Venting to single women (Page 2)

Now I'm getting back into the dating scene after about a year off cause of personal stuff, and I have to say - that it's a numbers game.

You date, you go places to meet, you try and make yourself available and out of a lot of guys (or girls I guess) comes the one or two you're interested in seeing more of. 

Frankly, a lot of it is attitude.  When I'm in a funk and feeling like there's no one out there - well, there's not (see above about one year w/out one date) - when I'm feeling like there's a lot of good people out there and I just need to be open to the possibilities - possibilities appear.

Ummm... yeah, had a date today actually with a fairly nice guy - don't know if it'll go somewhere - but the only difference between last year and this week was the fact that I was open to the possibility of dating.

Hang in there Janelle...when you least expect it, someone will come along and knock your socks off. Guaranteed!

ARGH!!!!  Max, I think we singletons told y'all happily marrieds awhile back STOP SAYING THIS!  It may be true...but it doesn't help. 

Janelle, I wonder the same thing every day.  I know so many smart, fun, cool, HOSS chicks that are single, and it just don't make no sense. 

You should put this on a shirt, similar to the famous "I wish these were brains".  It's all about the marketing

You should put this on a shirt, similar to the famous "I wish these were brains". It's all about the marketing

Glad to hear others have the same problem as me.  I was always wondering if it's because I live in Augusta.  Apparently not.  At least I have tri's

I LOVE YOU.

Are you offering?

...at least I have bodymarking.

Janelle, its not just you. I'm not really looking either though-probably b/c I know I'll encounter the same problem. One of those things that, if you're not looking and don't care, it might happen. Or thats what I keep telling myself.

I have asked tons of guys out and no one ever says yes....I think men saying it is cool to be asked out is so much BS (probably all maried guys are saying this I think)......or maybe I have a personality disorder or something, but I still think its BS..I Don't ask anymore.

I went through a phase when I didn't want to date anyone.  I wish that phase would come back.  I think because my 29th b-day is nearing it's started to get to me.  I'm like "oh no- I'm going to be 29th and I'm still single."   So now it's starting to get to me when I find out I guy I'm interested in is gay, married (not wearing a ring) or has a live-in girlfriend (doesn't mention it though)- UGH!

That so just happened to me this weekend.  I started chatting to some boys at the pub after the footy.   One of them was a hottie and after talking for about an hour he kissed me (not just kiss on the cheek kiss either)  then after chatting some more his mate comes up and whispers to me umm I don't think he's told you that he's MARRIED!!!!!!  URRGGHHH I was so angry.  So its not just you that happens too.

Freebirds and races??? This is too much...you're so sweet!