]() jobaxas - 2013-04-01 9:11 PM DO EEEEEET! I'm in. Congrats, now get on your bike and ride! |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() 4agoodlife - 2013-04-02 12:40 PM TriAya - 2013-04-02 4:23 AM Nothing weird there... bright and cheery as Easter eggs should be!4agoodlife - 2013-04-02 11:53 AM Before I go to bed and forget about Easter til next year... Sweet little piglets all! I put these up on FB--people seem to think these are oddly-colored eggs, but they look normal to me! Pretty! In any case, most fun and ultimately most delicious.
I'm not sure which is brighter, the eggs, or Mutti's smile. It is nice to see her smiling. |
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Melon Presser ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() cdban66 - 2013-04-03 1:04 AM 4agoodlife - 2013-04-02 12:40 PM TriAya - 2013-04-02 4:23 AM Nothing weird there... bright and cheery as Easter eggs should be!4agoodlife - 2013-04-02 11:53 AM Before I go to bed and forget about Easter til next year... Sweet little piglets all! I put these up on FB--people seem to think these are oddly-colored eggs, but they look normal to me! Pretty! In any case, most fun and ultimately most delicious.
I'm not sure which is brighter, the eggs, or Mutti's smile. It is nice to see her smiling. I'm going to print this out and show it to her. It'll make her cry, but in a good way. Like, with bright smiles too. |
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![]() | ![]() I have a few little pre marathon questions. 1. I'm going to be doing quite a bit of traveling in the next few weeks (pre and post marathon) Should I get some compression socks? Does it really matter which type I get? I am not going to run in them so I have no need for "performance" types (whatever that means) but it's a little hard to decide when the spectrum is from like $10 diabetes socks all the way to $60-$70 CEP versions. 2. How careful do I need to be about the amount of walking I do while site seeing? I plan to spend as much time on my rear doing some R&R (and going to a Red Sox game) the day before but how about the entire week before? I need this spelled out a bit for me. |
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I just received the update from my mom. Dad made it through surgery with no issues. They said that he has only minor heart disease, with very little blockage. They are concerned by the large amount of fluid around his heart and lungs, so they are keeping him for at least one night, maybe two. Thats the good part---They want him to get more active to get rid of the fluid, BUT, due to the diabetes, he has some major foot issues happening, as in swelling, and a great deal of pain. He can't put his feet up, as it hurts his chest, and then his feet get tingly. He doesn't want to move around because then it hurts his feet. So I am curious as to what the docs will tell him to do...I was thinking he can at least get a bit active by moving around his upper body--(Hand-bike thingy????), I don't know, Its best left to better minds then mine probably. Sadly, its most likely easier to get him to change his eating habits than it is to get him active; the least amount of pain, and he refuses to do anymore....Sorry to whine, but to know how little it would actually take him to get better, and yet he doesn't want to even try cause "it hurts" (this isn't new, he has been like this for 20+ years), it just makes me sad. I HOPE this wake-up call really does flip a switch, he can really drive me up a wall, but I am not ready to say goodbye just yet. Thanks again pod for letting me vent. |
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Melon Presser ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Asalzwed - 2013-04-03 1:56 AM I have a few little pre marathon questions. 1. I'm going to be doing quite a bit of traveling in the next few weeks (pre and post marathon) Should I get some compression socks? Does it really matter which type I get? I am not going to run in them so I have no need for "performance" types (whatever that means) but it's a little hard to decide when the spectrum is from like $10 diabetes socks all the way to $60-$70 CEP versions. 2. How careful do I need to be about the amount of walking I do while site seeing? I plan to spend as much time on my rear doing some R&R (and going to a Red Sox game) the day before but how about the entire week before? I need this spelled out a bit for me. 1. Old-lady compression hose is great, usually available at your corner drugstore, not too dear, and does the whole leg. 2. Pretty careful. I'd say at the very least don't walk any more than you would in an ordinary week, and preferably a lot less. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-02 3:01 PM I just received the update from my mom. Dad made it through surgery with no issues. They said that he has only minor heart disease, with very little blockage. They are concerned by the large amount of fluid around his heart and lungs, so they are keeping him for at least one night, maybe two. Good news! Thats the good part---They want him to get more active to get rid of the fluid, BUT, due to the diabetes, he has some major foot issues happening, as in swelling, and a great deal of pain. He can't put his feet up, as it hurts his chest, and then his feet get tingly. He doesn't want to move around because then it hurts his feet. So I am curious as to what the docs will tell him to do...I was thinking he can at least get a bit active by moving around his upper body--(Hand-bike thingy????), I don't know, Its best left to better minds then mine probably. Sadly, its most likely easier to get him to change his eating habits than it is to get him active; the least amount of pain, and he refuses to do anymore....Sorry to whine, but to know how little it would actually take him to get better, and yet he doesn't want to even try cause "it hurts" (this isn't new, he has been like this for 20+ years), it just makes me sad. I HOPE this wake-up call really does flip a switch, he can really drive me up a wall, but I am not ready to say goodbye just yet. Thanks again pod for letting me vent. Vent away. I wish that I had some awesome suggestion for you. The only thing that popped into my mind was pool walking but goodness knows that my father wouldn't do that. |
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![]() | ![]() TriAya - 2013-04-02 2:03 PM Asalzwed - 2013-04-03 1:56 AM I have a few little pre marathon questions. 1. I'm going to be doing quite a bit of traveling in the next few weeks (pre and post marathon) Should I get some compression socks? Does it really matter which type I get? I am not going to run in them so I have no need for "performance" types (whatever that means) but it's a little hard to decide when the spectrum is from like $10 diabetes socks all the way to $60-$70 CEP versions. 2. How careful do I need to be about the amount of walking I do while site seeing? I plan to spend as much time on my rear doing some R&R (and going to a Red Sox game) the day before but how about the entire week before? I need this spelled out a bit for me. 1. Old-lady compression hose is great, usually available at your corner drugstore, not too dear, and does the whole leg. 2. Pretty careful. I'd say at the very least don't walk any more than you would in an ordinary week, and preferably a lot less. 1. Ima be so hawt 2. Fuuuuuuudddggeee |
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![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-02 2:01 PM I just received the update from my mom. Dad made it through surgery with no issues. They said that he has only minor heart disease, with very little blockage. They are concerned by the large amount of fluid around his heart and lungs, so they are keeping him for at least one night, maybe two. Thats the good part---They want him to get more active to get rid of the fluid, BUT, due to the diabetes, he has some major foot issues happening, as in swelling, and a great deal of pain. He can't put his feet up, as it hurts his chest, and then his feet get tingly. He doesn't want to move around because then it hurts his feet. So I am curious as to what the docs will tell him to do...I was thinking he can at least get a bit active by moving around his upper body--(Hand-bike thingy????), I don't know, Its best left to better minds then mine probably. Sadly, its most likely easier to get him to change his eating habits than it is to get him active; the least amount of pain, and he refuses to do anymore....Sorry to whine, but to know how little it would actually take him to get better, and yet he doesn't want to even try cause "it hurts" (this isn't new, he has been like this for 20+ years), it just makes me sad. I HOPE this wake-up call really does flip a switch, he can really drive me up a wall, but I am not ready to say goodbye just yet. Thanks again pod for letting me vent. Well, overall that is good news.
Sigh, what is it about fathers and their stubbornness. |
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Melon Presser ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-03 2:01 AM I just received the update from my mom. Dad made it through surgery with no issues. They said that he has only minor heart disease, with very little blockage. They are concerned by the large amount of fluid around his heart and lungs, so they are keeping him for at least one night, maybe two. Thats the good part---They want him to get more active to get rid of the fluid, BUT, due to the diabetes, he has some major foot issues happening, as in swelling, and a great deal of pain. He can't put his feet up, as it hurts his chest, and then his feet get tingly. He doesn't want to move around because then it hurts his feet. So I am curious as to what the docs will tell him to do...I was thinking he can at least get a bit active by moving around his upper body--(Hand-bike thingy????), I don't know, Its best left to better minds then mine probably. Sadly, its most likely easier to get him to change his eating habits than it is to get him active; the least amount of pain, and he refuses to do anymore....Sorry to whine, but to know how little it would actually take him to get better, and yet he doesn't want to even try cause "it hurts" (this isn't new, he has been like this for 20+ years), it just makes me sad. I HOPE this wake-up call really does flip a switch, he can really drive me up a wall, but I am not ready to say goodbye just yet. Thanks again pod for letting me vent. Dang, lady, I've been there. My dad had pretty uncontrolled diabetes for nearly 60 years, as well as fairly serious heart disease and a whole host of other crap. I'm glad he made it through well. And yes, there are a lot of movement options--and yes, "how little it would take." Best thing you can do is encourage ... and personally, I'd tell him you're not ready to say goodbye to him yet. |
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() TriAya - 2013-04-02 12:12 PM personally, I'd tell him you're not ready to say goodbye to him yet. I told him that last night. |
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Asalzwed - 2013-04-02 12:07 PM Sigh, what is it about fathers and their stubbornness. NO KIDDING! Even worse, my mother is as stubborn, if not more so! I, of course, am not stubborn AT ALL.... |
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Melon Presser ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-03 2:19 AM TriAya - 2013-04-02 12:12 PM personally, I'd tell him you're not ready to say goodbye to him yet. I told him that last night. In completely random news, my ex-mother-in-law was Baby Fay's chief nurse. |
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jmkizer - 2013-04-02 12:06 PM The only thing that popped into my mind was pool walking but goodness knows that my father wouldn't do that. I think he might, but he would have to join a gym first--I may suggest that once he is released. Thankfully, my 24 hour fitness is near their house, not terribly expensive, and their pool is kept pretty clean. We shall see. |
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() TriAya - 2013-04-02 12:21 PM kgore - 2013-04-03 2:19 AM TriAya - 2013-04-02 12:12 PM personally, I'd tell him you're not ready to say goodbye to him yet. I told him that last night. In completely random news, my ex-mother-in-law was Baby Fay's chief nurse. Random, but cool at the same time. |
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![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-02 2:21 PM Asalzwed - 2013-04-02 12:07 PM Sigh, what is it about fathers and their stubbornness. NO KIDDING! Even worse, my mother is as stubborn, if not more so! I, of course, am not stubborn AT ALL.... My mom is stubborn in a different way, more annoying, less ... life threatening.
My father will die before he goes to the doctor. Unless he goes unconscious and is taken in an ambulance. And he is getting older now too (my dad is 15 years older than my mom, and this is both of their second marriages. ) Sometimes I really worry. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() TriAya - 2013-04-02 3:12 PM kgore - 2013-04-03 2:01 AM I just received the update from my mom. Dad made it through surgery with no issues. They said that he has only minor heart disease, with very little blockage. They are concerned by the large amount of fluid around his heart and lungs, so they are keeping him for at least one night, maybe two. Thats the good part---They want him to get more active to get rid of the fluid, BUT, due to the diabetes, he has some major foot issues happening, as in swelling, and a great deal of pain. He can't put his feet up, as it hurts his chest, and then his feet get tingly. He doesn't want to move around because then it hurts his feet. So I am curious as to what the docs will tell him to do...I was thinking he can at least get a bit active by moving around his upper body--(Hand-bike thingy????), I don't know, Its best left to better minds then mine probably. Sadly, its most likely easier to get him to change his eating habits than it is to get him active; the least amount of pain, and he refuses to do anymore....Sorry to whine, but to know how little it would actually take him to get better, and yet he doesn't want to even try cause "it hurts" (this isn't new, he has been like this for 20+ years), it just makes me sad. I HOPE this wake-up call really does flip a switch, he can really drive me up a wall, but I am not ready to say goodbye just yet. Thanks again pod for letting me vent. Dang, lady, I've been there. My dad had pretty uncontrolled diabetes for nearly 60 years, as well as fairly serious heart disease and a whole host of other crap. I'm glad he made it through well. And yes, there are a lot of movement options--and yes, "how little it would take." Best thing you can do is encourage ... and personally, I'd tell him you're not ready to say goodbye to him yet. ^^^^^This^^^^^ Spend time with him if you can, enjoy whatever time you get with him, don't take the crappy parts to heart and encourage away. Also, if you can work with the docs, you will be way ahead of the game. BTW, we ended up using Skype to spend time with my daughter while she was working on the ship. Technology is a wonderful thing, and while it will never replace being there with someone, it is a bit better then email or texting. So, if it is tough to get there in person, you may be able to set up something like this. We almost ended up doing virtual Doctor visits using Skype as well. I feel your pain, we are about to walk down some of these same paths with my family and have been there with TW's family. {{{HUGS}}} |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-02 12:19 PM TriAya - 2013-04-02 12:12 PM personally, I'd tell him you're not ready to say goodbye to him yet. I told him that last night. Good to hear the update |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() kgore - 2013-04-02 12:01 PM I just received the update from my mom. Dad made it through surgery with no issues. They said that he has only minor heart disease, with very little blockage. They are concerned by the large amount of fluid around his heart and lungs, so they are keeping him for at least one night, maybe two. Thats the good part---They want him to get more active to get rid of the fluid, BUT, due to the diabetes, he has some major foot issues happening, as in swelling, and a great deal of pain. He can't put his feet up, as it hurts his chest, and then his feet get tingly. He doesn't want to move around because then it hurts his feet. So I am curious as to what the docs will tell him to do...I was thinking he can at least get a bit active by moving around his upper body--(Hand-bike thingy????), I don't know, Its best left to better minds then mine probably. Sadly, its most likely easier to get him to change his eating habits than it is to get him active; the least amount of pain, and he refuses to do anymore....Sorry to whine, but to know how little it would actually take him to get better, and yet he doesn't want to even try cause "it hurts" (this isn't new, he has been like this for 20+ years), it just makes me sad. I HOPE this wake-up call really does flip a switch, he can really drive me up a wall, but I am not ready to say goodbye just yet. Thanks again pod for letting me vent. Glad to hear the surgery went well. I hope the docs give him something he can do that he will be willing to do! |
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