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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Yeah ... haven't these idiots learned that employers occasionally browse these sites to see what kind of person you REALLY are? http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/12/10/face.book/index.html `Hey Jill, I know what. Let's go get rip-roaring, vomitous drunk, and post ourselves passed out or in compromising situations on Facebook.' `Golly Jenny, that's a great idea.' Two years later: `Hey Jill, since I just got turned down for ANOTHER job, you want to go with me and drink away my sorrows.' `Sure Jenny, but only if we can post pictures and videos of ourselves throwing up on Facebook later.' `Of course! Girl Power!' |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Damn, my employers are watching? Let's hope they don't check BT. ![]() |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() So you have photos of yourself in compromising positions? |
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![]() | ![]() FB gives you a false allusion of security. As someone who has had a few drunk pictures posted on facebook, you think you're OK because you need to be "friends" with the person looking at your pictures depending on your privacy settings. Just a thought. I'm much more careful after seeing headlines like this, but it is misleading. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I can just imagine it in twenty years time when she is a mom and she is trying to tell her kids "No soda for you. You know how bad that stuff is!" |
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Expert ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I work in HR for my company and regularly scan Facebook for coworkers. Because they are associating themselves with my company on this public site, if I saw something truly inappropriate, we would address it with them, believe me. |
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COURT JESTER ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() MelissaE - 2007-12-11 8:43 PM I work in HR for my company and regularly scan Facebook for coworkers. Because they are associating themselves with my company on this public site, if I saw something truly inappropriate, we would address it with them, believe me. You say "my company." I trust if you work in HR you are not also the owner. Is browsing Facebook (and any other similar sites) something the employer mandated or something you took upon yourself to do? And for general sarcasm not directed at anyone specific.... Yeah, I'm sure all of today's leaders in business were such angels in their youth. Edited by tupuppy 2007-12-11 10:48 PM |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() tupuppy - 2007-12-12 2:48 PM sarc]Yeah, I'm sure all of today's leaders in business were such angels in their youth. You may be right. However the difference between right & wrong is often just 'getting caught'. Only an idiot would incriminate themselves voluntarily. |
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Giver ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Iron_Gus - 2007-12-12 2:08 AMOnly an idiot would incriminate themselves voluntarily. Last time I checked, if you're 21, getting drunk isn't illegal. It ticks me off a little that employers snoop into the private lives of their employees with no real cause. If you show up drunk or hungover to work, that's one thing. But if you're doing your job acceptably, what the hell you do in your own time should be of no concern to the people you get your paycheck from. Unless they want to pay you 24/7. |
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Champion![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() How are you able to see anything other than their profile photo without their permission? MelissaE - 2007-12-11 9:43 PM I work in HR for my company and regularly scan Facebook for coworkers. Because they are associating themselves with my company on this public site, if I saw something truly inappropriate, we would address it with them, believe me. |
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Coach![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 6:54 AM Iron_Gus - 2007-12-12 2:08 AMOnly an idiot would incriminate themselves voluntarily. Last time I checked, if you're 21, getting drunk isn't illegal. It ticks me off a little that employers snoop into the private lives of their employees with no real cause. If you show up drunk or hungover to work, that's one thing. But if you're doing your job acceptably, what the hell you do in your own time should be of no concern to the people you get your paycheck from. Unless they want to pay you 24/7. x2. It seems that as long as it is not affecting your work performance or breaking the law people is free to do whatever they want; it is called having a private life! The level of self righteousness exhibit by some is disturbing but not surprising, ugh... |
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Elite![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() amiine - 2007-12-12 6:43 AM run4yrlif - 2007-12-12 6:54 AM Iron_Gus - 2007-12-12 2:08 AMOnly an idiot would incriminate themselves voluntarily. Last time I checked, if you're 21, getting drunk isn't illegal. It ticks me off a little that employers snoop into the private lives of their employees with no real cause. If you show up drunk or hungover to work, that's one thing. But if you're doing your job acceptably, what the hell you do in your own time should be of no concern to the people you get your paycheck from. Unless they want to pay you 24/7. x2. It seems that as long as it is not affecting your work performance or breaking the law people is free to do whatever they want; it is called having a private life! The level of self righteousness exhibit by some is disturbing but not surprising, ugh... That's the problem, when you post those pictures for all the world to see, it's no longer private. They're making a concious decision to broadcast traits that employers would find undesirable if they knew about it. You don't put "Binge Drinking" as one of your interests on your resume... bts |
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Master![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() As a college student and resident old fart--- I've been told that companies will search you out on FB or MySpace to gather information about your interests inorder to see if you are a agood match for the company. For example, as a teacher I have to be careful to not have any pictures of me in any compromising pictures as it will ruin my credibility. That means that I'm very careful to not have my picture taken with friends that are drinking and may not be 21 yet. I have to be careful about having my picture taken with girlfriends if we are clowning around and it could look racy (I've had a few of those taken, just requested that they not tag me in them). My general take on both sites is that FB is safer than MySpace if for no other reason that your name is your name. On MySpace you can change your name on a minute-by-minute basis and if you request a friend you may not know who they are because of that. I've denied lots of friends because I don't recognize the name. |
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Champion![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() But the point is that they're not published in public. At least not on Facebook. If people are dumb enough to allow their employers to view their photos, then they can't really complain much. And I'm not really buying the "consciously publishing undesirable trait" line. People are posting pictures of themselves with friends having fun. Nobody says, "Hey, let's see what kind of trouble I can get into by posting this!" As posted above, if it doesn't interfere with your work, why does it matter? Brett - 2007-12-12 8:01 AM That's the problem, when you post those pictures for all the world to see, it's no longer private. They're making a concious decision to broadcast traits that employers would find undesirable if they knew about it. You don't put "Binge Drinking" as one of your interests on your resume... bts Edited by DerekL 2007-12-12 8:06 AM |
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Elite![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() DerekL - 2007-12-12 7:04 AM But the point is that they're not published in public. At least not on Facebook. If people are dumb enough to allow their employers to view their photos, then they can't really complain much. The way I read the article in question, they were publishing these pics within a group, not on their individual pages (though I couldn't find the group when I looked). I agree that if you post them within your profile, and only allow friends access to that profile you're entitled to some privacy. But even then, in facebook the idea of a "friend" is a little vague since I see people with 1000's of so-called "friends". And on top of that, just because someone isn't your friend doesn't mean they can't see the picture. If there are 5 people tagged in the photo, then all of their friends have access to it. And if the person who posted the picture doesn't restrict their profile, then anybody with an FB account can see it. As posted above, if it doesn't interfere with your work, why does it matter? Maybe nothing. But if you're an employer who could choose between a guy who rows crew on the weekends and has a few beers with his friends watching the gave vs. someone who gets so polluted they can't even stand, don't you think the former is a lower risk? Don't get me wrong, I'm all for people having private lives, my point is that once you post a picture that potentially 1000's of people could have access to, you loose that expectation of privacy. bts Edited by Brett 2007-12-12 8:29 AM |
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COURT JESTER![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() BAMBAM66 - 2007-12-12 7:03 AM As a college student and resident old fart--- I've been told that companies will search you out on FB or MySpace to gather information about your interests inorder to see if you are a agood match for the company. For example, as a teacher I have to be careful to not have any pictures of me in any compromising pictures as it will ruin my credibility. That means that I'm very careful to not have my picture taken with friends that are drinking and may not be 21 yet. I have to be careful about having my picture taken with girlfriends if we are clowning around and it could look racy (I've had a few of those taken, just requested that they not tag me in them). My general take on both sites is that FB is safer than MySpace if for no other reason that your name is your name. On MySpace you can change your name on a minute-by-minute basis and if you request a friend you may not know who they are because of that. I've denied lots of friends because I don't recognize the name. So you and Mike stopped making home movies? |
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Champion![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Those are all controllable situations. I agree that if you post your pictures in those situations, you should be willing to deal with the consequences. I just don't agree with the consequences. If it's not affecting your job or the company you work for, why does it matter? I don't generally like slippery slope arguments, but I think this is an appropriate situation for one. You're now going to punish somebody for doing something completely legal on their own time? What next? Brett - 2007-12-12 8:28 AM The way I read the article in question, they were publishing these pics within a group, not on their individual pages (though I couldn't find the group when I looked). I agree that if you post them within your profile, and only allow friends access to that profile you're entitled to some privacy. But even then, in facebook the idea of a "friend" is a little vague since I see people with 1000's of so-called "friends". And on top of that, just because someone isn't your friend doesn't mean they can't see the picture. If there are 5 people tagged in the photo, then all of their friends have access to it. And if the person who posted the picture doesn't restrict their profile, then anybody with an FB account can see it. Maybe nothing. But if you're an employer who could choose between a guy who rows crew on the weekends and has a few beers with his friends watching the gave vs. someone who gets so polluted they can't even stand, don't you think the former is a lower risk? Don't get me wrong, I'm all for people having private lives, my point is that once you post a picture that potentially 1000's of people could have access to, you loose that expectation of privacy. bts Edited by DerekL 2007-12-12 8:43 AM |
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Elite![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() I just signed up on FB last week - I guess I'm glad I'm too comupter illiterate to know how to use it yet! Thank god we didn't have this stuff when I was in high school beacuse I have lots of bad pictures I'm sure would have made it on there somewhere! edited to say - not really bad pictures, just drunken pictures Edited by MomX3 2007-12-12 8:45 AM |
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Elite![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Oh - and how do you see other people's pictures? When I click on friends all I can see is their profile picture. |
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Elite![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() As someone who has actually managed people before, and been DIRECTLY responsible for the operation of the business and the performance of said employees, I can tell you that people's "private" lives have a DIRECT effect on me and the business. If you haven't been in the position to clean up after peoples private life disasters at work, you can't possibly understand. So yeah, as an employer, what people do outside of work is of great concern to me. It might seem funny to some people to come to work hungover, but believe me, there are plenty of times when your boss takes note of that. Want to show up to a surprise customer meeting smelling like a distillery? Or do you think you should be handling my night deposits if you can't balance your own checkbook? Sorry, I've been robbed by my own employees enough to know better. I've sent too many people home because they smelled like weed/alcohol and I could smell them from a mile away. I will use any and all resources legally available to me when hiring. I will call references, I will run background checks, and I will run credit reports (where necessary - obviously a credit report isn't necessary for all jobs). In this day of litigation, one employee can take down a whole business. I take my responsibility to all of my employees and their families seriously. |
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Champion![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() And if people's behavior away from work affects their job or employer, then I'd be the first to say that it's relevant and should have consequences. There is a middle ground here though. Not everybody who has a few drinks on occasion has it affect their job. Not sure D.Z. - 2007-12-12 8:49 AM As someone who has actually managed people before, and been DIRECTLY responsible for the operation of the business and the performance of said employees, I can tell you that people's "private" lives have a DIRECT effect on me and the business. |
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Elite![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() DerekL - 2007-12-12 7:58 AM And if people's behavior away from work affects their job or employer, then I'd be the first to say that it's relevant and should have consequences. There is a middle ground here though. Not everybody who has a few drinks on occasion has it affect their job. Not sure D.Z. - 2007-12-12 8:49 AM As someone who has actually managed people before, and been DIRECTLY responsible for the operation of the business and the performance of said employees, I can tell you that people's "private" lives have a DIRECT effect on me and the business. Maybe we're talking about different people, or maybe we have a different definition of a "few beers". I don't know about D.Z., but I concur that I'd give a big "who cares" about a "few" beers. The article that starts this thread, however, refers to people getting out-of-their-mind trashed (on what I assume is a somewhat regular basis), taking pictures, and then all but bragging about it. bts |
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Champion![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() WWW = world wide web. if you put it on the internet, it can be found. The security most people have about it is an illusion.
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Giver![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Brett - 2007-12-12 10:06 AM . The article that starts this thread, however, refers to people getting out-of-their-mind trashed (on what I assume is a somewhat regular basis)... That's your assumption... If your screening new hires, then checking myspace and facebook is fair game. If you're spying on current employees (like the earlier poster claimed), that's offsides. Again, if their work is satisfactory, buzz the hell off. If you're showing up drunk/hungover, that's another story. |
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