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2012-05-08 3:43 PM

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Subject: First Mothers Day.. What to do?

I am not sure what to do for my wifes first mothers day. We are having a family dinner the night before that I am cooking and all that but what is something cool to do for my wife on her first mothers day. I am not very good at these sorts of things.



2012-05-08 3:45 PM
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Something that represents the child.  maybe one of those plaster casts of the foot print, or a stepping stone for the garden.  A framed picture of the baby ??
2012-05-08 3:47 PM
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I agree something from the baby. Some kind of Mama treat would be lovely too. Maybe a GC to nail spa and Starbucks giftcard?

2012-05-08 3:52 PM
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Well she loves her pandora bracelet so I got her a mother-daughter collection charm.. She wears mother and my daughter wears daughter. I do like the idea of the footprint. I could pick up some cement on saturday and do it real quick while she is out grocery shopping with her parents

 

2012-05-08 4:02 PM
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A nice little gift and maybe letting her have time to do what she wants. Like sleep in or something! Or a day spa. First year and first kid are pretty tiring.
2012-05-08 4:05 PM
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Yeah I went today to check out places that do manicures and pedicures for her. I was thinking about setting it up for her and her friend so they could have a girls day while I stayed home with our girl and cleaned the house.


2012-05-08 4:12 PM
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DUDE!  That one is so EASY!!!

Make up a coupon booklet for her.  So much better than anything store bought!  Ideas to include in it...

  1. Two, "free" 1-hr full body massages.  "Free" being with nothing in return.
  2. Ten, "no questions asked" (NQA) diaper changings.
  3. Two, MNOs (Mommies Nights Out) - NQA.
  4. Two, "free" foot massages while you watch TV together.
  5. Four, you sleep, I'll get up with the baby in the middle of the night - NQA.
  6. Three, Free NQA nap times for mommy - you're in charge.
  7. One, "I get to eat what I want and you can't give me bad or strange looks."
  8. One (and only ONE); You come with me to my chick-flick - NQA.

Stuff like that.  That's what she REALLY wants!  Tongue out

 

2012-05-08 4:14 PM
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Bigfuzzydoug - 2012-05-08 4:12 PM

DUDE!  That one is so EASY!!!

Make up a coupon booklet for her.  So much better than anything store bought!  Ideas to include in it...

  1. Two, "free" 1-hr full body massages.  "Free" being with nothing in return.
  2. Ten, "no questions asked" (NQA) diaper changings.
  3. Two, MNOs (Mommies Nights Out) - NQA.
  4. Two, "free" foot massages while you watch TV together.
  5. Four, you sleep, I'll get up with the baby in the middle of the night - NQA.
  6. Three, Free NQA nap times for mommy - you're in charge.
  7. One, "I get to eat what I want and you can't give me bad or strange looks."
  8. One (and only ONE); You come with me to my chick-flick - NQA.

Stuff like that.  That's what she REALLY wants!  Tongue out

 

 

AWRESOME!!!! Great idea

2012-05-08 4:16 PM
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Thomasski - 2012-05-08 4:05 PM Yeah I went today to check out places that do manicures and pedicures for her. I was thinking about setting it up for her and her friend so they could have a girls day while I stayed home with our girl and cleaned the house.

Add the laundry and dinner cooked, and you are golden!  

2012-05-08 7:47 PM
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Bigfuzzydoug - 2012-05-08 4:12 PM

DUDE!  That one is so EASY!!!

Make up a coupon booklet for her.  So much better than anything store bought!  Ideas to include in it...

  1. Two, "free" 1-hr full body massages.  "Free" being with nothing in return.
  2. Ten, "no questions asked" (NQA) diaper changings.
  3. Two, MNOs (Mommies Nights Out) - NQA.
  4. Two, "free" foot massages while you watch TV together.
  5. Four, you sleep, I'll get up with the baby in the middle of the night - NQA.
  6. Three, Free NQA nap times for mommy - you're in charge.
  7. One, "I get to eat what I want and you can't give me bad or strange looks."
  8. One (and only ONE); You come with me to my chick-flick - NQA.

Stuff like that.  That's what she REALLY wants!  Tongue out

 



If you do this, make sure that when she wants to cash in your coupons you don't sigh or gripe or anything absolutely at all. Give her a big smile and act like you're happy about cleaning up that diaper explosion or giving her a massage, even if you don't feel like it. It's supposed to be about her and making her feel good/appreciated, not about you. It does not feel good if you make her feel like she is inconveniencing you. I'm sure you wouldn't do that, but just in case. That is all!
2012-05-08 8:00 PM
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Go with the card from the baby, but here's the thing: YOU MAKE IT.

Make it a little book, "The Story of Mommy and Me". Put a few pictures in of the baby and your wife together.

You will earn Lifetime Achievement Points for this. I did something like this when ours were two and three years old. Eight years later it still gets talked about.



2012-05-08 9:23 PM
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Thomasski - 2012-05-08 5:05 PMYeah I went today to check out places that do manicures and pedicures for her. I was thinking about setting it up for her and her friend so they could have a girls day while I stayed home with our girl and cleaned the house.
..This sounds awesome. And then something about the baby -- the card or the footprint -- and you're GREAT.
2012-05-08 9:55 PM
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I'd go with something platinum with the baby's name and date of birth engraved on the inside.

2012-05-09 6:53 AM
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Any of the mentioned ideas are great.  Personally, for mother's day its the only day of the year I get to sleep late and get breakfast in bed. 
2012-05-09 7:59 AM
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Bigfuzzydoug - 2012-05-08 4:12 PM

DUDE!  That one is so EASY!!!

Make up a coupon booklet for her.  So much better than anything store bought!  Ideas to include in it...

  1. Two, "free" 1-hr full body massages.  "Free" being with nothing in return.
  2. Ten, "no questions asked" (NQA) diaper changings.
  3. Two, MNOs (Mommies Nights Out) - NQA.
  4. Two, "free" foot massages while you watch TV together.
  5. Four, you sleep, I'll get up with the baby in the middle of the night - NQA.
  6. Three, Free NQA nap times for mommy - you're in charge.
  7. One, "I get to eat what I want and you can't give me bad or strange looks."
  8. One (and only ONE); You come with me to my chick-flick - NQA.

Stuff like that.  That's what she REALLY wants!  Tongue out

 

I agree with the bulk of this list, but an hour of massaging my wife with nothing in return?  This one is not possible.

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