Triathlon Dating Thread Ver 2.0 (Page 21)

I have had triathletes not see me again because they said I am too intense for them.  I am not that intense at all I just have IM dreams.

I have witness blind first hot tube dates people had off a dating site.  I know because one of the girls asked so how long have you been on the site.

How does that work - like where is said hot tub? At their place? Clearly we do not do this in Kansas :p

Well, I've gone on 2 of them.  Not first dates.  Second dates.  hahahahaha.  Keeping it classy.  In both cases, the guys had them at their homes.  So, usually I show up, a bottle of wine is opened, and we head to the hot tub and strip down.  I wear a bikini under my clothes.  Then they massage my shoulders.  hahahaha.  Making out in one case.  Then we hop out.  We each shower (separately) and then watch a movie or have breakfast or dinner.

To be clear, i wouldn't do this with a random dude.  Those I turn down for hot tub dates.  hahaha

But, OMG, such amazing eye candy in San Diego!  Last night's hot tub date is a firefighter who's been in bachelor auctions.  He looks like he belongs on a calendar.

Like this ??

EXACTLY!

And, funny about the Bachelor.  A couple of my gfs said that because one guy took me on a sunset aerial tour of San Diego.  Hahahahaha

 Too funny, my date and I got kicked out of a hot tub last week on our first date.   We were at a nice downtown hotel restuarant and she was joking that her heels made her feet hurt, so we wandered off to find the hot tub to give them a soak.   After we were there about 10 min, security gave us the boot.

Thank you. Wow, I didn't realize that you shouldn't have women in your pictures. I thought it was funny. Probably that's why I don't get contacted.

Race season must be over, the singles are on the prowl.

TJ, I got invited to go to bingo at their church for a first date......can you top that?

I looked at your Match profile - it's a little light on content in my opinion. Don't really get a feel for anything about you beyond being active (and maybe funny) or what you're looking for.

Some suggestions on what I like to see: something about your profession - doesn't have to be too specific but what type of work do you do (marketing, manufacturing - what), personality traits like are you quiet - life of the party, that kind of stuff. Ok I see you put "business consulting" but could use way more.

Your photos on match are fine - could use some captions but nothing that would make me click away.

I'm with Lisa here, content is way too light.  I have no idea who you are or what you do.  You might want to add another smiling pic.  I always look for those.

Haven't been in COJ all summer...I missed this entire thread!

Another single lady here...actually just went back on Match now that marathon training is winding down...thought, "What the hell..."

Haven't been in COJ all summer...I missed this entire thread!

Another single lady here...actually just went back on Match now that marathon training is winding down...thought, "What the hell..."

Simply perfect!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAlm-EelsiM

Thanks for your responses.

So, the reason why I removed anything substantial about my 'life' per se is because of several reasons:

1. I don't know whether women ever read my profile. Apparently, you ladies do read it and so maybe my theory is wrong. I used the thought that a picture is worth a thousand words. Now clearly, my professional setting hasn't been written, but it's actually baked into the other sections of match.com. I see your point about writing more about me.

I'll write something more substantial.

2. Yes, another smiling face can work. I'll need to get more non uber active pictures.

3. Should I get more images of me in better formal attire? Yes, I think I can dress to impress (which is what I obviously do on dates), but I wasn't sure whether it makes sense to add it here.

Appreciate the comments.

Deanna is spot on!
And I wanted to add to the thread that I'm going out with a guy who dresses up (which I appreciate!) to a fancy dinner tonight  - but I'm the kind of person who enjoys both lacing up running shoes for a date as well as putting on my high heels.