Subject: RE: Is it wrong?newleaf - 2009-05-27 6:52 PM As long as you, or any of the other women who might respond to this thread saying that it's ok, don't ever complain about a guy ogling you, in a situation that it's not to your benefit, sure, use your cleavage.
But, if one was to complain about it when it isn't to her advantage, and use it other times, that would make her a hypocrite. I know. You are absolutely right. I wasn't looking for this attention and he wasn't obvious or rude or anything. My thinking has always been if you don't want men checking you out then maybe you should be more careful with your wardrobe. For most of us women work out wear is function not fashion. It's not like I was wearing something super low cut but the counter is low and I was somewhat bent over. I've never been the type to blame guys for looking becuase.... well.... I look so how can I blame them? I don't consider myself a feminist but I think that is where they guilt comes from. Does that make sense? |