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2013-04-09 7:21 PM in reply to: #4693016 |
Elite 4435 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Muskrat37 - 2013-04-10 3:24 AM jobaxas - 2013-04-08 5:04 PM So piglet Andrew bike coach - I went to his gym last night to observe. He trains in the art of primal move and kettle bell and stuff that i am clueless about. He is ex armed forces, he was also on the Olympic team for Tae kwon do. So he kinda knows his stuff. The class last night was taken by his gorgeous girlfriend Shannon. It looked tough. I cannot commit to the classes I just don't have the hours in a week spare! BUT I have committed to PT with Andrew - we start Monday and I'm not afraid to say I'm afraid! So we do an hour on a Monday night 6.30pm then he gives me homework 2 x 20mins sessions to do at home. And Andrew is away this weekend, but he hasn't let me down, Shannon is taking me for a ride Sunday. Aren't I the luckiest girl in the world! That is bad azz! (If I swang that way, I would have a total Crush on this piglet you speak of) I did Taekwondo for 3 1/2 years... I loved to fight at the tournaments. I used to fight in the "old fat guy" division! (over 200 lbs, over 35 years of age) I miss it. It is seriously very difficult to NOT have a crush on him and his girlfriend. |
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2013-04-09 7:23 PM in reply to: #4693028 |
Elite 4435 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED ArielLIlB - 2013-04-10 3:28 AM jobaxas - 2013-04-08 10:22 PM wow a facebook curveball. Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc. I can't say we've socialised EVER. Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook. She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders. WTF! I have not responded. Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that. Any ideas manatees? To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice. Blah blah blah - f**k that noise! (I know, you've already decided to that while I was sleeping). I swear, social media fosters childlike behavior, it's ridiculous. GROW UP OR SHUT UP LADY! Need a like button |
2013-04-09 7:27 PM in reply to: #4693058 |
Elite 4435 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Muskrat37 - 2013-04-10 3:38 AM jobaxas - 2013-04-08 8:56 PM KansasMom - 2013-04-09 3:47 PM
jobaxas - 2013-04-08 9:22 PM I am friends with an ex-boyfriend on Facebook. I love my husband. Just want to get that out there. But I was having issues seeing pictures of this ex with his new (very young) wife and their beautiful new second home (vacation) with the new furniture being delivered, and the great parties, and vacations to Spain . . . Do I need to go on? LOLwow a facebook curveball. Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc. I can't say we've socialised EVER. Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook. She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders. WTF! I have not responded. Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that. Any ideas manatees? To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice. The thing is that I realized that this was my problem. Not his. I didn't say anything to him. I didn't unfriend him. Facebook has this wonderful feature. I don't have to see any of his wall posts in my feed. So I don't. Problem solved. As far as he knows, I am cool. And I don't torture myself with envy. Maybe you could suggest that to your friend. Since she's the one with the problem. :-) Thanks for that. I am trying to be understanding. She is actually moving to Miami in a month so the dust will settle. Melbourne isn't a massive city, they both work in the fitness industry - they are bound to cross paths one way or another. She clearly hasn't moved on from this relationship. Andrew is in a happy relationship, he has a VERY successful business...probably all the things she would like. He is now in her 'triathlon world'. I totally get how that would be unsettling. The community is small their paths will cross, just I was the first instance. Just happens I'm pretty facebook active! I'm not going to respond at all. I am free to post as I please (I will show some consideration), I am free to train with whom I please, and i am free to be friends with whom I please. I prefer BT anyhow. F Consideration! You don't have to show "consideration" for people who choose to be your "friends" on FB. If they don't like what you post - they can unfriend you (or block your posts from appearing in their feed). It's really quite simple. That said - I did a similar thing when I was getting over my ex wife. I unfriended all our mutual friends, and then I asked my family to "unfriend" her - or be "unfriended". (keep reading, it's not as bad as that sentence sounds). I knew I could just block her feeds -the problem for me was that her privacy settings were set to allow "friends of friends" to see her posts and pics. I found myself (I was still in love - don't judge) almost FB stalking her. I couldn't help myself. I would look at her page a few times a week - and seeing comments about different guys and all the fun she was having in her life - was driving me fricking crazy! So, because I didn't trust myself, I asked my family members (only a couple) to "unfriend" her. I did it with a little more tact than your friend did with you. I explained that it was nothing personal, and that I didn't care if they remained friends with her. I made it clear that this was not an ultimatum, but that because of my ex-wifes settings, I would have to unfriend them if they remained friends with her. It was part of my healing process. My brother didn't care - he never talked to her anyway...but my sisters had this hang up about unfriending her - even though they never conversed with her. So, I unfriended my sisters. It wasn't a biggie. We talk on the phone all the time, and I want to re-iterate.. I NEVER TOLD THEM TO NOT POST ON THEIR WALL, NOR DID I ASK THEM TO WATCH WHAT THEY SAY. So - I say "F" the consideration! Unfriend her. That will make her "difficult" decision,that she has clearly put herself in, easy for her. Thanks for this, I believe you are absolutely right. The thing that irks me is that she told me only a week ago she has no feelings for him good or bad and wishes him well. The break up is hardly fresh it's 5 years ago. My decision is nothing so far. I've not heard any more. If however i'm posting anything about him I will drop her a line to tell her and then say, I will remove any awkwardness from the situation by unfriending her. No hard feelings see you out there! |
2013-04-09 8:54 PM in reply to: #4686654 |
Veteran 2441 Western Australia | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED So I'm visiting my home town for a couple of days for work and today I got the go for a run along the foreshore as the sun came up. It was so magical that I kind of want to move home just so I can run there every day. It just made me want to keep on running, but unfortunately I had to go home so I could go out to breakfast with my mum and sister for yummy pancakes It feels like it doesn't matter what happens today its going to be a good day just cause I got to run by the beach as the sun came up. God truly did make us a beautiful world. Edited by StaceyK 2013-04-09 8:56 PM |
2013-04-09 9:01 PM in reply to: #4686654 |
Master 3870 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED ahhh... gotta love shuffle on the iPod. Rihanna, Nickelback, Survivor |
2013-04-09 9:24 PM in reply to: #4694099 |
Elite 4435 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED 4agoodlife - 2013-04-10 2:01 PM ahhh... gotta love shuffle on the iPod. Rihanna, Nickelback, Survivor Mine usually goes Nickelback, Nickelback Nickelback |
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2013-04-09 10:46 PM in reply to: #4693382 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED ukweeble - 2013-04-09 10:46 AM Muskrat37 - 2013-04-09 4:56 PM You know you are tired when you have been looking for your car keys for 10 minutes, and have woken your brother up at 5:30 a.m. to help you, only to realize you put them in your pants pocket 10 minutes earlier! Have a good day Manatees! Like i thought: DEMENTED. Don't confuse DEMENTED with DEMENTIA.. |
2013-04-09 10:58 PM in reply to: #4686654 |
Seattle | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Gah...New York. I could live here. Yup. |
2013-04-09 10:59 PM in reply to: #4693528 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED ArielLIlB - 2013-04-09 11:50 AM I meant to share this story yesterday, and it's a little deviation from our banter, but I just keep thinking about it. It's about perspective and appreciation. I was walking to the coffee shop yesterday and a guy called to me from across the street and asked me for money for food. I said I didn't have anything to give him, which wasn't true (but I don't really like to take my wallet out where someone could grab it). As I bought my coffee, I thought about how I should have just given him some change, because my wallet is sooooo heavy with change that I've been meaning to get rid of - like, I was thinking of slowly throwing the pennies on the ground everywhere I went. When I was walking back to work, the same guy called out to me again, and I said, yeah, I've got some change now. He thanked me and came over, and I began picking the silver change out for him. He said, "I'll take those pennies, too." Then he asked me how I was doing today, and I finally looked at him in the eye. I hadn't even realized that i hadn't made eye contact with him - and it wasn't even on purpose. I gave him every last quarter, dime, nickel and penny in my change pouch. And he was very thankful for it. Now whenever I pick up my wallet and it feels light as air, I keep thinking about what a burden it was for me to have all that "useless" change, and how eager this guy was for a handful of change. It made me thankful for all I have, and also reminded me that giving up just a little bit of what I have could make a really big difference to someone is less fortunate circumstances. "Here, have a dollar, in fact nah brother man, here have 2. 2 dollars means a snack for me, but it means a big deal to you." Your story, specifically the bolded part, made me think of this line from one of my favorite songs of all time. |
2013-04-09 11:01 PM in reply to: #4694090 |
Master 3870 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED StaceyK - 2013-04-09 6:54 PM Yes. Great start to your day! Hope the positive vibes continued So I'm visiting my home town for a couple of days for work and today I got the go for a run along the foreshore as the sun came up. It was so magical that I kind of want to move home just so I can run there every day. It just made me want to keep on running, but unfortunately I had to go home so I could go out to breakfast with my mum and sister for yummy pancakes It feels like it doesn't matter what happens today its going to be a good day just cause I got to run by the beach as the sun came up. God truly did make us a beautiful world. |
2013-04-09 11:05 PM in reply to: #4694119 |
Master 3870 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED jobaxas - 2013-04-09 7:24 PM haha... that's some demented shuffle...or a shuffle with dementia 4agoodlife - 2013-04-10 2:01 PM ahhh... gotta love shuffle on the iPod. Rihanna, Nickelback, Survivor Mine usually goes Nickelback, Nickelback Nickelback |
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2013-04-09 11:25 PM in reply to: #4693850 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED bcraht - 2013-04-09 2:47 PM melbo55 - 2013-04-09 2:42 PM bcraht - 2013-04-09 5:08 PM I'm going to see Jillian Michaels tonight Very cool!! Is she doing a meet and greet or some sort of speaking engagement? She's on a tour--"Maximize your life". I just love her on the Biggest Loser. She would totally motivate me--actually, she is in my head sometimes during a tough workout. Plus, she's got great arms/shoulders. She has a lot more parts that I consider "Great" also! |
2013-04-09 11:29 PM in reply to: #4694090 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED StaceyK - 2013-04-09 6:54 PM So I'm visiting my home town for a couple of days for work and today I got the go for a run along the foreshore as the sun came up. It was so magical that I kind of want to move home just so I can run there every day. It just made me want to keep on running, but unfortunately I had to go home so I could go out to breakfast with my mum and sister for yummy pancakes It feels like it doesn't matter what happens today its going to be a good day just cause I got to run by the beach as the sun came up. God truly did make us a beautiful world. I love runs where I am so keenly aware of the beauty around me. Everything just feels right. These runs truly give me the feeling of being high on life. Thanks for sharing. |
2013-04-09 11:32 PM in reply to: #4694196 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 8:58 PM Gah...New York. I could live here. Yup. Really? I hate the East Coast. Ok - Hate is probably to strong of a word, but I could never live anywhere on the East Coast. Visit - sure...live, no way. (The Navy put me on the East coast for 4 years) I have met many an East Coast transplant that love it here, but when I lived there, I rarely met someone from the West coast that didn't want to go home. |
2013-04-09 11:32 PM in reply to: #4694203 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED 4agoodlife - 2013-04-09 9:05 PM jobaxas - 2013-04-09 7:24 PM haha... that's some demented shuffle...or a shuffle with dementia 4agoodlife - 2013-04-10 2:01 PM ahhh... gotta love shuffle on the iPod. Rihanna, Nickelback, Survivor Mine usually goes Nickelback, Nickelback NickelbackHey! I see what you did there! |
2013-04-09 11:36 PM in reply to: #4694211 |
Seattle | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Muskrat37 - 2013-04-09 11:32 PM Ehhh so I'd generally agree. I couldn't live most places on the East Coast but NYC is an exception. I'm betting Boston will be great too. I've always been a huge fan of big cities though. The people here are fantastic, too. That part was very unexpected. Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 8:58 PM Gah...New York. I could live here. Yup. Really? I hate the East Coast. Ok - Hate is probably to strong of a word, but I could never live anywhere on the East Coast. Visit - sure...live, no way. (The Navy put me on the East coast for 4 years) I have met many an East Coast transplant that love it here, but when I lived there, I rarely met someone from the West coast that didn't want to go home. |
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2013-04-09 11:37 PM in reply to: #4694203 |
Elite 4435 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED bored of listening to music on your trainer rides or your runs - try a podcast or two. This one went up yesterday. Rich Roll is an Ultra Ironman a bit of a superstar - he's a vegan an ex-alcoholic etc. His story is pretty amazing. Anyway - yesterday he interviewed Macca for an hour and a half. The most candid interview Macca says he's ever done. If you already have an opinion on Chris McCormack put it to one side and listen to this. It's really good. http://www.richroll.com/podcast/rrp24-chris-macca-mccormack-the-rich-roll-podcast/ |
2013-04-09 11:38 PM in reply to: #4686654 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Quick update - then I'm off to bed. I picked my bike up from the shop. It was in desperate need of a tune up. Also needed a new front derailleur cable. While there, I had them move one of the spacers on my neck from the bottom to the top (dropping my handlebars approx 1/2 inch). I also mentioned that I wanted to bring the seat up 1/4" - but am not sure if they did that. On today's ride, I swear that my power transfer was so much better! Everything was so much smoother, the speeds were up a tad, I got up to speed on the flats and downhills so much faster, and most importantly, my legs didn't feel as spent after 14 hilly miles (that included two, 2 mile climbs!). After the bike, I decided to do a 4 mile run. I can't believe how good the legs felt! I wasn't even pushing it, and I negative split every mile, and finished with an 8:03 avg pace! (5:00 per km for you Euro folk)... What a day. Good night all... off to bed at a decent hour tonight. |
2013-04-09 11:40 PM in reply to: #4694213 |
Master 1890 Gig Harbor | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 9:36 PM Muskrat37 - 2013-04-09 11:32 PM Ehhh so I'd generally agree. I couldn't live most places on the East Coast but NYC is an exception. I'm betting Boston will be great too. I've always been a huge fan of big cities though. The people here are fantastic, too. That part was very unexpected. Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 8:58 PM Gah...New York. I could live here. Yup. Really? I hate the East Coast. Ok - Hate is probably to strong of a word, but I could never live anywhere on the East Coast. Visit - sure...live, no way. (The Navy put me on the East coast for 4 years) I have met many an East Coast transplant that love it here, but when I lived there, I rarely met someone from the West coast that didn't want to go home. That IS surprising to hear. My guess is that it has a lot to do with the person they are conversing with! You are very likeable. I'm so excited for your race! |
2013-04-09 11:46 PM in reply to: #4694213 |
Elite 4435 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Asalzwed - 2013-04-10 4:36 PM Muskrat37 - 2013-04-09 11:32 PM Ehhh so I'd generally agree. I couldn't live most places on the East Coast but NYC is an exception. I'm betting Boston will be great too. I've always been a huge fan of big cities though. The people here are fantastic, too. That part was very unexpected. Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 8:58 PM Gah...New York. I could live here. Yup. Really? I hate the East Coast. Ok - Hate is probably to strong of a word, but I could never live anywhere on the East Coast. Visit - sure...live, no way. (The Navy put me on the East coast for 4 years) I have met many an East Coast transplant that love it here, but when I lived there, I rarely met someone from the West coast that didn't want to go home. Seen my brother yet? Hehe - he is a huge man - obese is the word - with his obese son and his wife and daughter. They are having a grand time. if you really wanted to find them hit McDonalds, they will surely be there. |
2013-04-09 11:54 PM in reply to: #4694212 |
Master 3870 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Muskrat37 - 2013-04-09 9:32 PM hehehe! Often I pay attention even when it seems I'm not... kinda sneaky that way :P 4agoodlife - 2013-04-09 9:05 PM jobaxas - 2013-04-09 7:24 PM haha... that's some demented shuffle...or a shuffle with dementia 4agoodlife - 2013-04-10 2:01 PM ahhh... gotta love shuffle on the iPod. Rihanna, Nickelback, Survivor Mine usually goes Nickelback, Nickelback NickelbackHey! I see what you did there! |
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2013-04-10 12:17 AM in reply to: #4692526 |
Master 3870 | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED jobaxas - 2013-04-08 10:30 PM I saw the link last night but didn't have time to read :/ Took some time just now. Good stuff! Loved his self- talk about the shortened swim...." shave some ink off the M?" Lol. And whispering in Whippet's ear? ha! Thanks for sharing. I'll probably read more tomorrow 4agoodlife - 2013-04-09 5:18 PM jobaxas - 2013-04-08 10:11 PMoh in the weather department we have our share of sh*tty. Ask anyone who did IM Melbourne... oh, yes. I read some RRs. Holy carp! And I watched a few Bondi Beach episodes. lolCheck this out...it's a good read from Reidy about IM Melbourne. |
2013-04-10 5:00 AM in reply to: #4694213 |
Master 7712 Orlando | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 11:36 PM Transplanted New Yorker here; I agree, the people are fantastic! Muskrat37 - 2013-04-09 11:32 PM Ehhh so I'd generally agree. I couldn't live most places on the East Coast but NYC is an exception. I'm betting Boston will be great too. I've always been a huge fan of big cities though. The people here are fantastic, too. That part was very unexpected. Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 8:58 PM Gah...New York. I could live here. Yup. Really? I hate the East Coast. Ok - Hate is probably to strong of a word, but I could never live anywhere on the East Coast. Visit - sure...live, no way. (The Navy put me on the East coast for 4 years) I have met many an East Coast transplant that love it here, but when I lived there, I rarely met someone from the West coast that didn't want to go home. |
2013-04-10 7:11 AM in reply to: #4694248 |
Master 6834 Englewood, Florida | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED amd723 - 2013-04-10 6:00 AM Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 11:36 PM Transplanted New Yorker here; I agree, the people are fantastic! Muskrat37 - 2013-04-09 11:32 PM Ehhh so I'd generally agree. I couldn't live most places on the East Coast but NYC is an exception. I'm betting Boston will be great too. I've always been a huge fan of big cities though. The people here are fantastic, too. That part was very unexpected. Asalzwed - 2013-04-09 8:58 PM Gah...New York. I could live here. Yup. Really? I hate the East Coast. Ok - Hate is probably to strong of a word, but I could never live anywhere on the East Coast. Visit - sure...live, no way. (The Navy put me on the East coast for 4 years) I have met many an East Coast transplant that love it here, but when I lived there, I rarely met someone from the West coast that didn't want to go home. I found that the stereotype and the reality were not even close. We lived on Long Island for 10 years and made many trips into the city. Always enjoyed the time we spent there. But I try to enjoy wherever I may be. I've found that embracing the area you are in gives you a better outlook and more insight into it. And more enjoyment as well. Have fun, Salty and make sure you do NY things like eat a dirty water from a street cart, run in Central Park, and at least go downtown to the financial district and get photos of the Statue of Liberty anf the World Trade Center area. I haven't been back there since 9/11 and I understand that you will be touched emotionally by it. Also, I have contacts with some higher ups in the NYPD, so if you run into trouble, call me. I'm just sayin'. |
2013-04-10 7:14 AM in reply to: #4693528 |
Master 6834 Englewood, Florida | Subject: RE: Mad Mutant Manatee Mentors 4--CLOSED ArielLIlB - 2013-04-09 2:50 PM I meant to share this story yesterday, and it's a little deviation from our banter, but I just keep thinking about it. It's about perspective and appreciation. I was walking to the coffee shop yesterday and a guy called to me from across the street and asked me for money for food. I said I didn't have anything to give him, which wasn't true (but I don't really like to take my wallet out where someone could grab it). As I bought my coffee, I thought about how I should have just given him some change, because my wallet is sooooo heavy with change that I've been meaning to get rid of - like, I was thinking of slowly throwing the pennies on the ground everywhere I went. When I was walking back to work, the same guy called out to me again, and I said, yeah, I've got some change now. He thanked me and came over, and I began picking the silver change out for him. He said, "I'll take those pennies, too." Then he asked me how I was doing today, and I finally looked at him in the eye. I hadn't even realized that i hadn't made eye contact with him - and it wasn't even on purpose. I gave him every last quarter, dime, nickel and penny in my change pouch. And he was very thankful for it. Now whenever I pick up my wallet and it feels light as air, I keep thinking about what a burden it was for me to have all that "useless" change, and how eager this guy was for a handful of change. It made me thankful for all I have, and also reminded me that giving up just a little bit of what I have could make a really big difference to someone is less fortunate circumstances. Thank you. We often never know how we'll touch someone, or what the very smallest kindness may mean to that person. But you have affected people, some of us are affected just by hearing your story. Keep on being awesome! |
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