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Its Only Money - 2012-05-10 6:45 AM
Asalzwed - 2012-05-09 6:40 PM I should elaborate. Christians who don't support gay marriage. I would hate to lump them all into one because I know that is not true.
I can't believe that this correction by you has gone over 12 hours with no one still calling you out. You are saying that Christians are the only ones who may oppose gay marriage? That in itself is extremely offensive and just as bigoted. Funny that some sweeping generalizations are completely acceptable and others are utterly reprehensible. That is all.

Did you read the posts before this one? 

The previous posts were specifically talking about who would most likely not vote for Pr Obama now that he has offered his support for gay marriage.  The response was "Christians" and then the clarification of "Christians who don't support gay marriage".   Geez, even our local preacher on the board chimed in to thank Asalzwed for the clarification. 

Does this mean that it will solely be Christians who don't support gay marriage?  If that's what you got out of the posts, then I think you're reading WAY too much into things. 



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Did you read the posts before this one? 

The previous posts were specifically talking about who would most likely not vote for Pr Obama now that he has offered his support for gay marriage.  The response was "Christians" and then the clarification of "Christians who don't support gay marriage".   Geez, even our local preacher on the board chimed in to thank Asalzwed for the clarification. 

Does this mean that it will solely be Christians who don't support gay marriage?  If that's what you got out of the posts, then I think you're reading WAY too much into things. 



Yes I read that whole thread and still think it's offensive. With your interpretation the implication is that Christians are the only fanatical people who would base their vote solely on that issue. I am sure their are all sorts of people of faith and even some who don't believe in God who would not vote for some one based on their approval or disapproval on the gay marriage issue. It is prejudice on its face to single out Christians in the statement.

I probably am reading to much into it, but it really bothers me as a Christian when we are portrayed as fanatical. There are extremists from all walks of life, some are just easy and acceptable targets.
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I find it interesting that Obama states he is for Gay/Lesbian Marriage, but the goes to say he respects the states choice to decided for themselves.  It's interesting because it means he can sit back and not really make any attempts to help any gay and lesbian couples.  Also this would be one of the first times that he actually seemed to care about states rights during his presidency.

I feel this is totally a publicity stunt because he had to respond to what Biden said, and didn't want to go against what most of his Democratic base feels.  It's called pandering.

2012-05-10 7:30 AM
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Asalzwed - 2012-05-10 12:37 AM I believe many Christians reject Mormonism as Christianity. Is that incorrect? Not trying to offend anyone but many of the conservative Christians don't see Mormons as "Christians." and those people who only vote for the "Christian" candadates may sway towards Obama. That's all I meant by that.

there are a number of "Evangelical Christians" that have told me directly that I am not a Christian, for the record I am Roman Catholic.o I am very careful about other peoples opiniopns of the nature of another persons faith, or lack their own.

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Its Only Money - 2012-05-10 5:15 AM
blueyedbikergirl - 2012-05-10 8:03 AM

Did you read the posts before this one? 

The previous posts were specifically talking about who would most likely not vote for Pr Obama now that he has offered his support for gay marriage.  The response was "Christians" and then the clarification of "Christians who don't support gay marriage".   Geez, even our local preacher on the board chimed in to thank Asalzwed for the clarification. 

Does this mean that it will solely be Christians who don't support gay marriage?  If that's what you got out of the posts, then I think you're reading WAY too much into things. 

Yes I read that whole thread and still think it's offensive. With your interpretation the implication is that Christians are the only fanatical people who would base their vote solely on that issue. I am sure their are all sorts of people of faith and even some who don't believe in God who would not vote for some one based on their approval or disapproval on the gay marriage issue. It is prejudice on its face to single out Christians in the statement. I probably am reading to much into it, but it really bothers me as a Christian when we are portrayed as fanatical. There are extremists from all walks of life, some are just easy and acceptable targets.

It bothers me when good people of faith use that faith as justification to dislike or repress a group of people. I would think if they truly have faith and love in their heart it would be just the opposite. All people are sinners period and it is for us to have compassion for our fellow man and woman and since we are all sinners in the first place.

The one thing people still haven't answered is why they consider one sin worse than the others? I think adulterers are some of the lowest people on this earth but I think it would be wrong if I tried to pass a bill saying that if you are an adulterer that you cannot be married.  

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velocomp - 2012-05-10 8:19 AM

I find it interesting that Obama states he is for Gay/Lesbian Marriage, but the goes to say he respects the states choice to decided for themselves.  It's interesting because it means he can sit back and not really make any attempts to help any gay and lesbian couples.  Also this would be one of the first times that he actually seemed to care about states rights during his presidency.

I feel this is totally a publicity stunt because he had to respond to what Biden said, and didn't want to go against what most of his Democratic base feels.  It's called pandering.



I find it interesting that you are certain of the president's intentions and motivations.


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jmk-brooklyn - 2012-05-09 11:36 PM Actually I bet a lot of the people who wouldn't vote for Romney because he's Mormon are the same people who wouldn't vote for Obama because he's black. Intolerant people seem to have issues with just about everyone.

I was told just last week by someone who seems like a really nice guy, around 40 years old or so,  owns a successful business, Catholic father of 4 children, has a great positive outlook, always smiling, works long hours, that President Obama wasn't born in this country and is a Muslim.

I just didn't know what to say to that.



My aunt, who’s an upper-middle class Jewish woman from central PA, and who’s probably voted Democrat her entire life, told the entire family around the Thanksgiving table in 2007 that even though she agreed with most of his policies, she just didn’t think she could bring herself to vote for Obama because of “the black thing.”
Now, I’m not suggesting that she’s representative of her entire demographic, but she certainly rebuts the assertion that there aren’t people out there who refuse to vote for Obama simply because he’s black.

(Cue the people who feel the need to point out all the black people who voted for Obama simply because he is black. Yes, yes, we know black people can be racist too…)
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Its Only Money - 2012-05-10 8:15 AM
blueyedbikergirl - 2012-05-10 8:03 AM

Did you read the posts before this one? 

The previous posts were specifically talking about who would most likely not vote for Pr Obama now that he has offered his support for gay marriage.  The response was "Christians" and then the clarification of "Christians who don't support gay marriage".   Geez, even our local preacher on the board chimed in to thank Asalzwed for the clarification. 

Does this mean that it will solely be Christians who don't support gay marriage?  If that's what you got out of the posts, then I think you're reading WAY too much into things. 

Yes I read that whole thread and still think it's offensive. With your interpretation the implication is that Christians are the only fanatical people who would base their vote solely on that issue. I am sure their are all sorts of people of faith and even some who don't believe in God who would not vote for some one based on their approval or disapproval on the gay marriage issue. It is prejudice on its face to single out Christians in the statement. I probably am reading to much into it, but it really bothers me as a Christian when we are portrayed as fanatical. There are extremists from all walks of life, some are just easy and acceptable targets.

From the original article I linked to... the people who spoke out against Obama's statement...

(Tony) Perkins continued. "Romney, who has signed a pledge to support a marriage protection amendment to the U.S. Constitution, may have been handed the key to social conservative support by President Obama." - Head of the Family Research Council

Cardinal Timothy Dolan of New York, the president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, released a statement saying the president's comments were "deeply saddening."

Ralph Reed, a top organizer among religious conservatives, said Obama’s announcement was a “gift to the Romney campaign.”

“This decision may have made Barack Obama a one-term president,” Bob Vander Plaats the head of The Family Leader, a conservative faith group focused on politics in Iowa

"I think the president has been in this place for awhile and that he chose this time because he thought that it might shift the balance of power," Bishop Harry Jackson the senior pastor of Hope Christian Church said. Jackson has long campaigned against same sex marriage from his pulipit in suburban Washingtion, DC

I'll tell you what is offensive. The statements coming from these religious folks are what's offensive.

I agree that there are Christians/Catholics who are more open-minded than these folks, but people have the impressions they have because of your leaders. You want to go after someone, go after the spokespeople of your faith.

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velocomp - 2012-05-10 7:19 AM

I find it interesting that Obama states he is for Gay/Lesbian Marriage, but the goes to say he respects the states choice to decided for themselves.  It's interesting because it means he can sit back and not really make any attempts to help any gay and lesbian couples.  Also this would be one of the first times that he actually seemed to care about states rights during his presidency.

I feel this is totally a publicity stunt because he had to respond to what Biden said, and didn't want to go against what most of his Democratic base feels.  It's called pandering.

Personally, I don't think Obama gives a rip about states' rights...period.  He has turned the Attorney General's Office loose to oppose state actions at every turn.  He is using the "respect states' choice" argument for this issue to simply escape the need to take any action himself.  Very convenient.  Usually I think Biden is a loose cannon whose mouth embarasses Obama every once in a while, but in this case the cynic in me believes that Bidens actions on Meet the Press (and wasn't there another administration (cabinet level?) person who made similar remarks a few days ago?) was a calculated move on the part of the administration to simply break the ice on the issue and paved the way for Obama to make his announcement of his "evolving stance" just a few months before an election when he needs to solidify his base.

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The one thing people still haven't answered is why they consider one sin worse than the others? I think adulterers are some of the lowest people on this earth but I think it would be wrong if I tried to pass a bill saying that if you are an adulterer that you cannot be married.  

Do you see a difference between stealing a loaf of bread to feed your family versus Raping or murdering a child?

Clearly one is a monetary loss and the other damages the human being (Physically mentally, emotionally, or sexually) sometimes beyond repair.

2012-05-10 7:49 AM
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velocomp - 2012-05-10 7:19 AM

I find it interesting that Obama states he is for Gay/Lesbian Marriage, but the goes to say he respects the states choice to decided for themselves.  It's interesting because it means he can sit back and not really make any attempts to help any gay and lesbian couples.  Also this would be one of the first times that he actually seemed to care about states rights during his presidency.

I feel this is totally a publicity stunt because he had to respond to what Biden said, and didn't want to go against what most of his Democratic base feels.  It's called pandering.

Personally, I don't think Obama gives a rip about states' rights...period.  He has turned the Attorney General's Office loose to oppose state actions at every turn.  He is using the "respect states' choice" argument for this issue to simply escape the need to take any action himself.  Very convenient.  Usually I think Biden is a loose cannon whose mouth embarasses Obama every once in a while, but in this case the cynic in me believes that Bidens actions on Meet the Press (and wasn't there another administration (cabinet level?) person who made similar remarks a few days ago?) was a calculated move on the part of the administration to simply break the ice on the issue and paved the way for Obama to make his announcement of his "evolving stance" just a few months before an election when he needs to solidify his base.

x2.  Yet he only "evolved" the day after the vote in NC.  No need to "evolve" before the vote right...?

Bush made some dumb decisions in his 2 terms, but this has got to be the most 2 faced President ever...



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tealeaf - 2012-05-10 8:43 AM

I'll tell you what is offensive. The statements coming from these religious folks are what's offensive.

I agree that there are Christians/Catholics who are more open-minded than these folks, but people have the impressions they have because of your leaders. You want to go after someone, go after the spokespeople of your faith.

Yeah God forbid that someone should actually articulately express an opinon contrary to yours and do so after thoughtful consideration. Freedom of expression as long as it agrees with you.
2012-05-10 7:51 AM
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There are several things that don't necessarily jive with my personal beliefs and the official teachings of my chosen faith. However, this is one of the great gifts that we have been given from God, free will and I will take advantage of it.

My OH vote on Issue 1 in 2004 was my voice for my views on the subject.
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I'll tell you what is offensive. The statements coming from these religious folks are what's offensive.

I agree that there are Christians/Catholics who are more open-minded than these folks, but people have the impressions they have because of your leaders. You want to go after someone, go after the spokespeople of your faith.

Yeah God forbid that someone should actually articulately express an opinon contrary to yours and do so after thoughtful consideration. Freedom of expression as long as it agrees with you.

*facepalm*

These people can make whatever statements they want. I'm not sure where I said that they didn't have the right to make offensive statements.

Its Only Money was complaining about the stereotypes that many religious people are under, and I pointed out a possible source of said stereotypes.

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The one thing people still haven't answered is why they consider one sin worse than the others? I think adulterers are some of the lowest people on this earth but I think it would be wrong if I tried to pass a bill saying that if you are an adulterer that you cannot be married.  

Do you see a difference between stealing a loaf of bread to feed your family versus Raping or murdering a child?

Clearly one is a monetary loss and the other damages the human being (Physically mentally, emotionally, or sexually) sometimes beyond repair.

Yes clearly adultery causes huge damages to people physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually to a family unit which is the base of what we are talking about here so you are right and thank you for proving my point.

 

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Big Appa - 2012-05-10 8:33 AM

The one thing people still haven't answered is why they consider one sin worse than the others? I think adulterers are some of the lowest people on this earth but I think it would be wrong if I tried to pass a bill saying that if you are an adulterer that you cannot be married.  

Do you see a difference between stealing a loaf of bread to feed your family versus Raping or murdering a child?

Clearly one is a monetary loss and the other damages the human being (Physically mentally, emotionally, or sexually) sometimes beyond repair.



So, in your scenario, adultery is stealing a loaf of bread to feed your kids, and being a homosexual is raping and murdering a child? Sorry, I don't get your point at all. Can you be more clear?


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tealeaf - I'll tell you what is offensive. The statements coming from these religious folks are what's offensive.

I agree that there are Christians/Catholics who are more open-minded than these folks, but people have the impressions they have because of your leaders. You want to go after someone, go after the spokespeople of your faith.

You think Cardinal Dolan's comments are offensive?

Really?

He's articulating and defending the Catholic faith.
He's doing his job.
Is it surprising that the Cardinal actually believes in what the faith teaches?

Catholic doctrine regarding marriage and human sexuality will never change.
Period.
End of story.

The Catholic Church's teaching is very clear.

People then have the right to either be Catholic and assent to the Church's teaching or not.
Choosing to willfully not assent to clear teaching comes with consequences.

Thankfully, we have a leader in Cardinal Dolan who will continue to articulate that
in the coming months and years.
 

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tealeaf - 2012-05-10 8:55 AM
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tealeaf - 2012-05-10 8:43 AM

I'll tell you what is offensive. The statements coming from these religious folks are what's offensive.

I agree that there are Christians/Catholics who are more open-minded than these folks, but people have the impressions they have because of your leaders. You want to go after someone, go after the spokespeople of your faith.

Yeah God forbid that someone should actually articulately express an opinon contrary to yours and do so after thoughtful consideration. Freedom of expression as long as it agrees with you.

*facepalm*

These people can make whatever statements they want. I'm not sure where I said that they didn't have the right to make offensive statements.

Its Only Money was complaining about the stereotypes that many religious people are under, and I pointed out a possible source of said stereotypes.

Look at the statement of yours I bolded. Clearly you are trying to supress arguements that disagree with yours. These men have expressed opinions based on well thjought out reason usi9ng intellect. Your response was a knee jerk emotional one. If anything is offensive it is not thinking about soemthing and just flying off the handle.
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tealeaf - I'll tell you what is offensive. The statements coming from these religious folks are what's offensive.

I agree that there are Christians/Catholics who are more open-minded than these folks, but people have the impressions they have because of your leaders. You want to go after someone, go after the spokespeople of your faith.

You think Cardinal Dolan's comments are offensive?

Really?

He's articulating and defending the Catholic faith.
He's doing his job.
Is it surprising that the Cardinal actually believes in what the faith teaches?

So what? The implication that somehow because someone is "doing their job" that they're off the hook, is laughable.

I find this piece of Catholic teaching offensive then. It matters not to me what the root of the offensive content is.

The TSA "does their job" when they frisk 4 and 5 year olds.
The North Korean army "does their job" when they throw people in prison camps.
Businesspeople "do their job" when they layoff thousands of people to improve the stock price.
Mark Zuckerberg "does his job" when he adds yet another privacy-exposing thing to Facebook.

Sure, they are all "doing their job." That's not relevant. It's still offensive. 

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The one thing people still haven't answered is why they consider one sin worse than the others? I think adulterers are some of the lowest people on this earth but I think it would be wrong if I tried to pass a bill saying that if you are an adulterer that you cannot be married.  

Do you see a difference between stealing a loaf of bread to feed your family versus Raping or murdering a child?

Clearly one is a monetary loss and the other damages the human being (Physically mentally, emotionally, or sexually) sometimes beyond repair.

So, in your scenario, adultery is stealing a loaf of bread to feed your kids, and being a homosexual is raping and murdering a child? Sorry, I don't get your point at all. Can you be more clear?
Can you show me where I said what you claim. Big

Big appa asked: "why they consider one sin worse than the others?"

Stop trying to read things into my responses. I pointed out that one particular specific crime results in simple monetary loss, while the other specific crime resulted in the damage of an innocent. 

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dontracy - 2012-05-10 9:05 AM
tealeaf - I'll tell you what is offensive. The statements coming from these religious folks are what's offensive.

I agree that there are Christians/Catholics who are more open-minded than these folks, but people have the impressions they have because of your leaders. You want to go after someone, go after the spokespeople of your faith.

You think Cardinal Dolan's comments are offensive?

Really?

He's articulating and defending the Catholic faith.
He's doing his job.
Is it surprising that the Cardinal actually believes in what the faith teaches?

Catholic doctrine regarding marriage and human sexuality will never change.
Period.
End of story.

The Catholic Church's teaching is very clear.

People then have the right to either be Catholic and assent to the Church's teaching or not.
Choosing to willfully not assent to clear teaching comes with consequences.

Thankfully, we have a leader in Cardinal Dolan who will continue to articulate that
in the coming months and years.
 

^^^^^^^^^ Thank you



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Wow. This thread makes me think of Pulp Fiction; English motherf*%#er! Do you speak it? People seem to be reading what they want rather than what is actually written. On both sides.
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verga - 2012-05-10 6:32 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-05-10 8:33 AM

The one thing people still haven't answered is why they consider one sin worse than the others? I think adulterers are some of the lowest people on this earth but I think it would be wrong if I tried to pass a bill saying that if you are an adulterer that you cannot be married.  

Do you see a difference between stealing a loaf of bread to feed your family versus Raping or murdering a child?

Clearly one is a monetary loss and the other damages the human being (Physically mentally, emotionally, or sexually) sometimes beyond repair.

So, in your scenario, adultery is stealing a loaf of bread to feed your kids, and being a homosexual is raping and murdering a child? Sorry, I don't get your point at all. Can you be more clear?
Can you show me where I said what you claim. Big

Big appa asked: "why they consider one sin worse than the others?"

Stop trying to read things into my responses. I pointed out that one particular specific crime results in simple monetary loss, while the other specific crime resulted in the damage of an innocent. 

Yes, and I agreed with you like I said in my other post.  

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tealeaf - I find this piece of Catholic teaching offensive then. It matters not to me what the root of the offensive content is.

Catholicism is not some cafeteria where you can pick and choose which dishes you want and which you don't.

The Church's teaching on human sexuality is rooted in both faith and reason.
The reasoning is sound and is more compelling than alternate arguments.

As Catholics we have the right to form our consciences on matters of faith, as do all people.
However, we do not have the right to willfully ignore defined teaching as we form our consciences.
The Vatican II document Dignitatis Humanae, Declaration on Religious Freedom, is quite clear on that. 

I bring that up because misinterpretation of that Vatican II document is the cause for so much confusion among Catholics
over the past forty years regarding matters of human sexuality in particular.
It needs to be understood by any Catholic caught in the trap of dissent from Church teaching. 



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mrbbrad - 2012-05-10 9:39 AM Wow. This thread makes me think of Pulp Fiction; English motherf*%#er! Do you speak it? People seem to be reading what they want rather than what is actually written. On both sides.

Have Ya been in COJ before?!?!?!?!?

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