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 2012-09-28 2:44 PM in reply to: #4428734 |
Master  3870     |  Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! |
| 2012-09-28 2:44 PM in reply to: #4428734 |
 Chatham Ontario | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! From that stand point we have come to an agreement on all monetary things. I have given her more then the fair share of items. But she is getting no alimony. You can't file for divorce for 1 year from separation. unless you are physically, mentally abusive or you get caught cheating. Technically I understand that having a relation in the first year could mean cheating. Then she could file for divorce and go after more if she wanted. I don't think that would be the case she can't afford a lawyer. And recently racked up $10,000 in debt on her own that does not have my name attached to it. |
| 2012-09-28 2:45 PM in reply to: #4428734 |
| Alpharetta, Georgia | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! I should probably shave my legs for this... |
| 2012-09-28 2:45 PM in reply to: #4432459 |
Champion 14571 the alamo city, Texas | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! mjr66 - 2012-09-28 3:41 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 12:37 PM Teejaay - 2012-09-28 12:33 PM mjr66 - 2012-09-28 12:30 PM Community property states ...doesn't mean 50/50...it's what is equitable. I divorced in AZ community property state ...just filed irreconcilable differences ..settled it through collaborative lawyers ...stuff was split equitably. Over in 7 months from start to finish. Big Appa - 2012-09-28 12:27 PM mrbbrad - 2012-09-28 12:22 PM And in NJ there is no legal separation; you're either married or divorced. Turns out a lot of people file under grounds of "extreme mental cruelty" and the courts are pretty liberal with what that constitutes. Sort of a work around for the lack of no-fault. Wish I would have got divorced in NJ. In CA it is truly a no fault state and cheating or cruelty doesn't mean jack. So does this mean if one party decides its over then its over and all your sh*t gets split 50/50 no matter what? We were able to come to an agreement over property and money but only with the help of lawyers and a mediator (on her part) but we were both legally equal in the eyes of the law. The house, money, and whatever else that was achieved while married was legally 50/50. What I was really getting at was the notion that what leads to the divorce doesn't impact the division of 'stuff.' Seems like it could create some pretty unfair situations but probably works out best for the majority. Lucky for me I don't see this being something I need to worry about. why should it?? like teej said, equitable division makes sense. my marriage certificate says nothing about fidelity, lying, being a nag, etc. my religious rites and vows declared otherwise, but as far as the state/law is concerned, how on earth do they even begin to write guidelines for every possible scenario? |
| 2012-09-28 2:45 PM in reply to: #4432465 |
| Chatham Ontario | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA |
| 2012-09-28 2:46 PM in reply to: #4432468 |
| Chatham Ontario | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! lisac957 - 2012-09-28 2:45 PM Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! I should probably shave my legs for this...
ohh meeting friends is important. Hell I would shave my legs for that. teehee |
| 2012-09-28 2:46 PM in reply to: #4432468 |
Pro 4313 McKinney, TX | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! lisac957 - 2012-09-28 2:45 PM Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! I should probably shave my legs for this... Just your legs?  Edited by bradleyd3 2012-09-28 2:46 PM |
| 2012-09-28 2:48 PM in reply to: #4432459 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! mjr66 - 2012-09-28 12:41 PM What I was really getting at was the notion that what leads to the divorce doesn't impact the division of 'stuff.' Seems like it could create some pretty unfair situations but probably works out best for the majority. Lucky for me I don't see this being something I need to worry about. In CA it does not matter at all unless it's something that would but one of the people in danger for their life. |
| 2012-09-28 2:49 PM in reply to: #4432472 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together. |
| 2012-09-28 2:51 PM in reply to: #4428734 |
| Iron Donkey 38643 , Wisconsin | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! |
| 2012-09-28 2:52 PM in reply to: #4432468 |
Champion 11989 Philly 'burbs | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! lisac957 - 2012-09-28 3:45 PM Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! I should probably shave my legs for this... Did you find a wing woman? You need backup if you're meeting his friends. |
| 2012-09-28 2:54 PM in reply to: #4432480 |
| Chatham Ontario | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together. Dude after 2 years of nothing.
You are starting to look pretty cute..... just sayin' |
| 2012-09-28 2:55 PM in reply to: #4432487 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:54 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together. Dude after 2 years of nothing.
You are starting to look pretty cute..... just sayin' Oddly enough this isn't the first time I have had a man tell me this. |
| 2012-09-28 2:55 PM in reply to: #4432487 |
Expert 1830 | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Techdiver - 2012-09-28 2:54 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together. Dude after 2 years of nothing.
You are starting to look pretty cute..... just sayin' Well, there went lunch! |
| 2012-09-28 2:55 PM in reply to: #4432475 |
Expert 2122 Next to a big lake | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! bradleyd3 - 2012-09-28 3:46 PM lisac957 - 2012-09-28 2:45 PM Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! Just your legs? I should probably shave my legs for this... armpits would be good too |
| 2012-09-28 2:56 PM in reply to: #4432468 |
Expert 1830 | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! lisac957 - 2012-09-28 2:45 PM Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! I should probably shave my legs for this...
And shave the top of your feet.....don't want to go with hobbit toes! |
| 2012-09-28 2:58 PM in reply to: #4432480 |
Champion 34263 Chicago | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together. Are you saving yourself for me? Again? |
| 2012-09-28 2:59 PM in reply to: #4432475 |
Master 3870 | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! bradleyd3 - 2012-09-28 12:46 PM lisac957 - 2012-09-28 2:45 PM Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! Just your legs? I should probably shave my legs for this... Underarms, too, I'm sure. And on that happy note, I'm off to sweat. |
| 2012-09-28 2:59 PM in reply to: #4432498 |
Champion 17756 SoCal | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! mr2tony - 2012-09-28 12:58 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Are you saving yourself for me? Again?Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together. I can't quit you. |
| 2012-09-28 3:00 PM in reply to: #4432498 |
| Chatham Ontario | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! mr2tony - 2012-09-28 2:58 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Are you saving yourself for me? Again?Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together.
I hope so because I have already changed my mind.
Ya I am still in to pretty girls. I am down and out but I am not jumping to that side of the fence. I like me a girl with pretty eyes and hair and a nice bum. |
| 2012-09-28 3:00 PM in reply to: #4432485 |
| Alpharetta, Georgia | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! mrbbrad - 2012-09-28 2:52 PM lisac957 - 2012-09-28 3:45 PM Getting essssited about the date/art show tonight. Dinner after and meeting some of his friends. MEETING HIS FRIENDS! I should probably shave my legs for this... Did you find a wing woman? You need backup if you're meeting his friends. Nope I'm going solo! |
 2012-09-28 3:01 PM in reply to: #4432471 |
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| Champion 34263 Chicago | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Techdiver - 2012-09-28 3:00 PM mr2tony - 2012-09-28 2:58 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Are you saving yourself for me? Again?Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together.
I hope so because I have already changed my mind.
Ya I am still in to pretty girls. I am down and out but I am not jumping to that side of the fence. I like me a girl with pretty eyes and hair and a nice bum. Wait. So you like a good-looking woman with pretty eyes and a nice backside? That's unusual. |
| 2012-09-28 3:02 PM in reply to: #4432488 |
| Master 3870 | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Big Appa - 2012-09-28 12:55 PM Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:54 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 2:49 PM Techdiver - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM 4agoodlife - 2012-09-28 2:44 PM Speaking of dates... It's sad that I usually wish "play dates" meant something else. NO I could use a play date HAHAHA You and me both bratha
But not together. Dude after 2 years of nothing.
You are starting to look pretty cute..... just sayin' Oddly enough this isn't the first time I have had a man tell me this. OK...I'll sweat after I replace the water I just snorted out my nose. TAN is great amusement. |
| 2012-09-28 3:02 PM in reply to: #4432505 |
| Pro 4313 McKinney, TX | Subject: RE: TAN #183: TANic Panic ... an impending BACON shortage?! Teejaay - 2012-09-28 3:01 PM mehaner - 2012-09-28 12:45 PM In my case it was based on many things. We had a lot to distribute. Money, many many properties, a business and stuff. It was not 50/50. I could have received more but I just wanted what was fair ...mostly to do with the business since I was being "fired" and he was keeping it. It's a misconception that its split down the middle. Some stuff yes. Other stuff no. mjr66 - 2012-09-28 3:41 PM Big Appa - 2012-09-28 12:37 PM Teejaay - 2012-09-28 12:33 PM mjr66 - 2012-09-28 12:30 PM Community property states ...doesn't mean 50/50...it's what is equitable. I divorced in AZ community property state ...just filed irreconcilable differences ..settled it through collaborative lawyers ...stuff was split equitably. Over in 7 months from start to finish. Big Appa - 2012-09-28 12:27 PM mrbbrad - 2012-09-28 12:22 PM And in NJ there is no legal separation; you're either married or divorced. Turns out a lot of people file under grounds of "extreme mental cruelty" and the courts are pretty liberal with what that constitutes. Sort of a work around for the lack of no-fault. Wish I would have got divorced in NJ. In CA it is truly a no fault state and cheating or cruelty doesn't mean jack. So does this mean if one party decides its over then its over and all your sh*t gets split 50/50 no matter what? We were able to come to an agreement over property and money but only with the help of lawyers and a mediator (on her part) but we were both legally equal in the eyes of the law. The house, money, and whatever else that was achieved while married was legally 50/50. What I was really getting at was the notion that what leads to the divorce doesn't impact the division of 'stuff.' Seems like it could create some pretty unfair situations but probably works out best for the majority. Lucky for me I don't see this being something I need to worry about. why should it?? like teej said, equitable division makes sense. my marriage certificate says nothing about fidelity, lying, being a nag, etc. my religious rites and vows declared otherwise, but as far as the state/law is concerned, how on earth do they even begin to write guidelines for every possible scenario? TJ....we're over this....we're onto shaving and switching sides..... |
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