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2013-04-08 7:04 PM
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So piglet Andrew bike coach - I went to his gym last night to observe.  He trains in the art of primal move and kettle bell and stuff that i am clueless about.  He is ex armed forces, he was also on the Olympic team for Tae kwon do.  So he kinda knows his stuff.

The class last night was taken by his gorgeous girlfriend Shannon.  It looked tough.  I cannot commit to the classes I just don't have the hours in a week spare!  BUT I have committed to PT with Andrew - we start Monday and I'm not afraid to say I'm afraid!  So we do an hour on a Monday night 6.30pm then he gives me homework 2 x 20mins sessions to do at home.

And Andrew is away this weekend, but he hasn't let me down, Shannon is taking me for a ride Sunday.  Aren't I the luckiest girl in the world!



2013-04-08 8:36 PM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-08 8:04 PM

So piglet Andrew bike coach - I went to his gym last night to observe.  He trains in the art of primal move and kettle bell and stuff that i am clueless about.  He is ex armed forces, he was also on the Olympic team for Tae kwon do.  So he kinda knows his stuff.

The class last night was taken by his gorgeous girlfriend Shannon.  It looked tough.  I cannot commit to the classes I just don't have the hours in a week spare!  BUT I have committed to PT with Andrew - we start Monday and I'm not afraid to say I'm afraid!  So we do an hour on a Monday night 6.30pm then he gives me homework 2 x 20mins sessions to do at home.

And Andrew is away this weekend, but he hasn't let me down, Shannon is taking me for a ride Sunday.  Aren't I the luckiest girl in the world!

Lucky you!  That sounds really cool - especially the ride on Sunday.  PT is tough, but it's good.

2013-04-08 9:22 PM
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wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

2013-04-08 9:34 PM
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Sad that you have to "choose" Jo, but it sounds like Andrew is more helpful to you. As for posting about it on FB, be who you are, you don't need people with whom you can't do that.
2013-04-08 9:54 PM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-08 7:22 PM

wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

Well, you know the Manatee motto...maybe you should teach it to her Wink

2013-04-08 10:04 PM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-08 10:22 PM

wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

Personally, I think that's the most telling part of it.  If you wouldn't notice and you aren't *really* friends, then I wouldn't worry about it.  I don't know that I'd change being excited because an acquaintance was frustrated.



2013-04-08 10:14 PM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-09 9:22 AM

wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

Anybody who has a problem with what *I* post or put on *my* wall gets defriended. I'm very happy to debate content and ideas, but anyone who has a problem with me POSTING it ... 'bye.

2013-04-08 10:15 PM
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Artemis - 2013-04-09 5:47 AM Just got back from running with my little one in the jog stroller.  Apparently she's getting heavier or my legs were toast from PT this morning because it was hella hard.  I only made it 1.3 miles before I just couldn't keep going.  I guess that's better than nothing, but I was hoping to do more.

It's training stress, not distance what counts--you GOT OUT THERE, and you did what you wisely could and should. Perfect!

2013-04-08 10:16 PM
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Artemis - 2013-04-09 5:02 AM
ponderingfox - 2013-04-08 5:58 PM

I know I can't be the only person that starts writing my race report in my head before the event is over, right?

I'm like, oh man, I hope I remember that for the race report!

Nope. I totally write it in my head during the race.  It's always way better there than it actually is because I end up forgetting half the things I want to say!

I talk to the Manatees mainly but lots of other folks too ALL RACE LONG in my head!

2013-04-08 10:17 PM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-09 2:22 PM

wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

She sent a follow up more of a 'it's me not you' kind of message.  I will not respond - if I did I would say 'I don't know how to respond!'

If she were a real friend and had some manners she would phone.

My friend card is pretty full of genuine people who care about me.  I don't need that.

So I'm leaving it.  I will be considerate when I post but I will not refrain from posting my thoughts or whatever.  read it and weep.

I would love to say DOOOOO EEEEET!  I'm just not that person.  Damn being a people pleaser!

2013-04-08 10:18 PM
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TriAya - 2013-04-09 3:14 PM
jobaxas - 2013-04-09 9:22 AM

wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

Anybody who has a problem with what *I* post or put on *my* wall gets defriended. I'm very happy to debate content and ideas, but anyone who has a problem with me POSTING it ... 'bye.

This I love!  F*ck yeah!



2013-04-08 10:20 PM
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YES HALLELUJAH MY DAD FINALLY DIED!!!!!

All the major eff-ups along the way means a few other people are going to have to, as well, but too bad.

For those of you who have been following, it's been a bureaucratic nightmare that only 3rd World and in particular Indonesian bureaucracy could possibly produce, rife with Catch-22s and impossible requirements.

The President finally stepped in and had my dad killed off. THANK YOU. (This was a last resort but for ferk's sake, the poor guy died on March 15th and he wasn't dead yet! And without him being officially dead, we can't REALLY proceed with any of his VERY messy issues and paperwork and legal processes, both business and personal estate).

2013-04-08 10:26 PM
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TriAya - 2013-04-09 3:20 PM

YES HALLELUJAH MY DAD FINALLY DIED!!!!!

All the major eff-ups along the way means a few other people are going to have to, as well, but too bad.

For those of you who have been following, it's been a bureaucratic nightmare that only 3rd World and in particular Indonesian bureaucracy could possibly produce, rife with Catch-22s and impossible requirements.

The President finally stepped in and had my dad killed off. THANK YOU. (This was a last resort but for ferk's sake, the poor guy died on March 15th and he wasn't dead yet! And without him being officially dead, we can't REALLY proceed with any of his VERY messy issues and paperwork and legal processes, both business and personal estate).

Now there's an opening line of a post you won't often see!

Glad it's sorted and you can start the bureaucratic process of going through his stuff....

2013-04-08 10:47 PM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-08 9:22 PM

wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

I am friends with an ex-boyfriend on Facebook. I love my husband. Just want to get that out there. But I was having issues seeing pictures of this ex with his new (very young) wife and their beautiful new second home (vacation) with the new furniture being delivered, and the great parties, and vacations to Spain . . . Do I need to go on? LOL

The thing is that I realized that this was my problem. Not his. I didn't say anything to him. I didn't unfriend him. Facebook has this wonderful feature. I don't have to see any of his wall posts in my feed. So I don't. Problem solved. As far as he knows, I am cool. And I don't torture myself with envy.

Maybe you could suggest that to your friend. Since she's the one with the problem. :-)

2013-04-08 10:49 PM
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Artemis - 2013-04-08 5:47 PM Just got back from running with my little one in the jog stroller.  Apparently she's getting heavier or my legs were toast from PT this morning because it was hella hard.  I only made it 1.3 miles before I just couldn't keep going.  I guess that's better than nothing, but I was hoping to do more.
Don't underestimate pushing E in the stroller. It adds a lot of resistance. I think you did a great job.
2013-04-08 10:56 PM
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KansasMom - 2013-04-09 3:47 PM

 

jobaxas - 2013-04-08 9:22 PM

wow a facebook curveball.  Andrew piglet bike coach has an ex I believe i mentioned we are 'friends' well mainly if I see her at an event or squad we chat, we are friends on facebook etc.  I can't say we've socialised EVER.

Today I get a message from her saying if I don't stop posting about how wonderful Andrew is and how much he is helping me etc she will have to block me on facebook.  She works hard at removing ex's from her life and doesn't need the constant reminders.  WTF! 

I have not responded.  Really - a little childish I thought and I have no idea how to respond to that.

Any ideas manatees?

To be honest we are hardly friends, if she blocked me without telling me I would have taken months to notice.

I am friends with an ex-boyfriend on Facebook. I love my husband. Just want to get that out there. But I was having issues seeing pictures of this ex with his new (very young) wife and their beautiful new second home (vacation) with the new furniture being delivered, and the great parties, and vacations to Spain . . . Do I need to go on? LOL

The thing is that I realized that this was my problem. Not his. I didn't say anything to him. I didn't unfriend him. Facebook has this wonderful feature. I don't have to see any of his wall posts in my feed. So I don't. Problem solved. As far as he knows, I am cool. And I don't torture myself with envy.

Maybe you could suggest that to your friend. Since she's the one with the problem. :-)

Thanks for that.  I am trying to be understanding.  She is actually moving to Miami in a month so the dust will settle.  Melbourne isn't a massive city, they both work in the fitness industry - they are bound to cross paths one way or another.

She clearly hasn't moved on from this relationship.  Andrew is in a happy relationship, he has a VERY successful business...probably all the things she would like.

He is now in her 'triathlon world'.  I totally get how that would be unsettling.  The community is small their paths will cross, just I was the first instance.  Just happens I'm pretty facebook active!

I'm not going to respond at all.  I am free to post as I please (I will show some consideration), I am free to train with whom I please, and i am free to be friends with whom I please.

I prefer BT anyhow.

 

 



2013-04-08 10:59 PM
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KansasMom - 2013-04-08 8:49 PM
Artemis - 2013-04-08 5:47 PM Just got back from running with my little one in the jog stroller.  Apparently she's getting heavier or my legs were toast from PT this morning because it was hella hard.  I only made it 1.3 miles before I just couldn't keep going.  I guess that's better than nothing, but I was hoping to do more.
Don't underestimate pushing E in the stroller. It adds a lot of resistance. I think you did a great job.

Posted by a woman who has lost 20lbs but who wasn't really 'feeling' it: "Well today I picked up 20 lbs of dumbells during my warmup. I could the feel the weight pulling me down. I could feel the added stress on my joints and hear the heavier footfalls on the treadmill. I only held onto them for 1/4 miles but when I dropped the weight I felt the difference. I felt lighter". 

Maybe try running the same 1.3miles without wee little baby E and the stroller--I bet you feel it!  No, you were carrying the weight, but pushing it is similar stress.  Plus, you can't use your arms for momentum when pushing the stroller!  Awesome job!

2013-04-08 11:09 PM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-08 11:26 PM
TriAya - 2013-04-09 3:20 PM

YES HALLELUJAH MY DAD FINALLY DIED!!!!!

All the major eff-ups along the way means a few other people are going to have to, as well, but too bad.

For those of you who have been following, it's been a bureaucratic nightmare that only 3rd World and in particular Indonesian bureaucracy could possibly produce, rife with Catch-22s and impossible requirements.

The President finally stepped in and had my dad killed off. THANK YOU. (This was a last resort but for ferk's sake, the poor guy died on March 15th and he wasn't dead yet! And without him being officially dead, we can't REALLY proceed with any of his VERY messy issues and paperwork and legal processes, both business and personal estate).

Now there's an opening line of a post you won't often see!

Glad it's sorted and you can start the bureaucratic process of going through his stuff....

No kidding!  That's a bizarre post if someone doesn't know you, Yanti.  Heck, it's kind of bizarre and I do know you.  

2013-04-08 11:12 PM
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bcraht - 2013-04-08 11:59 PM

KansasMom - 2013-04-08 8:49 PM
Artemis - 2013-04-08 5:47 PM Just got back from running with my little one in the jog stroller.  Apparently she's getting heavier or my legs were toast from PT this morning because it was hella hard.  I only made it 1.3 miles before I just couldn't keep going.  I guess that's better than nothing, but I was hoping to do more.
Don't underestimate pushing E in the stroller. It adds a lot of resistance. I think you did a great job.

Posted by a woman who has lost 20lbs but who wasn't really 'feeling' it: "Well today I picked up 20 lbs of dumbells during my warmup. I could the feel the weight pulling me down. I could feel the added stress on my joints and hear the heavier footfalls on the treadmill. I only held onto them for 1/4 miles but when I dropped the weight I felt the difference. I felt lighter". 

Maybe try running the same 1.3miles without wee little baby E and the stroller--I bet you feel it!  No, you were carrying the weight, but pushing it is similar stress.  Plus, you can't use your arms for momentum when pushing the stroller!  Awesome job!

lol...probably!  She's not so wee anymore!  She's about 26 pounds plus the stroller is 25 pounds, so that's an extra 51 pounds to propel.  Guess that explains why it was so much harder, huh?  Embarassed

2013-04-08 11:15 PM
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KansasMom - 2013-04-08 8:49 PM
Artemis - 2013-04-08 5:47 PM Just got back from running with my little one in the jog stroller.  Apparently she's getting heavier or my legs were toast from PT this morning because it was hella hard.  I only made it 1.3 miles before I just couldn't keep going.  I guess that's better than nothing, but I was hoping to do more.
Don't underestimate pushing E in the stroller. It adds a lot of resistance. I think you did a great job.
Absolutely! I struggle a LOT when I push Mak. It's like pushing a sailboat into the wind. I really feel the extra soreness from neck, shoulder and arm tension.
2013-04-08 11:17 PM
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TriAya - 2013-04-08 8:20 PM

YES HALLELUJAH MY DAD FINALLY DIED!!!!!

All the major eff-ups along the way means a few other people are going to have to, as well, but too bad.

For those of you who have been following, it's been a bureaucratic nightmare that only 3rd World and in particular Indonesian bureaucracy could possibly produce, rife with Catch-22s and impossible requirements.

The President finally stepped in and had my dad killed off. THANK YOU. (This was a last resort but for ferk's sake, the poor guy died on March 15th and he wasn't dead yet! And without him being officially dead, we can't REALLY proceed with any of his VERY messy issues and paperwork and legal processes, both business and personal estate).

Oh dear.  Good and bad all at the same time?  Glad you will be able to move things forward now.



2013-04-08 11:41 PM
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Incredibly windy today...60mph gusts! Now there's rain, lightning and thunder. So who did it??? Who sent their crazy weather to my perfectly happy neck of the earth? On top of it, I was totally unmotivated all afternoon. Finally dragged myself onto the trainer and then upstairs for some core work when DH got home to watch kids. Sheesh.
2013-04-08 11:49 PM
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4agoodlife - 2013-04-09 4:41 PM Incredibly windy today...60mph gusts! Now there's rain, lightning and thunder. So who did it??? Who sent their crazy weather to my perfectly happy neck of the earth? On top of it, I was totally unmotivated all afternoon. Finally dragged myself onto the trainer and then upstairs for some core work when DH got home to watch kids. Sheesh.

I will tell you here it is perfect.  Sunny, warm not hot, no wind.  wish I had taken the day off and gone for a ride.  yes it's that good.

2013-04-09 12:10 AM
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jobaxas - 2013-04-08 9:49 PM

4agoodlife - 2013-04-09 4:41 PM Incredibly windy today...60mph gusts! Now there's rain, lightning and thunder. So who did it??? Who sent their crazy weather to my perfectly happy neck of the earth? On top of it, I was totally unmotivated all afternoon. Finally dragged myself onto the trainer and then upstairs for some core work when DH got home to watch kids. Sheesh.

I will tell you here it is perfect.  Sunny, warm not hot, no wind.  wish I had taken the day off and gone for a ride.  yes it's that good.

Thank you, Jo. Just what I needed to hear :P. Glad you have my good stuff though... and there's always tomorrow you can take off. The bike confidence is building! woohoo!
2013-04-09 12:11 AM
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oh in the weather department we have our share of sh*tty.  Ask anyone who did IM Melbourne...
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