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 2010-01-12 6:46 PM |
Champion  6046    New York, NY |  Subject: OMG will the pain ever stop????I went to bike class tonight, which thankfully the mof was not showing up to - the class that I NEED right now.... and there waiting for me was a box..... all the gifts I have given him.... It was like reading the original email all over again.....so much for bike class.... I ran out of there so fast....I am on double kamikaze number 4 and still in pain.... wtf.... hasn't he hurt me enough???? |
| 2010-01-12 6:49 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Expert 1456 Central New Jersey | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? He is trying to manipulate you. He got caught, you got mad, he got hurt, lost what he wanted, so now wants to hurt you instead of taking any responsibility for himself. His actions show him to be an arrogant SOB. You deserve FAR better than that. Don't drown your sorrows, that is exactly what he wants, to hurt you. Don't let him. You are strong! |
| 2010-01-12 6:55 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Pro 4311 Texas | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? Pawn the gifts, use the money to buy tequila, a disposable camera, and a gigolo, then send the results to his house. Bonus points if his wife opens the package first. |
| 2010-01-12 6:55 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? |
| 2010-01-12 6:56 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Elite 4547 | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? Hang in there TriToy. Personally, I would want those gifts back! I'd also be tempted to write a nice little note to his soon-to-be ex-wife as well. Give her an "atta-girl" on dumping this jerk. Don't beat yourself up over this guy...he's not worth it!!!! |
| 2010-01-12 7:01 PM in reply to: #2610593 |
Pro 4313 McKinney, TX | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? JBrashear - 2010-01-12 6:55 PM Pawn the gifts, use the money to buy tequila, a disposable camera, and a gigolo, then send the results to his house. Bonus points if his wife opens the package first. Or.....take the box over to his house and leave it for his wife to find (if you know her name....mail it to her)....with a note explaining the situation, that he said that he was getting a divorce (do we know this to be a fact or was he just cheating) but now he's just gone overboard and that she should be very cautious of what she's doing....and that while you're clean you never know who else he's sleeping with and that she might catch something. And end it with.....he's not even that good in bed, he's borderline psychotic, and ask her what she ever saw in him. or just laugh it off and get wicked smashed..... |
| 2010-01-12 7:07 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Buttercup 14334 | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? You forgot to mention what a drama queen he was! I guess he hasn't yet given up on trying to get a rise out of you. Passive-aggressive people are so talented at pushing buttons and getting others to act (or react). Want to frustrate him? Continue ignoring him. Wait until he uses the "I'm sorry I took an emotional dump on you. Can't we be friends?" routine. That's my favorite. Sorry for your pain. Make sure you call a taxi. Personally, I'd go with tequila but we all get to pick our poison. |
| 2010-01-12 7:18 PM in reply to: #2610585 |
| Regular 71 | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? I totally agree with wwlani. He is trying to manipulate you...it's not nice or fair. I'm sorry you are going through this! I would rather have my arm cut off than go throught that kind of emotional pain ever again. Exercising is a great way to ditch the sorrow and pain, anger and frustration...I wish you luck getting through this. |
| 2010-01-12 7:23 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Master 2621 Almaden Valley, San Jose, California | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? I'm sorry, Cat. This truly stinks. A good red wine, and lots of it. |
| 2010-01-12 7:25 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Pro 4612 MA | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? No reaction is the best reaction. He would be disappointed to know whatever he does can no longer affect you in any way. |
| 2010-01-12 7:41 PM in reply to: #2610593 |
Champion 8540 the colony texas | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? JBrashear - 2010-01-12 6:55 PM Pawn the gifts, use the money to buy tequila, a disposable camera, and a gigolo, then send the results to his house. Bonus points if his wife opens the package first. ditto |
| 2010-01-12 7:50 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Expert 632 Cornfields of Illinois | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? So sorry about this....what an ultimate dbag and manipulator he is...i say sell the things on craigslist or ebay and buy yourself a nice spa day or some other self pampering thing |
| 2010-01-12 8:02 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Champion 6786 Two seat rocket plane | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? I got nothing on the heatrbreak side of things, but I know a thing or two about hangovers. Drink a lot of water before you go to bed. You're cool and tough, you'll be fine. |
| 2010-01-12 9:06 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Extreme Veteran 3177 | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? I would recommend chocolate, maybe ice cream, and a really good movie (for me scary would be better but whatever gets you going.) Call some of your friends over, especially if they are girls, tell them you have chocolate and Ice cream and need to hang out watching the movie...enjoy yourself then remember to completely forget him because he is not worth it, ever. |
| 2010-01-12 9:09 PM in reply to: #2610654 |
| Payson, AZ | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? D.K. - 2010-01-12 5:25 PM No reaction is the best reaction. He would be disappointed to know whatever he does can no longer affect you in any way. I agree with this. Obviously your going to react, but keep it here and among friends. It'll bug the crap out of him thinking you don't care enough to react. |
| 2010-01-12 9:11 PM in reply to: #2610654 |
Master 1795 Boynton Beach, FL | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? D.K. - 2010-01-12 8:25 PM No reaction is the best reaction. x100. Take pride in knowing that you can smile inside while he waits for a reaction that never comes. And yes, feel free to lift your spirits with more spirits  |
| 2010-01-12 9:18 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Champion 4942 Richmond, VA | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? Easier said then done, but don't give him the satisfaction. On the bright side, your got your stuff back! BONFIRE!!! |
| 2010-01-12 9:25 PM in reply to: #2610654 |
Regular 534 Philadelphia | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? D.K. - 2010-01-12 8:25 PM No reaction is the best reaction. He would be disappointed to know whatever he does can no longer affect you in any way. x a billion.  |
| 2010-01-12 9:28 PM in reply to: #2610821 |
Pro 4277 Parker, CO | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? cardenas1 - 2010-01-12 8:11 PM D.K. - 2010-01-12 8:25 PM No reaction is the best reaction. x100. Take pride in knowing that you can smile inside while he waits for a reaction that never comes. And yes, feel free to lift your spirits with more spirits x1000 what a dipsh*t! I can't believe people still play these kind of games after 30. sorry for you that you ever met this a-hole! You will laugh about this someday. |
 2010-01-12 10:57 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
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| 2010-01-12 11:14 PM in reply to: #2610579 |
Champion 6627 Rochester Hills, Michigan Gold member | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? And I quote: I been livin' a long time I been givin' a long time too And I can't believe I wasted so much time on you But time has brought me back around Back around to me And I feel so free Yeah Now who's gonna give me some sugar tonight? |
| 2010-01-12 11:45 PM in reply to: #2610674 |
| Pro 4311 Texas | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? Gaarryy - 2010-01-12 7:41 PM JBrashear - 2010-01-12 6:55 PM Pawn the gifts, use the money to buy tequila, a disposable camera, and a gigolo, then send the results to his house. Bonus points if his wife opens the package first. ditto p.s. Check your back porch for something from UPS. |
| 2010-01-13 7:28 AM in reply to: #2610579 |
| Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? I did send a letter to his wife - with his email in it. I was able to return the garmin edge, the maps will work on the one he gave me (so not giving it back) and yeah really nice bike jacket and sunglasses with extra lenses will have to be sold..... He even put the supplements that I gave him in the box - after he asked me what he should be taking!!! I bet divorce was not even happening - so really happy I wrote the letter. and I am so hung over......I did this at home - I don't remember some of the evening. Woke up on bathroom floor - had a pillow and a blanket in there an everything (no memory of that part). older son apparently took pictures - I hope they are erased.... no way am I swimming today!!! at least not this morning....oh and I have to pull it together to tape a news segment this afternoon!!! bwahahah! |
| 2010-01-13 8:15 AM in reply to: #2611148 |
| Champion 5615 | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? TriToy - 2010-01-13 8:28 AM I did send a letter to his wife - with his email in it. I was able to return the garmin edge, the maps will work on the one he gave me (so not giving it back) and yeah really nice bike jacket and sunglasses with extra lenses will have to be sold..... He even put the supplements that I gave him in the box - after he asked me what he should be taking!!! I bet divorce was not even happening - so really happy I wrote the letter. and I am so hung over......I did this at home - I don't remember some of the evening. Woke up on bathroom floor - had a pillow and a blanket in there an everything (no memory of that part). older son apparently took pictures - I hope they are erased.... no way am I swimming today!!! at least not this morning....oh and I have to pull it together to tape a news segment this afternoon!!! bwahahah! I'm hoping that your son was the one considerate enough to give you the pillow and blanket, even after taking drunken pics of you. If there are athletic materials you want to dispense, there is always the Pay It Forward thread in the Classifieds forum. Seems like a win-win proposition to me. |
| 2010-01-13 8:21 AM in reply to: #2610579 |
| Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: OMG will the pain ever stop???? I will just say good TT, It will get better. |
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