when to eat dinner?

After for me. By the time I workout and cook dinner, it's often 8pm when I eat, and I'm asleep by 9, 10 at the latest.

Why do you "feel like this is too late to eat"?

I eat a Clif bar and have a bottle of water in the first 45 minutes of my hour commute to train, then I eat after training.  Depending on day, it can easily be after 8 before I eat.  No issues so far with that schedule.  I eat the Clif bar more for everyone else's well-being than mine.  I get a bit cranky without an even blood sugar.  Personally eating a full meal would keep me from exercising up to a full hour or more after I ate, if I felt like doing it at all. 

I prefer working out after work.  I usually have a late afternoon snack and head to the gym to swim/head home to ride or run.  By the time I'm done and showered it's about 8 when I eat.  I like being done and clean and enjoying my dinner and a glass of wine.

I usually go to bed around 10 or 10:30 and don't have issues with digestion or anything.  I will say I almost always eat dinner at 7 or later, with or without workout.  That's just how we roll at my house.  If I ate earlier, I would need an evening snack.  So it's really six of one.

Typically we are eating 8:30- 9PM. Bed is at 10- 10:30. But I eat a lighter dinner. Typically I try to eat a bigger lunch. But this is not always possible.

I would like to eat earlier, but I'm usually having to work late and then when you add in training, it's getting late by the time I'm done.

Weekends we usually eat in the 6-7 range.

It depends on which dinner you're talking about, early dinner, or after workout dinner. lol.  I tend to have late days due to not showing up at work til 9:30.  By the time I get to start my workout it's at least 6:30, maybe 7.  Workout usually til around 8 or 8:30, which means I don't get home til 8:30 or 9.  So that's when I eat.  In bed around 10:30 usually.  I've been trying to eat most of my calories earlier, spread out through the day, so that dinner shouldn't be a giant meal.  But sometimes I just want a giant bowl of pasta.  As long as it doesn't bother your sleep or whatnot, don't worry about it.

You are just like my hubby