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2009-02-18 3:34 PM
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ATXtri - 2009-02-18 4:28 PM

MEh, hang in there chica. You're a catch. If he isn't sticking around, its gonna be okay. We're here for you!!! I hope it goes well tonight. Good idea on being at your house. Much better regardless of whichever way it goes.

i'm not super worried about it to be honest.  i mean, yeah i'll cry and be miserable and depressed for a little, but then i'll scrounge up my frequent flyer miles, go visit someone that lives somewhere warm for a weekend, and get back to being my awesome self.

of course, that may not be how the night goes, but i'm hoping for the best, preparing for the worst.

there ya go. Some place warm! Ooh I want to go to the beach RIGHT NOW.

I was thinking the same thing...  Vacation.  I could use one.  Just crappy timing.  Less income coming in, etc...



Vacation would be awesome right now. I'm taking friday off for a long ride. looks like it will be warm and sunny. It might feel like a mini vacation?


2009-02-18 3:34 PM
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ATXtri - 2009-02-18 1:33 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 3:32 PM
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meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:28 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 4:27 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 1:26 PM
Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:22 PM

could go either way,,, guys will say something like that when they are ready to propose also

i am 110% sure that is NOT what he wants to talk about.

Probably just wants to talk about where it's going, I'm guessing...

Are you exclusive yet?  Live together maybe?

we are and have been exclusive (he was the one dropping "boyfriend/girlfriend" and "i love you" first)

and i'm pretty sure he doesn't want us to live together.  i own my home and his lease is about to run out and he is looking at renting a house with a friend of his.  he can't exactly invite himself to move in with me, and neither of us want that anyway.

So chances are you won't be married with 'kido and Mrs. Kido as the witnesses by morning?

But married TO kido and Mrs. Kido is always an option.  Utah is only 60 minutes away....

Anyone else see the polygamists article on msn today?

go girl!  Two hubbies.  It's probably hard to nag two husbands though...

2009-02-18 3:34 PM
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Oh BTW, it's sunny and 80 degrees out there today. I'm stuck in the office.... rrrrrrr.
2009-02-18 3:35 PM
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Artemis - 2009-02-18 4:29 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 4:24 PM
mr2tony - 2009-02-18 4:19 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:18 PM
mr2tony - 2009-02-18 4:16 PM
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mr2tony - 2009-02-18 4:14 PM
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i'm debating leaving now since i worked long days mon and tues, and just knocking this project out in the morning. no patience for fussy software right now.

i'll be sure to keep you posted kiddies, i think a big change is coming tonight.

Uh oh. Givin it up finally?

ha no. quite the opposite.

Oh. OK. Yikes. Sorry.

we shall see. i've had all day to mentally prepare for this. just not often it's the guy that says "maybe we need to talk about our relationship." whatever shakes out tonight i'll be ok.

You know I hate when people do that. Just say it. Don't make someone suffer all frickin' day thinking about what you're going to say. Just do it.

yeah agreed, but i could also argue for not wanting to do it over the phone. give the person some respect and do it in person. i said well if we're having a talk we're having it at my house, that way i don't need to worry about driving home after whatever is said...i know "they" say you need to do it on neutral territory but he won't cry and i will and i want to be able to get in bed with the doggie and start to forget about him without having to wonder how i'll get my butt home without dying.

It's usually better in person, but warning you it's coming isn't very nice.  It's just stressful.

That's also annoying after all the CH drama.   

and its also annoying cause we got through that and things were perfect.  we had a really great weekend.  i'm in a really fabulous relationship.  but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it.  sooooo although things are super now, we just have way different ideas of what the future is like.  (NO i am not pressuring him or talking about marriage but when he asks where i want to be in 5 years the honest answer is living further south married and making something around 75K doing what i do now for a bigger better company)

2009-02-18 3:36 PM
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Someplace warm would be wonderful.
2009-02-18 3:36 PM
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Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 4:32 PM
mr2tony - 2009-02-18 1:30 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:28 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 4:27 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 1:26 PM
Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:22 PM

could go either way,,, guys will say something like that when they are ready to propose also

i am 110% sure that is NOT what he wants to talk about.

Probably just wants to talk about where it's going, I'm guessing...

Are you exclusive yet?  Live together maybe?

we are and have been exclusive (he was the one dropping "boyfriend/girlfriend" and "i love you" first)

and i'm pretty sure he doesn't want us to live together.  i own my home and his lease is about to run out and he is looking at renting a house with a friend of his.  he can't exactly invite himself to move in with me, and neither of us want that anyway.

So chances are you won't be married with 'kido and Mrs. Kido as the witnesses by morning?

But married TO kido and Mrs. Kido is always an option.  Utah is only 60 minutes away....

GOD DOES ANSWER PRAYERS!!!  meh + mrs kido = tru luv



2009-02-18 3:37 PM
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Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 3:34 PM

ATXtri - 2009-02-18 1:33 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 3:32 PM
mr2tony - 2009-02-18 1:30 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:28 PM
Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 4:27 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 1:26 PM
Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:22 PM

could go either way,,, guys will say something like that when they are ready to propose also

i am 110% sure that is NOT what he wants to talk about.

Probably just wants to talk about where it's going, I'm guessing...

Are you exclusive yet?  Live together maybe?

we are and have been exclusive (he was the one dropping "boyfriend/girlfriend" and "i love you" first)

and i'm pretty sure he doesn't want us to live together.  i own my home and his lease is about to run out and he is looking at renting a house with a friend of his.  he can't exactly invite himself to move in with me, and neither of us want that anyway.

So chances are you won't be married with 'kido and Mrs. Kido as the witnesses by morning?

But married TO kido and Mrs. Kido is always an option.  Utah is only 60 minutes away....

Anyone else see the polygamists article on msn today?

go girl!  Two hubbies.  It's probably hard to nag two husbands though...



You saying you want me to move out there and marry Mrs. Kido? I mean, that's what I heard.
2009-02-18 3:44 PM
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lisac957 - 2009-02-18 3:24 PM
Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 3:22 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:18 PM
mr2tony - 2009-02-18 4:16 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:15 PM
mr2tony - 2009-02-18 4:14 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:12 PM

i'm debating leaving now since i worked long days mon and tues, and just knocking this project out in the morning.  no patience for fussy software right now.

i'll be sure to keep you posted kiddies, i think a big change is coming tonight.

Uh oh. Givin it up finally?

ha no.  quite the opposite.

Oh. OK. Yikes. Sorry.

we shall see.  i've had all day to mentally prepare for this.  just not often it's the guy that says "maybe we need to talk about our relationship."  whatever shakes out tonight i'll be ok.

could go either way,,, guys will say something like that when they are ready to propose also

Gary's in TAN?? Uh oh.

 

nah... just finally got caught up some,, and I'm off to a church conference the next two days, so my afternoon was not booked.....    It's hard to complain about being busy at work when so many people are not working

 

2009-02-18 3:53 PM
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meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:35 PM

but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it. 

Have you read the book "He's just not that into you"? Or seen the movie? One of the "isms" is if he doesn't want to marry you. Red flag.

 

2009-02-18 3:55 PM
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lisac957 - 2009-02-18 4:53 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:35 PM

but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it. 

Have you read the book "He's just not that into you"? Or seen the movie? One of the "isms" is if he doesn't want to marry you. Red flag.

 

yup.  i know.  but of course, like every other girl, i will try to rationalize out why it doesn't apply to him.  ohhhh yeah i know.



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2009-02-18 3:56 PM
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lisac957 - 2009-02-18 3:53 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:35 PM

but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it. 

Have you read the book "He's just not that into you"? Or seen the movie? One of the "isms" is if he doesn't want to marry you. Red flag.

I saw that movie ... of course the had to make it a hollywood ending where everything works out.. mostly



2009-02-18 3:58 PM
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Somone annonymously mailed me that book when my BF of 5.5 years broke up with me. It was crazy enlightning. Still don't know who sent it to me.

 

2009-02-18 3:59 PM
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Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:56 PM
lisac957 - 2009-02-18 3:53 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:35 PM

but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it. 

Have you read the book "He's just not that into you"? Or seen the movie? One of the "isms" is if he doesn't want to marry you. Red flag.

I saw that movie ... of course the had to make it a hollywood ending where everything works out.. mostly

i didn't see the movie but heard that it basically defeated the purpose of the whole book, that when you meet the right man, you don't need to fix him or change his mind, he will WANT commitment and all the things you want. 

2009-02-18 3:59 PM
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lisac957 - 2009-02-18 3:58 PM

Somone annonymously mailed me that book when my BF of 5.5 years broke up with me. It was crazy enlightning. Still don't know who sent it to me.

 

you're welcome

 

2009-02-18 4:00 PM
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lisac957 - 2009-02-18 4:58 PM

Somone annonymously mailed me that book when my BF of 5.5 years broke up with me. It was crazy enlightning. Still don't know who sent it to me.

 

i read it while in my last relationship that i KNEW was a complete dead end and stayed with him too long anyways.  i'm just an idiot when it comes to relationships.

2009-02-18 4:03 PM
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meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:59 PM
Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:56 PM
lisac957 - 2009-02-18 3:53 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:35 PM

but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it. 

Have you read the book "He's just not that into you"? Or seen the movie? One of the "isms" is if he doesn't want to marry you. Red flag.

I saw that movie ... of course the had to make it a hollywood ending where everything works out.. mostly

i didn't see the movie but heard that it basically defeated the purpose of the whole book, that when you meet the right man, you don't need to fix him or change his mind, he will WANT commitment and all the things you want. 

****SPOILER ALERT ****

Yeah the ending was stupid. The "... if he doesn't want to marry you" guy ended up proposing in the end. And the point of the book is that that never happens. If you've been with a guy for 5 or 7 or whatever years and he doesn't want to marry you, he never will. Or if he does, he's doing it for the wrong reasons (you pressured him, gave an ultimatum, etc.).

Cute movie though.



2009-02-18 4:04 PM
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alright kiddies.  start directing your hot athletic ambitious marriage-and-kids type single guy friends towards my profile just in case.

talk to you in the morning.

2009-02-18 4:05 PM
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lisac957 - 2009-02-18 2:03 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:59 PM
Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:56 PM
lisac957 - 2009-02-18 3:53 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:35 PM

but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it. 

Have you read the book "He's just not that into you"? Or seen the movie? One of the "isms" is if he doesn't want to marry you. Red flag.

I saw that movie ... of course the had to make it a hollywood ending where everything works out.. mostly

i didn't see the movie but heard that it basically defeated the purpose of the whole book, that when you meet the right man, you don't need to fix him or change his mind, he will WANT commitment and all the things you want. 

****SPOILER ALERT ****

Yeah the ending was stupid. The "... if he doesn't want to marry you" guy ended up proposing in the end. And the point of the book is that that never happens. If you've been with a guy for 5 or 7 or whatever years and he doesn't want to marry you, he never will. Or if he does, he's doing it for the wrong reasons (you pressured him, gave an ultimatum, etc.).

Cute movie though.

Absolute truth.

2009-02-18 4:05 PM
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meherczeg - 2009-02-18 2:04 PM

alright kiddies.  start directing your hot athletic ambitious marriage-and-kids type single guy friends towards my profile just in case.

talk to you in the morning.

good luck!

2009-02-18 4:08 PM
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Aikidoman - 2009-02-18 4:05 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 2:04 PM

alright kiddies.  start directing your hot athletic ambitious marriage-and-kids type single guy friends towards my profile just in case.

talk to you in the morning.

good luck!

x2

2009-02-18 4:10 PM
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Hope it works out, Meh.


2009-02-18 4:11 PM
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Hope it goes well, Meh!
2009-02-18 4:14 PM
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lisac957 - 2009-02-18 4:03 PM
meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:59 PM
Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:56 PM
lisac957 - 2009-02-18 3:53 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-18 3:35 PM

but we were talking about "where you see yourselves in 5 years" and i said married (not to him, just in general!  i want husband/kids)  and he is damn near deathly opposed to it. 

Have you read the book "He's just not that into you"? Or seen the movie? One of the "isms" is if he doesn't want to marry you. Red flag.

I saw that movie ... of course the had to make it a hollywood ending where everything works out.. mostly

i didn't see the movie but heard that it basically defeated the purpose of the whole book, that when you meet the right man, you don't need to fix him or change his mind, he will WANT commitment and all the things you want. 

****SPOILER ALERT ****

Yeah the ending was stupid. The "... if he doesn't want to marry you" guy ended up proposing in the end. And the point of the book is that that never happens. If you've been with a guy for 5 or 7 or whatever years and he doesn't want to marry you, he never will. Or if he does, he's doing it for the wrong reasons (you pressured him, gave an ultimatum, etc.).

Cute movie though.

what ticked me off is the married guy who cheats.  (of course the actor was a complete a$$ in wedding crashers also so I just dont' like him)    Any guy should know that he can't put himself in that type of a situation for long before he trips up... it might be a day/week/month/year  but he will most likely stray.   
the one big truth is that if a guy wants to be with you,, he will find a way

2009-02-18 4:16 PM
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wait... is me-hurts single now?

edit nm... read the back posts



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2009-02-18 4:20 PM
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Gaarryy - 2009-02-18 4:14 PM

what ticked me off is the married guy who cheats. 

the one big truth is that if a guy wants to be with you,, he will find a way

Yeah that was 2 "isms" in one...
"... if he's cheating on you" AND
"... if he's married"

I think.
And yes, I agree with finding a way. SO true.

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