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2007-04-30 3:20 PM
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!
Scout7 - 2007-04-30 1:47 PM

It's stories like this that make me wonder how we as a species hasn't managed to cease to exist....

I chalk it up to alcohol.

It's the most efficient lubrication (outside of Wahoo, of course).

Seriously though, it's sometimes hard to see solutions from inside a problem. Not everyone knows how to deal with these types of situations or has the experience to do it well; particularly women who don't have a lot of roll models in terms of being aggressive/assertive in this regard. 

There are a lot of lonely people out there.



Edited by tmwelshy 2007-04-30 3:27 PM


2007-04-30 3:36 PM
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!
tmwelshy - 2007-04-30 4:20 PM

Scout7 - 2007-04-30 1:47 PM

It's stories like this that make me wonder how we as a species hasn't managed to cease to exist....

I chalk it up to alcohol.

It's the most efficient lubrication (outside of Wahoo, of course).

Seriously though, it's sometimes hard to see solutions from inside a problem. Not everyone knows how to deal with these types of situations or has the experience to do it well; particularly women who don't have a lot of roll models in terms of being aggressive/assertive in this regard.

There are a lot of lonely people out there.



*raises hand*

Yeah. Yeah. I know. My own fault. I'll be drinking now.
2007-04-30 4:13 PM
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Master
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!

What you need to do:

1. see him in person

2. ask for a do-over on the goodnight kiss.

That should just about cover it without freaking anyone out with declarations of love.

2007-04-30 4:24 PM
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!
Better yet -- show up at his door and just throw yourself at him...
2007-04-30 4:25 PM
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!
"You had me at 'hello'..."
2007-04-30 4:26 PM
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!

briderdt - 2007-04-30 3:24 PM Better yet -- show up at his door and just throw yourself at him...

...ah, the old overcoat with nothing on beneath it move. That's pretty ballsy, but it just might work.



2007-04-30 4:27 PM
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Very psycho, but in a good way.
2007-04-30 4:28 PM
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Oh, that's good.

Damn, you're making me wish *I* were Joe...
2007-04-30 4:28 PM
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*crunch* *crunch*

Where is lvthgme?  How does it turn out??? Down in front!

2007-04-30 4:32 PM
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I think we should see her without the overcoat to see if that would work.  I'll go first just because I am a nice guy.  (Changing my name to Joe.)
2007-04-30 5:05 PM
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I hope she called and asked him on a date.


2007-04-30 5:10 PM
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2007-04-30 7:29 PM
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**Waiting not so patiently***

I gotta know what happens!!!

Can someone get me a beer? mine's empty....

2007-04-30 7:55 PM
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the suspense is killing me!
2007-04-30 8:28 PM
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You have SO overthought this ALREADY!

You know he likes you. Guys do NOT go around asking for kisses from girls they don't like.

You screwed it up, now he thinks you are "just friends"  (your email confirmed this btw)

Here's what I'd do if it were me.  Talk to him, say "I want to see you, can I come over for a minute."

When you see him in person - say "I want a do-over on the ski trip kissing thing.  Can we try that again? I like you a LOT and not as a friend."

Either let him kiss you or you kiss him.  Go from there.

Take a PASS on the overwrought love confession.  This would just freak him out even more.

2007-04-30 9:30 PM
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Is it just me or does all this sound like being back in high school?  I'd leave a note by his locker, put something cute on it like "Someone has a crush on you" and don't sign it.

 



2007-04-30 9:45 PM
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If it isn't too late, the opening line needs to start with "I am such an IDIOT and I am SOOO sorry that I offended you......"  The just explain your confused ackward feelings.  Wait until he starts to smile..... THEN, jump his bones....

2007-04-30 10:42 PM
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max - 2007-04-30 7:30 PM

Is it just me or does all this sound like being back in high school?  I'd leave a note by his locker, put something cute on it like "Someone has a crush on you" and don't sign it.

WAY high school.  He likes me, I'm flirting but I don't know why.  What if I say I actually like HIM?  What'll happen then?!?!?

2007-04-30 11:41 PM
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2007-04-30 11:48 PM
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YAY!!!   Heh!  Good luck and keep us posted.  This is more fun than watching my neighbor nail himself accidently to his attic rafter with a nail gun! 

 

2007-05-01 12:03 AM
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!
PHew...I had to skip right to the end of this thread.

But what I was GOING to say...is that you HAVE to talk to him. You have to communicate with him. If you didn't like him I can see why it would be wierd and you'd want to avoid talking with him, but goodness gracious, if you LIKE him, you have to talk about your LIKE for each other sometime!!!

Tell him how you feel, and open up to him. It just can't be any other way.


2007-05-01 12:05 AM
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Subject: RE: Friend, more than friend, not a friend??? HELP!
spokes - 2007-04-30 12:25 PM

Its a good thing I like sitting on the floor, as I can catch all the popcorn y'all spill grabbing at all.



Spokes, "y'all" is very southern sounding. You're in California now, remember???

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2007-05-01 12:21 AM
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2007-05-01 12:22 AM
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2007-05-01 1:29 AM
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Ok, I'll refill everyones drink until she comes back.  Anyone want pizza?  I see SweetK is raising her hand....
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