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it IS left up to the states, isn't it? Supreme Court only ruled whether abortion is legal or not... states issue individual legislation regarding abortion but just can't outright ban it, correct?

many conservative states pass legislation to make it more difficult to get an abortion...

 

the fact that it can be "illegal" in their state is not left up to the states now is it?! the feds have ruled on that...

no but they can make it more difficult... i.e, parental consent, mandatory pre-abortion education...

the government had to rule on it one way or the other... a citizen(s) filed a civil complaint... that's the process...

 

 

ok....you tell that to the many parties who's cases were rejected by the Supreme Court....they choose NOT to take many many cases...



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2009-01-15 12:00 PM
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Gaarryy - 2009-01-15 11:56 AM

just TO stir the pot,, well more of a think of it this way..
  The government already has a huge say in when life begins,,or a particular part of it..... it's called the IRS.  They say once a child if born thats when you recieve some financial compensation, yet there are many expenses the mother/family has before birth..

not necessarily so....the county hospitals and health departments here address issues for pregnant women and even offer birth control at a very discounted rate...so that argument is a stretch...

but yes....the gov't has their grimy hands in WAY too much. My paycheck being one of those.  Remember...the goverment does not make any money...it ONLY spends. 

I dont' think it's a stretch... offering something at a discount is still an added expense, how many couples start buying "baby" items before the child is born,,, I'd say a large amount of them do.. yet if you were to claim that childs deduction before it was born, yet conceived I doubt the IRS would allow it... thats my point,,

2009-01-15 12:07 PM
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If life begins at conception, the gov't owes me three years worth of deductions, one for each child.

Remember that most of the laws we have that deal with these financial and property issues were first developed when there was little to no understanding of embryology or the development of humans in the womb. So birth became the standard.

They are laws based in rather outdated science.

Thankfully, science has increased our understanding of the biological development of human beings from conception onward. Perhaps our laws need to change to reflect this deeper scientific understanding. 



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Since it's impossible to hijack the OP, I ask this because I've always been curious.

2 scenarios:

Let's say that a woman gets preganant and then does not want to have the child, but the dad does.  Who has what rights?

Other side:  The woman wants the child and the man doesn't.  Legal responsabilities?  (money wise)

Thoughts?

2009-01-15 12:09 PM
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Tri'nNC - 2009-01-15 12:55 PM
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Tri'nNC - 2009-01-15 11:54 AM 

it IS left up to the states, isn't it? Supreme Court only ruled whether abortion is legal or not... states issue individual legislation regarding abortion but just can't outright ban it, correct?

many conservative states pass legislation to make it more difficult to get an abortion...

 

the fact that it can be "illegal" in their state is not left up to the states now is it?! the feds have ruled on that...

no but they can make it more difficult... i.e, parental consent, mandatory pre-abortion education...

the government had to rule on it one way or the other... a citizen(s) filed a civil complaint... that's the process...

 

 

ok....you tell that to the many parties who's cases were rejected by the Supreme Court....they choose NOT to take many many cases...

i believe they take the cases that would have the biggest effect on society as a whole and degree of merit?

anybody know details?

 



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dontracy - 2009-01-15 12:07 PM

AcesFull -

If life begins at conception, the gov't owes me three years worth of deductions, one for each child.

Remember that most of the laws we have that deal with these legal issues were first developed when there was little to no understanding of embryology or the development of humans in the womb. So birth became the standard.

They are laws based in rather outdated science.

Thankfully, science has increased our understanding of the biological development of human beings from conception onward. Perhaps our laws need to change to reflect this deeper scientific understanding. 



Changing the laws to fit idealogical or religious beliefs isn't a good idea.
2009-01-15 12:14 PM
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AcesFull -

If life begins at conception, the gov't owes me three years worth of deductions, one for each child.

Remember that most of the laws we have that deal with these legal issues were first developed when there was little to no understanding of embryology or the development of humans in the womb. So birth became the standard.

They are laws based in rather outdated science.

Thankfully, science has increased our understanding of the biological development of human beings from conception onward. Perhaps our laws need to change to reflect this deeper scientific understanding. 

Changing the laws to fit idealogical or religious beliefs isn't a good idea.

i don't think that's what Don said...

 

2009-01-15 12:14 PM
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mr2tony - Changing the laws to fit idealogical or religious beliefs isn't a good idea.

Religious beliefs or scientific facts?

If someone says that we are endowed with rights at birth, but can't show empirical evidence as to why that is, but simply relies on "faith" that it is, then who is promoting a religious agenda.

The idea that we only become human persons at some point after conception is an act of faith. Show me why I should believe that.



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i believe they take the cases that would have the biggest effect on society as a whole and degree of merit?

anybody know details?

 

"Of the 6,000 or so certiorari (cert) petitions filed each year, the Court agrees to consider no more than about 150 and sometimes fewer."

"The Court relies on several criteria to decide if a case requires action. To win Supreme Court review, a case must fall within the Court’s jurisdiction, raise a justiciable legal issue, and concern an issue of constitutional or legal importance."

Source: Encarta

http://encarta.msn.com/encyclopedia_761574302_3/supreme_court_of_the_united_states.html



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Marvarnett - 2009-01-15 1:09 PM

Since it's impossible to hijack the OP, I ask this because I've always been curious.

2 scenarios:

Let's say that a woman gets preganant and then does not want to have the child, but the dad does.  Who has what rights?

Other side:  The woman wants the child and the man doesn't.  Legal responsabilities?  (money wise)

Thoughts?

 

Dan....thats a good one.  It would be interesting to ready any court opinions that exist on that issue. 



2009-01-15 12:21 PM
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AcesFull - 2009-01-15 11:41 AM

Slightly OT, but I'm bothered by the tendency for pro-life folks to also oppose the sex education and contraception services that may prevent many pregnancies, and therefore many abortions. 

That having been said, I'd very much like to see abortions as safe, legal and rare.  23 years ago, when my then girlfriend, now wife started having sex, we discussed pregnancy.  Both of us were pro-choice, but we also realized that neither of us could make the choice to abort a pregnancy. 

The issue as a moral one.  I personally see a fetus as a potential living person, and I accord that potential life with most of the rights of a born child.  I say "most" because there are some situations where I feel abortion is appropriate, and no situations where I feel killing a child is appropriate. 

That having been said, this is an issue of morality and beliefs.  Others do not agree and I do not feel that it is my place to impose my morals on others.  I believe we should work hard to lower abortion rates, but not by outlawing abortion.

That, Aces, was an excellent post. 

2009-01-15 12:23 PM
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AcesFull - 2009-01-15 11:41 AM

Slightly OT, but I'm bothered by the tendency for pro-life folks to also oppose the sex education and contraception services that may prevent many pregnancies, and therefore many abortions. 

That having been said, I'd very much like to see abortions as safe, legal and rare.  23 years ago, when my then girlfriend, now wife started having sex, we discussed pregnancy.  Both of us were pro-choice, but we also realized that neither of us could make the choice to abort a pregnancy. 

The issue as a moral one.  I personally see a fetus as a potential living person, and I accord that potential life with most of the rights of a born child.  I say "most" because there are some situations where I feel abortion is appropriate, and no situations where I feel killing a child is appropriate. 

That having been said, this is an issue of morality and beliefs.  Others do not agree and I do not feel that it is my place to impose my morals on others.  I believe we should work hard to lower abortion rates, but not by outlawing abortion.

That, Aces, was an excellent post. 

Agreed...

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AcesFull - 2009-01-15 11:41 AM

Slightly OT, but I'm bothered by the tendency for pro-life folks to also oppose the sex education and contraception services that may prevent many pregnancies, and therefore many abortions. 

That having been said, I'd very much like to see abortions as safe, legal and rare.  23 years ago, when my then girlfriend, now wife started having sex, we discussed pregnancy.  Both of us were pro-choice, but we also realized that neither of us could make the choice to abort a pregnancy. 

The issue as a moral one.  I personally see a fetus as a potential living person, and I accord that potential life with most of the rights of a born child.  I say "most" because there are some situations where I feel abortion is appropriate, and no situations where I feel killing a child is appropriate. 

That having been said, this is an issue of morality and beliefs.  Others do not agree and I do not feel that it is my place to impose my morals on others.  I believe we should work hard to lower abortion rates, but not by outlawing abortion.

Wow. I totally agree.

Well said. Smile

2009-01-15 12:28 PM
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AcesFull - 2009-01-15 11:41 AM

Slightly OT, but I'm bothered by the tendency for pro-life folks to also oppose the sex education and contraception services that may prevent many pregnancies, and therefore many abortions. 

That having been said, I'd very much like to see abortions as safe, legal and rare.  23 years ago, when my then girlfriend, now wife started having sex, we discussed pregnancy.  Both of us were pro-choice, but we also realized that neither of us could make the choice to abort a pregnancy. 

The issue as a moral one.  I personally see a fetus as a potential living person, and I accord that potential life with most of the rights of a born child.  I say "most" because there are some situations where I feel abortion is appropriate, and no situations where I feel killing a child is appropriate. 

That having been said, this is an issue of morality and beliefs.  Others do not agree and I do not feel that it is my place to impose my morals on others.  I believe we should work hard to lower abortion rates, but not by outlawing abortion.

That, Aces, was an excellent post. 

Agreed...

Thats fine and dandy and warm and fuzzy....but it doesn't address the issue.  At some point the life isn't a moral issue, and the question is "Where is that point?".  Whether it's birth control, first trimester, second trimester, etc...but there is a point. 



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dontracy - 2009-01-15 1:14 PM

mr2tony - Changing the laws to fit idealogical or religious beliefs isn't a good idea.

Religious beliefs or scientific facts?

If someone says that we are endowed with rights at birth, but can't show empirical evidence as to why that is, but simply relies on "faith" that it is, then who is promoting a religious agenda.

The idea that we only become human persons at some point after conception is an act of faith. Show me why I should believe that.

don ...the disheartening point of "scientific facts" is that science has become so "politicized" that it adds so much "junk science" and ulterior motives behind studies.  No? 



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dontracy - 2009-01-15 10:07 AM

Remember that most of the laws we have that deal with these financial and property issues were first developed when there was little to no understanding of embryology or the development of humans in the womb. So birth became the standard.

They are laws based in rather outdated science.

Sorry, that makes no sense, Don. I haven't needed to know anything about embryology or the inner workings of my womb to know that there's something alive in there from about 20 weeks of pregnancy on. It's been bouncing off my bladder, kicking me in the ribs, squirming around, etc, for quite some time. It's practicing breathing right now and was dancing to live bluegrass last night. People have always known there's something alive in there past a certain point of pregnancy. I guess that until it emerges, I can't prove it's human and not a goat or a bunny, but I have a hunch. I don't think the IRS based it's tax code off thinking that babies were somehow inanimate until they were born.

As much as I'd like a deduction for all I spent on the baby in '08, I don't think the IRS wants to get into issues of miscarriage, stillbirth, abortion, etc. It's not science that's the issue; it's just not practical to give deductions for fetuses.

2009-01-15 12:43 PM
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The issue as a moral one.  I personally see a fetus as a potential living person, and I accord that potential life with most of the rights of a born child.

Dan, your post reminds me of something really important that is often forgotten, there people of good will on both sides of this issue who want what is best, even if they disagree about what that is.  The more we talk with each other, and not at or past each other, the better. Thanks for the reminder.

2009-01-15 12:47 PM
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That having been said, this is an issue of morality and beliefs.  Others do not agree and I do not feel that it is my place to impose my morals on others

To the next point...

Your belief that it is not your place to impose your morals on others, and I take it by extension that therefore no one else should as well, is itself an imposition of your morality on others.

It's sorta like this: It is immoral to impose moral beliefs on others through law, except the moral belief that it is immoral to impose moral beliefs.

I don't want to put words in your mouth, so correct me if I'm wrong.

 



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Marvarnett - 2009-01-15 11:09 AM

Since it's impossible to hijack the OP, I ask this because I've always been curious.

2 scenarios:

Let's say that a woman gets preganant and then does not want to have the child, but the dad does.  Who has what rights?

Other side:  The woman wants the child and the man doesn't.  Legal responsabilities?  (money wise)

Thoughts?

The woman currently has all rights to decide whatever she chooses. The man has no legal recourse. I've been there. My first marriage ended over this issue.

We had discussed having children many times prior to marriage and she always indicated she wanted to have children. She was always very loving with the children of friends and relatives. Yet when she became pregnant, she decided it was not convenient for her to have a child at that time. I had no voice in the matter. It's not like the child would not have been loved or would be born into poor circimstances - or any of a host of other reasons people use to kill their offspring. It was simply done for a very selfish reason. Here's the real kicker - I actually forgave her for this. Then it happened again a couple years later and I could no longer stay with a woman who so callously exterminated human life. I often wonder what the children I never got the opportunity to know would have been like.

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don ...the disheartening point of "scientific facts" is that science has become so "politicized" that it adds so much "junk science" and ulterior motives behind studies.  No? 

That certainly seems to be the case.

I love science. A fact is a fact. The ethical and moral questions of what to do with those facts though, should probably be left to other disciplines.



2009-01-15 12:52 PM
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As much as I'd like a deduction for all I spent on the baby in '08, I don't think the IRS wants to get into issues of miscarriage, stillbirth, abortion, etc. It's not science that's the issue; it's just not practical to give deductions for fetuses.

I got no dog in this fight one way or the other.

It's just that it often comes up in this type of discussion.  I'm just bringing up the possibility that maybe these laws need to be reconsidered. That's all.

How you feeling, by the way?

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Tri'nNC - 2009-01-15 1:16 PM

i believe they take the cases that would have the biggest effect on society as a whole and degree of merit?

anybody know details?

 

"Of the 6,000 or so certiorari (cert) petitions filed each year, the Court agrees to consider no more than about 150 and sometimes fewer."

"The Court relies on several criteria to decide if a case requires action. To win Supreme Court review, a case must fall within the Court’s jurisdiction, raise a justiciable legal issue, and concern an issue of constitutional or legal importance."

Source: Encarta

http://encarta.msn.com/encyclopedia_761574302_3/supreme_court_of_the_united_states.html

aren't all of those criteria met on some level with abortion?

 

 



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Rosshole - 2009-01-15 11:05 AM

Where does "abortion" begin?  With the morning after pill? or with Birth control medicines or other contraceptives?  Is conception really the start, or are the sperm and egg not living cells/organisms?

When you take the traditional pill as directed, your body does not ovulate. It does not produce an egg to begin with. Just wanted to point that out if it helps in the discussion (or not!).

 

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Marvarnett - 2009-01-15 11:09 AM

Since it's impossible to hijack the OP, I ask this because I've always been curious.

2 scenarios:

Let's say that a woman gets preganant and then does not want to have the child, but the dad does.  Who has what rights?

Other side:  The woman wants the child and the man doesn't.  Legal responsabilities?  (money wise)

Thoughts?

The woman currently has all rights to decide whatever she chooses. The man has no legal recourse. I've been there. My first marriage ended over this issue.

We had discussed having children many times prior to marriage and she always indicated she wanted to have children. She was always very loving with the children of friends and relatives. Yet when she became pregnant, she decided it was not convenient for her to have a child at that time. I had no voice in the matter. It's not like the child would not have been loved or would be born into poor circimstances - or any of a host of other reasons people use to kill their offspring. It was simply done for a very selfish reason. Here's the real kicker - I actually forgave her for this. Then it happened again a couple years later and I could no longer stay with a woman who so callously exterminated human life. I often wonder what the children I never got the opportunity to know would have been like.

I'm sorry to hear that story... kids are great

 

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