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2013-04-02 8:05 AM

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To celebrate my daughters 5th birthday we took her to the American Girl Doll store for the first time. We live in a rural area so we can't go just anytime as the closest store is a 2.5 hour drive away. This time it worked out with our Easter visit to my parents who live closer to the city.

Anyway, it was overwhelming. I knew the dolls cost a lot but I didn't realize how much! The store was crowded when we were there and there was no one to help us. My daughter had a hard time focusing on the dolls and was more curious about all the little accessories. We were in there for over an hour letting her look around but every time I asked her to choose a doll she couldn't make up her mind and she wanted a doll plus all the little accessories. Finally I told her maybe she would like to pick out some things for her bitty baby at home and we went to Target and bought her a look a like doll for $18 which she is perfectly happy with. 

But I don't get it. What is the big draw to these dolls? Maybe she is too young to appreciate something like that?



2013-04-02 8:17 AM
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My hands just got clammy and I got nauseous just reading your post.....as I've been in your shoes.

Yes...the Target "American Girl" doll is perfect and our 7 year old doesn't know the difference. All the accessories....the same.

My MIL always gets her a AG gift card for holidays so we have to go there at least once to twice a year. After the last time....it's a "mommy/daughter" date. Daddy can sit at home.

I don't get the draw. You can rent rooms there and have a tea party with your doll (read $$$). If the doll needs to be fixed, you can send it to the "hospital" and it'll get fixed (and come back complete with a gown and id braclet....again....read $$$$).

I guess I'm upset that I didn't think of this concept.

2013-04-02 8:31 AM
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trigal38 - 2013-04-02 7:05 AM

 My daughter had a hard time focusing on the dolls and was more curious about all the little accessories. We were in there for over an hour letting her look around but every time I asked her to choose a doll she couldn't make up her mind and she wanted a doll plus all the little accessories. 

 

I'm pretty sure that's the whole idea with those places, Build-A-Bear, the race car ones, etc. The main piece isn't a bad price, they get you with all the add-ons. 

2013-04-02 8:42 AM
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bradleyd3 - 2013-04-02 8:17 AM My hands just got clammy and I got nauseous just reading your post.....as I've been in your shoes. Yes...the Target "American Girl" doll is perfect and our 7 year old doesn't know the difference. All the accessories....the same. My MIL always gets her a AG gift card for holidays so we have to go there at least once to twice a year. After the last time....it's a "mommy/daughter" date. Daddy can sit at home. I don't get the draw. You can rent rooms there and have a tea party with your doll (read $$$). If the doll needs to be fixed, you can send it to the "hospital" and it'll get fixed (and come back complete with a gown and id braclet....again....read $$$$). I guess I'm upset that I didn't think of this concept.

Gag, I can get out my china tea cups and have a tea party with ALL of her dollies and friends at home. We're not going back unless she just REALLY wants to go. This trip was my idea because I thought it would be this fun thing but wandering around any kind of crowded store is just not fun, I don't care if it is full of cute dolls or not.

I have to give her a pat on the back though because she just skipped around looking at stuff and never fussed. She is so good about that. You tell my son he has $10 to spend and he finds something to buy for $30 then pouts around all day that he couldn't get something. She just accepts whatever and plays with it all the same. She calls her target doll her American Girl doll and can't wait to show her friends and cousins.

2013-04-02 9:57 AM
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Personally, I don't see the attraction either.  However, I am looking at it from the viewpoint of a practical, 41-year old.  My daughter, who is 8, loves AG dolls.  DH and I bought her the one that looks like her when she was 5, but she wasn't really into the whole AG concept.  We bought clothes for the doll at Target and she was content with that.  We bought matching outfits for her and the doll at Kohl's at a fraction of the cost of the AG clothes.

Unfortunately, as she got older she started to get really into all the AG doll stuff.   My in-laws felt compelled to buy her another AG doll when she was 7 (Rebecca) and another one when she turned 8 (McKenna).  My daughter loves the books and the whole story behind each doll.  She checks out the books from her school library, so she knows the background on each one of them.  When my inlaws bought the McKenna doll, DH and I thought we'd add to it with a few of the accessories.  Little did we know, McKenna was the doll of the year (meaning that she and all her accessories would be discontinued at the end of the year) and by the time we did our birthday shopping (November), every single item was completely sold out.  It was insane!  So, we found other, non-McKenna items and she was happy with that.

Also, it didn't help that they just opened an AG Doll store here in Houston.  We went for her birthday and had lunch, got McKenna's hair done and her ears pierced ($35 freaking dollars for both!).  And, she bought a Sienna doll with her hard-earned chore and report card money.  I think using her own money helped her realize the true cost of this stuff, because she was okay getting other accessories from Target, lol.

I am fine with my daughter getting into the whole AG doll thing, but I am happy it's just one of the many phases she'll go through.  I'm also happy that she is perfectly fine with getting the generic doll accessories and clothing...saves us some money!

2013-04-02 10:01 AM
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Neither of my daughters ever got into AG dolls.  They have both been to AG B-Day parties and weren't impressed.  However, let's not talk about how much Barbie stuff is in my basement....


2013-04-02 10:17 AM
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When my twins were little it was "build-a-bear".  Every time I see those $100.00 stuffed animals in the heap of old toys I want to grab the wiffle ball bat that is next to them and beat the stuffing out of them.
2013-04-02 10:20 AM
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Wait, you drive 2.5 hours to an overpriced specialty store, then ask us what's the draw?

2013-04-02 11:25 AM
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Perhaps the dolls are more for the adults who buy them "for their daughters" rather than the daughters themselves.

2013-04-02 11:32 AM
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aggiegrad96 - 2013-04-02 9:57 AM

Personally, I don't see the attraction either.  However, I am looking at it from the viewpoint of a practical, 41-year old.  My daughter, who is 8, loves AG dolls.  DH and I bought her the one that looks like her when she was 5, but she wasn't really into the whole AG concept.  We bought clothes for the doll at Target and she was content with that.  We bought matching outfits for her and the doll at Kohl's at a fraction of the cost of the AG clothes.

Unfortunately, as she got older she started to get really into all the AG doll stuff.   My in-laws felt compelled to buy her another AG doll when she was 7 (Rebecca) and another one when she turned 8 (McKenna).  My daughter loves the books and the whole story behind each doll.  She checks out the books from her school library, so she knows the background on each one of them.  When my inlaws bought the McKenna doll, DH and I thought we'd add to it with a few of the accessories.  Little did we know, McKenna was the doll of the year (meaning that she and all her accessories would be discontinued at the end of the year) and by the time we did our birthday shopping (November), every single item was completely sold out.  It was insane!  So, we found other, non-McKenna items and she was happy with that.

Also, it didn't help that they just opened an AG Doll store here in Houston.  We went for her birthday and had lunch, got McKenna's hair done and her ears pierced ($35 freaking dollars for both!).  And, she bought a Sienna doll with her hard-earned chore and report card money.  I think using her own money helped her realize the true cost of this stuff, because she was okay getting other accessories from Target, lol.

I am fine with my daughter getting into the whole AG doll thing, but I am happy it's just one of the many phases she'll go through.  I'm also happy that she is perfectly fine with getting the generic doll accessories and clothing...saves us some money!



Hang on a second... you paid $70 for a doll to get her hair fixed and her ears pierced? Did I read that correctly?

If that is true... parents today are really getting jammed up the rear for costly items for kids. WOW. Although I was so poor growing up with a single mom, there is no way that ever would have been been a consideration.

That American Girl doll company has something going that's for sure.

P.S. - I'm not judging how you spent your money on your kid. I was just shocked to read that price tag. And it's good that you had her buy some of the items herself so she can learn the value of what is being bought.





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2013-04-02 11:42 AM
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This thread and the one about thong underwear for tweens at Victoria's Secret make me glad i have a boy.


2013-04-02 11:48 AM
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jmk-brooklyn - 2013-04-02 12:42 PM This thread and the one about thong underwear for tweens at Victoria's Secret make me glad i have a boy.

You and me both!

2013-04-02 11:54 AM
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cue Tom Petty...
2013-04-02 12:00 PM
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Both my daughters have/had AG dolls, and some of the accesories. Don't understand why they are such a big deal, but they like them. Yes, I did indulge them with a few crazy bits (the matching PJ's for doll & daugher were actually cute), but the whole concept is a bit much. Hit a peak of craziness when on a biz trip, I went to the store on 5th Ave in NYC, and they had a concierge desk. No kidding. They were very helpful, as you could imagine. Made Christmas shopping easy.
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jmk-brooklyn - 2013-04-02 12:42 PM This thread and the one about thong underwear for tweens at Victoria's Secret make me glad i have a boy.

 

...until that fateful day JMK Jr. says, "Dad, we gotta talk.  Let me show ya something..." Jr. turns away, crouches down to grab an item from his duffel.  That's when ya notice the glittering pink whale-tail courtesy of Victoria's Secret!  Just when ya think it can't get weirder, "Dad, let me show you my American Girl doll collection."

2013-04-02 12:14 PM
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jmk-brooklyn - 2013-04-02 12:42 PM This thread and the one about thong underwear for tweens at Victoria's Secret make me glad i have a boy.

 

...until that fateful day JMK Jr. says, "Dad, we gotta talk.  Let me show ya something..." Jr. turns away, crouches down to grab an item from his duffel.  That's when ya notice the glittering pink whale-tail courtesy of Victoria's Secret!  Just when ya think it can't get weirder, "Dad, let me show you my American Girl doll collection."

 

My dad was pretty cool about it since I used my paper route money.



2013-04-02 12:44 PM
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KSH - 2013-04-02 11:32 AM
aggiegrad96 - 2013-04-02 9:57 AM

Personally, I don't see the attraction either.  However, I am looking at it from the viewpoint of a practical, 41-year old.  My daughter, who is 8, loves AG dolls.  DH and I bought her the one that looks like her when she was 5, but she wasn't really into the whole AG concept.  We bought clothes for the doll at Target and she was content with that.  We bought matching outfits for her and the doll at Kohl's at a fraction of the cost of the AG clothes.

Unfortunately, as she got older she started to get really into all the AG doll stuff.   My in-laws felt compelled to buy her another AG doll when she was 7 (Rebecca) and another one when she turned 8 (McKenna).  My daughter loves the books and the whole story behind each doll.  She checks out the books from her school library, so she knows the background on each one of them.  When my inlaws bought the McKenna doll, DH and I thought we'd add to it with a few of the accessories.  Little did we know, McKenna was the doll of the year (meaning that she and all her accessories would be discontinued at the end of the year) and by the time we did our birthday shopping (November), every single item was completely sold out.  It was insane!  So, we found other, non-McKenna items and she was happy with that.

Also, it didn't help that they just opened an AG Doll store here in Houston.  We went for her birthday and had lunch, got McKenna's hair done and her ears pierced ($35 freaking dollars for both!).  And, she bought a Sienna doll with her hard-earned chore and report card money.  I think using her own money helped her realize the true cost of this stuff, because she was okay getting other accessories from Target, lol.

I am fine with my daughter getting into the whole AG doll thing, but I am happy it's just one of the many phases she'll go through.  I'm also happy that she is perfectly fine with getting the generic doll accessories and clothing...saves us some money!

Hang on a second... you paid $70 for a doll to get her hair fixed and her ears pierced? Did I read that correctly? If that is true... parents today are really getting jammed up the rear for costly items for kids.  

But the parents continue to pay for it.

I also don't get it - the parents paying for it and then complaining, that is. Growing up my parents had no problems telling me "no" for things they couldn't afford. If you can afford it and don't mind shelling out the money, I don't really see where the issue is... 

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ChineseDemocracy - 2013-04-02 1:08 PM

jmk-brooklyn - 2013-04-02 12:42 PM This thread and the one about thong underwear for tweens at Victoria's Secret make me glad i have a boy.

 

...until that fateful day JMK Jr. says, "Dad, we gotta talk.  Let me show ya something..." Jr. turns away, crouches down to grab an item from his duffel.  That's when ya notice the glittering pink whale-tail courtesy of Victoria's Secret!  Just when ya think it can't get weirder, "Dad, let me show you my American Girl doll collection."

You beat me to it.

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scoobysdad - 2013-04-02 12:25 PM Perhaps the dolls are more for the adults who buy them "for their daughters" rather than the daughters themselves.

Good point.

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ChineseDemocracy - 2013-04-02 12:08 PM

jmk-brooklyn - 2013-04-02 12:42 PM This thread and the one about thong underwear for tweens at Victoria's Secret make me glad i have a boy.

 

...until that fateful day JMK Jr. says, "Dad, we gotta talk.  Let me show ya something..." Jr. turns away, crouches down to grab an item from his duffel.  That's when ya notice the glittering pink whale-tail courtesy of Victoria's Secret!  Just when ya think it can't get weirder, "Dad, let me show you my American Girl doll collection."



(Through clenched teeth) N..T..T..A...W..W...T...
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scoobysdad - 2013-04-02 12:25 PMPerhaps the dolls are more for the adults who buy them "for their daughters" rather than the daughters themselves.

x3

I live n one of those areas of the country, where we're close enough to visit NYC, but the American Girl Store is a bigger draw than the Statue of Liberty or the Museum of Natural History.

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I have 3 daughters that are prime AG age, 10, 9 and 5. 

The older two have one of the Target knock off dolls we got for maybe $20 and Target also sells clothes and the other accessories.

The hair is not as soft and I am sure the eyes not as glassy but my girls have no idea they have the 'cheap knock offs'  They think their dolls are AG dolls, not that we told them that but they have seen other girls call their dolls AG dolls and they look like theirs, they honestly don't know the difference.

The 5 year old only asked for a ballerina doll for Christmas - hello Amazon and Carolle dolls which are very nice and hold up well.

I do not understand it at all.  There is a place not far from us but my daughters have never been there.  I am not against the experience but it is all a bit much IMO.

My Mom doesn't have money and my ILs won't spend theirs so we do not have outside pressure or folks buying the dolls which I know makes it easier.  However, I would tell them not to just as I have told them no Barbies, thankyouverymuch.

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Oh we have an AG and they're not advertised or marketed in Australia at all but peer pressure two of her friends had one so I got one online cost me lots!!! Julie is her name and she resides in the toy bucket with Build a Bears
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jmk-brooklyn - 2013-04-02 1:58 PM
ChineseDemocracy - 2013-04-02 12:08 PM

jmk-brooklyn - 2013-04-02 12:42 PM This thread and the one about thong underwear for tweens at Victoria's Secret make me glad i have a boy.

 

...until that fateful day JMK Jr. says, "Dad, we gotta talk.  Let me show ya something..." Jr. turns away, crouches down to grab an item from his duffel.  That's when ya notice the glittering pink whale-tail courtesy of Victoria's Secret!  Just when ya think it can't get weirder, "Dad, let me show you my American Girl doll collection."

(Through clenched teeth) N..T..T..A...W..W...T...

Ha!  Well-played sir, well played.  You're a great dad.  The ...'s were perfectly placed.  

 

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KSH - 2013-04-02 11:32 AM
Hang on a second... you paid $70 for a doll to get her hair fixed and her ears pierced? Did I read that correctly? If that is true... parents today are really getting jammed up the rear for costly items for kids. WOW. Although I was so poor growing up with a single mom, there is no way that ever would have been been a consideration. That American Girl doll company has something going that's for sure. P.S. - I'm not judging how you spent your money on your kid. I was just shocked to read that price tag. And it's good that you had her buy some of the items herself so she can learn the value of what is being bought.

 

No, no, no...sorry for the confusion - it was $35 total.  I think it was $20 to get the doll's hair 'did and $15 for the ear piercing and set of 6 earrings.  If it were $35 for just the ears, I'd tell her that we could go to Claire's and I'd pierce McKenna's ears myself at home (just like I did with all my dolls when I was a kid).

And a side note, we've asked the grandparents to not buy any more AG Dolls.  We think the kiddo has more than enough. 



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