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2005-11-28 11:07 PM

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...I'm going out on the ledge here, but feel very compelled to share this story.  It is something I wrote several years ago, but that I revist every year.  If this doesn't meet you where you're at, I apologize. I just thought others might find this inspirational as we go into this hectic holiday season. 

I'm not here to flaunt my faith, browbeat it into you, or smother you with it. If you wish to read further, I invite you to.  It was a powerful moment in my life and might open the door to a powerful one in yours.  If you do not, or the entire subject bothers you, I invite you to stop reading now.  If you have experienced the loss of an infant, you may also wish to choose not to read this.  Here goes.....

God’s Quiet Courage 

It was Thanksgiving night and I was working my scheduledholiday shift as an NICU nurse.  I hadasked to work that night and had given up an opportunity to stay home with myfamily. God brought me there for a reason. Around 1:00 a.m., a call fromthe Emergency Room came, frantically asking for help with the COR-O of a1-month-old baby. The ominous words rang through my head as I raced down five flightsof stairs to the ER. COR-0, the baby was not breathing and had no pulse. Iasked God for strength as I approached a room full of medical staff, only tosee a tiny little boy, laying on the gurney. 


As I took over CPR, I closed my eyes briefly and began topray. “ Lord, please watch over us as we try to save this baby. Please guide him to heaven.” I knew even then, that we would not be ableto save him. I fought back tears andcontinued to do CPR. After all effortshad been exhausted, the doctor asked if anyone objected to calling his time ofdeath.

It was at that point that I did one of the most courageousthings of my life. I asked that roomfull of people if anyone had prayed for the baby yet. With surprise, several people responded “No.”I then asked if they would mind if I prayed for him, and someone quietly said,“Please do.” I laid my hand on his tinylittle chest and asked God to watch over him on his trip to heaven. I asked Jesus to cradle him in His arms andmake him perfect again. I asked forcomfort for his parents as they learned the news. I could barely speak, as my voice trembledand tears fell from my eyes. I closedwith an Amen and looked up to see so many eyes full of tears andreverence. This boy had not died alone,he was escorted by angels.

In that room of people, I gently cleaned him, dressed him,and swaddled him in blankets. I strokedhis hair and told him how much his parents loved him and how they would misshim. I told him how beautiful it was to bean angel and how sweet it would be to have Jesus hold him. I wanted his parents to know that he did notdie alone, that he was surrounded by love, even at his last moment

Later, the nursing supervisor called to tell me how much myprayer had touched the ER staff. That it had begun the healing process and hadbrought comfort to so many, including his parents. I must admit, I was surprised. I work in a Christian hospital, but prayer isnot common. However, what amazed me mostwas how God had worked through me and given me the grace and courage to standin a sterile room of science and ask strangers to pray with me. I have never prided myself on witnessing orbeing an outspoken Christian. I havequietly kept my faith within my heart and my family. But on this tragic Thanksgiving night, Hecame to me and spoke through my heart. Iwish that this boy did not have to die for me to learn this simple lesson. Godlives in our hearts and will give us extraordinary courage when needed; wesimply need to listen for it.

Listen to God’s voice within your heart. Allow it to guide you to help others or tosimply pray with a stranger. It’samazing how we can touch lives; with the courage that God places in each ofus. 




2005-11-29 6:50 AM
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Thanks...
2005-11-29 7:39 AM
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Wow- that's awesome. At times we fail to recognize the opportunitites that God grants us with to reach out to others. You're story is a great reminder for me
2005-11-29 7:41 AM
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One year and two weeks ago I was a parent such as that ... except that thanks be to God as well as the absolutely incredible nurses and doctors at a Children's Hospital NICU, we were able to celebrate my baby's first birthday.

Owen was in respiratory distress caused by RSV.  He was two weeks old and had been misdiagnosed as having a mere cold by his pediatrician earlier in the day.  I arrived home from being out of town that night to find my wife in bed with the baby in her lap, watching him take a breathing treatment as the doctor's soothing words echoed in her ears.

I wasn't there to hear the doctor's dismissive comments and called the doctor through the after-hours number ... baby with labored breathing was all that I needed in order to get a second opinion.  We described his symptoms and he told us to hang up + call 911.

We did and it was Katy-bar-the-door as no more than 2 minutes from when the call went out did a police officer trained in CPR show up, followed by two fire trucks with an ambulance on their heels one minute after that.

A friend watched our two other children as we took Owen to the Children's Hospital ER and there was no time for paperwork, prescreening or whatever. We went straight into an examination room.  Bottom line: his blood Ox was low, really low.

They hooked the poor little guy up to more machines + tubes than I thought possible. Our NICU doctor + nurse teams were incredible.  Steph and I have never prayed so much before in our lives ... and later found out how many people were doing the same for baby Owen as word spread.  We were able to leave a week later - the night before Thanksgiving.

So as a parent who has gone through a similar circumstance and as a Christian, I am proud of the courage it took to have everyone stop and say a prayer for that child. Prayer works and I have every confidence that your prayer was answered.

Thanks for sharing your story.  I wouldn’t be truthful if I didn’t tell you that it brought tears to my eyes … and make me want to go hug my children.

 

 

 

2005-11-29 8:02 AM
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Melanie, thank you for sharing your story.

Who knows what graces have flowed, and continue to flow, from your courage in speaking up and praying for that child. 

God bless you!
2005-11-29 8:26 AM
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Thank you for sharing the story.



2005-11-29 8:29 AM
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Great story, and BTW screw all the companies, such as Target etc. who aren't using the phrase Merry Christmas anymore. I know peoples beliefs vary but I think it's getting out of hand. I personally don't take offense to any other religous holidays which I choose not to follow. Just my 2 cents. Taking the Chrst out of Christmas to me is unthinkable.

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2005-11-29 8:35 AM
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smokeater1833 - 2005-11-29 8:29 AMGreat story, and BTW screw all the companies, such as Target etc. who aren't using the phrase Merry Christmas anymore. I know peoples beliefs vary but I think it's getting out of hand. I personally don't take offense to any other religous holidays which I choose not to follow. Just my 2 cents. Taking the Chrst out of Christmas to me is unthinkable.


Rmember that it's not exclusively the Christmas season, though. How would you feel if you were bombarded by "Happy Hanukah" or "Have a wonderful Kwanza" when you went to Target, and Christmas was never mentioned?

And also, going to Target isn't Christmas, so what exactly are they taking the Christ out of? Shopping?


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Thanks so much, Melanie. God's love is so powerful, and when we take advantage of that power, so much good can happen. I need to remember that.
2005-11-29 8:38 AM
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smokeater1833 - 2005-11-29 9:29 AM Great story, and BTW screw all the companies, such as Target etc. who aren't using the phrase Merry Christmas anymore. I know peoples beliefs vary but I think it's getting out of hand. I personally don't take offense to any other religous holidays which I choose not to follow. Just my 2 cents. Taking the Chrst out of Christmas to me is unthinkable.

Ditto- that's like people having to say "Happy Holidays" instead of "Merry Christmas". Or writing Chrsitmas as X-Mas. 

2005-11-29 8:38 AM
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run4yrlif - 2005-11-29 9:35 AM
smokeater1833 - 2005-11-29 8:29 AMGreat story, and BTW screw all the companies, such as Target etc. who aren't using the phrase Merry Christmas anymore. I know peoples beliefs vary but I think it's getting out of hand. I personally don't take offense to any other religous holidays which I choose not to follow. Just my 2 cents. Taking the Chrst out of Christmas to me is unthinkable.


Rmember that it's not exclusively the Christmas season, though. How would you feel if you were bombarded by "Happy Hanukah" or "Have a wonderful Kwanza" when you went to Target, and Christmas was never mentioned?

And also, going to Target isn't Christmas, so what exactly are they taking the Christ out of? Shopping?

Traget isn't Christmas, but people go there to Christmas shop- duh.  If it didn't represent Christmas, then Target would have those sales year round.



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runnergirl29 - 2005-11-29 8:38 AM

Traget isn't Christmas, but people go there to Christmas shop- duh. If it didn't represent Christmas, then Target would have those sales year round.



But people also shop for Hannaukah presents. And Muslims by clothes, and Buddhists by cleaning supplies. Target isn't a Christmas store, and anyway, to confuse Christmas shopping with Christmas is just wrong. It's about Christ.


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run4yrlif - 2005-11-29 9:42 AM
runnergirl29 - 2005-11-29 8:38 AM

Traget isn't Christmas, but people go there to Christmas shop- duh. If it didn't represent Christmas, then Target would have those sales year round.



But people also shop for Hannaukah presents. And Muslims by clothes, and Buddhists by cleaning supplies. Target isn't a Christmas store, and anyway, to confuse Christmas shopping with Christmas is just wrong. It's about Christ.

True- the whole Christmas thing is confsuing to people.  I mean, how does Santa Clause compare with Jesus?  I hate how parents teach their children that Santa has all these special powers to deliver presents to EVERYONE on Christmas Eve and all that garbage, and then the kids don't even know about Jesus- sorry if I offend anyone.  And if Christmas is all about giving, it doesn't mean about jsut giving presents.  It's about giving people your time, talents, and of course presents are a nice gesture.  I'm going to be alone for Christmas this year and will probably spend Christmas Day serving food in a homeless shelter.  I don't care if I get presents or not.

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runnergirl29 - 2005-11-29 8:49 AM

 I'm going to be alone for Christmas this year and will probably spend Christmas Day serving food in a homeless shelter. I don't care if I get presents or not.



What a great way to spend Christmas... .
2005-11-29 8:53 AM
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 I'm going to be alone for Christmas this year and will probably spend Christmas Day serving food in a homeless shelter. I don't care if I get presents or not.



What a great way to spend Christmas... .

I'll have nothing else better to do so it makes sense.

2005-11-29 9:12 AM
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runnergirl29 - 2005-11-29 9:38 AM Ditto- that's like people having to say "Happy Holidays" instead of "Merry Christmas". Or writing Chrsitmas as X-Mas. 

Writing it as X-mas is actually legitimate. In the Greek alphabet, X is the letter chi which is the first letter of the Greek word for Christ -"Christos". Use of the letter chi to represent the title "Christ" is an accepted historical abbreviation. It's been around for hundreds of years.

And Colomingle and Huengsolo, thank you.



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marmadaddy - 2005-11-29 10:12 AM

runnergirl29 - 2005-11-29 9:38 AM Ditto- that's like people having to say "Happy Holidays" instead of "Merry Christmas". Or writing Chrsitmas as X-Mas. 

Writing it as X-mas is actually legitimate. In the Greek alphabet, X is the letter chi which is the first letter of the Greek word for Christ -"Christos". Use of the letter chi to represent the title "Christ" is an accepted historical abbreviation. It's been around for hundreds of years.

And Colomingle and Huengsolo, thank you.

That might be true, but where do you ever see Christ represented with an X, unless your Greek?  I  mean, if the Bible uses the workd Christ should we instead of an X?  Don't mean to ruffle any feathers, just thinking out loud.

2005-11-29 9:22 AM
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runnergirl29 - 2005-11-29 10:15 AM

That might be true, but where do you ever see Christ represented with an X, unless your Greek?

Well, there's merry X-mas for one. It's no different than referring to "JC", or the acronym "WWJD".  It's an initial. It's not intended to be blasphemous, it's actually reverential by conferring only one possible meaning to the letter.

  I  mean, if the Bible uses the workd Christ should we instead of an X?  Don't mean to ruffle any feathers, just thinking out loud.

There are bibles in Greek, you know. 

2005-11-29 9:24 AM
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marmadaddy - 2005-11-29 10:22 AM
runnergirl29 - 2005-11-29 10:15 AM

That might be true, but where do you ever see Christ represented with an X, unless your Greek?

Well, there's merry X-mas for one. It's no different than referring to "JC", or the acronym "WWJD".  It's an initial. It's not intended to be blasphemous, it's actually reverential by conferring only one possible meaning to the letter.

  I  mean, if the Bible uses the workd Christ should we instead of an X?  Don't mean to ruffle any feathers, just thinking out loud.

There are bibles in Greek, you know. 

Ok- so if X in Greek means Christ, then why don't people write the rest of Merry Christmas in Greek as well?  I'm just saying.  It doesn't make sense to substitute one part of a word into Greek and  the rest.  Hmmm...I think i have a good question here. And, I'm sure that Greek Bibles are all in Greek, not just a word or 2. 



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Additionally, in the Jewish tradition from which we Christians are born, it is considered sinful to even write G-d's name out-- (which is why you often see it spelled as I just did) And since Christians (ususally ) believe that Christ is God made flesh, it would be appropriate to write His name with appropriate veneration? I gueess, Janelle, you don't think the X/chi is respectful. Whenever I see the X or INRI, it alwys brings me back to the historical Jesus, and the X is certainly a powerful symbol of His suffering. So for me, it isn't blasphemous, rather historical. mumble babble babble....

2005-11-29 9:57 AM
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Melanie ... you have got to love the Cup of Joe.  Where else can a thread about witnessing, feeling His presence and the power of prayer lead to a discussion of religious tolerance for Buddist Monks while shopping at Target?

Seriously, thanks for bringing your awesome story about witnessing in such difficult circumstances.  Hopefully it will inspire others to share their stories about feeling His presence and serve as the reminder of Jim, Janelle and Smokeater are discussing - Christ in Christmas.



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runnergirl29 -

I mean, how does Santa Clause compare with Jesus? I hate how parents teach their children that Santa has all these special powers to deliver presents to EVERYONE on Christmas Eve and all that garbage, and then the kids don't even know about Jesus- sorry if I offend anyone. ...

Christmas this year and will probably spend Christmas Day serving food in a homeless shelter. I don't care if I get presents or not.



As a Catholic I believe in the validity of praying to Saints to intercede with God on my behalf. It's perfectly fine to ask the Saints for help, as long as the request is for my spiritual well being and that of the world.

So my kids are taught that Santa Claus indeed does exist. Santa Claus just being another name for Saint Nicholas of Myrna.

So the kids get to ask Santa Claus/ St. Nicholas for things they would like. As long as these things are beneficial to their development (and affordable!) there's a good chance they will get it.

Janelle, you are so right to want to keep the focus of Christmas on the true meaning, the birth of Jesus. What a blessing that you spend the day working with the poor. That definitely is keeping with the true meaning.

There are many symbols and customs that have been appropriated by secular culture. The story of Santa is one I want to take back and infuse with a proper meaning, the request of help from a Saint.






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Thanks for posting this Melanie.

2005-11-29 10:26 AM
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Melanie, your story is awesome. Thank you so much for sharing it. Many people would only pray that this baby be healed and give up if that didn't happen. You gave such a gift to your co-workers. Talking to God is not just about the good times and the things he gives us. He's not Santa Claus (pun intended). He's so much bigger than that.

And on the Christmas topic - while Target and others like it aren't Christmas stores, I'd rather hear "Merry Christmas," "Merry Kwanzaa," "Happy Hanukkah" than the usual grunts I get at Target. I'm so sick of all the political correctness. Why have holidays at all? Why not just have a dump-your-money-at-retail-stores day? Anyway, just the rantings of a crazy woman .

2005-11-29 10:41 AM
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Ok- I just posted this under another thread- but here goes.  It really bugs me when people knock Christians and Christianity, yet want to celebrate holidays like Christmas and Easter in the wordly way.  Like buy presents, baking, eating good meals and all that crap.  Do you even know why you're celebrating?  And, if you're celebrating the birth and death of Jesus, then why don't you believe in Jesus during the whole year even without holidays?  Sorry- it just bugs me.
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