Subject: RE: In a rut can you dig me out ?Wait, you need help? Whatever happened to personal responsibility? Just kidding of course. It's all about focus in my opinion. Every time I start thinking negatively, I remember there are people with problems a million times worse than mine. Keep busy, keep doing. Set little goals at first. Accomplish those goals and don't stop making goals. When it comes to eating too much, change it up a little. Rather than worry about volume, get rid of the garbage you don't need. Once you're eating better foods, you can then work on volume and timing. This starts at the grocery store. If it's in your house, you're gonna eat it. If you don't buy it, you can't eat it. btw, it doesn't hurt to surround yourself with positive people. Limit time spent with the negative life-suckers. They will do just that if you let them. Can you run? I have found that when I swim a lot I am drawn to food more strongly. Maybe it's just me, oh well. When I'm running I feel great. Laugh. Play games. Have fun!!! It may sound silly or immature, but I know so many folks with sticks up their you know whats, I swear it's gotta be at least part of the reason they look so miserable. Good luck and keep us posted. |