PA Dept of Revenue - ruining my life

This is a big time rant, so beware... The long and short, filed a state tax return in 2001 which said I got a refund from the state. Oops there was an error on it, so I filed an ammended return which said I owed money to the state. So I paid it. Lo and behold, they cashed my check and still ended up sending me a refund check, which was never cashed and eventually became void, and then was destroyed (here we go...) In 2004 I start getting notices from the revenue department stating that I owe them money, and interest, and my right arm and first child. I call and argue, they tell me its okay, then I get more delinquent notices. I call and argue, they send me paperwork stating that the check wasn't cashed and its all okay. Wash, rinse, repeat. They send me to collections. I clear it up with collections. The state of Pennsylvania then closes the account with the collections department without giving reason. More calling and arguing. I have pages and pages of notes and names and phone numbers of every conversation and every person that I have talked to. Fast forward to today. Another notice comes, that if I don't pay up within 60 days they are going to file to have the money taken out against my next tax return. WTF? Spent 17 minutes and 38 seconds on the phone with someone, who then says "Let me put you on hold," and proceeds to hang up on me. So then I call another department, continue to have people talk down to me, and eventually am told by "Dick" that his supervisor "Ass" (who I had already left a message for) will call me back tomorrow. I have done everything right here (argue that if you'd like) and it won't seem to go away. I refuse to pay this money because that makes me guilty, and I am not guilty. F***in A.