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Master![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by switch I got my RR up http://www.beginnertriathlete.com/discussion/forums/thread-view.asp?tid=496029&posts=2#M4811703 and would love feedback on how to train for and balance the bike/run. I had only done two +50 mile rides before the race, and ran 5 miles after one of those. Oops. I am really clueless here...any help or tips would be much appreciated Going at a variety of efforts and distances, and efforts within the distances, can help one get an idea of where they are. It gives a bigger picture of what the performance curve looks like and how things feel throughout them. The occasional run off the bike is helpful, but don't get carried away. Especially with longer courses as it becomes more about knowing fitness levels and applying it. It sounds like you did ok from the race report. You went out easier on the bike. That's what you should do. It's very easy to go too hard, so go easier at first to get rid of the swim feeling. Get your bike senses and see how things feel. Probably watch that "give 'er the beans" (??) feeling late in the ride. Especially with a run like that coming up. The profile has a few decent hills on it, looks like more smaller things on their site as well. You did well in backing off early on, not forcing your goal. What you could have done is try to push the pace earlier than you did, but not in the first few miles. Not when you had doubts like that. That comes with experience, and more so with running in general as opposed to trying more big brick workouts. Then in knowing in a tri, your energy will likely fall off faster than a stand alone run of similar size. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by Asalzwed Went on an amazing ride up to the brewery last night with a bunch of us girls (there were 8 of us) It's really quite amazing how easily general athletic ability can translate so well from sport to sport. These girls were pretty much all high level basketball players but after just some very general tips they could just fly on the bike. We had a few weak links but everyone learned how to work together on the way home. The moon came out as we were approaching our finish and it was just beautiful! The August issue came out for NW Runner and I've still got the 5th fastest marathon and now the 4th fastest 10K in the state (for my AG.) I am pretty excited but I really need to race again soon to hold onto my title. Especially as my 10K is a little weak for what I think I can do. I can't wait to get back to running!!!! Woo hoo! Nice ride and great news about the rankings! So much awesome!!! |
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![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Artemis My birthday was great today! -Went out to lunch with coworkers LOVE IT!!!!! |
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![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Muskrat37 No time to catch up now - and I've been avoiding the Manatee posts for the last day or so because I saw something mentioned about the TDF and I still have about 5 stages to watch on my DVR. Thought I would drop in to show you all a few video's of why I LOVE riding in my neck of the woods. A little scenery and a little adrenaline. Enjoy! VERY cool, Chad, what a beautiful collection of your rides! I love seeing glimpses into the other manatees' worlds. |
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![]() | ![]() Originally posted by TriAya HAPPY BIRTHDAY HANDS-MARIE!!! Ha ha ha haha, gonna tack my birthday wishes onto Yanti's because this is pure awesomeness. Well done, Yanti! Happy, happy birthday, Ann-Marie!!! |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() A quick drive by post Firstly thanks to our inspirers - you know who you are! And yes Chris the bike is going outside - I'm taking Thursday Friday (mental health days) and I intend to spend most of my time on the bike outside! Somehow or another! Macca's musings - he's bloody awesome, his enthusiasm for the sport is unreal. If you get a chance and want to listen to a really candid interview with him look up the Rich Roll podcast where he interviews him. It's great. Funny I got sent a pic yesterday of Rich Roll swimming with none other than Terenzo. Dammit he's hot. Yanti - you must be pining. Salty - that picture in the car sums up you I just love it! Switch - wow you are amazing. My first HIM 7.40 hope to beat that this time! Happy Birthday Hands Marie - you're only as old as how many hands you have. Skrat - I wanna go ride with you! Everyone else - y'all have a good day. I've been up since 5 rode the trainer for an hour or so watching BrB. Geez. |
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Regular ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl THIS^^^. Salty, WTF? Why are you so damn fast woman?! Pure awesome.Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by Asalzwed Went on an amazing ride up to the brewery last night with a bunch of us girls (there were 8 of us) It's really quite amazing how easily general athletic ability can translate so well from sport to sport. These girls were pretty much all high level basketball players but after just some very general tips they could just fly on the bike. We had a few weak links but everyone learned how to work together on the way home. The moon came out as we were approaching our finish and it was just beautiful! The August issue came out for NW Runner and I've still got the 5th fastest marathon and now the 4th fastest 10K in the state (for my AG.) I am pretty excited but I really need to race again soon to hold onto my title. Especially as my 10K is a little weak for what I think I can do. I can't wait to get back to running!!!! Woo hoo! Nice ride and great news about the rankings! So much awesome!!! You know what's even more awesome? That you're so freakin cool and balanced about the whole thing. Love that. |
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Regular ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by brigby1 Originally posted by switch I got my RR up http://www.beginnertriathlete.com/discussion/forums/thread-view.asp?tid=496029&posts=2#M4811703 and would love feedback on how to train for and balance the bike/run. I had only done two +50 mile rides before the race, and ran 5 miles after one of those. Oops. I am really clueless here...any help or tips would be much appreciated:) Going at a variety of efforts and distances, and efforts within the distances, can help one get an idea of where they are. It gives a bigger picture of what the performance curve looks like and how things feel throughout them. The occasional run off the bike is helpful, but don't get carried away. Especially with longer courses as it becomes more about knowing fitness levels and applying it. It sounds like you did ok from the race report. You went out easier on the bike. That's what you should do. It's very easy to go too hard, so go easier at first to get rid of the swim feeling. Get your bike senses and see how things feel. Probably watch that "give 'er the beans" (??) feeling late in the ride. Especially with a run like that coming up. The profile has a few decent hills on it, looks like more smaller things on their site as well. You did well in backing off early on, not forcing your goal. What you could have done is try to push the pace earlier than you did, but not in the first few miles. Not when you had doubts like that. That comes with experience, and more so with running in general as opposed to trying more big brick workouts. Then in knowing in a tri, your energy will likely fall off faster than a stand alone run of similar size. Thanks Ben. I really appreciate the feedback. I shouldn't have hit it so hard at the end of the bike, but I was sooo high that it had gone well and I was feeling really good. I could also see that I was close to 21mph on my Garmin;) LOL. There. I said it. I am a complete dork. I really need to grow up. So when you're training for a HIM what kinds of distances and efforts do you shoot for with your rides and runs? I know that's a very broad-stroke kinda question, and could depend a lot on how far you are from the race. Is there a good book you'd recommend for me to start wrapping my head around this? And the most hilarious thing of the day? I have been feeling all bummed out about my swim--and it did SUCK, don't get me wrong, but, ummm, someone needs to pay attention to the /100m after the time. Meters, dumbazz, not yards. 1:58/100m =1:48/100yds. Still not great, but better than I thought. Fach, I'm a bonehead.
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![]() | ![]() Originally posted by switch Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl THIS^^^. Salty, WTF? Why are you so damn fast woman?! Pure awesome.Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by Asalzwed Went on an amazing ride up to the brewery last night with a bunch of us girls (there were 8 of us) It's really quite amazing how easily general athletic ability can translate so well from sport to sport. These girls were pretty much all high level basketball players but after just some very general tips they could just fly on the bike. We had a few weak links but everyone learned how to work together on the way home. The moon came out as we were approaching our finish and it was just beautiful! The August issue came out for NW Runner and I've still got the 5th fastest marathon and now the 4th fastest 10K in the state (for my AG.) I am pretty excited but I really need to race again soon to hold onto my title. Especially as my 10K is a little weak for what I think I can do. I can't wait to get back to running!!!! Woo hoo! Nice ride and great news about the rankings! So much awesome!!! You know what's even more awesome? That you're so freakin cool and balanced about the whole thing. Love that. Switch speaks the truth, for she is wise (and fast and has awesome abs). Also, that is a very cool picture! Edited by melbo55 2013-07-23 4:07 PM |
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![]() | ![]() OK, kids, tomorrow I'm headed to beautiful Lake Placid for a week of swimming in gorgeous, clean, clear Mirror Lake, biking the IMLP bike course, volunteering during the IMLP race ('velo angel', aka bike handler), spectating when not volunteering, running roads and trails, eating Ben & Jerry's, tubing, and doing whatever fun stuff presents itself!! I will more than likely be absent from the manatee thread and my logs unless I try to access it with my Kindle (we'll see how that goes), but I may show up on Strava if the app works on my iPod. Have fun, happy training, and be safe! Salty, one last AD bite for you before I go: "How am I supposed to find someone willing to go into that musty old claptrap?" |
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Royal(PITA) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by melbo55 Oh my, you are entering Nirvana.....I <3 Lake Placid.OK, kids, tomorrow I'm headed to beautiful Lake Placid for a week of swimming in gorgeous, clean, clear Mirror Lake, biking the IMLP bike course, volunteering during the IMLP race ('velo angel', aka bike handler), spectating when not volunteering, running roads and trails, eating Ben & Jerry's, tubing, and doing whatever fun stuff presents itself!! I will more than likely be absent from the manatee thread and my logs unless I try to access it with my Kindle (we'll see how that goes), but I may show up on Strava if the app works on my iPod. Have fun, happy training, and be safe! Salty, one last AD bite for you before I go: "How am I supposed to find someone willing to go into that musty old claptrap?" I have less than 48 hours between myself and the beach with all the ponies at Assateague. You may see a random post from me....but I am just going to soak in the sunshine, dolphins and ponies. (and eat lots of yummy seafood) |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by Artemis Happy Birthday, Ann-Marie!!!!
Happy birthday! I wish we could share that cake. I love it. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl My husband and I "met" in early August and married five months later. We are an e-harmony couple.Originally posted by rrrunner Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by 4agoodlife Originally posted by TriAya Lots of great stuff going on in my life now as well ... not any less crazy busy (even more so!) but light's finally dawning with the business and court affairs. It's not massive daily drama and fuckets by noon anymore ... more like 3pm and every other day. After a downward trend Mutti's stabilized nicely re. the Alzheimer's again ... I think also getting her teeth finally fixed well also eliminated low grade chronic inflammation/infection that was not helping. I learn amazing new things from Kingsley every day ... funny how I'm (ultimately) reaching for a Strait swim, and also Paralympics, and God dumps the world's best (continuing) swimmer and Paralympian in my lap. Kinda literally. He'll be coming down for Mutti's 80th birthday in October to meet the fam. He was featured top of Sports page in our very own Jakarta Post (leading newspaper of one of the world's largest cities) and I was grousing to him about how every member of my family except me has been featured (not just mentioned or cited) in the JP ... lo and behold, I get a call from a JP reporter wanting to feature me in a triathlon article because it's become such a fast-growing sport/craze here ... AAAAAH I don't have two decent hi-res pics of me in competition! Must hunt! Also scored an interview with a U.S.-based women's triathlon magazine through Chris Lieto's More Than Sport, which is working with the Bali Sports Foundation (which hosted the Paragames in Bali) to get Indonesian Paralympians to Rio. YAAAAAAAY Ahhhh...so many, many good things! Your most recent pics have been radiating joy I'd tell you to "go slow" and "be sure", but...flew from CA to KS with J after 3 weeks of dating (met fam/friends), engaged after 6 months, married at 10 months. 2 kids, 5 houses, and 9 years later...the story's still going This grabbed me the other day (Manatee mantra?)- “Tell him yes. Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, because whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no.” My parents were pseudo engaged on their second date. My dad gave my mom a Wrigley's wrapper around her finger and said something about "when we get married." They were married for real after just over six months and they just celebrated #46 together. I love all of the quickly engaged stories! So cute! Me too! My grandparents met and were married within 6 weeks, and spent the next 54 years bickering lovingly with each other. My parents were high school sweethearts and tried to break up while in university to see if things were greener on the other side of the fence, and that lasted a month. They are now on year 42 of my dad being the most patient man in the world. I first met Tony in June 2010 and by Feb. 2011 had moved to London to live with the guy, then married in July 2012. When you know, you know. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by KansasMom Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl My husband and I "met" in early August and married five months later. We are an e-harmony couple. Originally posted by rrrunner Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by 4agoodlife Originally posted by TriAya Lots of great stuff going on in my life now as well ... not any less crazy busy (even more so!) but light's finally dawning with the business and court affairs. It's not massive daily drama and fuckets by noon anymore ... more like 3pm and every other day. After a downward trend Mutti's stabilized nicely re. the Alzheimer's again ... I think also getting her teeth finally fixed well also eliminated low grade chronic inflammation/infection that was not helping. I learn amazing new things from Kingsley every day ... funny how I'm (ultimately) reaching for a Strait swim, and also Paralympics, and God dumps the world's best (continuing) swimmer and Paralympian in my lap. Kinda literally. He'll be coming down for Mutti's 80th birthday in October to meet the fam. He was featured top of Sports page in our very own Jakarta Post (leading newspaper of one of the world's largest cities) and I was grousing to him about how every member of my family except me has been featured (not just mentioned or cited) in the JP ... lo and behold, I get a call from a JP reporter wanting to feature me in a triathlon article because it's become such a fast-growing sport/craze here ... AAAAAH I don't have two decent hi-res pics of me in competition! Must hunt! Also scored an interview with a U.S.-based women's triathlon magazine through Chris Lieto's More Than Sport, which is working with the Bali Sports Foundation (which hosted the Paragames in Bali) to get Indonesian Paralympians to Rio. YAAAAAAAY Ahhhh...so many, many good things! Your most recent pics have been radiating joy I'd tell you to "go slow" and "be sure", but...flew from CA to KS with J after 3 weeks of dating (met fam/friends), engaged after 6 months, married at 10 months. 2 kids, 5 houses, and 9 years later...the story's still going This grabbed me the other day (Manatee mantra?)- “Tell him yes. Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, because whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no.” My parents were pseudo engaged on their second date. My dad gave my mom a Wrigley's wrapper around her finger and said something about "when we get married." They were married for real after just over six months and they just celebrated #46 together. I love all of the quickly engaged stories! So cute! Me too! My grandparents met and were married within 6 weeks, and spent the next 54 years bickering lovingly with each other. My parents were high school sweethearts and tried to break up while in university to see if things were greener on the other side of the fence, and that lasted a month. They are now on year 42 of my dad being the most patient man in the world. I first met Tony in June 2010 and by Feb. 2011 had moved to London to live with the guy, then married in July 2012. When you know, you know. I walked into a bar on my holidays in Greece and picked up the barman - 22 years ago. |
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by KansasMom So sorry that I missed your birthdays Jen and Ann-Marie. I hope that you both had fantastic days. Originally posted by Artemis Happy Birthday, Ann-Marie!!!!
Happy birthday! I wish we could share that cake. I love it. (I am reporting Jens cake picture cause I love it so much) |
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by jobaxas I figure if you know, you know. Why waste time making other people feel ok about it?Originally posted by KansasMom Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl My husband and I "met" in early August and married five months later. We are an e-harmony couple. Originally posted by rrrunner Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by 4agoodlife Originally posted by TriAya Lots of great stuff going on in my life now as well ... not any less crazy busy (even more so!) but light's finally dawning with the business and court affairs. It's not massive daily drama and fuckets by noon anymore ... more like 3pm and every other day. After a downward trend Mutti's stabilized nicely re. the Alzheimer's again ... I think also getting her teeth finally fixed well also eliminated low grade chronic inflammation/infection that was not helping. I learn amazing new things from Kingsley every day ... funny how I'm (ultimately) reaching for a Strait swim, and also Paralympics, and God dumps the world's best (continuing) swimmer and Paralympian in my lap. Kinda literally. He'll be coming down for Mutti's 80th birthday in October to meet the fam. He was featured top of Sports page in our very own Jakarta Post (leading newspaper of one of the world's largest cities) and I was grousing to him about how every member of my family except me has been featured (not just mentioned or cited) in the JP ... lo and behold, I get a call from a JP reporter wanting to feature me in a triathlon article because it's become such a fast-growing sport/craze here ... AAAAAH I don't have two decent hi-res pics of me in competition! Must hunt! Also scored an interview with a U.S.-based women's triathlon magazine through Chris Lieto's More Than Sport, which is working with the Bali Sports Foundation (which hosted the Paragames in Bali) to get Indonesian Paralympians to Rio. YAAAAAAAY Ahhhh...so many, many good things! Your most recent pics have been radiating joy I'd tell you to "go slow" and "be sure", but...flew from CA to KS with J after 3 weeks of dating (met fam/friends), engaged after 6 months, married at 10 months. 2 kids, 5 houses, and 9 years later...the story's still going This grabbed me the other day (Manatee mantra?)- “Tell him yes. Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, because whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no.” My parents were pseudo engaged on their second date. My dad gave my mom a Wrigley's wrapper around her finger and said something about "when we get married." They were married for real after just over six months and they just celebrated #46 together. I love all of the quickly engaged stories! So cute! Me too! My grandparents met and were married within 6 weeks, and spent the next 54 years bickering lovingly with each other. My parents were high school sweethearts and tried to break up while in university to see if things were greener on the other side of the fence, and that lasted a month. They are now on year 42 of my dad being the most patient man in the world. I first met Tony in June 2010 and by Feb. 2011 had moved to London to live with the guy, then married in July 2012. When you know, you know. I walked into a bar on my holidays in Greece and picked up the barman - 22 years ago. |
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Royal(PITA) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by jobaxas THere is a long version and a short version for how I met my husband. I will tease you all with the short one.....He killed my first husband (true)Originally posted by KansasMom Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl My husband and I "met" in early August and married five months later. We are an e-harmony couple. Originally posted by rrrunner Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by 4agoodlife Originally posted by TriAya Lots of great stuff going on in my life now as well ... not any less crazy busy (even more so!) but light's finally dawning with the business and court affairs. It's not massive daily drama and fuckets by noon anymore ... more like 3pm and every other day. After a downward trend Mutti's stabilized nicely re. the Alzheimer's again ... I think also getting her teeth finally fixed well also eliminated low grade chronic inflammation/infection that was not helping. I learn amazing new things from Kingsley every day ... funny how I'm (ultimately) reaching for a Strait swim, and also Paralympics, and God dumps the world's best (continuing) swimmer and Paralympian in my lap. Kinda literally. He'll be coming down for Mutti's 80th birthday in October to meet the fam. He was featured top of Sports page in our very own Jakarta Post (leading newspaper of one of the world's largest cities) and I was grousing to him about how every member of my family except me has been featured (not just mentioned or cited) in the JP ... lo and behold, I get a call from a JP reporter wanting to feature me in a triathlon article because it's become such a fast-growing sport/craze here ... AAAAAH I don't have two decent hi-res pics of me in competition! Must hunt! Also scored an interview with a U.S.-based women's triathlon magazine through Chris Lieto's More Than Sport, which is working with the Bali Sports Foundation (which hosted the Paragames in Bali) to get Indonesian Paralympians to Rio. YAAAAAAAY Ahhhh...so many, many good things! Your most recent pics have been radiating joy I'd tell you to "go slow" and "be sure", but...flew from CA to KS with J after 3 weeks of dating (met fam/friends), engaged after 6 months, married at 10 months. 2 kids, 5 houses, and 9 years later...the story's still going This grabbed me the other day (Manatee mantra?)- “Tell him yes. Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, because whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no.” My parents were pseudo engaged on their second date. My dad gave my mom a Wrigley's wrapper around her finger and said something about "when we get married." They were married for real after just over six months and they just celebrated #46 together. I love all of the quickly engaged stories! So cute! Me too! My grandparents met and were married within 6 weeks, and spent the next 54 years bickering lovingly with each other. My parents were high school sweethearts and tried to break up while in university to see if things were greener on the other side of the fence, and that lasted a month. They are now on year 42 of my dad being the most patient man in the world. I first met Tony in June 2010 and by Feb. 2011 had moved to London to live with the guy, then married in July 2012. When you know, you know. I walked into a bar on my holidays in Greece and picked up the barman - 22 years ago. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by QueenZipp Now that's a cliff hanger! Originally posted by jobaxas THere is a long version and a short version for how I met my husband. I will tease you all with the short one.....He killed my first husband (true)Originally posted by KansasMom Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl My husband and I "met" in early August and married five months later. We are an e-harmony couple. Originally posted by rrrunner Originally posted by jmkizer Originally posted by 4agoodlife Originally posted by TriAya Lots of great stuff going on in my life now as well ... not any less crazy busy (even more so!) but light's finally dawning with the business and court affairs. It's not massive daily drama and fuckets by noon anymore ... more like 3pm and every other day. After a downward trend Mutti's stabilized nicely re. the Alzheimer's again ... I think also getting her teeth finally fixed well also eliminated low grade chronic inflammation/infection that was not helping. I learn amazing new things from Kingsley every day ... funny how I'm (ultimately) reaching for a Strait swim, and also Paralympics, and God dumps the world's best (continuing) swimmer and Paralympian in my lap. Kinda literally. He'll be coming down for Mutti's 80th birthday in October to meet the fam. He was featured top of Sports page in our very own Jakarta Post (leading newspaper of one of the world's largest cities) and I was grousing to him about how every member of my family except me has been featured (not just mentioned or cited) in the JP ... lo and behold, I get a call from a JP reporter wanting to feature me in a triathlon article because it's become such a fast-growing sport/craze here ... AAAAAH I don't have two decent hi-res pics of me in competition! Must hunt! Also scored an interview with a U.S.-based women's triathlon magazine through Chris Lieto's More Than Sport, which is working with the Bali Sports Foundation (which hosted the Paragames in Bali) to get Indonesian Paralympians to Rio. YAAAAAAAY Ahhhh...so many, many good things! Your most recent pics have been radiating joy I'd tell you to "go slow" and "be sure", but...flew from CA to KS with J after 3 weeks of dating (met fam/friends), engaged after 6 months, married at 10 months. 2 kids, 5 houses, and 9 years later...the story's still going This grabbed me the other day (Manatee mantra?)- “Tell him yes. Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, because whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no.” My parents were pseudo engaged on their second date. My dad gave my mom a Wrigley's wrapper around her finger and said something about "when we get married." They were married for real after just over six months and they just celebrated #46 together. I love all of the quickly engaged stories! So cute! Me too! My grandparents met and were married within 6 weeks, and spent the next 54 years bickering lovingly with each other. My parents were high school sweethearts and tried to break up while in university to see if things were greener on the other side of the fence, and that lasted a month. They are now on year 42 of my dad being the most patient man in the world. I first met Tony in June 2010 and by Feb. 2011 had moved to London to live with the guy, then married in July 2012. When you know, you know. I walked into a bar on my holidays in Greece and picked up the barman - 22 years ago. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by melbo55 Sounds like fun, enjoy!OK, kids, tomorrow I'm headed to beautiful Lake Placid for a week of swimming in gorgeous, clean, clear Mirror Lake, biking the IMLP bike course, volunteering during the IMLP race ('velo angel', aka bike handler), spectating when not volunteering, running roads and trails, eating Ben & Jerry's, tubing, and doing whatever fun stuff presents itself!! I will more than likely be absent from the manatee thread and my logs unless I try to access it with my Kindle (we'll see how that goes), but I may show up on Strava if the app works on my iPod. Have fun, happy training, and be safe! Salty, one last AD bite for you before I go: "How am I supposed to find someone willing to go into that musty old claptrap?" |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by QueenZipp I need to go back on vacation, you're making me jealous.Originally posted by melbo55 Oh my, you are entering Nirvana.....I <3 Lake Placid.OK, kids, tomorrow I'm headed to beautiful Lake Placid for a week of swimming in gorgeous, clean, clear Mirror Lake, biking the IMLP bike course, volunteering during the IMLP race ('velo angel', aka bike handler), spectating when not volunteering, running roads and trails, eating Ben & Jerry's, tubing, and doing whatever fun stuff presents itself!! I will more than likely be absent from the manatee thread and my logs unless I try to access it with my Kindle (we'll see how that goes), but I may show up on Strava if the app works on my iPod. Have fun, happy training, and be safe! Salty, one last AD bite for you before I go: "How am I supposed to find someone willing to go into that musty old claptrap?" I have less than 48 hours between myself and the beach with all the ponies at Assateague. You may see a random post from me....but I am just going to soak in the sunshine, dolphins and ponies. (and eat lots of yummy seafood) |
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Royal(PITA) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by switch Tell. Now! Jen and Yanti know the story somewhat.... My ex (herein after referred to as the idiot in any references I make about him) and I were married when I was 20. He was an alcoholic who couldn't stay sober. 10 years marriage and at least that many DUI. Lost his drivers license in every state we lived in and some he wasn't even living in. We separated shortly after my 31sth birthday. He had lost yet another job and gotten yet another DUI. Seriously, coming home from an AA meeting DRUNK? Yeah, color me gone. I separated, moved into an apartment went to work and that was about it....except for some volunteer work at a kids summer camp that summer. I had worked 3-11 at the hospital, stopped at my apartment to check on the cat and grab my bag --headed up to the camp about 10 miles away. Found a bunk in with my friend who I was covering for the next day (she had to recertify her CPR at her work)....was up all night with a beautiful little girl who was having nightmares. Poor kid.... Hung out with the kids all day....was getting ready to go to bed when the security guard comes to the door and asks for me. Says I have a phone call. I knew I hadn't worked so I didn't have the narcotic keys and no one would have a question about report--must be desperate for a night shift coverage....Get to the phone and it's an ER doc. I worked on the telemetry unit at the time so I didn't know the ER docs much. He proceeds to tell me my husband has been in an accident. I'm ripping him up one side and down the other about refusing to go in and take care of that drunken SOB. Pause for breath and he asked if there was any other next of kin. I bark out a NO they're all out of state......then the phrase hits my brain cells...."next of kin".....I asked his condition and was informed that he normally doesn't give this info over the phone but my husband is dead. Shock. Silence I get back to my cabin and fall into my friends arms crying. She takes me to the camp director cause now both RN's are taking off for the hospital and he has 50+ kids without a nurse (at least they are all in bed). Get to the hospital and find out that said ER doc was GQ drop dead good looking (fine specimen of manhood he is--married one of the ER nurses a few years ago) My idiot was driving up to where he was staying, it had been a rainy night and pretty foggy. There's one section in town that had a low underpass which was clearly marked. Truckers always wanted to go through it anyway.....Truck had gotten stuck. Idiot thought he would wave on traffic. Dark night, dark clothing and no flashlight. Did I mention idiot? Someone coming from the other side of town at a very slow speed just plain did not see him and hit him. He was a very heavy smoker as well as drinker so the impact caused his aorta to separate. He bled out almost instantly. My NOW hubby was working the trauma room that night cause the helicopter was down (can't fly in that kind of fog) he pulled the wallet and was standing next to the GQ ER Doc when I was ripping him a new butt....Anyway, we had met a few months prior to that when I took ACLS and again when I recertified CPR (adult choking victim--how convenient) He came into the room I was sitting in with my friend and someone else from church, kisses me on the cheek and says if I need anything to let him know..... Few months went by and I saw him on my way out of the cafeteria. We chit chat a bit....tell him to call me.....Next evening rotation he hunts me down and says "you didn't give me your number". I gave him my number.....he starts calling me every day. Now he lived in Lancaster, worked in Coatesville but went to school in Reading. Mel can tell you these areas are all about a 45 minute radius apart......I invited him over to dinner and first thing he did was get down on the floor and make friends with the cat. The IDIOT never liked my cats. Score 1, he likes the cat and the cat likes him.....by our third date everyone "just had that feeling" that we were going to get married....We started dating in October and were engaged by April of the following spring. 20 years married now. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by QueenZipp Originally posted by switch Tell. Now! Jen and Yanti know the story somewhat.... My ex (herein after referred to as the idiot in any references I make about him) and I were married when I was 20. He was an alcoholic who couldn't stay sober. 10 years marriage and at least that many DUI. Lost his drivers license in every state we lived in and some he wasn't even living in. We separated shortly after my 31sth birthday. He had lost yet another job and gotten yet another DUI. Seriously, coming home from an AA meeting DRUNK? Yeah, color me gone. I separated, moved into an apartment went to work and that was about it....except for some volunteer work at a kids summer camp that summer. I had worked 3-11 at the hospital, stopped at my apartment to check on the cat and grab my bag --headed up to the camp about 10 miles away. Found a bunk in with my friend who I was covering for the next day (she had to recertify her CPR at her work)....was up all night with a beautiful little girl who was having nightmares. Poor kid.... Hung out with the kids all day....was getting ready to go to bed when the security guard comes to the door and asks for me. Says I have a phone call. I knew I hadn't worked so I didn't have the narcotic keys and no one would have a question about report--must be desperate for a night shift coverage....Get to the phone and it's an ER doc. I worked on the telemetry unit at the time so I didn't know the ER docs much. He proceeds to tell me my husband has been in an accident. I'm ripping him up one side and down the other about refusing to go in and take care of that drunken SOB. Pause for breath and he asked if there was any other next of kin. I bark out a NO they're all out of state......then the phrase hits my brain cells...."next of kin".....I asked his condition and was informed that he normally doesn't give this info over the phone but my husband is dead. Shock. Silence I get back to my cabin and fall into my friends arms crying. She takes me to the camp director cause now both RN's are taking off for the hospital and he has 50+ kids without a nurse (at least they are all in bed). Get to the hospital and find out that said ER doc was GQ drop dead good looking (fine specimen of manhood he is--married one of the ER nurses a few years ago) My idiot was driving up to where he was staying, it had been a rainy night and pretty foggy. There's one section in town that had a low underpass which was clearly marked. Truckers always wanted to go through it anyway.....Truck had gotten stuck. Idiot thought he would wave on traffic. Dark night, dark clothing and no flashlight. Did I mention idiot? Someone coming from the other side of town at a very slow speed just plain did not see him and hit him. He was a very heavy smoker as well as drinker so the impact caused his aorta to separate. He bled out almost instantly. My NOW hubby was working the trauma room that night cause the helicopter was down (can't fly in that kind of fog) he pulled the wallet and was standing next to the GQ ER Doc when I was ripping him a new butt....Anyway, we had met a few months prior to that when I took ACLS and again when I recertified CPR (adult choking victim--how convenient) He came into the room I was sitting in with my friend and someone else from church, kisses me on the cheek and says if I need anything to let him know..... Few months went by and I saw him on my way out of the cafeteria. We chit chat a bit....tell him to call me.....Next evening rotation he hunts me down and says "you didn't give me your number". I gave him my number.....he starts calling me every day. Now he lived in Lancaster, worked in Coatesville but went to school in Reading. Mel can tell you these areas are all about a 45 minute radius apart......I invited him over to dinner and first thing he did was get down on the floor and make friends with the cat. The IDIOT never liked my cats. Score 1, he likes the cat and the cat likes him.....by our third date everyone "just had that feeling" that we were going to get married....We started dating in October and were engaged by April of the following spring. 20 years married now. Judi, thank you very much, that is an awesome story. Wow, he sounds like a keeper. As do you. |
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Regular ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Originally posted by QueenZipp That is a truly lovely story. He sounds like a good man, and you, luv, most definitely deserve it. You are the sweetest of sweets, Judi. A sparkly, bright soul. Big hugs to you. Originally posted by switch Tell. Now! Jen and Yanti know the story somewhat.... My ex (herein after referred to as the idiot in any references I make about him) and I were married when I was 20. He was an alcoholic who couldn't stay sober. 10 years marriage and at least that many DUI. Lost his drivers license in every state we lived in and some he wasn't even living in. We separated shortly after my 31sth birthday. He had lost yet another job and gotten yet another DUI. Seriously, coming home from an AA meeting DRUNK? Yeah, color me gone. I separated, moved into an apartment went to work and that was about it....except for some volunteer work at a kids summer camp that summer. I had worked 3-11 at the hospital, stopped at my apartment to check on the cat and grab my bag --headed up to the camp about 10 miles away. Found a bunk in with my friend who I was covering for the next day (she had to recertify her CPR at her work)....was up all night with a beautiful little girl who was having nightmares. Poor kid.... Hung out with the kids all day....was getting ready to go to bed when the security guard comes to the door and asks for me. Says I have a phone call. I knew I hadn't worked so I didn't have the narcotic keys and no one would have a question about report--must be desperate for a night shift coverage....Get to the phone and it's an ER doc. I worked on the telemetry unit at the time so I didn't know the ER docs much. He proceeds to tell me my husband has been in an accident. I'm ripping him up one side and down the other about refusing to go in and take care of that drunken SOB. Pause for breath and he asked if there was any other next of kin. I bark out a NO they're all out of state......then the phrase hits my brain cells...."next of kin".....I asked his condition and was informed that he normally doesn't give this info over the phone but my husband is dead. Shock. Silence I get back to my cabin and fall into my friends arms crying. She takes me to the camp director cause now both RN's are taking off for the hospital and he has 50+ kids without a nurse (at least they are all in bed). Get to the hospital and find out that said ER doc was GQ drop dead good looking (fine specimen of manhood he is--married one of the ER nurses a few years ago) My idiot was driving up to where he was staying, it had been a rainy night and pretty foggy. There's one section in town that had a low underpass which was clearly marked. Truckers always wanted to go through it anyway.....Truck had gotten stuck. Idiot thought he would wave on traffic. Dark night, dark clothing and no flashlight. Did I mention idiot? Someone coming from the other side of town at a very slow speed just plain did not see him and hit him. He was a very heavy smoker as well as drinker so the impact caused his aorta to separate. He bled out almost instantly. My NOW hubby was working the trauma room that night cause the helicopter was down (can't fly in that kind of fog) he pulled the wallet and was standing next to the GQ ER Doc when I was ripping him a new butt....Anyway, we had met a few months prior to that when I took ACLS and again when I recertified CPR (adult choking victim--how convenient) He came into the room I was sitting in with my friend and someone else from church, kisses me on the cheek and says if I need anything to let him know..... Few months went by and I saw him on my way out of the cafeteria. We chit chat a bit....tell him to call me.....Next evening rotation he hunts me down and says "you didn't give me your number". I gave him my number.....he starts calling me every day. Now he lived in Lancaster, worked in Coatesville but went to school in Reading. Mel can tell you these areas are all about a 45 minute radius apart......I invited him over to dinner and first thing he did was get down on the floor and make friends with the cat. The IDIOT never liked my cats. Score 1, he likes the cat and the cat likes him.....by our third date everyone "just had that feeling" that we were going to get married....We started dating in October and were engaged by April of the following spring. 20 years married now. Edited by switch 2013-07-23 9:20 PM |
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